#jdhbc

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gray remnant
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sure

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so a lot of invalidation and gaslighting happend in your relationship?

dense loom
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well, i had backstabbing and someone chose another over me

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tell me abt u first

gray remnant
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what do u want to know?

dense loom
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what made you so inclined to help me?

gray remnant
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nothing

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i text with people here every day

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its a habit

dense loom
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thats a sweet thing to do

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well

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i met this person called pineaple

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not actually

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but js so i dont expose them ig?

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pineaple would text me every day and she told me she likes e

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but liked someone else

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and tha someone else knew her for ages

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but pineaple kept me for her own sexual pleasure

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and then ignore me after

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i asked her out she said no

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and then chose the other pers over me even tho i would care abt her so deeply

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to be continued i need to eat smt..

gray remnant
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well ill be sleeping shorly so maybe ill respond tomorrow

dense loom
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thats alright, sleep well

dense loom
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continueed

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after she chose smw else, the person decided to leave pineaple and then pineaple meets another pers and keeps me as a sexual pet whilst she chooses the other person as a lover

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it broke my heart

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i developed a sickness and afer i told her she never spoke to me again

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it hurt me

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still hurts, i still feel sick when i remember her name

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and i remember her face

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anyways thats all, thank you sm @gray remnant <3

gray remnant
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Did u know that the person was using u just for sex after some time?

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Or did u realize it only after it all ended?

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Also do u struggle in boundaries with people And clear communication?

dense loom
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and, i didnt struggle with boundaries nor clear communication

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she was malevelous she was a manipulator, because she would call me her baby and tell me i love you

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but then

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when she found someone she likes better

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she said she never meant it

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i only let her because i thought she'd change

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i rly liked her

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and i let her do that for 6-7 months

gray remnant
dense loom
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yeah, i see that now

gray remnant
dense loom
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im quite over her

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but

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still scared

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bc it was recent

gray remnant
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Scared of Future relationships?

dense loom
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no i would be open to one

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but a sexual one would be a cautious thing

gray remnant
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Well sure thats just a question of trust and boundaries

dense loom
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i trusted her

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so much

gray remnant
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Noticing the signs And leaving when u notice u Are being taken advantage off

dense loom
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funny thing

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she said

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QUOOTE ON QUOTE

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"im feeling angry rn can u go away, i might tlk later"

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and never tallked to me again

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she wasnt abusive, maybe she didnt know what she was doing

gray remnant
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Ur downplaying it too much

dense loom
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i agree with you

gray remnant
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Which Is the main problem of why u stayed too long

dense loom
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i always cared for pineaple too much

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i guess so

gray remnant
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And thats what i meant by boundaries

dense loom
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she helped me though major problems though

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i had cancer while i was with her

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i beat it thankfully im fine

gray remnant
dense loom
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yeah

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she changed is all i can say

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she was a wonderful person before we'd talk hours

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and then she forgot i existed whilst i had nightmares of her

gray remnant
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What were all the signs that u downplayed or ignored back then that u know about Now?

dense loom
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she'd show me screenshots of her sexting another pers while i was sobbing..

gray remnant
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Damn ☠️

dense loom
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HamsterStare .

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ITS CRAZY IK

gray remnant
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U should have left immidiately PeepoS

dense loom
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i was wayyy to attached

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🙏

gray remnant
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Well yeah ik

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But

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Now you know

dense loom
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i do

gray remnant
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And u have to make sure it doesnt happen again

dense loom
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i was the first to block her

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something js clicked

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in me

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to block her fatass

wraith venture
dense loom
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bro go away

wraith venture
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lol

dense loom
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😪