help me

[eternal ferry]

I have an online bf.. recently he’s been leaving me on read and not responding to my messages and idk why.. even when I message him asking why he’s leaving me on read, he still leaves me on read and idk why

[silent crystal]

That's tough, nothing that can be said about that really, if he is ignoring you than bring that to his attention, instead of asking him why? Since you already have, tell him how you feel and try to garner a response. Keep in mind anything could be happening aswell, broken phone, busy at times, simply needing time to himself. Still your feelings are valid and you can tell him your feelings without being "clingy, obsessive, crazy etc."

[carmine spear]

Do the both of you consistently talk a lot from before?

And how long has this been happening?

[eternal ferry]

A few days

[eternal ferry]

What if I just send him, "are you ghosting me?" And leave it at that?

[silent crystal]

If that's how you feel go for it

Or maybe give him a little explanation why you think he's ghosting you, or how his actions make you feel

Either or works. They both display emotion and anyone who cares for you will notice that emotional disparity

[eternal ferry]

I tried but he left me on read

Nvm he responded to me.. he said he was with his friends most of the day which is why he didn’t reply