I am trying to see if udp 19132 is open, but I do not have a good understanding of how to test udp ports. If you have an alternative I'm open to that. I am behind a cgnat, so I decided to go the hard route and skip playit.gg and setup a wireguard tunnel from my server to a VPS with a static IP for better latency.
I can join on java with the vps ip, and even 8080 tcp is open for squaremap and working. I just am stuck on udp.
I should also say, I am not even 100% sure if wireguard can forward udp, the online documentation says wireguard can ONLY do udp, but I am getting tcp to work. I went from a 140ms ping through playit.gg to 50ms max with wireguard. So I am definitely happy about that.
Just tested playit.gg and it is forwarding 19132 udp and bedrock can connect. Currently I have 1 java connected, 1 xbox, and 1 mobile connected. But I would rather not use playit.gg, and only my wireguard tunnel.
Sorry for the bad format, I copy pasted my messages from the support chat. Let me know if you need any dumps or anything.