#Will it be okay if I start fresh with my ex?

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lethal torrent
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I'm 20. My ex broke up with me 4 years ago because she felt like she had lost interest in me. I loved her always and I still love her. I tried my best to forget all the feelings I have for her all these years but its of no use. However, recently we started talking again. She is in abroad for university now. We talk in voice on discord. I love every bit of it that we are talking again. I love listening to her. I feel at peace when I hear her voice. I miss her touch, I miss her smile, I miss the taste of her lips, I miss everything. I can't get over it. But as I wrote earlier, she in abroad for university and we are both freshman. I can't leave my country until I graduate. I don't know my heart aches. I want to her tell her about my feelings again. I want start fresh with her again. I don't know if it will be possible or not. So will it be okay if I told her this entire thing? Thank you if you read this far. I hope you have nice day ❤️

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Will it be okay if I start fresh with my ex?

hollow sorrel
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for me, what are you trying to do like you are reading a book you have already read. i mean, you already know how it ends and you still read it many times hoping that the ending will change

fresh yew
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Its entirely up to you! While yes your love for her may have never died, you have to know when you truly love someone and they leave you (no longer in your day to day life, whether that be texting, talking, meeting up, ect.) your love for her will never die but your love for other things or people will just grow stronger as you continue on with your life and at the bottom of your heart or mind you will never forget her; is what I heard and was told at one point. If you truly think she will want to be with you again, go for it! But take everything with a grain of salt as you continue on with her, as she did leave you at one point and people can be hard to read sometimes and she may leave you again, so just be ready for the hurt if she does leave you again. Be cautious but enjoy it! Im sorry you are having to deal with this and I hope it all works out for you!

lethal torrent
# fresh yew Its entirely up to you! While yes your love for her may have never died, you hav...

Thank you for your advice dude! I decided to move on even I though I still love her. I will not be able to forget her at all but I'm just hoping that my feelings will fade away with the course of time. It's been 4 years already and might another 4 but I think that'll be better for me. And I did indirectly ask her about her love life today and found out that she had many more guys after me so that's that. But one thing I'm sure about that is the feelings I have, those are for her past self. The one I knew, the one I kissed, the one I loved unconditionally. And now that I know the past self of her doesn't exist anymore, it has become easier for me to move on. But at the same time it's making me sad that the person, the character, the personality I had loved so much, doesn't exist anymore. And there is no point in continuing things with her now because I don't really love the type of person she has turned into now. Anyways man thank you so much for taking time to read through my stuff and giving me a wonderful advice. Hope you have a good one dude! Peace❤️

fresh yew
bleak pier
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If you mean normal friendship, it is possible, though don't expect it to always be fun and games

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In terms of romantic stuff, preliminarily it's a big no no in general, but it's a bit complicated