i hate being a sensitive person

[daring matrix]

sounds like a you problem

[daring matrix]

he just said he didn t want to be sensitive

[inland oak]

never said i dont want to be sensitive. i just want to control and manage it. there are good things about being sensitive and if u dont have good things to say then shut up. a reminder for u this is a mental health support server.

[daring matrix]

i mean you aaid that you hated it so that means that yoy dknt want to 🤦‍♂️

[shy tendon]

and now bcs of you he left instead of having a chance to discuss her problem

gj

[clear void]

I do kinda relate to you, managing your feelings as a sensitive person does become quite a handful. I feel like when you become doubtful, or start questioning yourself like "Am I that bad, or , did I do the right thing or say the right thing" it is something you cant help, but it is something you can manage. Ask yourself something like "Is it healthy for me? Am I ok with this? And did this hurt someone around me or near me?" Being sensitive is a human thing, well not everyone is sensitive but its something normal for sure. If you are confused, or just start questioning if you did the right thing, of course you can ask for a 2nd or 3rd opinion, thats what I usually do so I can just prevent myself from wondering "Is this right". Being sensitive seems like kind of a bad thing or a burden, but really it isnt, as long as you know how to sort out your feelings, find the right help/support, and so on, I believe you can absolutely help yourself and people around you, being sensitive can be put to good use too. Like honestly Im not good at giving support like this but if this advice/support isnt what you were looking for Im sorry.

[marble thunder]

Sounds like a you problem that you're in a therapy server where others have all kinds of problems and you can't stop but hurt those that are confident enough to share their problems.

[clear void]

Why are you here if you gonna say shit like that 💀💀💀

[marble thunder]

Fr exactly

[inland oak]

Thank you for making me realize that. I will try to manage it ❤️

Thank u to everyone who reach out to me. Im sorry I couldn't respond to everyone's dm but I really appreciate it

[clear void]

I hope you can manage your feelings better after this! You can do it!!

[marble thunder]

Feel better soon! It's okay to be sensitive though!

[clear void]

Yessir! Its human to be sensitive and also not!

[marble thunder]

I've realized it, even if it's kind of annoying for people

If people can't accept that you're sensitive, it's their problem

[clear void]

Real

[shy tendon]

simple minded arguments wont do you good long term, if r too sensitive, r gonna ruin relationships by it

bcs you react when it isnt necessary and cant handle negativity

gashlighting yourself into thinking everyone is ok the way they are

is the most nihilistic philosphy from mainstream psychology

[marble thunder]

I know, I'm aware

[thorn aspen]

This is someone elses vent, Nobody cares if you don't like it but you're in a therapy server with tons of mentally unstable people so if you're going to hate then leave. You don't deserve to be here if all you are gonna do is be rude while someone is venting.