#lonely/social isolation

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brittle path
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i know its long but please read :(. feel like i understand everyone but nobody understands me. everywhere i go people just say to keep looking for the right people to be friends with, but that basically means that they dont really have a solution. sometimes i can tell that they dont care enough about my issues to give a thought out response and just say that to move on with the conversation as well. i'm sure that the social isolation is my fault to an extent, because for a while now i have not been used to talking to people as much as i need and am too tired to be exhausted by another person who would hurt my feelings. currently i hate all of my friends and honestly i dont know what to do about it.

fossil cypress
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Hey, if it helps, you can be my friend. I don't have a lot of friends either. Sometimes friends just don't know how to comfort others, so they don't know what to say. A while ago I was in a situation similar to yours, not the same, but similar. I'm still figuring it out myself, but I have a good friend online that I chat with. As long as you're being safe, maybe try to make some friends online. Try to find people with your interests, it's easier that way. At least for me, it is.

clear mist
# brittle path i know its long but please read :(. feel like i understand everyone but nobody u...

More people then you'd like to think have this experience and I honestly feel the exact way. To be truthful sometimes you really do just have to wait but if your not willing, look for people. Join servers for your interests or hobbies just attempt to talk to people you have things in common with. If you feel like your to tired to socialize just try to slowly get out of isolation talk to someone here and there and take breaks go on walks or focus on a hobby just try to get up again it'll take time but if your willing you will meet people