Ok yesterday i went out with my friends to watch dispicable me 4 and then eat after. at first we were talking alright then speaking but during the movie everyone else was chatting to eachother and i was just there not engaged in anything. after we went to eat at nandos and no one even talked to me until i was leaving to go home after the food. It just feels like im there but no one pays attention or something idk and it hit really hard. i just want a friend that is worth a million friends like that saying "id rather have 4 quaters than 100 pennies".
#im really lonely i think
lunar ferry
idk if i just am boring as a person
or
hard to talk to
but i want to talk to everyone
glad goblet
but i want to talk to everyone
Look, sometimes life is not your way, you have to go life's way, it's not shameful to go out of your way and start a talk with people
The most they can do is break up with you or something in which case they dont deserve you
But yeah social skills are a must for the coming future so you gotta work up for them, start convos yourself, hold back the hesitation and utilize the adrenaline
You got this champ
lunar ferry
But yeah social skills are a must for the coming future so you gotta work up for...
how do i practise?
glad goblet
Mirror
long steppe
Ok yesterday i went out with my friends to watch dispicable me 4 and then eat af...
Sometimes you just don't have anything to add to a conversation. When that happens just listen to the others, and chime in if you have something worth saying.
You can learn tricks for those chime-in moments. I would recommend finding some social role models to pull material from. Examples would be like Gene Kelly, or Johnny Carson. Legends in the social arena, personal inspiration for me :)