She said she was 19, but was 16. She lied for 9months. I'm 26.

[vapid pasture]

It's only been an online long distant relationship, im from england, she's from germany.
It's legal in those countries aslong as 16+ but I still feel its wrong ( she's 17 now )
I feel she is the one I want, she's made it clear that I am, she pushed for this relationship.
I do want her, but I feel it's wrong mostly because of society.
I was willing to wait for her to turn 18 before meeting in-real-life instead of online only, But from other people they have told me this is still very wrong.
She's very into the age gap and into me ( her kink )
I'm very unsure what to do, I do feel like I love her and have done for a while, but now I found out about her true age.. Yes I do still love her this doesn't go away so easy, but I'm not sure if I should be mature and take responsibility and leave her, it's not what I truly want but is it truly the right thing to do?
She hasn't lied about anything else or well that's what I believe, I have forgiven her for lying and we're over the stage that she lied.

[viscid stream]

Today society is quite open so I think if we consider society it can pass as "fine its not such big deal"

Personal I believe u will go through rough time due to her life experiance and actually self awarenes and what she truly want or is.

So.... I would say its fooling to allow to get all emotional as if she is your wife since she is not whole person jet. But it's not impossible so talk with her a lot for start get her to relize if she want actualy this relationship it wount be milk and honey. Because I believe she might not see what relationship actualy means

If you feel it's wrong. Then listen to your guts if it's not just because of fear from society judgment

Because your guts and instinct know much more then we are aware of and able to understand

[sick tide]

I personally believe that it's wrong pursuing a relationship with a 16 year old as a 26 year old.
You fell in love with the idea of her that she pushed to you, which was a lie. I don't blame you for doing so, because, as you said, you didn't know she was lying. However, keep in mind it's a 10 years gap, she is most likely still in highschool. She is not the 19 year old you caught feelings to

[modern parrot]

I think that's a relationship you might want to consider severing or at least severing romantically, you 2 are in completely different life stages and if she lied about this then there are probably other things she lied about as well honestly. I don't believe it's really healthy for either of you to continue it

[viscid stream]

I agree actualy on this fully, I overlooked it due to focusing on his emotions and to follow his will or "heart", just a feeling if he should or shouldn't.

[vapid pasture]

I do love her, I do want her, I don't take advantage of her I would never. She wants me, she wants to carry on, if it's her choice she would never leave me. I feel I have to breakup with her even though my heart says not to.

[viscid stream]

Well either way she did lie over quite big thing

She could bring u quite nasty consequences

[modern parrot]

Her wanting it doesn't mean it'll be good for her or you though

[viscid stream]

It's usless to enter in relationship where danger or bad situation for another person don't matter as long as he gives me attention.... Isn't love

[vapid pasture]

I've broken up with her now, real painful to do. it's not what I want or what my feelings/emotions wants

She did not want to at all, she tried everything not to

[viscid stream]

Well let me get one hope up that's quite of a fact.... If you are really ment for each other. U 2 will find a way with time to spend rest of life togeather

Don't count it ever as end of that world

Life is full of tricks, twists, plots...

Cake is a lie :)

[jade shell]

I believe that you should probably try and cut ties with her. As some of the other people stated, you fell for who you THOUGHT she was, not who she actually is. If she will lie to you about her age, what else will she lie about? Would she be sly and cheat? If she's already lied to you about something that serious, I would think so. I'm sorry you're dealing with this Kane. It's difficult when you care about someone, but I think the best thing to do here is strictly be friends with her. I don't think getting in a relationship with her would be healthy for you, not only because she's 10 years younger, but because she also lied to you.

[vapid pasture]

I broke up with her today, we both was completely heart broken. She then turned against me saying how could I of let her go.. she is now somewhat whoring n flirting out to guys I'm completely crushed by this I feel sick and I have nobody to talk.. I can't believe she's instantly talking and flirting with guys after only a phew hours.. all I wanted to do is protect her I feel like I lost my soul mate and my life in one day I feel backstsbbed ontop of thst and the thought of her now taking to other guys which she is very badly 😢

[viscid stream]

We all sad it, it isn't love bro :3

Don't worry bro she wount be only one to make u feel like fool

Use it as experiance and it's even better this way. Atleast u are not stuck to someone who is litterly harmful for you now and in future

[jade shell]

I know it's difficult Kane, but you see her true colors now. Just think if you two got married, then she slept around with other guys. What's that going to lead to? Arguments, fights, hurt, jealousy, and then probably eventually a divorce, which calling it a financial burden is putting it slightly. You're honestly blessed to be away from that girl, as hard as it may be to see that now.

[timber marlin]

yes

that’s pedophilic if u keep entertaining that

she’s a minor you’re an adult