#how to deal with the infamous worst week of my life

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obtuse trellisBOT
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IminVinceable#7463 has been warned

Reason: Bad word usage

tawdry hornet
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i used a single bad word and now my 2 paragraphs are gone

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what an aboslute chad moment

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basically got mega grounded, lost my girlfriend, and i feel completely alone.

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there is more to it and its not like all basic emotions after such stuff but i dont wanna type it all out again

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here is a link to a monologue i made

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bruhe

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https ://docs.google.com/document/d/1Y-U2t9qTOUDSl4HOnCkMzVa6CKGxN-nwYswx_5t_Loc/edit?usp=sharing

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just unspace it

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it goes into depth on how i feel

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and how my mind works

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2 weeks into the new school semester fell asleep once and my counselor called my parents saying i could get kicked from the class and might not graduate

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so they took everything

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im using my dads laptop which i stole to even talk right now

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well she got a full time job and school plus another job at her families tire shop

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recently she could only talk to me late at night

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opposed to the whole day

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kinda

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family job yk?

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so she said she didnt want to make me sad because she could never talk to me

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and then pressure herself to stay up

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to talk to me

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and then it would make her all tired

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its just not healthy if im bothering her late at night

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which makes sense

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when we starting talking we could talk all the time but she has been like consumed by real life shit

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so its like the actual version of "no hard feelings" cause there aren't but she was pretty damn awesome

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k

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later

errant hound
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Seriously, you need to learn tact. When helping people, saying the wrong thing can make them feel worse.

Telling someone who is grieving that there is a reason for their loss is an example of what not to say. The reasons are not clear to the bereaved, which adds confusion and uncertainty. You will have just made grieving even harder for them.

I can see you want to help. That's great. But do be careful with what and how you say things, especially with grief. Best to let them talk about their feelings instead. ^w^

fluid igloo
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As I said you must be a kid to express yourself always like this

fluid igloo
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You don't help anyone with your comments, I've seen your compliments like: are u sad?
You are not helping, if you wanna help think in a different way

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Your brain must really lack of functioning neurons

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I'm just telling you the truth

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Go ahead, as if I care

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You just do me a favour

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Yes you're definetely 14

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To talk like this

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Yes

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Mentally you are

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I am just letting you notice that you are unhelpful

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And you should think before you write to give advices to people

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It's like you take everything as a joke

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Are you having a mental breakdown cause I am simply confronting you?

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Are you capable of understanding that my comment was referring to something else?

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Attention seeker now oh wow

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Are you aware that the way I am talking to you it's the consequence of the bad way you spoke to me from the beginning?

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You didn't even let me explain to you why have I been so harsh towards you

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Then why are you still here?

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You said you'd block me

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Not here in the server, here to talk to me.

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Hahahaha

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Jeez I can't with this kid

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Still typing

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You definetely are

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By the way you behave

tawdry hornet
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uh

errant hound
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You didn't have to shout it out. /calm

tawdry hornet
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it just kinda stings right now

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it didn't end badly but just really abruptly

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she had been stressed and didn't tell me how much but then kinda just sent a big message explaining it

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so while it was understandable why she couldn't it was the surprise that got me

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So i don't have that like "betrayal" pain since it was mainly due to her own personal life

errant hound
tawdry hornet
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That's what I said yea.