mean or not?

[fleet spoke]

Sometimes I feel like I’m rude but I’m reality I never say anything rude I’m really nice and take everyone on consideration. I don’t know, what if I’m actually rude but my mind keeps telling me I’m not?

[echo patio]

people pleaser mentality of ruminating about the possibility of being rude to someone?

check the facts - do your firends like your behavior? => ask them, if they do then u know its an irrational worry

but its important to note that a lot of the times u shouldnt take everyone to consideration and be unconditionally nice, there are situations in which u need to defend yourself, and there are possible people who could take advantage of you

[fleet spoke]

Yeah that’s something I have a problem with, I’ve had so many fake friends

[desert venture]

Don't worry! I can tell you are very kindhearted. :)
The fact that you question your actions like this shows you want to have a good effect on the people around you.
You're doing a great job of being a good person. Try not to overthink things, and take what's happening in the moment at face value.

[final prism]

Rude people don't worry if their rude or not, so I personally don't think you are

[fleet spoke]

Tyyy everyone 🥰🫶🏽