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#spanking parents
fallen rivet
austere yacht
ngl spanking is a way of dicipline its not that they hate you.
limber python
ngl spanking is a way of dicipline its not that they hate you.
Spanking is physical abuse.
austere yacht
Spanking is physical abuse.
then fvck I was abused as a child
limber python
It's not that they hate you, it's that they don't know proper discipline.
viral mango
it’s also a punishment that almost every parent uses at some point in their parenthood
limber python
Also not true, it's a minority in the US at least.
Just because it used to be common does not make it beneficial.
austere yacht
well then if its abuse fvck i was rlly abused as a child
limber python
You can show them resources on spanking and the behavorial outcomes it produces, and also ask for therapy for yourself, and even for them if they're receptive. That's a big ask though.
limber python
well then if its abuse fvck i was rlly abused as a child
Hate to say it this way, but maybe there's a reason you're on this discord, lol.
austere yacht
Hate to say it this way, but maybe there's a reason you're on this discord, lol.
wdym
limber python
That kind of thing has been shown in many studies to produce negative mental health outcomes.
It has only downsides as a method of discipline.
austere yacht
shi* ok
limber python
Yeah, I was spanked til 6 or 7. It happens a lot, but accepting it as normal just promotes passing it on.
austere yacht
i was up until rlly 9 or ten but I still get it to this day
warm birch
what
"ngl spanking is a way of dicipline its not that they hate you." you are 100% right
elfin edge
It’s effective tho. I’m glad I was spanked. Needs to have a good environment tho
limber python
It’s effective tho. I’m glad I was spanked. Needs to have a good environment tho
Counterpoint: you named yourself after the joker.
elfin edge
Counterpoint: you named yourself after the joker.
My life’s a comedy
fiery forge
It’s effective tho. I’m glad I was spanked. Needs to have a good environment tho
Effective? If you got the choice between writing lines or time-out, or the paddle, which one would you choose?
Personally I would go for the latter option, seeing as it gets over with quicker. So it's less dreaded, and requires physical force. Bad play.