life

[glad stirrup]

I have a feeling that my bf hates me now it’s hurting me more. And I never try to accuse him. I don’t know what to fucking do anymore

[uncut briar]

Hey wanna talk in dms?

[glad stirrup]

sure

sorry that I responded late

[gleaming fulcrum]

I can see how you are struggling. I am extremely sorry to hear you feel this way. What is making you think that way about your boyfriend ?

[glad stirrup]

Overthinking

I’m fine now

Kinda

It’s also something he told me yesterday

It won’t leave my mind

[gleaming fulcrum]

If you are comfortable, what did he say(

[glad stirrup]

I don’t wanna say it’s nothing bad it’s just I don’t want to expose him

[gleaming fulcrum]

No worries, I completely understand and that’s your privacy. Whatever it is, if you can’t stop thinking about it, I would ask if you guys can talk about whatever it was, and try to get some clarity or closure.

[glad stirrup]

I did.

It made me seem like a bad person according to him

[gleaming fulcrum]

Asking for clarification doesn’t make you a bad person, it makes you someone who wants to make sure you have all the facts.

[glad stirrup]

I feel like I’m a bad person

I feel like I’m manipulating him

And when we argue it makes it wors

[gleaming fulcrum]

Why do you feel that way?

[glad stirrup]

Because he said I was pinning him with it

It’s confusing me

And I’m scared to even talk about our problems

[gleaming fulcrum]

BBG, you’re getting gaslit.

[glad stirrup]

Can we talk in dms