#fake friends school situation

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hearty abyss
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{{my full apologies if the statement doesn’t make sense, I tried grammarly, I’m not sure if it made a difference tbf}}

History: For the past few days, my whole friend group has been against me (I’m genuinely unsure why the others are, I have been nothing but supportive to ALL my friends). I have a group of 4, one of the girls in the group, I’ll call her Amy for privacy reasons of course. She always had this massive attitude between me (yet she has no attitude towards anyone else in the group), keep in mind I never did anything to her in the past - one of my other friends went to primary school with Amy, she also had an attitude with her for nothing as well. Amy always judges me on the most basic of things, such as me eating, how I talk, even on how I walk, which is genuinely quite hypocritical of her.

Recent Situation: Today was no different at school, we always hung out in the corner, a quiet corner, with the group. Literally when I follow them, she is like “why are you always following?” like girl, we've been ‘friends’ for a year. I simply ignored it, I kept my anger back (I have anger issues, I was even attending interventions to help with my issues) to not cause a scene, yet her attitude continued. Me and my other friend were talking, she kept getting involved, so I argued back with her, she of course walked away as she is always the innocent one. The rest of the group followed (even the one who hated her, but they are friends now? I swear this isn’t a wattpad story, it’s actually just confusing). My anger levels started to rise, I just wanted to follow her and take my frustration on her for being such a bitch, I managed to control myself. Amy is such a snitch as well, she will probably report me to SLT tomorrow, which I genuinely don’t care about (I always argue with SLT anyways, they are just unexplainably annoying).

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On Thursday (teacher strikes are happening on Wednesday so no school) I will probably talk with Amy about it as it’s annoying at this point. she can’t just start an argument and expect no one to argue back.

I’m genuinely unsure, I have a lot of questions running through my mind. Is it my fault? Was I the one who did something wrong?

apologies, I couldn’t add this part due to the word limit

proven kilnBOT
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tropic merlin
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She might argue back she Prob will...after that just leave her in the ditch

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# tropic merlin She might argue back she Prob will...after that just leave her in the ditch

i like your thinking ngl, if she does argue back (like she always does), i genuinely wouldn’t care. if she walks away, I will follow her and continue that argument. she can’t expect to cause drama and expect to always be innocent without any consequences. i once told her about my mental health issues, she just laughed me. if she does tell head of year / or SLT, i will get my other friends to back me up (whom had the same experience with amy). thanks, i appreciate the reply. <33

tropic merlin
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No problem 😎

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She needs to see her shadows

hearty abyss
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fr

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i will update you on what happens tomorrow.

tropic merlin
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Bet 👀

hearty abyss
# tropic merlin Bet 👀

Here is the update on what happened today, rather write a journal of each school period for it to make sense.

Period 1 / Art - due to change of seating plan, I was sat in front of them with my other friend. amy literally was keep saying “im not your friend, why do you think i am?” like girl, i wasn’t even speaking to you. I was genuinely about to say something, but didn’t wanted to cause a scene.

Period 2 / Maths - nothing happened as none of them sat close to me. lucky enough.

Break / Recess - I decided to hang out with my other friend (the friend I sat next to in art), got my snack etc. yeah so yk

Period 3 / English - they sit next to me, im not sure what’s worse, her grumpy mood or that they tried to make conversations with me. 😭 she literally said I got the answer wrong, then once I tried to explain how it was correct, she said “jeez, why are you like this day?'' I wasn’t even rude when I was explaining it.

Lunch - I was walking with my friend (this friend absolutely hates Amy and the group), we both followed them to that quiet corner, they tried to run away but were blocked off. we walked over, her mood was unbelievable. absolutely disgusting (not trying to sound like Ramsy), i was so close to calling amy a Greasy muppet (her hair is 🤮), but we walked away as we was meeting with our other friend.

Period 4 / Drama Studies - i'm in a group with them ;(, the group went alright ish. Amy literally kept interrupting, so I kindly asked her to shut her mouth. im trying to give everyone their roles as everyone was clearly day dreaming. but it went alright ig.

Period 5 / Science - nothing happened.

btw, apparently im their friend? 😭 one of my classmates saw one of the group members walking alone, my classmate said “why are you hanging around by yourself, why don’t you hang out with (my name), are you still friends?” she said “yeah we are still friends, I just prefer walking around by myself”. 💀

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if they start tomorrow, i swear i'll get isolation for something.

tropic merlin
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Yes! Maybe play the game "john cena"

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Be like your cant see me...she might want to start a violence