I need help

[sour path]

I don't know what's wrong with me. I recently had sex for the first time and I couldn't finish. we went for hours and she came like 7 times which was good, but I never even came close. I don't know why or what's wrong with me, I can only finish when I masturbate at home? I looked it up and google just tells me I might have delayed ejaculations disorder or something, but not how to actually fix it. I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing but I want to enjoy it like she does. How do I fix this? I finally got something I've wanted my whole life and I can't even do it right.

[main yacht]

I assume when you masturbate at home you watch porn? If yes, then this happends a lot of times during this age, bcs the brain gets stimulated by internet so much, it never learns to develop sexual gratification in real life. Slow exposure could help it long term. Another reason might be just bcs it was your first sex. If it was a very new experience, anxiety and a bit of stress is always present, thereby its harder to achieve orgasm. It could explain why u finish at home, bcs home is a safe place for you.

Tbh just try to have more sex, and if it doesnt work, consider visiting a psychologist or sexuologist.

[sour path]

I think you're right, I was anxious and so that probably played into it

I'm gonna stop jerking off as much

[main yacht]

Yup, definitely stop watching porn too if you are in a relationship;D

[sour path]

Haha, true. Not in a relationship yet tho.

thanks for the advice 🙏