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limpid flame
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do you actually vape? or did your sister lied ?

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i know you already know this and its really cringe to say it but please dont do that
your lunges are still growing and it really will hurt you to vape at this age
not that its good at any other age but i guess you are not here for that so im going to respect your decision however its not good for you
i recommend trying to calm down for the moment
believe it or not the best person that can help you is yourself and that person is really stressed

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i dont think thats a good idea
your friend is a person too
besides you did a one time mistake
vape is actually not that addictive chemical wise

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just might be addictive like someone being addicted to playing video games

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its none of my business but may i ask why did you tried that ?

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oh

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me too

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its an odd coincidence but i sold my vape yester day
i am smoke free for 15 days now

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please dont jump into any conclusions

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you just made a simple decision

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you are still alive and will be the next day and the day after that

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i mean try to calm down

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i know its not a switch that you can turn to do so
its really really hard

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but dont worry about it

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youll figure it out

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and if you dont theres nothing going to happen to you in the long run

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just a week of stress maybe
maybe a little bit of bad relationship with family

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nothing time cant heal

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oh ive been living in Iran for 20 years and i still start shaking when talking sometimes 😅
its really ok

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omg

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so its a really tough situation

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i think i kinda understand what you mean

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so i guess you should have a serious talk

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decide on what you want to do

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in this situation i really like to just hug people and tell them that they are safe and that everything is going to be alright

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sorry i can only pretend to be doing that

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🫂

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its tough i know

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life is never fair

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you just have to learn to make use of whatever you have

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to live the way you want

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from my perspective there is not much that you can do
when the situation is like this i recommend just chill and let the wind take its curse

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so sorry about that btw

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you can also try to avoid decisions that lead to this situations next time

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other then that you can just call it the consequence of your past and try to get a better person
and also remember that only you can define what a better person is
you an individual who will live once for herself
so you are the one making you decisions
parents just try to help you through the first few years

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you do whatever you feel is right
im not in your situation so i trust you

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the fact that you are seeking for help means so much and im really proud of you for that

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you just try to relax and rest a little for now ok ?

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quitting what?

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its ok sometimes you might need time to yourself or just figure out the solution for yourself

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i hope i didnt do something that made you want to do that

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oh

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you for me its always good to have someone to help me
someone to rely on
but finding that someone was really impossible for me
maybe i just have high standards

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so i decided to try to be that person for the others

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hope i managed to help and also remember you can always ping me or dm me

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i dont mind

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sorry i didnt meant to end the conversation

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it sounded like that

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is there anything you like to talk about ?

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oh did i mention that is 15 days that i quitted ?😅
my memory is really broken

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omg

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thats just bullshit

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thats so wrong to tell to someoen

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you should have a serious talk with her

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if she didnt realized how big the thing she said was you should really break up with her
its the most toxic thing to tell to someone

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you deserver to live as much as any other person in the hole world

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and not everyone deserves to live in my opinion

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its ok you just need to find the right person to be friends with

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breaking up with a friend is the hardes thing ever for me

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oh nice

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its ok you dont always need to talk to be friends

limpid flame
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you know the best trick to make people talk is to talk to them 😅
at least i think so

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im not a charismatic guy

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noice

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btw there is no better friend

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sometimes people know each other more and less

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connect better or worse

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each person is a person

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idk im not good at talking i hope i managed to somehow manage to say what i wanted to

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was there something that i need to explain better?

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"idk"?

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its ok i have all the time in the world and really like to talk to people

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i like to explain and stuff

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try asking your parents for that
if it didnt work you can go there yourself in a few years

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oh no you found my weak spot 😅

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for the starters you need to meat them
talk to them
say hi
talk about the stuff that you are interested in
and you will get rejected a lot
might not be like dating
that someone either wants you or dont
they might still be the kind of friend that you say hi to everyday but thats the hole friendship (sorry im really trying to get my point across 🥲 )
or you might be interested in the same thing
get to spend a lot of time together
trust me no one is comfortable at making new friends
by being someone's friend you are helping other find a new friends too

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omg sorry i didnt realized you went to another school

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im really tired so forgive me for that

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yeah its normal
some people are too good and pure to let go even for a second

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oh you have a sweet dream then

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its 3:18 here 😬

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am

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its ok

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i have sleep issues 😅

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i get sleepy around 5~8am

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yeah but its fine

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i dont have a job or school 🥲

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well we can maybe talk about it later
you better sleep really well
from what i heard youve had a really hard day

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thats a nice time to get sleepy imo

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its ok you can worry about it later

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you either did something wrong or good
what happened happened
just try to move on and relax
to live the way you want

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take care

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put the phone away 😅

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hug the sleep 🌛 👍