Friend Group

[tawdry wraith]

I literally feel left out in my friend group, they ignore me and never wait for me after lessons or shit like they do to other members.
Maybe I am not meant to be a part of it, it was all great in Year 7 and a bit of Year 8, it felt like I found some friends who actually cared about me
Now it's Year 9, and they literally hate me, One of them said with a straight face "If you're going to act dead then we are going to just leave you". That literally made me not want to go out with them at all and made me feel dead.

They are not really the best type of people especially when it comes to online games or stuff (telling random people to kill themselves and shit)
not all members are like it but 3 of them are the opposite they are hella blind about what going on.

There is more to it but I am planning on leaving but idk how should I do it so I go like 'Bye I am leaving this group' or idk. I don't want to feel like I am making a mistake by leaving it though.
I have 1 friend that I trust enough, is that good enough?

[mint lichen]

leaving the friend group is something u want to do slowly

it depends on who they are and how they act

if they are the type to be aggressive then leave slowly

slowly detach urself from them

its weird to have that situation

i cant relate to the situation but i know how it looks like since one of my friends were in the same situation

2 of them

try to find new friends

detach slowly or just leave entirely

if they are understanding at the minimum u can tell them straight up

u feel left out

im not good at this type of advice

and having 1 friend

is probably the best thing u can have

its always better to have a smaller group then a bigger one

think of cancer for example

the more cells the higher the chance for cancer to emerge

the less cells the lower the chance

[gaunt yacht]

@tawdry wraith It sounds like being left out of your friend group is making you feel really disconnected and alone. You said that you don't feel like you're "meant to be" a part of the group - but maybe you just haven't met people who are on the same wavelength as you yet.

Do you feel like your "friends" in the group act in a way that could be harmful to your mental health? It might be a good idea to distance yourself from people like that, even if it means being alone for a while.

[tawdry wraith]

Nowadays I pretty much already distanced myself from them,been avoiding them because the friend I always hang out with now had a argument with the group and they all took sides so she left,that friend of mine does have some mental health issues but they make fun of that saying she is self diagnosed or autistic but she’s actually not.

[onyx ore]

This exact thing happened to me, find better friends and hang out with them more and if the other group asks why ur hanging out w others just tell them how you feel if they dont care abt you after hanging out w ur other friends and you know your new group is better just tell the other group your feelings and say ur not frineds w them anymore if they try to get you back DONT. I went back w mt old toxic friends and they treated me worse. I hope this helps