#I need help on figuring out why my relationship preferences are the way they are (preferably in dm)

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terse girder
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<@&993332385670246420> ^^^

versed dome
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I'm not sure if you can call this a preference. I think you might just be romanticizing bad relationships which normalizes behaviors that are unhealthy and harmful. Usually people who are in it convince themselves to stay in that relationship because they believe that their partner can change.

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Do you think that it might be because of thrill, I'm not too sure as well. I can only understand from a view point of someone who had experienced another person's toxic behavior

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yeah sure, but I don't think i would be much of help. I'll try though!

lone perch
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You probably experienced a bad past, or problematic family relationships. Victims of such things seek toxic relationships because they view it as the norm, or just seek the same they have experienced. Some people like the thrill, the stimuli, even if it was to be very negative.

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And romanticization happends out of immaturity, naivety and just being young.

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Maybe you didnt even experienced a bad past, maybe you are attracted to a cool idea, which wouldnt be so cool if you were to experience it in reality.

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sure

lone perch
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@stone fulcrum for some reason i can't message you directly nor add you, So i Have to respond to your idiotic comments you send in Dms here. First of all, i am not even that interested in philosophy. Litteraly the only thing i like Is existentialism via Frankl And Its theraputic usage, likewise with meditation, decreases resistance to reality via the Free energy principle, And increased openness. Dunno why you mentioned stoicism, when i dont even utilize it, nor advocate for Its usage in others, i only enjoyed reading it, and same with zen/buddhism because of the spirituality community that was ruining it.

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Idk why you mention some random philosophy majors, when i reality most of them Will either work in McDonald, or a completely different field all together, So why should i care? When i dont even claim i have deep philosophical education to begin with.

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R just projecting and assuming, with the intend to achieve some sense of intellectual superiority

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Look at my Insta profile yeet3rt And decide for yourself if my knowledge rests on school for life videos.

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And i Will probably not meet a Phil major ever in my life in the first place, nor Will i ever pursue it.

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Not to mention how butthurt you get when you send paragraphs of your assumptions that fit your narrative to a random guy on the internet, r clearly ill, no wonder you have problems with social connections.

cobalt lake
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lone perch
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Stop messaging me you Are clearly mentaly unstable when you send random paragraphs to people you dont even know.

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Yeah when you asked to talk

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5head

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Since where do i preach about it? U Are litteraly delusional

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Read what you wrote to me

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Nothing but assumptions And projections

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Totally disintegrated from reality

versed dome
lone perch
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I told him not to message me before And Hes sending me paragraphs of random info that isnt even connected to what i said, +trying to insult me

versed dome
lone perch
cobalt lake