My name is Maria, and my gf recently told me that we we were in a poly relationship, which meant she was dating another guy. And now I'm kind of jealous of their relationship.
#probably a waste of your time
clever stratus
river mist
If your girlfriend suddenly puts you in a polyamous relationship without your permission, break up.
prisma bay
well its not really a poly if you have no relationship with a guy
that guy specifically
if it were a poly, youd all love one another
its not fair for her to suddenly drop that
and if you are jealous but dont want to break up, talk to her about it
clever stratus
What am I supposed to say
visual egret
What am I supposed to say
that you genuinely don't like the fact she's dating someone else now
clever stratus
Ok and how will that fix things
visual egret
it wont fix anything, but you deserve to be heard. there are more people than just your gf on this planet, yes losing a loved one hurts but eventually you find better people, that's always the case
clever stratus
My gf isn't the problem
river mist
She didn't even ask before doing this, you do deserve her. But please talk to her, because she can't just do that without asking.
river mist
Now that looks like a red flag.
clever stratus
She obviously did it because she doesn't want to be my gf and didn't want to hurt my feelings and I recept that
river mist
That's probably not the reason, if she didn't want you anymore then she would have ended it a long time ago,
clever stratus
She's not really like that
She never ends it
Doesn't really care about her self that much
river mist
If she doesn't care about herself, then I highly doubt she cares that much about anybody else tbh.
clever stratus
She does
She's Literally the most caring person in the world
Hut I've seen somethings
When she's alone she just cries and cries
river mist
If she can't take care of herself, then how is she gonna manage a relationship? Just think about that.
clever stratus
Look no matter what I will not break up with her