i am not allowed to break, but i do. i just simply can't handle all of this. my mother and father are both in a ton of debt all due to my father. he has broken her trust many times and she never chooses to leave him. so many times. lately, all 3 of us have been struggling to even survive. my mother cries herself to sleep every night and it's heartwrenching. my father is still a jerk to her even after exploiting her. its like he has gone mad. but i still love him after all this. i dont know. i just cannot live like this neither let my mother to live this way too
#I don't think I can handle this
carmine fable
kindred wind
i am not allowed to break, but i do. i just simply can't handle all of this. my ...
Try discussing with your mother the options to leave? If she is married, chunk of the debts will be on her name, but definitely a smaller amout + she wont have to deal with your father.
carmine fable
Try discussing with your mother the options to leave? If she is married, chunk o...
that is true but the deal is . we cannot manage to pay all the emis without my father's finacial support.
but we are still discussing in on the options.
kindred wind
that is true but the deal is . we cannot manage to pay all the emis without my f...
even if the debts get split to some degree through a potential dicorce? i mean if they arent married then she can just leave and she isnt obligated to pay.
carmine fable
they are married for 16 years. and she has a tom amount of debt on her head that my father forced her to take. i just want some encouraging words that i can say to her.
kindred wind
they are married for 16 years. and she has a tom amount of debt on her head that...
Well i mean sure you can say that you will be at her side and that you will help, knowing she has support is more then enough, but she needs to be encouraged to leave, if he is mean to her and just breaks her trust, there is no reason she should stay, but sadly ppl stay in toxic relationships out of attachment.
carmine fable
yes. yes. thank u.