#I can’t get bitches

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shy vector
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js be urself

north hemlockBOT
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Lemony#2148 has been warned

Reason: Bad word usage

slender wave
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And I don’t want a ugly girl so it’s a paradox

shy vector
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that’s ur issue

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nobody is ugly

slender wave
shy vector
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it’s just the personality

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that could b.

slender wave
shy vector
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well then

slender wave
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I seen some ugly people

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Like auggie

shy vector
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omggg 😭

north hemlockBOT
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‘alianovna#9359 has been warned

Reason: Bad word usage

shy vector
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omg

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then u won’t get people if ur

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taking them in by there looks

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and not personality

slender wave
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Money could help

shy vector
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wym

slender wave
shy vector
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gold diggers sure

slender wave
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I need to know

shy vector
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be kind.

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respectful.

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have those traits that no men have today

slender wave
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Been doing that since I was 5 and I’m a virgin

shy vector
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BOY

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go to a strip club 🙄

slender wave
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If I don’t lose it next year my life over

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Ending it personally

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Just embarrassing

shy vector
slender wave
shy vector
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go to a strip club, sure that would help ya x

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anyways

slender wave
shy vector
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HELP

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how old r u 🤨

slender wave
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High-school age

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15–17

shy vector
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oh

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hmmm

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surely someone likes u

slender wave
shy vector
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if u don’t rush it

slender wave
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Also I’m not even sure if I’m considered small large or average

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Not like I can compare

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@shy vector you there?

shy vector
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no im omw to die

shy vector
slender wave
shy vector
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use a ruler idk

slender wave
shy vector
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BRO

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IDK

slender wave
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Also I dont have a ruler

shy vector
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IM LESBIAN 🤨

slender wave
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Damn

shy vector
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buy one

shy vector
slender wave
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So what if I get a girl

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Get in bed

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And she says where is it

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Do I kms after that

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Like what’s the move

shy vector
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oh

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no dude

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get a gf

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that’s ur first step

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girlfriend

slender wave
shy vector
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did

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dude

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sighs

slender wave
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My personality and respectful didn’t work

shy vector
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do you like anybody at ur school

slender wave
shy vector
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ask her

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you only live once

slender wave
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I knew that when it was valentines that with my zero gifts

shy vector
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oh

shy vector
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bro I didn’t get any and I had a gf 🤨

slender wave
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Anyways any other advice?

shy vector
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Hmmm

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hmmm

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hmm

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try be friends

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w girls firs

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first

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then take it slow

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and then ask them out

slender wave
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Idk

shy vector
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wym

slender wave
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My school is like boys with boys girls with girls

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Not in a gay way

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In a friend way

shy vector
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oh

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hmm

slender wave
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Also I don’t like how sometimes girls talk behind my back

shy vector
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bro that’s how stuff works

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idk why

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but it does

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I go to an all girls school

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it’s crazy in that shit

slender wave
shy vector
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NO

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U

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DO

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NOT

slender wave
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If I’m the only guy in a all girls school

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It would be light work

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A new girl every day

shy vector
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you’d be bullied dude

slender wave
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I would be praised

shy vector
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a all girls school isn’t fun 😭

slender wave
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You say that cuz ur a girl but in any guys perspective the bullying is just a bump in the road

shy vector
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bro

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my school is deadly

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judged everywhere u go

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spoken shit sm

slender wave
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Eh

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I could deal with that

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If I would get a gf

oak musk
shy vector
oak musk
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Mate you can’t just pull girls for their looks, they don’t like it. Just be yourself & show some respect. If you only want a girl for their looks then you don’t deserve a girl at all, you need to like the girl for who she is not for how she looks.

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Honestly I’m quite disgusted by what I’ve seen you say so far…you only want a girl to lose your virginity, not because you want someone to date

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If you’re going to date someone you need to date them for the right reason, not for looks or sex, but because of who they are. You can just date someone for your own personal needs, it makes you an asshole. If you don’t understand that then you really don’t deserve a girlfriend

shy vector
slender wave
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Then personality

shy vector
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then u won’t get anybody bro

slender wave
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That’s not helping

oak musk
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Dude you actually disgust me, ngl

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Personally always comes first

neat raven
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Do not rush love. The girl who will genuinely love you for your personality and looks will come. Give it time.

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We're not trying to be mean, but if all you aim for is sex then the possibility of getting a girl is pretty much 0%.

hushed quail
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How could he even think that his life is over just cause he is still virgin

neat raven
north hemlockBOT
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Dovahkiin#5732 has been warned

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hushed quail
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Ffs

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This family friendly server

north hemlockBOT
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Dovahkiin#5732 has been warned

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hushed quail
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AGAIN

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This bot lmfao

hushed quail
hushed quail
neat raven
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lemony just wants sex and all we need to tell him is if that is his only desire he will not get any girl

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fair point you have there

hushed quail
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Ofc I didn't like it, not every girl is gonna be comfortable with having sex without feelings or without bonding with the person

neat raven
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exactly

hushed quail
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That's why I am saying that if there is a girl who like him, he is delusional to think that they are gonna grant their body to have sex with him

neat raven
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sex should be the last priority

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actually

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it shoulkdnt even be a priority

hushed quail
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Maybe he might be even lucky, but that ""relationship"" won't last long

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If it's based just on sexual attraction

neat raven
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if ya goin' for the sex, ya aint getting anyone

hushed quail
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Yes that's what I am saying

north hemlockBOT
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Dovahkiin#5732 has been warned

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hushed quail
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HSUDHSKMCKSNCF

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OK I'LL GO EAT SMTH

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Nah this bot

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Btw I should really calm myself down before writing but reading some stuff makes me feel so upset

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Being virgin should not being seen as something embarassing, or that makes you feel ashamed

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There is nothing to be proud about fvcking with every girl

north hemlockBOT
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Dovahkiin#5732 has been warned

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neat raven
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mee6 can you stop fr

hushed quail
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Lmfao

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I was saying

neat raven
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make sure u copy paste ur msg so u dont have to type everytime (if it gets deletd)(

hushed quail
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Honestly I am scared to know what does he think sex is

north hemlockBOT
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Dovahkiin#5732 has been warned

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hushed quail
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???

north hemlockBOT
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Dovahkiin#5732 has been warned

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hushed quail
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Ok

wide oyster
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You can't say it

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Say it in letters

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Like m

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S

hushed quail
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Ye I figured it out

wide oyster
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Or what ever

hushed quail
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I imagine that probably by watching porm he got into idealizing sex in a certain way

neat raven
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possibly

wide oyster
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^^

hushed quail
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While it's actually something hard to do, it's not just putting a d inside of a v

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To actually feel pleasure you have to know your body

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And also the partner body

wide oyster
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Exactly

hushed quail
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It's not a sex toy

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It is a person

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You can't just penetrate it until you cu*

wide oyster
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It's about the connection between u and your partner

hushed quail
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Yes

neat raven
hushed quail
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If he doesn't want a bond:

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But not to poor girls that maybe are not fvucking around just cause they hit puberty and they think it's fine to go to bed with everyone

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Not all girls are b1tches

wide oyster
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The reason is because he just wants to rush it and skip the part with love

hushed quail
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Ye I noticed

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But then it's just worthless sex

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Idk even how could it be exciting to f with someone that you don't even like romantically

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Idk I tried and it made me feel disgusted, it changes between people tho

wide oyster
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My ex is just like him tbh

hushed quail
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Idk, too many people are like that tbh

wide oyster
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It's really hard to find true love

neat raven
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wish we could go back to the times where phones didn't exist

wide oyster
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Everyone used to be so peaceful

hushed quail
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Even before phones

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Romanticism was different, but even worst sometimes

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Just think how hard it was to be in a happy marriage that wasn't chosen for financial and political reasons

hushed quail
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Guy, Ima be real. I'm in the same position. You could probably get one easier than I could. Don't worry about looks entirely, you need to be looking for personality. Having a relationship just based off looks isn't gonna be meaningful at all. Just be yourself, be respectful and kind, talk to girls and at one point ask them out once you get to know them enough, and they get to know you enough. The worst that could happen is that they say no. There are plenty more fish in the sea. And trust me I know how you feel, I think I look ugly as well, but I haven't given up.

In terms of your virginity, don't worry about that. Those things take time, and don't just do it just to do it. Do it with a partner who you really have bonded with and love. That way there will be an emotional and physical connection if you stumble either way. If both of you don't have experience, then it will be a first time for both of you, but if they have experience, and you don't, then they will remember what it's like to not know what you are doing.

Don't give up, and take things slow friend.

wide oyster
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Umm hello

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He doesn't care about love

hushed quail
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He asked for advice and I gave it.

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Don't know why you're acting like this.

slender wave
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I’m a minor so I can’t

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Also some of y’all mean asf

slender wave
wide oyster
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Sorry I guess I just understood wrong

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Please forgive me

slender wave
wide oyster
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No

hushed quail
slender wave
hushed quail
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If you aren't here to give some meaningful advice then leave. It's simple.

hushed quail
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sorry if I was mean to you

slender wave
hushed quail
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wdym why xd

slender wave
wide oyster
slender wave
slender wave
wide oyster
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In my opinion its love, personality, looks, then sex

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But everyone thinks differently

slender wave
wide oyster
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There's no right answer is there

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It's just because I'm demisexual that's how I feel

slender wave
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Does ur eyes also glow purple

wide oyster
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Wha

slender wave
wide oyster
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Nope

hushed quail
slender wave
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Thought everyone seen it

wide oyster
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Why would I watch a kids movie?

slender wave
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Likes cars

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That’s a popular one

hushed quail
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imagine telling someone's life sucks cause they don't watch a kids movie

slender wave
hushed quail
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lmfao

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no childhood? LMFAO

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just cause they didn't watch a movie

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doesn't mean shit

slender wave
hushed quail
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no

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it doesn't

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;)

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impoverished?

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HAHAHAHAHAH

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as if you know anything about us

slender wave
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I do

hushed quail
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you can grow a childhood even without watching movies

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you literally don't

wide oyster
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Plus who grows a childhood when it's over?

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I'm literally a 19 year old

slender wave
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Huh?

hushed quail
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you must be so confused

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calling someone impoverished without even knowing who you're talking to

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I really don't understand why we are arguing.

slender wave
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I do

hushed quail
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<@&854409594063683595>

slender wave
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No reason

wide oyster
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Either

hushed quail
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no reason for what

neat raven
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you called in for help

hushed quail
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Just break up the argument going on here, this is ridiculous.

neat raven
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^

hushed quail
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ye he called cause I was asking this guy how was I impoverished cause I didn't watch a kids movie

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xd

slender wave
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I don’t recall that

hushed quail
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@slender wave I'm here if you ever need to talk, because some people are clearly unhelpful.

slender wave
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Thank you

hushed quail
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lmfao

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incredible

slender wave
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You’re putting it in a way that makes it sound worse

hushed quail
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it's literally what you said

slender wave
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I didn’t

hushed quail
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Dude why do you keep going. Grow up.

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Lord.

wide oyster
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Dova if you just want to make things worse leave

neat raven
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to answer lemony's concern, if your priority is sex first you're most likely not going to get any girl

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and with that we basically answered the concern

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any arguemment is unnesscary

slender wave
wide oyster
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I say private dm @hushed quail

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He's a good therapist

hushed quail
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I try my best really.

wide oyster
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Seems like it

hollow ember
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get a glowup chief

slender wave
slender wave
hollow ember
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if ur willing to, show me ur face

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prob here or dms

slender wave
hollow ember
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will help u w improvements

slender wave
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Like what

hollow ember
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like if i see if u have potential

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if ur then genetically ugly

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thrn L bozo

hollow ember
slender wave
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Ok

hollow ember
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were u ugly as a child

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and do u consider urseld ugly only bc of acnes and shi

neat raven
hollow ember
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sry Lemony#2148

hushed quail
dusky crest
# slender wave My ugly self don’t pull

Let’s be honest girls will get with anything nowadays. Like There’s so many pretty girls I seen with the ugliest guys so if u think ur ugly then atp u might have some chance Just be urself ofc , and just by being funny someone will probably like u. and also looks are subjective some ppl might think ur ugly but there’s people who genuinely do and will think ur attractive so just do you and see what happens

north hemlockBOT
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Chizue#0003 has been warned

Reason: Bad word usage

inner knot
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One of my friend is ugly and he keeps bragging to me how many girls want to date him and sleep with him. Of course he looks and talks very gentle but deep down he's a devil in disguise

hushed quail
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I joined this server thinking that people here helps each other like solidarity

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Untill i came a post like this...

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Fr what the flip is this post?

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This is just coping on emotions

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Or insecurities

oak musk
# hushed quail I joined this server thinking that people here helps each other like solidarity

The original poster was asking for advice on how to get “bitches” (girls, disrespectful much?) & his main goal is sex. So we basically said if you aren’t even going to try & get to know them then you don’t deserve the girl, he’s referring to girls as if they’re objects. “Sex now, looks later” was what he said. The disrespect, it’s disgusting. I am appalled by the attitude.

solar stratus
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It might bring some comfort to some of you to note that he's been banned since he last spoke in this post. We're very sorry it's upset many of you, and I'll try to get a moderator to delete this.

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@hushed quail @oak musk

oak musk
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You can’t control what people say or do & unfortunately that’s life. But at least it helps us learn about what situations we’ll have to deal with in the future.

solar stratus
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Yeah, agreed.

oak musk
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Alright well I’m going to try and get to bed because it’s 01:03 and I’ve been up since 08:42. I need SLEEP 😂

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Night m’lady.

solar stratus
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SLEEP OML DUDE 😭

oak musk
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I can’ttt

solar stratus
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But yes, rest well, and good night to you..! Again, I'm sorry this post is still up.

oak musk
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Insomnia is a bitch.. 🤣

solar stratus
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Aw, I'm sorry.

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Insomnia sucks.

oak musk
solar stratus
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Oml I should suggest that to Stin though

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Annual staff holidays or something

oak musk
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Honestly, if I was an accountant I’d get the council to give you a f*ckin’ medal lmao

solar stratus
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I think that'd be pretty sweet for the staff team LMAO

oak musk
solar stratus
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YUH

oak musk
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But seriously

solar stratus
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I'll look into that LMAOO

oak musk
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Fair play to you guys for keeping up with all the shit

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Mind if I add you as a friend?

solar stratus
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Mm, if you wish to talk to me in DMs about something, they're typically open. As for staying friends, it isn't anything against you, I just try to keep it limited unless I've already talked to said person a fair amount

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But thank you for your kindness regardless.. I appreciate the gesture! ^^

oak musk
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Ay no worries

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Mutual respect exists for a reason

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And I know I said you deserve a break but you’re probably going to be able to give better advice than me

solar stratus
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HAHAHAHAHA

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Who knows

oak musk
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There’s a wee laddy who’s got a bit of a problem, he has an “addiction” to wanking

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So I don’t really know what advice I can give…

solar stratus
solar stratus
oak musk
solar stratus
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I'm a woman, and I can give advice, but unfortunately I'm not the most comfortable giving sexual advice either. It isn't my cup of tea, and being honest it crosses a boundary where I feel grossed out whenever it's mentioned ;u;

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But I appreciate that you have confidence in my abilities. I hope the fellow feels a little better about his situation soon enough.

oak musk
solar stratus
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LMAO fair

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But anyways, try to get rest when you can! I'll ping you a quoted message from the #main-chat here in a second — the message contains information what you can do to improve your sleep routine and whatnot. It's very helpful ^^

oak musk
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Oh I know how to have a healthy sleep routine but it’s more or less boredom 😂