tacit hearth
Ok so I need help with this. I have a friend who I’m on the edge of dropping , this person is an irl friend and I’ve known them for abt a year now. They suffer from extreme depression, and have constant autistic meltdowns. But, they are self diagnosed with autism, and I’ve never even seen them have a meltdown before this year, when they diagnosed themselves. They rely on me to comfort them, but because of their extreme depression, they are unhygienic. I get that it’s hard, but the only way I can comfort them is giving them my headphones, but they’ll go without showering for weeks on end, and idk about other people but I don’t want to lend my things to anyone who doesn’t take care of themselves for months. I still have to do it though, because I’m their only friend. They’ve told me they hated me with an /hj and told me to ||kms|| with a /hj. They’ve deteriorated my mental health, and when I told them this after they said it was ok to tell them, they bring it up every time we have a discussion. Attached are some texts we’ve had, most they’ve never apologized for. If you need context for any just ask. Anyways, please give me on opinion on this.
pure scarab