#my gf left me for my bsf

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obsidian ridge
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my gf for 1 year and 5 months just left me for my bsf kinda she broke up with me and is now talking to my bf that was my bsf since 6th grade (im going to 10th grade) and now i dont really see a point like people say life will get better but for me only has gotten worse and worse day by day im tired of these girls playing me like i dont have feelings or something like do they think "damn i hurt him"? i really need advice on what to do

formal moth
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You realise that you are not your relationships, this is what you must do. You are defined not by those around you, but by realising what you actually are. The one consciousness of all life.

Once this is realised, yes there will be pain, emotions, from your life situation, but devastation not. Stories not.

You must come closer to yourself. You are consciousness. Realise that more fully.

Your thoughts ruin that realisation. Observe them fully. This will bring you closer to that which you already are. That which your mind cannot understand. That which is silent and only understood through direct experience.

Once you come closer, and after some time and processing, your life situation will not effect you in the same way.

fluid nexus
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then start your villian arc

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Also, try to act like you're not hurt, act very normal, and laugh with your friends

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If she tries to text you say im sorry im in a relationship and I can't text you

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then block her

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Know your value

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also try to be friends with many girls trust me she will be mad lol

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I did allat when my ex gf hurted me

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she's trying to win my attention so bad lmao

green spruce
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why do you comment if you just want to cycle more hate?

fluid nexus