#I like my best friend and I can' tell if she feels the same way.

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glad cypress
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just be honest

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same time uhh ts could end bad cuz it ruins friendships sometimes so likeeee

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what decision are you thinking of the most

undone anvil
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I want to tell her how i feel in hopes that she feels the same way but I doubt she does

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id rather be her friends than nothing

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she bring me so much joy, I dont want to lose her

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I have no one else, she is all i have left

glad cypress
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then tell her

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just do it

undone anvil
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i cant

glad cypress
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cuz you’re scared ur gonna lose her

undone anvil
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yea

glad cypress
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i mean it’s better just to tell your feeling just be honest

undone anvil
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and im not confident enough too

glad cypress
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why

undone anvil
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why am i not confident?

glad cypress
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yeah

undone anvil
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idk

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its just the way i am

glad cypress
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DO IT MF

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I BELEIEVE IN U

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ASK HER OUT

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BE HONEST

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DO IT RN

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RNNRNRNR

undone anvil
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i cant 😫

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if i lose her i literally have no one else

glad cypress
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YES Y CAN

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BROOOO

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does she show signs

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or sum

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that she likes u

undone anvil
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sort of, but it could be chalked down to her just being an affectionate person

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and there has been many ocasions that she only sees me as a friend

glad cypress
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how don’t you know 😭 haven’t u been friends with her for a long time

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hmmm

undone anvil
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i wouldnt say a long time

glad cypress
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just tell her you have something on your mind and that you wanna talk abt it

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just be honest cuz that shit gon eat u alive

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do it before some other mf comes in

undone anvil
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and on top of that, she was my ex-bestfriends ex, i stopped being friends with him because he became cold towards me becasue me and her started to become good friends. we would sit next to eachother when our friend group would have movies nights. (friend group of 4 including me and her). after me and her became good friends she showed me the texts of there breakup and it was so dis heartening to read. he hid apart of himself from me. someone i thought i could trust.

undone anvil
glad cypress
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don’t tell me you feel scared of some dude

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you want the girl then go get her bruhhh

undone anvil
glad cypress
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then idk she prolly still likes him idk , cuz why would it feel weird their story together is obviously done

undone anvil
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that im certain

glad cypress
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THEN DO IT

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DO IT DO IT

undone anvil
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like, she always touches me, my arm or biseps, will kinda hold my arm and slowy get down to my hand and let go when we are walking around

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on the tram, she held onto my bisep instead of the 2 hold poles next to her

glad cypress
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SHE WANTS YOU BRO

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WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU WAITING FOR

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BROOOOO

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😭😭😭

undone anvil
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wait till i tell you why i think she dosnt like me

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im playing a game so might take a bit to type it

glad cypress
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alr alr

undone anvil
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so one example. I go to her work sometimes and chill there for a bit. she was telling me a convo she had with her dad. her dad asked if we were dating because i go to her house and watch movies over there and we go out for dinner all the time. im the only friend she has, her other 3 friends moved 3 hours away for uni. anyways she was reapeating the convo and her respose to her dad asking if we were dating was "GOD NO"

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and she yelled that, with emotion

glad cypress
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that could’ve also been cuz maybe her dad overprotective or sum

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or she doesn’t wanna make it obvious

undone anvil
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people always ask if we are dating and she very quickly responds no

undone anvil
glad cypress
glad cypress
undone anvil
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yea, but its not a nervous no

glad cypress
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has she told u she has feelings for someone else

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or talks to other dudes

indigo fable
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I think you're overthinking the situation, talking from experience here.
If you never tell her how you feel you'll regret it.
If I was you I'd actually ask her out by text so I'll have the time to write a proper message instead of being nervous face to face.

glad cypress
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it’s better if you say it to face that’s pussy shit bruh

indigo fable
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Why bother trying to figure out her feelings, worst thing she can say is no.

glad cypress
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ain’t no female want a damn text wtd

undone anvil
# glad cypress fym

why tell me that her dad asked if were dating and tell me she said "GOD NO"? if she likes me that seems counter productive

indigo fable
undone anvil
glad cypress
indigo fable
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Then just tell her in person

glad cypress
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just telll herrrr

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in person

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yeah

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what he said

indigo fable
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Hell, even I am overthinking this situation just from trying to put myself in your place.

glad cypress
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tell her broooo you’re missing on a opportunity 😭😭😭😭😭

undone anvil
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i literally cant tell her, its impossible for me

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another thing that suggests she likes me. she leans against me at the movies, on the train coming back home after going to an anime expo she using her bag as a pillow and then putting the pillow on my lap

glad cypress
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bro SHE LIKES YOUUUUU

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YOUTE MAKING TS DIFFICULT

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😭😭😭😭

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JUST DO IT

undone anvil
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im the only guy in her life

glad cypress
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then tell her

undone anvil
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im the only friend in her life thats physical near her. her other 3 friends are 3 hours away and they are all woman

glad cypress
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she deff has some feelings with you then

undone anvil
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another reason for her not liking me. a while back, when we stared hanging out together i thought she liked me. but at the time i only saw her as a friend. I asked her if she had feelings for me and told her its okay if you do but i dont feel the same way. I told her that we could still be friends and that i really enjoyed her company

glad cypress
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NOOOO

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YOU SAID THAT

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SHE PROLLY STILL LIKES U THO

undone anvil
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and her response was "haha no dont worry, i dont like you anything more than a friend"

glad cypress
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mann just do it

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things prollt changed now

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bcz that was when you guys started hanging out

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sooo like

undone anvil
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"dont worry lol, thanks fo asking tho but i dont think ill be looking for a bf anytime soon"

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that was on the 7th of march

glad cypress
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she prolly felt hurt

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she felt hurt

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i can tell

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yes

undone anvil
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3 weeks after we started hanging out

glad cypress
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broooo

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STOP FUCKING

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LOOKING

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AT THE FUCKING PAST

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THINGS CHANGE BRO

undone anvil
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i was just giving you a timeline

glad cypress
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OK SORRY😭

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ITS JUST THAT YOURE STRESSSING ME BROOO ITS SOOO OBVIOUS

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SHE LIKES YOUU

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BROOOOO

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I FONT KNOWBWHAT YOUTE WISTING FOR

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ASK HER THE FUCK OUT

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DOES SHE LIKE FLOEERS

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FLOWERS

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BUY HER FLOWERS OR SUM

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TAKE HER OUT ON A DATR

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AND CONFRSS YOUR FEELINGSSSSSS

undone anvil
undone anvil
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she rather me buy her a league skin dead ass

glad cypress
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wtfff

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do that then

pine pawn
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u can dm me 🤍 i would like to help u

undone anvil
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but its hasnt arrived and its been a month or 2 now

glad cypress
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buy her fake roses then

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or sum

undone anvil
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i dont she cares about roses tbh

wheat scroll
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"communication is the key to a successful relationship"