Ever since I moved in with my dad, things haven't been so hot. My dad is constantly unintentionally showing me the worst side to him, and it's gotten to a point where I feel like I can't respect him anymore. I lies about how our arguments go by throwing all his baggage onto me and saying I'm the problem, he's extremely ignorant and selfish and making me do things that I don't like or just forces his opinions down my throat and tell me that I'm being naive and stupid, he makes up things on the fly and constantly portraits himself as the victim, and is THE ONLY PERSON I HAVE to learn information from, and he doesn't listen to me even if I tell him he's right and that I agree with him, because he's soooo bent up about how he feels disrespected and that he's putting his 110% into this relationship and that I'm just the only issue between us. He shown me his true self, and it's extremely pathetic. He constantly is hung up about his problems and hardly considers how others feel in the midst of a moment. He's extremely draining and I've been with him for almost 2-3 years with him. He says the he wants to have a good relationship with me, but it's painfully obvious that he has to get his shit together. Idk how long that is, but I don't know how to deal with him. I've coped with him, I disagreed with him respectfully, I've told him that he's right multiple times and that I agree with him, and all of it comes down to the same result of me and him just being father and son, and just disagreeing like any other teen and parent would. I want to focus on my self and build myself up, but I can't do that if I'm also trying to put work into a relationship that isn't being fixed either. This has happened so much that I just constantly feel depressed and just genuinely disgusted just by even being around his arrogant, wimpy, man-child ass. And yet I have to respect him and go to him when I have a problem that he struggles on his own and shuns others for.
#Daddy issues
mild sage
I feel drained being around him and his constant ego and him rubbing in that I'm wrong makes me feel ||suicidal.|| I want to leave so I can truly focus on myself and build relationships too.
harsh sandal
Ever since I moved in with my dad, things haven't been so hot. My dad is constan...
If you keep trying to make it work in a reasonable and polite manner and he wont change, just leave, no point in draining yourself more then u have to, focus on other things and wait till u can move out completely.