Me and my ex were super close, dated for like 8 months, she wanted to have s3x with me (both were sober) I said sure. She accused me of grape to get over me and impress this dude she liked. Told all my friends, school, etc. Now I drink, do edibles, barely get sleep, and think I’m an awful person for some shit I didnt do. I think I’m alone, I’m a loser when I used to be chill, and I’m stuck. She dated the dude a week after I was accused. Idk what to do anymore. I’m just done bro.
#ex ruined my life and now I’m messing it up more
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Hey man, im sorry that happened to you. This is one of my fears of women and I totally get that feeling, something happened to me that was similar. I dont think this person is worth ruining your life over. If both of you were super close then why did she without hesitation accuse you of that and not only that proceeded to tell the whole world about it to gain attention and get closer to this other dude. That was the type of person you dated and she is not worth losing yourself over. If she hasnt gotten the police involve or proceeds to do anything else legally then I suggest you switch schools. Youre barely 17, at this rate youll die from alcohol poisoning or an over dose once you get used to weed. Youre not done, not by a long shot. So instead of feeling sorry for yourself get up and continue to live. If you want to start somewhere I'll tell you how. Start building healthy habits. When you wake up make your bed, eat healthier, create a gym schedule, clean around the house, study, read or do bible studies, or you can also start focusing on a hobby or a passion of yours.
I do still strongly suggest you switch schools coming into the next school year and use your holiday break to work on yourself. In addition to that I also strongly suggest you get some professional help from a therapist. When my gf of 4 months broke up with me it hit hard and itll take time for you to heal that wound but understand that hurting yourself and numbing yourself from your feelings and thoughts will just make them worse. Allow yourself to heal and face these emotions with courage. Youre strong bro, you can do this. One day you'll see yourself so much better than what you are now and youll feel proud you got through this.
solemn basalt
Needed this bro. Real stuff. Ive been keeping this in for like 5 months man just felt I was in the wrong always
Ive been hitting the gym since 2020, but I gotta do everything else you suggested fr
With the therapist idk where to start with that
Want to fr but I just dont know
If you got anymore suggestions man id appreciate that fr. This helped alot tho. Thank you man
You a real one. 🐐
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If you got anymore suggestions man id appreciate that fr. This helped alot tho. ...
I got you
As for the therapist, you can talk to a councilor at school and they can refer you to one or you can go talk to someone at a clinic or hospital and they can help you out with that as well. Starting today youre going to be a better person.
You take care of yourself, and have a blessed day. Goodluck with all your goals and I hope you get through this man. Everyday go and chip at your goal, dont worry how long it takes you. Right now you got a marble rock, as long as you keep chipping away at it some day that rock will become a beautiful statue.
Ill send you a video of someone that changed my life and I hope you like his words
solemn basalt
Thank you bro. Dont know how much I needed this