You can’t, you have to let go. I know it’s painful I’m going through heartbreak rn too. Only thing you can do is focus on yourself and I know what you’re feeling right now. They’re not worth it, this might hurt to hear but you simply weren’t meant to be together, the right one will come along, have hope and be patient. And most of all DO NOT let them crawl back to you. Time heals wounds.
#How do I get over this
stark egret
violet orbit
I'm sorry to hear about the difficulties you are going through. Breakups can be very difficult, especially when there are trust issues involved. It's understandable that you might be feeling hurt and alone right now.
Here are a few things you might consider:
Take some time for yourself: It's important to give yourself time to process your emotions and heal after a breakup. This might mean spending some time alone, talking to a trusted friend or family member, or seeking support from a counselor or therapist.
Practice self-care: It's important to take care of yourself during this time. This might include getting enough sleep, eating well, and finding healthy ways to cope with your emotions.
violet orbit
This is less to help and more of an insight.
People, and especially girls of this generation, don’t understand what true love is. They think that romance = love, which simply isn’t the case. Same thing happened to me recently, and so it has with a multitude of people. What makes love, and a relationship, are 3 things. Honesty (which also counts as trust), Loyalty, and Respect. Before my latest relationship, I was with a girl for a year and a half. The honeymoon phase as they call it died off, but the loyalty was kept. We stayed loyal to each other because we both had morals. It ended up dying because she wasn’t honest about her feelings and kept pushing me away due to untreated mental health. The latest relationship, similar thing happened as with you. We were taking a break, and tryna work stuff out together, but because I was distant (after the shit she pulled quite literally destroyed me) an old mutual friend told me that she liked someone else, and was sending love letters and such to them.
I tell you this not to fill you with despair, but to be very picky on who you get with. This generation is borked. No morals, no ethics, no virtues. We gotta find the ones who have those. Only than will we have a lasting relationship. Look for how their mental health is, family history, what type of friends they have, how they treat those friends, past relationships. All these things add up in the future, and I know personally I tend to ignore them because love blinds me, and that’s the reason I’m in the situation I am now.
tawdry seal
It’s not your fault @ all. She could’ve gotten distracted by someone else and had a different idea of what is love? It’s confusing these days
Try not to be too hard and harsh on yourself
violet orbit
im really sorry this has happened, just know the outcome would inevitably be the same and its not ur fault at all. its normal to feel alone and misunderstood after something like that happens, maybe try to focus on urself more and figuring out what makes u happy, ur idenitity and how to heal urself so ur always the best versions of u. i feel like its nothing u can easily fix and its just something that time will, but try to just accept whats happened and not blaming urself about it and im sure youll be fine!! always here if u wanna talk ab it
stray sparrow
You can’t, you have to let go. I know it’s painful I’m going through heartbreak ...
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That’s definitely not me.
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stray sparrow
It’s not your fault @ all. She could’ve gotten distracted by someone else and h...
it is. i just can’t get over the fact that i’m a “sin” cause my parents are two-faced around people who are lbgtq if they’re near they will act all nice to them once they’re gone, they make fun of them
native patio