I know people also adore. God. Ah. The name escapes me. The one animated Netflix show with a biracial lead and a SUPER unique art style
#🌈lgbtq
supple brook
pure oxide
God She-ra is so good
supple brook
Shut what is it called
hidden inlet
I mean, I generally like it, but those scenes were... Eugh.
pure oxide
KIPO?
iron escarp
KIPO?
wicked jungle
xD
iron escarp
it wasnt for me but i think the animation style and rep is so dope
supple brook
I tried it but I couldn't get into it as much for some reason, I think I should try again
pure oxide
her best friend is gay, and they handled that os well and I love it so muuuuch
iron escarp
they did <3
supple brook
To be fair it also took me a bit to get into spop and as the seasons went on it became one of my favorite shows EVER
iron escarp
i actually didnt find out abt tdp until recently so i basically watched it all spread over a week
supple brook
Ohh haha
ebon edge
I usually look around at foreign films for that (Foreign films if you live in the US). Though it would be nice to have more LGBTQIA+ people work on LGBTQIA+ films in America.
supple brook
I've been watching basically since release
wintry monolith
A lot of Hallmark movies are super duper cringe and toxic relationship shit. I can't watch them now. Like if the gal says she's not interested in you, take the no and fuck off. The "winning her over/not giving up til she gives in" shit is so so bad and I hate it.
iron escarp
yeah like its just so stalky
supple brook
and now i heard there's a ttrpg made for it? andim so excited for it
Yes!!! It's sooo cool!!
wintry monolith
Deadass stalker stuff yep
iron escarp
or like the opposite where the main girl fixes "a bad guy"
charred needle
A lot of Hallmark movies are super duper cringe and toxic relationship shit. I c...
Oh god yes
iron escarp
just ggrrr
wicked jungle
just sliding back in here to say: good omens went far and i am thankful for it
supple brook
But you're missing my favorite: young nerdy woman with glasses gets made over by her Hot Yet Benevolent New Best Friend to win over the blandest white man you can possibly imagine
charred needle
Why is every hetero hallmark movie like "a right girl can change a devil" like no man I ain't changing shit go to therapy bitch!!!!!
supple brook
Gosh I love good omens so much
iron escarp
like if i see one more "bad guy" character that constantly violates boundaries and consent be fixed by a lead woman that lets it happen until they realise its bad, i will just simply dissolve into salt
good omens my very most beloved
iron escarp
But you're missing my favorite: young nerdy woman with glasses gets made over by...
ughhhh
wintry monolith
I wish to screech from the rooftop: UNREQUITED FEELINGS ARE NOT THE OTHER PERSON'S PROBLEM TO DEAL WITH/FAULT. DEAL WITH YOUR OWN EMOTIONS.
heavy heron
David Tennant 😭
iron escarp
i honestly dont know if im more like crowley or like aziraphale
heavy heron
Also hello I still exist 😄
supple brook
David Tennant my beloved
wicked jungle
hello, still exist, i am not dad
heavy heron
iron escarp
i honestly dont know if im more like crowley or like aziraphale
bookworm that talks very formally but also dresses in black and very snarky
wintry monolith
Tennant is adorable
iron escarp
im actually gonna get the full blu-ray box set of doctor who (10th,11th,12th)
wicked jungle
crowley as aziraphale and aziraphale as crowley was also so fun
iron escarp
and im so excited to finally see david tennant again
heavy heron
Gosh it was SO good
supple brook
Do you understand how hard my doctor who kinnie ass lost their mind when they announced a show with David Tennant as a Hot Nonbinary Queer Demon
hidden inlet
https://tenor.com/view/jessica-jones-im-here-need-ready-to-party-gif-20827771
Loved him in Broadchurch, although it was kind of jarring to see him as anything other than The Doctor.
supple brook
He's so different on broadchurch it was so strange to watch
Not flamboyant and extravagant enough for him hobestly
supple brook
Making him play a grumpy brooding cop feels illegal
hidden inlet
Just rewatching Doctor Who after this and just thinking "The actor can swear sometimes." XD
It just felt like something got tainted, but also I thought it was hillarious.
heavy heron
All it took for me was a pair of Converse and a smile.
hidden inlet
Kind of in a "Miley Cyrus going from Hanna Montana to almost literally taking a wrecking ball to her old image" kind of way.
wicked jungle
i really miss having actors that i am excited for instead of thinking "hey it's america's butt again!"
it didnt matter how many movies had johnny depp, he was a joy to watch cause he actually acted differently for every role
but now it's just 🥲 you again?
hidden inlet
Not me getting excited for representation for people with ASD only to realize it's sponsored or co-created by Autism Speaks.
hidden inlet
Uuuuuugh.
supple brook
WHAT A SHITSHOW HUH
hidden inlet
I'm gonna download it somewhere so I can hate-watch it without any money going to her with some friends.
Would be hilla-
Oh my God.
supple brook
I'm sure you know this but it's supposed to be extremely extremely triggering
hidden inlet
No nevermind, I thought I had a brilliant plan.
I know. My friends know. It's actually disgusting on multiple levels.
Actual movie, the characters, the director, the production, everything around the production.
Only person I actually feel bad for is Maddie Ziegler.
supple brook
This movie has it all: racism, ableism, probably homophobia honestly, it's a package deal!
Same
I don't like that she's still defending it now though
hidden inlet
Broke down in tears because she knew how fucked up it was and got pushed into doing it anyway.
supple brook
But the girl is groomed beyond belief so can you blame her
Yeah I know :/ it's awful
hidden inlet
I don't like that she's still defending it now though
I mean, yeah, but honestly, I feel like she would be more receptive to a calm approach.
Which is not something I normally say.
Because I don't normally think we owe ignorant people a calm approach.
supple brook
Nah yeah I definitely agree with you
hidden inlet
But I really think that she deserves it.
wicked jungle
this sh*tshow of a movie was the first wakeup call for me that sia sucks as person
hidden inlet
Sucks, because I really like her music, but it really puts her music video of "The Greatest" in a new light, doesn't it?
wicked jungle
it's hard to have many emotions still attached to her music before she got bigger with how she came out to be
when did it go wrong?
she started with music telling of her issues with alcholo and how she had issues with her dad because of it
hidden inlet
Before: "She's paying attention and respect to the victims of the Orlando shooting."
After: "Dear God, she's pointing at gay shooting victims and going 'bit sad, innit?' Christ."
wicked jungle
how do you become such a disgusting human coming for a horrible background? shouldnt you know better? shouldnt you wish the best for your muse and people who say "thank you, your music saved me"?
hidden inlet
She probably thinks she's doing the right thing, too.
wicked jungle
every time common sense becomes more uncommon it just breaks my heart and i lose all hope for humanity
yeah that's just... gosh
hidden inlet
Homegirl really apologized for creating the movie... in her Golden Globe speech.
Can you be less sincere.
wicked jungle
oh yeah, dont bring in award shows
that and award show critics are honestly horrible
didnt cuties get multiple awards? holy wow, what happened
supple brook
"so sorry for all the money I made with this movie suckers x"
hidden inlet
Not Get Out winning Best Comedy because they thought the horrors black people face was just that funny.
hidden inlet
Oh no, correction, it was nominated for Best Comedy, I think.
https://www.bustle.com/p/why-is-get-out-nominated-as-a-comedy-at-the-2018-golden-globes-the-horror-movie-isnt-exactly-a-laugh-riot-6789813
"On Nov. 14, Entertainment Weekly confirmed that Get Out's production company Blumhouse and distributor Universal, was submitted in consideration as a comedy at the 2018 Golden Globe Awards."
wicked jungle
"American Cinema Editors January 26, 2018 Best Edited Feature Film – Comedy or Musical"
is get out a musical now?
5 award-nominations for "comedy" are you kidding me?
hidden inlet
I was low-key wondering whether I needed to explain how this links to institutional white supremacy, but I feel like this is just "on the nose Onion article" levels of clearly absurd.
Yeah, I know right? Remember that moment where that black guy got kidnapped? Fucking comedy gold.
I- can we just usurp the awards or something?
Just have a livesteamed take over and just award exclusively alphabet mafia and POC media in the appropriate categories?
I can't believe I had to add that last part to the sentence.
hidden inlet
didnt cuties get multiple awards? holy wow, what happened
https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/news/cuties-netflix-oscars-nominations-controversy-b1722258.html Also, yes, but Netflix seems to be criminally indicted as well, so... yay?
hidden inlet
I won't.
wicked jungle
not you i meant
idk
idk what i meant, it's horrible and the reviews are disgusting and why would anyone post such a review holy shit
wicked jungle
||yes||
hidden inlet
||One prominent review is literally "I'm attracted to children and got what I wanted from the movie."||
TW: P*dophilia.
hidden inlet
No, but honestly, I'm thankful he made the video, because it highlights exactly the problem with the movie.
hidden inlet
Yeah, we should tbh.
hidden inlet
Visited my mom for her birthday.
At a lot.
She's anti-vax and COVID denier tho.
That wasn't fun.
Don't mind me just sending a lot of messages.
wicked jungle
happy birthday to your mom still 💛
hidden inlet
Just pushing up the previous messages. 😐
hidden inlet
It was fun.
hidden inlet
Memes.
wicked jungle
i only have deadname memes ._.
had a "everybody calls me deadname" day yesterday and memes were the only way to combat it
so if you have anything: yes plz ;w;?
hidden inlet
Oh God, I have barely anything. Need to scrounge up some stuff.
wicked jungle
relateable 😂
hidden inlet
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1QCeS1XRqis Not a meme, but I feel like this has gay coming out vibes and I'll take anything.
I know she's not gay, but honestly, looking at this image makes me feel safe.
Petition to give Dolly Parton a giant glowing sword and diplomatic immunity.
Just remembered I probably shouldn't even mention anything... It's really hard to talking about not mentioning something without mentioning something.
wicked jungle
i love three gender memes so much
wicked jungle
instructions unclear, the kids are now bi
hidden inlet
Oh God, I remember the first or second day I joined this server and were shooting the shit, started talking about Greta Thunberg.
wicked jungle
what?!
hidden inlet
Was meming about how it would be great if she led just took a horde to the United Nations and claimed it as her own.
Someone mentioned she got close and I found this.
When I tell you I fucking s c r e a m e d.
"I am done asking for your financial support."
Aight, that's enough memes, I think. 😅
hidden inlet
k one more good night
charred needle
That's me
timid bane
yyyyyep
lusty thorn
@whole peak please come feel called out by this with me
pure oxide
Bi, but yes
whole peak
<@!192561208522440704> please come feel called out by this with me
Oh no it me
faint jacinth
I'm bi but yeah
Has anyone seen the mitchells vs the machines? It's relevant to the channel i swear 😂
ancient vapor
I havent seen it yet but ya the main characters gay ent she?
pure oxide
I wanna watch it so bad! I think it's in the agenda for today.
faint jacinth
I loved it!
||do this work?||
Ok sorry i didn't want to ruin it if the spoilers didn't work 😂
So yeah, i loved it, but ||maybe i felt it was somewhat disappointing because a friend that watched it first said it was one of her favourite parts of the movie and i thought the plot included something more about it but literally nothing says she's lgtb until a comment in the end (and it's a passing comment) and because she wears a rainbow pin||
wicked jungle
i am so tempted to click 👀
faint jacinth
It's not very spoilery just what i thought about a thing in particular, but it could be a spoiler i guess?
blissful granite
So yeah, i loved it, but ||maybe i felt it was somewhat disappointing because a ...
I hate that. It feels like movies exploit us for our money just to see presence.
The whole Star Wars gay kiss or whatever it was felt extremely exploitative because it was a nothing background don't-even-notice-it thing.
fallow whale
They want to keep the biggest possible demographic
fallow whale
The whole Star Wars gay kiss or whatever it was felt extremely exploitative beca...
The kiss was hilarious to me because of how insignificant it was
pearl sleet
Guess im pansexual leaning towarda men
fallow whale
That's cool
blissful granite
There's very few major-budget movies in the industry that treats a gay character with any level of dignity or realism.
faint jacinth
I hate that. It feels like movies exploit us for our money just to see presence...
Exactly! And don't get me wrong i really liked but it was just...||some indirect comments like "I'm different" and "dont deny that you love who you love" or something along those lines and nothing more and like...k?||
Sorry for all the spoilers but it's something that somehow affected how i watched and maybe could happen to someone else and i don't want that
faint jacinth
The whole Star Wars gay kiss or whatever it was felt extremely exploitative beca...
Or like the lesbian policewoman on onward, things that are easily changeable when translated to other languages, i think in russian she says husband instead of girlfriend?
blissful granite
see that just angers me
either you have something to say or you exploit people who will give you money
faint jacinth
They want to keep the biggest possible demographic
Yeah, that, like "we will have a lgtbi+ char but dont make it too obvious so i don't lose viewers that dont like lgtbi+ characters"
blissful granite
russia desperately needs representation
faint jacinth
Yeah! It's sad and effed how the russian community is treated :/
faint jacinth
either you have something to say or you exploit people who will give you money
I'm not asking for every lgtbi+ trope imaginable in every piece of media that has us but don't play it safe either. If it's something that can get edited and passed as straight is not good representation imho
blissful granite
Honestly I don't trust most straight folk to create gay characters that are realistic, in any facet of entertainment, because they have a preconceived notion of us and don't talk to us about it.
fallow whale
I mean it's not impossible, just requires research
graceful geyser
yeah exactly, like anything
fallow whale
Consultation is easy
blissful granite
Right, but who does the research?
graceful geyser
ideally the author, or at least the author looks at existing studies online
blissful granite
Just take a few hours of your time at a roundtable.
wicked jungle
apparently supergiant games and some farm sims with allowed same-sex marriage
blissful granite
the vast majority of farm sim games do not bother with the research.
wicked jungle
but it's easier for gamedevs since it's become the norm to have alpha players who can give critiques
graceful geyser
I think rick riordan is meant to be okay
i enjoy his queer characters
wicked jungle
movies and series have it harder -especially now when series arent shot week to week to wait for community feedback
blissful granite
but it's easier for gamedevs since it's become the norm to have alpha players wh...
That's optimistic. Unfortunately I don't see the fruit of the labor.
wicked jungle
you need to do all the research beforehand and hope that what you take from it to the movie makes it out ok
i'm just comparing game devs to movie/series makers
blissful granite
Characters are often nonsexual. That is, simply basing a heterosexual relationship and transferring it to a model character that just happens to identify as the same sex.
fallow whale
Really you just have to accept that there Will be pushback
wicked jungle
it's definitvely easier in that regard, but outside, definitively very optimistic
i can only say that fallout new vegas and hades definitively trumped all my expectations when it came to their lgbt+ characters
faint jacinth
I sometimes do roleplay (the writing kind) and two of the cis girls i mostly write with got obsessed with mlm and that's all they want to write lately and like 😬
wicked jungle
that's a popular fantasy trope tho, idk why tho
fallow whale
I sometimes do roleplay (the writing kind) and two of the cis girls i mostly wri...
I thought you meant characters you wrote at first lol
faint jacinth
It's fine and i have had mlm characters too
dark patio
That sort of thing often comes off as fetishizing
wicked jungle
yep
faint jacinth
Nono, i don't care, it would be hipocritical(sp?) of me to say its bad. But only wanting to write that in an kind of obsessive way...eh
fallow whale
What's writing role play?
dark patio
Especially if they’re cishet and are obsessive
faint jacinth
Like they managed to make me hate shameless because they got obsessed with two gay characters and obly talked about it
dark patio
Like, my boyfriend and I write a BUNCH of mlm ships when we roleplay, but that’s because we are mlm
So we’re writing the representation we want in ships.
But then cishet girls doing it comes across as seeing guys like us only as something to drool over, not as people
faint jacinth
Especially if they’re cishet and are obsessive
One i believe is starting to realise shes bi but she still has some very very problematic stuff to unlearn (she told me she felt bi because she liked two trans men from tiktok)
wicked jungle
you can still write about such stuff without being gay or such, but once it turns to fetishizing or to simply fishing for inclusivity-likes: that's disgusting
dark patio
Doing it obsessively, where that’s all they want to write, I mean
wicked jungle
yee
dark patio
What's writing role play?
It’s basically like, you come up with characters or pick characters you like, and you write about what they do
wicked jungle
One i believe is starting to realise shes bi but she still has some very very pr...
goodness ;-;
faint jacinth
Yeah that's my issue, we have many characters, straight, bi, gay, lesbians, but they only are paying attention to the mlm now and 😬
fallow whale
It’s basically like, you come up with characters or pick characters you like, an...
I see
So like characterisation practice
dark patio
In terms of characters you might be familiar with, Lily, my boyfriend will write Tamaki, and I write Mirio, and we basically write fanfic together just for us.
supple brook
I know often "cishet girls" like that later realize they're trans, nb, or just queer in general but some really are just gross and fetishizing as fuvk
fallow whale
Oh cool
wicked jungle
it's sad
faint jacinth
goodness ;-;
Yeah, had to tell her that's not being bi, she likes cis women do so i don't really understand what that csme from, but she used to say she only liked peens(with me telling her that some women have it too) its a whole thing. At least she has me to correct her i guess.
dark patio
I know often "cishet girls" like that later realize they're trans, nb, or just q...
Sometimes, but I’ve been in the tumblr rp community for years and there’s an uncomfortable about of genuine cishet girls fetishizing mlm and demonizing wlw in the same breath
wicked jungle
i am confusion
supple brook
Sometimes, but I’ve been in the tumblr rp community for years and there’s an unc...
Oh yeah that's very true, I hate it
faint jacinth
What's writing role play?
Yeah, you can write about show characters or original characters and write about them. It's fun, but kind of also problematic sometimes.
fallow whale
Tumblr sure is something
wicked jungle
Yeah, had to tell her that's not being bi, she likes cis women do so i don't rea...
so she likes girls but also liked some trans men from tiktok but also likes male parts but also... what?
dark patio
It sure is. And yeah, some people do rp some problematic things but it’s best to just avoid that
fallow whale
I mean every site is awful lol
dark patio
so she likes girls but also liked some trans men from tiktok but also likes male...
It sounds like she liked men, and then said she was bi because she also likes trans men, implying trans men aren’t men
fallow whale
That's a yikes
dark patio
My boyfriend and I use a bot called tupper in our private server, so we can have the characters we rp text back and forth.
pearl sleet
Nono, i don't care, it would be hipocritical(sp?) of me to say its bad. But only...
(Hypocritical)
wicked jungle
fetishizing minorities is digusting and such a huge problem
even outsideof sexual or romantic relationships. there was a "trend" on tiktok with some girl dreaming about asian babies and then meeting one asian guy just to have a child with him and iam so disturbed at how many were just commenting "omg same" or "time to go to asia" like?!?!?!?? WTF
faint jacinth
so she likes girls but also liked some trans men from tiktok but also likes male...
I'll try to rephrase, I'm spanish and sometimes struggle with the language 😭 So she's always said she liked cis men because of the male parts, then she started to realise she also liked cis women and the other day she told me the problematic comment of "im starting to realise im bi because trans men on tiktok"
wicked jungle
ah ok gotcha, thank you so much, the "she likes cis women do so i don't really understand what that csme from" really confused me - you're good, your english is fantastic!
dark patio
fetishizing minorities is digusting and such a huge problem
even outsideof sexua...
That is deeply disturbing
faint jacinth
Which i obviously corrected but she knows better than that and i was appalled
fallow whale
Lol the other day some dude joined a trans server just to message me asking if we Could "have fun"
dark patio
Disgusting
wicked jungle
one of my ex-best friends dropped her latino boyfriend because she wanted asian babies andi'm just disturbed?!?! this is the real life
graceful geyser
ew ew ew
wicked jungle
LIKE HOW
dark patio
Oh people are terrible
faint jacinth
People are...no
dark patio
That makes me so sad
wicked jungle
same
pearl sleet
This is really disturbing
wicked jungle
welcome to the disturb chat 2021
fallow whale
I tried to get what server he joined so I could report him but he "forgot"
dark patio
Did you check what servers you have in common?
wicked jungle
oh big ew D:
faint jacinth
I'm like...patient with my friend because she has lot of shit to learn that she didn't bother to because she was just straight ñ but yeah she has some comments thst oh boy, oh boy
fallow whale
Did you check what servers you have in common?
He had already left the server
dark patio
Awful
faint jacinth
But yeah the mlm obsession makes me uncomfy
dark patio
I have to go back to training. Talk to you all later.
wicked jungle
have fun!
fallow whale
He was all like "don't worry I love trans"
pearl sleet
I'm like...patient with my friend because she has lot of shit to learn that she ...
Well we all have those yikes comments that we said. As long as she learns and grows from her mistakes they arent a problem
wicked jungle
He was all like "don't worry I love trans"
OH NO HONEY NONONO
fallow whale
And asking if I'm a virgin lol
faint jacinth
He was all like "don't worry I love trans"
Oh jesus f
fallow whale
I have the whole chat saved if anyone wants to see it
pearl sleet
Lets not
wicked jungle
also people undermining your sexuality if you are under the bisexual-mbrella are such a norm
pearl sleet
Please
dark patio
Yeah coming back real quick. Let’s not share things like that please.
faint jacinth
Well we all have those yikes comments that we said. As long as she learns and gr...
For sure, she knows she can ask me and i sent her many accounts of lgtb peeps (activists) she can learn more from
dark patio
I know we’re all venting here but this server IS a PG server.
fallow whale
I don't mean in a public chat lol
pearl sleet
For sure, she knows she can ask me and i sent her many accounts of lgtb peeps (a...
Thats good! She is showing willingness to learn and that is something I really respect
wicked jungle
"hey you are bi but in a straight relationship, ugh you're sucha fraud" SHUT UP
pearl sleet
"hey you are bi but in a straight relationship, ugh you're sucha fraud" SHUT UP
GOD THIS THIS THIS THIS
faint jacinth
I hate that very much
wicked jungle
or just telling you to never mention how you like other genders outsie of your partners
pearl sleet
I'm not gonna date all genders at the same wtf
wicked jungle
I'm not gonna date all genders at the same wtf
i mean, i would 👀
blissful granite
Sometimes you have to ask why they think you're a fraud for them to talk about what they really mean.
pearl sleet
Or attempt to cheat on my partner
fallow whale
Lol I'm too jealous to date more then one person
wicked jungle
Sometimes you have to ask why they think you're a fraud for them to talk about w...
because that's a straight relationship. while you are in that relationship you are just considered straight.
pearl sleet
i mean, i would 👀
Well i mean like
Im having a hard time explaining what i mean
pearl sleet
Ohhhh
wicked jungle
cause i'm shaking and trying to shake it off
pearl sleet
Sorry
wicked jungle
need some funs in my sad lgbt life
pearl sleet
Big hugs for everyone
wicked jungle
awww alex 
pearl sleet
faint jacinth
Like, I'm very much closeted for most everyone outside the internet because...you all now why and people i no longer have contact with had a weird obsession with me being a lesbian because i never had a boyfriend
wicked jungle
i just remember talking to a guy and mentioning how i'm pan and they were just like "yeah, dont mention that in my vicinity"
WELL THEN YOU AINT A RELATIONSHIP CANDIDATE FOR ME BUDDY; ADIOS
faint jacinth
????
faint jacinth
Yeah no
fallow whale
Lol a girl on tinder once thought I was likelier to cheat because I said I was pan
graceful geyser
tf
proper knot
Some people just don't know jack about stuff like this
graceful geyser
ew
proper knot
And yep, eew
wicked jungle
at the same time i'm thankful that it's just easy af to find people you are 100% incompatible with but at the same time it hurts so bad when you just truly KLICK but then they come out with such bs
proper knot
Is the gif I needed
https://c.tenor.com/Iaefbnwl7TsAAAAM/drag-race-alyssa-edwards.gif
blissful granite
Some people believe that because the candidate pool is significantly wider, that their own insecurities show that there's someone better than them.
wicked jungle
yeah or those "how can you be single, you have so many options" i have standards buddy. i dont want to romance everything that looks human shaped.
proper knot
Well said Marmy
faint jacinth
Is the gif I needed
https://c.tenor.com/Iaefbnwl7TsAAAAM/drag-race-alyssa-edward...
I love that moment on dr and the drama that followed 😩😂
fallow whale
Also tinder is awful lol
wicked jungle
yep
wicked jungle
also where is our pun-lord at
faint jacinth
For some reason all the peeps i like and talk a lot with on tinder end uo with a couple
Clearly i have some kind of bad superpower
(bad for me)
fallow whale
A monkey's paw curse
wicked jungle
you are cupid
faint jacinth
That or i end up being ghosted which ofc hurts more than the other thing
wicked jungle
yeah that's dating in a nutshell once you ignore all those "lovey dovey tall girl to all the boys i loved before" tropes
fallow whale
My gf is the person who we insisted we were just friends for like 5 years lol
wicked jungle
but that's nice
faint jacinth
you are cupid
I think one has been like 6 years with his gf and the other one lile...3 and they are moving together. The other one i don't know because he ghosted and then got into a relationship in like weeks so i don't care if they are still a thing 😂😂
wicked jungle
having a definite friend-connection outside of anything sexual or romantic
faint jacinth
Yeah!
wicked jungle
yeah you are 100% cupid 😂
fallow whale
but that's nice
Also mildly annoying about our friends and her family being right about us lol
wicked jungle
now just wait for your psyche to your eros?
faint jacinth
I'm old, they're very late 😂
wicked jungle
aww it's ok, some more time for them to ripen(?) for your love
love is like wine no?
fallow whale
Yeah there's no need to rush
Mine was a total surprise
Always seems to happen when you're not actually looking
wicked jungle
yeah, most stuff nowadays comes with immediate results or such, like you immediately get ordered stuff shipped or can immediately watch a whole show onceit's out, hence maybe we might feel desperate for quick love
but relationships take time *shrug
faint jacinth
Mine was a total surprise
That's very cute though
fallow whale
Covid was good for one thing lol
faint jacinth
I have many issues/traumas i have to get over and unlearn before i get into any kind of romantic relationship i think
wicked jungle
same
faint jacinth
I find the smallest red flag in them and wave goodbye
fallow whale
I always had a selfish want for her to not date anyone because I didn't want to have to spend less time with her
wicked jungle
i left my last relationship with somebody else who i was very dear to and who was very dear to me and basically helped me get out of there waiting for me, but that last relationship really made i clear to me that i cant start any romantic relationships for now, but i feel bad
fallow whale
I find the smallest red flag in them and wave goodbye
It's okay to be selective with personality stuff
faint jacinth
Hahaha, the person i was talking that had a weird obsession with my sexuality assumed i was in love with my best friend too because i didn't like her partners (she only dated awful men)
fallow whale
I always had a selfish want for her to not date anyone because I didn't want to ...
Just realised this sounds worse then I thought I did lol
wicked jungle
lool that's valid tho, some people do have garbage senses for relationships
faint jacinth
It's okay to be selective with personality stuff
Yeah, but like...i mean redflags that probably wouldn't be for any one else, like any minuscule reason to not date them or stop contact. If i like them they get a couple tho. And if they aren't men the thing just doesn't work i guess, i don't know why
fallow whale
You can't date someone that you can't stand
wicked jungle
but that's ok
if you find red flags that you know you are uncomfortable with - why should you be with them?
faint jacinth
lool that's valid tho, some people do have garbage senses for relationships
Yeah, i didn't like his current partner because we don't live near and she only told me the bad stuff so i don't know how she expected for me to like him 😂 she has some stuff thst i still don't like but its not my life
wicked jungle
you dont owe anybody a relationship - especially not when you find something that makes you uncomfortable to a point
fallow whale
Yeah, that's more eloquent then what I wrote lol
wicked jungle
eloquency is my 55th last name 😂
but yeah the fact about red flags tho: i dont understand how some people keep ignoring them and then later get hurt and not learn from that experience
fallow whale
Also where did my gf go
wicked jungle
sleep?
faint jacinth
Yeah, ofc, i meant stuff like...the guy getting defensive because i told him i dont like his favourite actor was a redflag in one case 😂
fallow whale
I go to the bathroom and she disappears
fallow whale
She isn't downstairs
wicked jungle
Yeah, ofc, i meant stuff like...the guy getting defensive because i told him i d...
oooh, how defensive was he 👀
wicked jungle
She isn't downstairs
roof?
graceful geyser
could text her?
wicked jungle
yeah probably
fallow whale
I Could call out lol
wicked jungle
your gf was kidnapped by a georgian spy organization, she was a hitman back in the day and got found out *nodnod
fallow whale
Before she was even 12?
wicked jungle
i'm turning 22 this summer, i can already feel the weather in my bones tho 😩
fallow whale
I'm 22 on the 27th
graceful geyser
does 22 feel old? asking as a 19 yr old who feels 12
fallow whale
I worry if I haven't achieved enough for my age
wicked jungle
does 22 feel old? asking as a 19 yr old who feels 12
you must have been blessed by the deities of youth
graceful geyser
not really it's more
"oh shit i am not old enough for this responsibility"
fallow whale
Hey I can hear my gf
wicked jungle
absolutely, every day i only have neough energy for one thing (cause depression and anemia dont mix lol) but it still feels like i achieved nothing
fallow whale
Not kidnapped
She's quite loud lmao
So I worry when it's quiet
Like a small child
wicked jungle
ok? 😂
hidden inlet
not really it's more
"oh shit i am not old enough for this responsibility"
Honestly, 23 and I still feel that way.
wicked jungle
it's weird that kids just get left off in "responsibility lane" without any warning
like i thought we were going to mcdonalds smh :c
wicked jungle
i still laughed, good joke, well done 😂
hidden inlet
We love the "You're an adult now" - "You're still a child" teenage limbo.
graceful geyser
yess
fallow whale
I'm mentally 5
fallow whale
i still laughed, good joke, well done 😂
Oh thanks, I can't read tone at all
Aw she's going to bed
I guess that means I'll have to go up soon
Or it's too spooky
hidden inlet
Honestly, would've preferred the limbo to just "Let me do that for you; you can't be trusted with responsibilities" and just entering adulthood like
fallow whale
Ban adulthood
wicked jungle
the worst is when you already have to take responsibility from a younger age and later as you approach the mark of "adulthood" everybody just forgets
"hey i actually helped with the wifi contracts last year" "yes but you are a child" "ifnpoöafp!??!!?!"
fallow whale
My biggest adult fear is cars lol
wicked jungle
do you have your drivers license or do you mean in a different way? :o
hidden inlet
My biggest adult fear is other adults.
fallow whale
I never finished learning to drive
I avoided learning because my step father would scream at me the whole time
fallow whale
I guess I'll have to
wicked jungle
depends on what kind of place you live tbh
fallow whale
My city is okay for transport
wicked jungle
i cant learn to drive but it isnt an issue here because the city transport is fantastique
wicked jungle
sorry you didnt have a good experience with your step-father :c
fallow whale
I still don't lol
hidden inlet
I'm glad I don't have to deal with shite step-parents. Fuck both my gransfathers tho.
wicked jungle
do you still have to socialize alot with him?
fallow whale
I haven't talked to him since he said my grandfather would be turning in his grave about me because I asked my mum for rent money when I was sick February last year
hidden inlet
Good call.
wicked jungle
I'm glad I don't have to deal with shite step-parents. Fuck both my gransfathers...
sounds like you also dont have to deal with shite parents? :o
hidden inlet
I mean, how do I say this...
fallow whale
For context my grandfather had just died in December of the year before
wicked jungle
wow insensitive much?
yeah good call breaking off contact with him
he's a horrible human being for being like that wow
fallow whale
I genuinely think he's the worst person I've ever known
I could give hundreds of examples
fallow whale
I think she just doesn't want to be alone
wicked jungle
oh
hidden inlet
My mom's great and I have a lot of respect for her for keeping me alive as a poorer single mom. My dad's not abusive, but he's really spineless and distant and I just can't respect him as a parent, tbh.
hidden inlet
I think she just doesn't want to be alone
Oof, I have a friend with a dad who's like that. Speaking of horrible stepparents, Christ.
wicked jungle
huge respect for your mom
fallow whale
My mom's great and I have a lot of respect for her for keeping me alive as a poo...
Same with My dad
I just don't have any feelings at all for him
wicked jungle
me with my family outside of parents ._.
families are complicated i dont understand how people work with them
hidden inlet
Like, my dad's mom worked herself into a... I don't know how to say it in English, but she tasked herself with taking care of her abusive wheelchair-bound husband, my dad's dad. Physically abused her until it was literally impossible to do so and now he doesn't want to go to a home because he gets homesick and misses his wife, apparently.
wicked jungle
couldnt imagine inviting basically strangers to a festivity just because we share dna
but that's just because i didnt grow up with them hm
fallow whale
At least half of me wants to cut off my family completely
hidden inlet
She worked so hard, her nervous system gave in and she was temporarily blind in one eye and one side of her body just gave out and she had to be hospitalized.
fallow whale
My step father ruined my relationship with my mum
wicked jungle
sweet davy jones oh no that sounds horrible
hidden inlet
Reason why I think my dad's spineless is because he just dismisses this as "true love on my mom's side" and "that's just the way he is".
fallow whale
Sorry to hear that
wicked jungle
"true love" is such bs i hate when people excuse their partners behavior because of something that has to be worked for and something that is build on respect and not some fantasy goo-y princess bs
hidden inlet
I mean, I'm fine. I've processed everything. I just hope my grandma outlives her husband or sees the light and leaves so she can enjoy her old age.
fallow whale
I wish my mum was as strong
hidden inlet
Oh my grandma's a fucking badass. Was incredibly cool with me being gay and even exchanged some boy stories. 😛
wicked jungle
;w;
hidden inlet
Hope I can get vaccinated quickly, so I can visit her safely. :/
wicked jungle
i wanna send her a bouquet of respect lol
grandparents who are accepting are the most badass people to ever exist
a dream come true for most, i'm happy your got her in your life :)
hidden inlet
Wish I had my own place so I could send a note just saying "Call me whenever and I'll pick you up out of there and you can stay at my place".
wicked jungle
precious 🥺
hidden inlet
Inb4 y'all get engaged and they'll be like "Are those friendship rings? 'w' "
wicked jungle
sounds like this victorian era story of an aunt who moved in with their best friend (female) and their family not understanding that they share a romantic relationship 😂
fallow whale
We haven't told them because it would be awkward after denying it for so long
wicked jungle
"of course! we are getting a friendship wedding, that's how much we platonically care for each other!"
it's ok, you can take your time 💙
fallow whale
God I'm gonna get ribbed so much
graceful geyser
like that post about a same sex wedding and a comment was smth like "how nice getting married on the same day as your best friend, shame no pictures of their husbands"
fallow whale
Yeah lol
fallow whale
Her brother is moving in with us next year
wicked jungle
oh
fallow whale
I'm like do I pretend to sleep in my room
fallow whale
as long as they would be supportive tho? :o
Yeah they're cool
graceful geyser
if i felt safe to do so in that situation i'd be so tempted to just be as gay as possible until i got asked
fallow whale
I think it'll be kinda awkward
fallow whale
Small apartment lol
fallow whale
if i felt safe to do so in that situation i'd be so tempted to just be as gay as...
Oh yeah it's perfectly safe
Like I said it's mostly just us not wanting to admit that they were right about us
graceful geyser
fair
fallow whale
I'm petty
wicked jungle
aww but it's kinda adorable, they felt like you two being in a relationship would just fit
hidden inlet
Like I said it's mostly just us not wanting to admit that they were right about ...
I get that. 😛 It's like "Okay, so it's true, but that doesn't mean you're right! > : ("
fallow whale
Her dad is ruthless lol
As in with embarrassing jokes and stuff
And my gf doesn't want to tell them because she said she wasn't interested in any relationship
Since she's aro/ace spec
I really ruined things for her lol
hidden inlet
I mean... well done. XD
fallow whale
It's funny because we talked about how we would like to keep living together way before we even thought about dating
Also went to our senior formal thing together(basically Australian prom I guess)
I joke to her that it was my plan to date since we first met at age 12
wicked jungle
adorable ;w;
ahh you two sound liek you have such a nice relationship
i wish you two nothing but the best for the future!
and also good luck with her fam 👀
fallow whale
Our biggest arguments are who has to pick what we watch lol
hidden inlet
Y'all sound wholesome as hell and I send y'all all the support.
fallow whale
I'm luckier then she is lol
fallow whale
looool how so?
I'm difficult
wicked jungle
so what
she still likes you very much
you are dear to her
both of you got blessed with each other - no matter how "difficult" you find yourself to be, it's a treat to talk to ya
fallow whale
I'm a smart ass and also she worries about me a lot
hidden inlet
I mean, you're supposed to worry about each other somewhat and being a smart ass doesn't have to be a bad thing either.
fallow whale
I make it hard to help me
wicked jungle
still
fallow whale
I mean, you're supposed to worry about each other somewhat and being a smart ass...
Oh I worry about her too, but she gives me a lot less to worry about then I do for her
wicked jungle
she is fine with all of those attributes, you have been friends for so long, i believe strongly that she sees above all that you say about yourself
fallow whale
I don't even know if I'd still be around without her
fallow whale
Yeah
I'm also spoilt lol
I used to worry if I somehow forced her Into the relationship
Well at the start of dating I mean
wicked jungle
and now you're more secure?
hidden inlet
I mean, hearing she knows you since the two of you were twelve, she's probably aware of every flaw you can put words to already and still decided to date you.
That's a decision she made.
fallow whale
Going from friends to dating was weird because functionally not much changed at first
Besides handful of obvious stuff but day to day was basically the same
faint jacinth
oooh, how defensive was he 👀
Like...saying i was nuts and didn't have any idea of cinema level of defensive
fallow whale
I think we're more physically affectionate nowadays
faint jacinth
Feels old af
Please im gonna be 30 in two months, dont make me feel ancient 😂😂
fallow whale
Sorry lol
I feel ancient in a personal sense so don't worry
University has truly sapped my soul
faint jacinth
It's fine, i think we all think the same things growing up. And also you are definitely very young, don't feel rushed because you "haven't achieved" what other people your age have.
wicked jungle
flashbacks to every young person who has achieved so much more in life than me 😭
fallow whale
I feel bad because of My friends with jobs lol
faint jacinth
I still live with my mom because moving out in spain is vey hard. I'm also currently studying and I'm probably not going to finish until I'm 35+
Well i had a job and was let go at the same time that a lot of people because we were freelancers and they didn't want to pay more taxes 😂
faint jacinth
I lived ib germany for a year and worked as a server when i was 23,then i lived in ireland for several months, then got a job in Spain and now I'm studying again something i don't like so I can study the thing that i do like
fallow whale
I miss my birth country lol
faint jacinth
Like, i felt the same way then I did a bunch of things i didn't think i was able to do because anxiety
What is your birth country? If you feel ok with sharing
fallow whale
Not having citizen rights in Australia sucks ass
fallow whale
What is your birth country? If you feel ok with sharing
United kingdom
London born but I'm mostly Irish/English with some Scottish
faint jacinth
I haven't ever been to the UK, and like... I think its an hour plane flight away from where i live 😂
fallow whale
My deadname is basically irish o'irish
graceful geyser
eyy i'm from uk
faint jacinth
Oh i see, I've only been to ireland, limerick and cork
So not even the most touristy places
fallow whale
But yeah as an immigrant Australia sucks
faint jacinth
:/ that sucks
fallow whale
Even though I have dual citizenship as an nz citizen
faint jacinth
I would love to go but i think i would be allergic to everything
fallow whale
Summer fucks up my eyes real bad lol
Don't get me wrong though, I do like Australia besides citizenship stuff
If I was super rich I'd jump back and forth from the uk and here
Or I'd just travel everywhere lol
Being rich would be pretty sweet
I could bring back spectacular spiderman
And every other good cancelled animated show
faint jacinth
Hahaha, I've only been out of Europe once and i went to California
My brother has been to Mexico, Brazil and Argentina
fallow whale
I've been to quite a few places but sadly mostly when I was a kid
faint jacinth
I come from a poor family so the only time i was out of the country as a kid was to futurescope in France when i was 12 and it was a school trip, we went in a bus, the travel to and from was almost longer than what we spent in the park 😂
fallow whale
I only got to travel because of My grandparents
fallow whale
Little shit me didn't know how lucky I was
fallow whale
I hope owl house season 2 is more explicitly gay
Make witch mom gay 2021
Gotta get past the Disney firewall
mellow sand
Amity needs to ask out Luz fairly quickly. So we can get all that adorable awkward gayness.
fallow whale
I heard the creator said that luz is bi
Also I found out the owl house subreddit is super gay which is nice
fallow whale
Amity needs to ask out Luz fairly quickly. So we can get all that adorable awkwa...
I reckon they're gonna draw it out a lot
I need the cute gay shit to balance out my brain chemistry
mellow sand
Yeah. I wanna hope they will not but I expect I will be disappointed. And at least there are decent fan fics/art/comics for a fix.
fallow whale
One can hope
charred needle
kinda very tired of cishet allies acting like they know better than actual LGBTQIA+ people
wicked jungle
your identity and attraction arent a theme for discussion for other people, that's it :))))))
whoever disagrees: meet me in the allyway :))))))))))
fallow whale
whoever disagrees: meet me in the allyway :))))))))))
Damn, I'm actually mildly intimated lol
It's the smiley faces
wicked jungle
yey, after all these years i'm still feared
wicked jungle
well what would you categorize as "most horror movies"?
fallow whale
The vast majority of horror films?
wicked jungle
psychological horror too or just hollywood's awkward jumpscare movies?
fallow whale
Accidentally playing silent hill 1 at age 7 made me immune to psychological horror lol
But yeah, most Hollywood horror is crappy
fallow whale
I do like the shining
Only problem with modern horror is jumpscares get to me just because I'm really jumpy
wicked jungle
yeah it's such a cheap way to startle you ;-;
fallow whale
Shit horror can be entertaining at least
wicked jungle
or gore - have nothing against a bit of it but sometimes it goes too far
fallow whale
I Also dislike misery porn so to speak
wicked jungle
horror in the sense of stuff about serial killers is definitively the most entertainment you can find from horror stuff haha
still remember buzzfeed unsolved
fallow whale
Isn't it going on another channel now
wicked jungle
yep
fallow whale
Real life is the ultimate horror
fallow whale
You roll for difficulty modifiers at the start
wicked jungle
but it's nice to be able to sit in bed all cozy and warm disassociating from real life wondering about hypothetical horrors that actually happened forgetting real life exists
do you even roll ;-;
fallow whale
Trans survival horror do be spooky
wicked jungle
that would be an interesting indie title
fallow whale
Just like resident evil
wicked jungle
i would be too scared to try it (as weak as horrormovies are, the thought of doing the choices yourself in the dark is too much sometimes)
fallow whale
God I love re 4
wicked jungle
re is great, i always forget which part is which ;-;
fallow whale
That's okay
wicked jungle
thank you ;-;
wicked jungle
baby police boy 😭
wicked jungle
huh apparently re 4 is coming out to vr?
fallow whale
Wtf lol
charred needle
your identity and attraction arent a theme for discussion for other people, that...
was this directed towards anything 
wicked jungle
just towards those cishet lads you mentioned who think they know better about your lgbt identity 😊
charred needle
oh yeah yes
yeah its annoying i see it all the time
especially when cishet people try to speak for us non-binary people and dont even let us say anything its like 😩 man
wicked jungle
*bold*
fallow whale
Silence cishets
wicked jungle
ikr!
fallow whale
Thanks sandra
charred needle
imma be honest i know more allies that act like theyre better than allies that are actually good allies
wicked jungle
also if you wanna show how to make fancy text: \ is the way
charred needle
Thanks sandra
nemas problemas, i love your pfp
fallow whale
Thanks my gf made it on a thingy
wicked jungle
;w;
cosmic basin
also if you wanna show how to make fancy text: \ is the way
Wait how exactly? \like this?\
Lmao
That's a no
charred needle
Thanks my gf made it on a thingy
a picrew?
cosmic basin
Hahahah
wicked jungle
i forgot it disappears 😂
fallow whale
My pink hair has faded irl😭
fallow whale
Flexin on my pic
charred needle
its kinda how i wanna look but more tats and also i cant have a moon head so 
wicked jungle
yesss
cosmic basin
Ugh I love it
wicked jungle
i would say "cant know it until you try it" but yeah, i dont think it's that easy to have a removeable head for moon accessories
fallow whale
I'm too weak for tattoos
wicked jungle
damn you pumpkin head man for those unnatural goals!
charred needle
i did this one the other day
wicked jungle
oooo so preciouso
charred needle
goth is a cool aesthetic
wicked jungle
my lgbt aesthetic: dad on holiday 😂
fallow whale
I mostly wear either cute pink shit or punk
wicked jungle
yes
fallow whale
Aww I like rats
charred needle
i hate how cis people are turning nb people into a third binary
if that makes any sense
fallow whale
Oh like lumping it all into one thing
charred needle
they act like being non-binary is all just the same and every non-binary person is a frog loving, non-gender conforming, androgynous, afab person
charred needle
and can i say
fallow whale
Feels awkward because I love frogs
wicked jungle
lol jinx? 😂
charred needle
i like frogs but i hate when people act like all non-binary people love frogs
charred needle
i HATE when someone is like "theydies and gentlethems"
wicked jungle
with that guy saying "turning the f*cking frogs gay"
supple brook
These jokes were fun until cis ppl got ahold of them and ruined them as always
charred needle
like we are more than just our pronouns and everyone non-binary persons pronoun isnt they/them
fallow whale
i HATE when someone is like "theydies and gentlethems"
Yeah that shit makes me cringe lol
charred needle
cis people always act like being non-binary is just diet gender
fallow whale
Diet gender is kinda a funny term
wicked jungle
honestly i can understand where people started with the "the theys" since it's the easiest way but it just got blown way out of proportion as always
same with the "bi people dont have friends, only prey *raptor noises" tumblr joke
charred needle
as someone thats a non-binary person that wants HRT and bottom surgery its really annoying and im often left out of the rest of the LGBTQIA+ community
wicked jungle
people who only accept the first 3 letters of the lgbt make me smad
fallow whale
I'm afraid of surgery
wicked jungle
ikr
charred needle
people who only accept the first 3 letters of the lgbt make me smad
wait a sec
fallow whale
I'm mad at the thought of having to justify myself to a doctor
Like I'm pretty sure I know what I want
wicked jungle
also after watching videos from trans youtubers talking about some of their docs who are specifically working with trans patients and still f*cking up on nearly every patient, holy shit how are you allowed to do those surgeries still and are even being recommended by therapists?????????
charred needle
i made it in 2 secs
wicked jungle
hahaha thank you
fallow whale
Based
wicked jungle
it fits perfectly
faint jacinth
i made it in 2 secs
and even then lg representation is bad / not enough
charred needle
yep
you know what annoys me
ive experienced it a few times and thats when i complain about wlw representation and someone is like "yeah well mlm representation is worse"
wicked jungle
the gays are always the "gay best friend" trope and the lesbians are just the "horny waman sleeping around" trope, i'm soooooooooooo tired
gay and lesbian people are people
stop fetishizing or idolizing them in such bs tropes
oh no, wlw representation SUCKS
but just on another level
cosmic basin
Gay people are used as accessories most of the time
wicked jungle
yes this!! i am so tired of that!!!!!!!!
cosmic basin
"This is the one gay character. They sleep around a lot haha but they are sassy and love shopping!!"
peak musk
Hollywood is just pure bs
fallow whale
Then boom, violent death
wicked jungle
"oh he's gay, he's got the walk and he likes shoes"
cosmic basin
"also, the voice"
wicked jungle
if i would take a shot for every gay character with "the voice" i'd be f*cking dead, but not from alcohol poisoning but because i drowned in alcholo.
peak musk
Those kind of portrayings made me feel like a bad gay for a while
cosmic basin
Hahahhaha yeah big same omg
peak musk
They're played by a cishet actor 😄
🤢
wicked jungle
They're played by a cishet actor 😄
i still dont understand that
everybody makes fun of "the gays" being the only boys in school theatre and later on none of them make it into movie theatre?
where we loosing "the gays" at?
cosmic basin
Well they're definitely out there
peak musk
Let's think about it... Which LGBT characters have been played by actual LGBT people movies ?
peak musk
But never cast because the heteros are preferred
Insert Rami Malek as Freddie Mercury
(as an example to validate that statement)
charred needle
Let's think about it... Which LGBT characters have been played by actual LGBT pe...
give me 8 hours and ill think of one example
peak musk
😂😭
peak musk
(Idk if the characters of Call me by your name are gay but we're not gonna talk about this movie anyways)
wicked jungle
Queer actor Keiynan Lonsdale had a breakout role playing gay high schooler Bram Greenfeld in 2018's "Love, Simon."
Adèle Haenel played Héloïse in the romantic drama "Portrait of a Lady on Fire." Both Haenel and Héloïse identify as lesbians.
cosmic basin
Umm
wicked jungle
Sasha Lane and her 2018 "The Miseducation of Cameron Post" character, Jane, both identify as queer.
i am just copy-pasting
cosmic basin
I haven't seen Euphoria, but Hunter Schafer?
They're trans but idk if their character is trans as well
peak musk
I was wondering...
Is it okay if a LGBTQ+ actor portrays a LGBTQ+ character but different?
Like for example a Bi actress plays a Lesbian character
cosmic basin
I've been wondering as well tbh
wicked jungle
i wonder, since it's ok for lgbtq+ characters to be portrayed by straight people, what about reverse~
i would love a movie fully cast by lgbt people showing that "yes we can act, just because we are lgbt we arent lesser"
cosmic basin
Yessssssss
wicked jungle
yes it could get misunderstood as "forcing them to play striaght" but honestly, i'm tired 😂
cosmic basin
I'm here for that
wicked jungle
sigh i can hear the 80+ aged critics devalidating their status as lgbt since they play straight so well and arent "the trope"
charred needle
god damn james corden pretends to be a stereotypical gay for an hour and he gets an oscar meanwhile i act straight for years and only get trauma
wicked jungle
pffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff
fallow whale
I can't stand James corden
wicked jungle
😂
cosmic basin
Me neither
wicked jungle
sandra 😂
cosmic basin
So ugh
peak musk
yes it could get misunderstood as "forcing them to play striaght" but honestly, ...
It wouldn't if it's directed by a LGBTQ+ person~!
wicked jungle
It wouldn't if it's directed by a LGBTQ+ person~!
tru?
there are problematic lgbtq+ people as well ._.
fallow whale
Yeeeep
cosmic basin
Yeah.....
wicked jungle
most people in the movie branche are problematic af ._.
supple brook
Not a movie but there's a trans character in supergirl who's played by a trans woman (the name escapes me) and the woman who plays Kara's sister, who's a lesbian, is also queer
cosmic basin
But you'll have problematic people in every group
peak musk
Yeah, I mean, there's problematic people everywhere anyways
wicked jungle
yeah just some are louder and some groups are tinier so it really looks bad
supergirl :o
peak musk
But let's not forget that ONE thing slays at portraying LGBTQ+ characters (most of the time)
✨Cartoons✨
cosmic basin
Seconded!!
supple brook
supergirl :o
I haven't watched since like. S3 or smth cause frankly it's not very good and it's just getting worse but they try with queer rep
And podcasts too!
wicked jungle
whenever somebody says cartoons i see korra in my mental theatre
charred needle
slightly nsfw
wicked jungle
ugh and asami
supple brook
Podcasts are definitely the queerest media I have ever consumed lol
charred needle
i wish there were more trans people in books with good endings
fallow whale
Write em
wicked jungle
and the whole drama with steven universe
charred needle
i did pick up some new books though hold on let me get their names
supple brook
Well legend of korra was a good while ago and I think it's very much improved since then
Also it's the networks that fuck writers over, it's usually not the writers being dickheads
charred needle
i got 3 books
peak musk
Personally I think the best portrayings are in the Loud House
wicked jungle
even if it was a while ago, it haunts me
charred needle
nothing to lose: a lesbian romance
written in the stars (its a wlw romance)
call me by your name
i hope theyre good
wicked jungle
i wish there were more lighthearted lgbt books with actual lgbt characters and not their tropes
charred needle
i havent seen call me by your name the movie
supple brook
Cmbyn is honestly kinda gross
fallow whale
Movie made me uncomfortable lol
supple brook
I don't like that it's seen as the pinnacle of queer representation
cosmic basin
I still ahve to read/watch it
peak musk
Me neither, and from what I've heard I'm happy I didn't
Also didn't this movie start the simp wave of Timothée Chamalet ?
supple brook
Oh I know nothing about the book but the movie is damn gross
wicked jungle
oh no
charred needle
my favourite book is if i was your girl cus its written by a trans woman and the main character is a trans woman and its very accurate to an accurate experience of living in todays world as a trans person and it actually has a good ending (although i do have to give a big TW since you know it doesnt censor anything)
charred needle
Oh I know nothing about the book but the movie is damn gross
i hope its just a case of hollywood being hollywood and the book isnt sucky
fallow whale
I wanna sleep but the chat do be spicy atm
wicked jungle
looking at the google images yeah good chance it's just the movie being yucky sweet davy jones, who approved that all
charred needle
what time is it over there fam
wicked jungle
go to sleep, we will be here tomorrow too!
fallow whale
6:30 am
wicked jungle
👀
charred needle
only gay call me by your name content ive consumed is montero
fallow whale
Based
peak musk
only gay call me by your name content ive consumed is montero
YEEEEEEEE !
charred needle
that song is such a bop fr fr
supple brook
The only cmbyn that matters tbh
cosmic basin
YES
fallow whale
Not really my genre of music but I do appreciate it as art
charred needle
im gonna talk to my grandkids like "when i was your age lil nas x was fuckin satan and the conservatives were mad 🧓 "
peak musk
I caught my 11yo "straight" sister listening to Montero (we're French so she doesn't get the lyrics)
wicked jungle
he killed satan, i dont see what they have to be mad at
charred needle
then he became satan 
peak musk
then he became satan <a:nervous_sip:803344327760805958>
And made nice shoes
peak musk
vive la resistance
Oui, oui, oui ✨🥖🇨🇵
peak musk
🥐
fallow whale
Oui oui
charred needle
honestly the lyric ||"i wanna fuck the ones i envy"|| is so powerful 😩
im excited for his next album
peak musk
Y'all don't have all the kinds of croissants we have in France
wicked jungle
i am in germany by the french border, we have the french croissants my friend.
they are ours ;)
peak musk
Omg!
wicked jungle
muhahahaa
peak musk
I live at the German border!
charred needle
ive been to france once
wicked jungle
no way :O
peak musk
ive been to france once
Paris doesn't count 🤮
charred needle
i was outside of paris smh 
charred needle
hater
fallow whale
I've been to Paris and outside Paris
peak musk
I hate Paris so much and everyone goes there like wtf 😭
wicked jungle
I WAS IN STRASBOURG 4 TIMES WHAT
peak musk
(Strasbourg is fucking great, go there)
peak musk
(the library there is AWESOME)
Which one? 🤔
charred needle
one memory i have from paris is that i ate at a cafe and there was an attempted ||terrorist attack|| only a block away and they started broadcasting it on the tv
wicked jungle
good question, i'll look at google maps for the name
peak musk
Yeah, terrorism was pretty frequent at some time
peak musk
Yeah we can see little army groups at Strasbourg as well
wicked jungle
;-;
peak musk
😂
Sorry 😆
Tbh I think that my statement was kinda legitimate
I mean they're not cops y'know
What's y'all MBTI type ?
cosmic basin
ENFP
fallow whale
Sorry, it just torments me as a psych student
cosmic basin
Ohhhh I get that tho
supple brook
Oooof same lol, Myers Briggs sucks
fallow whale
It was made by a person that studied political science
supple brook
Like it's a fun little quiz but people literally basing their personalities over some fake bullshit is so worrying
fallow whale
It's basically a horoscope
cosmic basin
Yeah definitely!
I know a couple of people who take it too seriously
But I was just like "haha okay nice"
fallow whale
Law and psych science is a time consuming degree combo, don't do it
wicked jungle
it does however sound like an entriguing combo 👀