These emotions sucks and I hate how vulnerable am rn . I hate being this way but I need someone to talk too so bad too and it's just making me feel more miserable. I feel so jealous of people who have friends they could go too or family to talk too. I wish I had someone I can rely on. I really hate how my life was like up until now. I hate how quickly I had to be mature and I hate everything I went through.
#I am really scared rn
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i’m so sorry, i understand. these kind of emotions can be really overwhelming when you don’t know what triggers them, would you like to talk in dms about more?
it’s not your fault i promise.
it is
It seems so like that
And everyone blamed me for that too
Everyone in real life that is have a notion and this image of me that I am "perfect" and that I don't have anything to worry about. And even if I cry and say I am not okay , they would say I am being dramatic or if I am mentally sick or smth
i know it may seem like it but its not, they are just trying to make you feel bad. its okay to be vulnerable and have feelings, you shouldn’t feel ashamed about that, you can talk to us about anything. we are hear to help and listen,
i understand that, i promise you your feelings are valid
what are you scared of?
Many things
To disappointing my parents especially my mom , to face others and actually of myself
I have a history of ||self harming|| and am so sick of this feeling to do smth and I am trying so hard to not think bad stuffs but I just can't ignore it that much
And also that's why am here saying random stuffs idk if it's even venting or just me being frustrated on how weak I am
I am just trynna distract myself to not do things I may regret
i’m so sorry lovely, i hear you. i’m here to listen to whatever it is you’re struggling with
that’s good, what are you distracting yourself with?
phone
here
typing
I am not in a good position
I will probably be okay later on or maybe not idkk
that’s okay, i would suggest maybe going for a walk to get some air or listening to some music?
your not i promise
Midnight
oh
i’m so sorry
Evie btw I am probably saying more gibberish but ty for being here rn
Even if I am being weird rn 😭
you didn’t deserve anything you went through. you aren’t saying any gibberish i understand, of course im going to be here to listen anytime : )
i get you, feeling lonely is a terrible feeling and it can cause overwhelming thoughts and things like that, how come you feel bad? did anything trigger it?
I was supposed to be used to this all but every now and than I slip up and feel sad and it sucks. It's not even like I wasn't lonely to begin with. I was always lonely , so idk why am not used to it yet
Idk about triggering but I started feeling this way since 2021
It's been a year or so
having slip ups is completely normal when feeling this way
I didn't had this much frequent emotional breakdowns before
you shouldn’t have to feel used to it
But everything started slipping up after shit happened
You know
Evie
If you had a bf and they ||harassed|| your bff and blackmailed them , will you choose his side or your bff's?
yes i get that, if your comfortable could you tell me what happened? you don’t have to of course
i dont really have a say in it but if i had to say, the boyfriend is in the wrong
I grew up in a place where I wasn't supposed to act like a "kid" at all. Family issues we can say. I didn't opened up much either , I always had to pretend to be okay just so my mom wouldn't be sad. I had 2 bffs ever since I was a child , I met them when we were just 3. It was cause of my mom as all of our moms were bffs too. We were friends for so long so I didn't wanted to acknowledge that people can change and that the people I grew up with changed too
i’ll be right back, i have to quickly do something. say whatever you need i’ll be just a minute : )
My ex bff , imma call her N , ever since we reached middle school, she broke my trust a lot, using my pics to catfish people to the point some guys came to find me and told me about it , luckily they were nice and seemed to understand my situation and didn't pressed the situation too much. I was really sad when it happened and I talked it out with N but she ended up crying a lot saying she was sorry and stuffs , I started losing trust in her from that time too but I didn't wanted to end things . I forgave her that time
i get how you feel, family issues suck. some friendships can too, people change a lot
that’s definitely not a good friend, you deserve better.
it’s good that they understood your situation, it’s nice when someone relates
Reason: Bad word usage
Well it was a bad word
oh
that’s okay don’t worry i get what you mean
i cant call right now unfortunately, would you like to explain more in dms?