i havent felt worse in my life | The Therapy Center | Page 1

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 2:33 PM

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also forgot to mention that i get jealous of everything and everyone

hot thorn Jun 17, 2023, 3:43 PM

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First, if you're feeling like it's a real possibility you end your life, you should call a hotline ASAP. They're trained to help you with that

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Let's talk about friends. Were you ever invited to things and the invites just kinda dried up? Or you feel like you're never invited to do anything and never were? Have you ever tried inviting them to something you planned?

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 5:02 PM

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hot thorn First, if you're feeling like it's a real possibility you end your life, you sho...

ill never actually do it

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i just feel like doing it

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and an answer to your question i havent been invited to anything since when i was like 11

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now im almost 16

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and what do you think about the other part of the story

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the one about my ex

olive berry Jun 17, 2023, 5:07 PM

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The ex thing is relatable

hot thorn Jun 17, 2023, 5:14 PM

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It's easier to think about one thing at a time. I know personally I stopped getting invited to things because I stopped accepting them.

It sounds like you're making a lot of assumptions about where you stand with people. Have you told any of your friends you want to hang out?

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 5:19 PM

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hot thorn It's easier to think about one thing at a time. I know personally I stopped gett...

like ask them if i should go with them or just invite them to go with me?

hot thorn Jun 17, 2023, 5:19 PM

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I'm straightforward so I was thinking "let's hang out". But whatever you're comfortable with, sure

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 5:20 PM

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you didnt understand my question i think

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 5:20 PM

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cosmic sandal like ask them if i should go with them or just invite them to go with me?

divide this into 2 questions, where the "or" is

hot thorn Jun 17, 2023, 5:20 PM

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Restate it for me then please.

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I think you didn't consider my solution instead. Don't ask to tag along or invite them just state your desire to hang out. And probably say why you want to.

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 5:22 PM

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ahh okay

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that makes sense

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 5:24 PM

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olive berry The ex thing is relatable

how do i handle it

olive berry Jun 17, 2023, 5:24 PM

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Honestly? Time and optionally getting closure

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 5:24 PM

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but like i was over it

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until yesterday

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just because i had a dream with her

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i was completely over it

olive berry Jun 17, 2023, 5:25 PM

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Yeah these things come back abruptly and without warning

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Its one of those things, I usually snap out of it after a week but like

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If something happened that recently

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There's no way to defend yourself against sudden intrusive thoughts from remembering your ex

cosmic sandal Jun 17, 2023, 5:26 PM

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damn thanks for that

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