Okay first off, lets call him "sim." Me and Sim have been together for almost 5 months. Or thats what we would like to say. He left me when we were together for 3 months for a catfish account I made to see if he would cheat or flirt with the catfish account. Sim would tell me and my friends that he was going to sleep around 9pm when he usually falls asleep at 12-1am, me and my friends would suspect he isnt actually. He wasn't going to asleep indeed. He stayed up texting the catfish account talking about how she was prettier and how he would date her if he was single. Then what broke me was the "what do you think of me?" "Would you date me?" "You are the only girl I see." My friend was begging me to confront him and I was refusing because it didnt feel right to do it.. Sim tells the catfish that he was thinking about leaving me for "her." And I was abesolutly broken even though it was a 3 month relationship I was so in love with him. So he breaks up with me and says "now im going to go cry for hours" and through the catfish account I ask if he is doing okay and he says "yes, i feel amazing" so I was suprised because I thought he might of actually been hurt. But I def was. My birthday was ruined. He knew it was my birthday too. But then I tell him the catfish account contacted me telling me everything and how I was hurt.. he didnt care. Constant "oh" and "Sorry" But a week later I say through the catfish account that it wanted to break up with him and he was obvi hurt. Moments after, he messages me saying he felt stupid and wanted to get back together. Its been 2 months and it feels so fake. I am so inlove with him. He doesn't talk to me as much as he did before. If I don't text him first we dont talk for the rest of the day. When I am down and I tell him that, he asks why, i tell him and he says "real" or "same."
#Is this a sign to breakup?
cursive hazel
and he just doesnt seem to match energy with me anymore I try to tell him about how he obviously ignores me. I send messages when we are having a convo and he goes offline and goes online to talk to my friends in the groupchat but doesnt say anything to me back or anything in general.. constantly online and offline until i say something again. Is this a sign to leave him?
winter pollen
break up run run and run
to him ur obviously just a second choice
im really sorry you gotta deal with this bs
winter pollen
and he just doesnt seem to match energy with me anymore I try to tell him about ...
he has no interest in you
thats way
whys
why
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cursive hazel
ahhh but i love him
winter pollen
so?
does he love you back?
im gonna be straight with you here like i usually am with people
unless you are ready you are screwed
if you cant leave him then theres nothing i can say thats going to convince you
but i do believe in you
i really do believe you can leave him and grow into a better person
and find someone who loves you just as much back
i straight and honestly believe that anyone can do whatever they choose to aslong as they put in the effort, but im not saying efforts all you need, you do need support
if it helps ill be here to support you, and so will many others as you move on and find the one who is your one
cursive hazel
I mean when I ask him if he still loves me he says he does but i dont really believe it
im just so stuck
a part of me wants to leave so bad but the other part is like telling me not to
winter pollen
I mean when I ask him if he still loves me he says he does but i dont really bel...
exactly
winter pollen
a part of me wants to leave so bad but the other part is like telling me not to
because that part still loves him
that part doesnt wanna be lonely
that part wants to have someone to love
that part just wants friends and wants someone to be with
but that part will fade away if you stick to your guns
cursive hazel
ahh i understand now
winter pollen
yeah, are you ready to leave him or not
crimson pumice
While he is bad , I highly recommend u never do anything like this tf both yall need help!
winter pollen
While he is bad , I highly recommend u never do anything like this tf both yall ...
doesnt help anything really
wooden forum
Honey, leave the guy. He plays around and seems to keep you at arm’s length, feeding you with false promises and sweet nothings to keep you while also looking for a “better option” to him
Such greedy men don’t deserve the attention and affections of a lovely person such as yourself
And while it’s not very smart nor a good quality to test people with catfish accounts, perhaps this mistake led you to not getting hurt on the long way
He wasted 3 months of your life, and you two more to make it 5
Not even half a year
In this time you could maybe be asked for your number by a sweet coffee shop employee or sth
Please don’t waste your time on people like him, life is already so short, such people shouldn’t become anyone’s priority
cursive hazel
what makes me scared is him becoming more deppressed i remember i broke up with him but not for long.. i got back with him an hour later after he changed his user to "its ok to hurt urself" so i obvi felt guilt knowin its my fault, what if he does that again ??
winter pollen
you gotta stick to your guns
its just emotional manipulation
he wants you to come back
cursive hazel
i did it
winter pollen
IM SO PROUD OF YOU