I feel defeated

[zenith fjord]

my gf just told me she still has some feeling for her ex and idk how to feel. I feel like I'm just not enough and I feel like I'll never be as good and I feel like I'll always come second to her ex. I don't know how to feel or think

[haughty vigil]

You have an inferiority complex

I wouldn't say it's that rare when thinking about an ex but it's not a competition, they didn't work out and you got a chance in the first place so clearly you're good enough

[zenith fjord]

the thing is he broke up with her and she said she hoped he would msg her back

what if he dose would she just throw me away or am I overthinking it she even said she still had some kind of feelings for him.

I'm not mad i just feel sad that I'm not enough for her

[haughty vigil]

Some people just don't work out, you should move on, it's not healthy to cling on to them forever, find someone after you get your self esteem back

[zenith fjord]

so you are saying I should break up with her?

[haughty vigil]

I can tell you it won't work out with your current mindset

[zenith fjord]

I see

[bitter junco]

is she using you as a rebound? idk i don’t think it works out well when they’ve not moved on from a past relationship. i get what you mean, if he sends her a text, the thought of her going back to him when she’s said that. maybe it’s best to end things with her because it doesn’t seem like she’s moved on or accepted that that relationship is in past