#This is confusing
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too long didnt read: Ex loves me and would love to have a future with me but is still attached to the guy before me because he took her virginity
she just doesnt know what shes doing
she got with me 3 months after they broke up
and during that time she enjoyed my company
She really wants something serious with me but her heart doesnt let her cuz shes still attached to someone who took something from her at such a young age (15)
I'm not the best advice-giver, but do you love her? or think she's the one?
Yes I really do
I love her so much and i think about her every day. The thought of her makes me giggle
shes still super sweet to me even though we have broken up
me and her both have no idea what to do
Women bro. They dont like nice guys.
Not all but your girl like these bad boys
Is over
You have to wait until he wrecks her and you pick the pieces. Not worth it.
Well the reason shes going back is because she misses him too much and everything reminds her of him (since he took her virginity)
I fell like the virginity part plays a big part
since its something thats so valuable to a person
Reason: Bad word usage
This is actually a really toxic mindset rooted in a lot of sexism
Women do like genuinely nice guys . We don't blame women for being stuck in abusive cycles. Your feelings are valid OP but she is 100% making a bad decision
I said not all do this , but I saw even in real life women simping for toxic guys. It is what it is girl. It sucks and I will never understand why it is happening..maybe because those guys are really hot idk
It is a sad truth to swallow for guys, a hot toxic guy is more valuable than a nice nerd.
Even girls say this nice guys finish Last.
Also im sorry if I Offend people.
Ive told her she is making a bad mistake but she says her heart wants to “feel it out” so she knows.
Well some people just need to experience things themselves
so could that be a way to figure out her true feelings?
Yep