#Gender identity video thingy

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half tiger
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So as Ive said before i have always wanted to do a video of me and @sacred hill being in a video talking. About well discussing my gender identity has always been difficult because of pronouns because “me “ could mean two different things which is hard to convey in normal conversations but with the power of video editing I can eliminate that confusion.

#digital-domain message

So why does this post exist? Just do it you fool times a wastin!

Well I’d like some questions that I can answer I probably could cover most bases but since I really have one shot at this I’d like to make sure I cover everything so go ahead ask any questions you have about me her us what have you. No matter how basic or simple

TLDR : what questions do you have of me and Chelsea? Ask below

storm wren
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How did you find you and Chelsea were you and Chelsea and how did Chelsea come out?

half tiger
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That’s a good one !

solar venture
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It's there a specific thing or maybe even list of things that you wish society would understand about gender identity that either of you think would make living authentically, public or not, easier?

radiant hemlock
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What common misconceptions are most irritating?

half tiger
half tiger
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what i have so far. haha

storm wren
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Gotta say I can't read any of it
But I am looking forward to the video lol

half tiger
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but i keep making myself laugh cause my goofy as is giddy with the prospect of playing both sides of a bit.

near onyx
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Have you ever confused someone for having a sibling in the house because of one another’s existence? Any good stories?

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Has one of you done something like get a piercing or a tattoo that the other regrets or didn’t want? How do you reconcile those sorts of conflicts?

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I think of you a bit like I am talking to siamese twins where you are both in the room at the same time but have formed a polite formality to help navigate social norms by not speaking at the same time. Is that a useful or vaguely close model? Or rather, how flawed a metaphorical model is that?

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In your ideal world, would you choose to be a more fluid non-binary mixture of Princess and Captain? or is the clear fluctuation of gender an important distinction?

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(Ideal being safe and accepting)

half tiger
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Jo all with good ones

half tiger
half tiger
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Also I had a belly button piercing but it became too much to maintain

near onyx
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I have a few trans and non-binary nibblings who have taught me a lot and made me question my assumptions, a lot. I love the challenge and the brain…fuckery? Things that make me really look hard at the things I value and what really matters to me. And then map that back onto the world with safety nets and boundaries to help survive and nurture.

Gah. Existential mumblings while sleep deprived and having just finished “Dungeon Crawler Carl”.

Anyway, all of which is to say, “thank you” and “go you”. Still listening.

swift carbon
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If I say this wrong, im sorry, but do you have something sorta similar to DID? Because most genderqueer people I know just have masc days and fem days, but they're still the same people. Also, how long ago/how old were you when you became... aware? of chelsea's existence? Sorry if some things are phrased wrong

half tiger
half tiger
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Ssorry for the pings hahha but it’s a tricky topic I know phrasing is hard so I always take the benefit of the doubt

half tiger
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So ive kinda always gravitated towards feminine things on the occasion. I thought I was trans but this was the early aughts so not really a big topic at the time. But that also felt wrong too I discovered the term bigendered in my teens probably around eighth grade which would have been around 2009 2010 I think. Anyway that really helped having a term to work towards. Then started hammering out the different aspects of myself into my different sides. Until I am what I am today.

So I would say she was always there but I got a real grasp on myself around 2009

swift carbon
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Oh cool

half tiger
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Started working on the script but so cold in there

half tiger
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doing a test with a snippet just so i can trouble shoot and see what i need to do for the final product. i have a vague idea but i dont want to be struggling with the final

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of course ill share the results of my test.

half tiger
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fix acting make sure videos are the same length maybe by duplicating a blank section if needed. probably actually install the pop filter

half tiger
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To the folks that asked me questions here, mind if i refer to you during this video along with your questions keep in mind i wont mention skill tree or full screen names just enough to know you are you.

Just “this question was asked by (ducky, jo, uri, hayna philosopher,)”
Just asking for permission and feel free to tell me no i just wont mention names in the thing. If you do wish to be named and i havent given the right nickname in the parenthesis please correct me.
@swift carbon @near onyx @storm wren @radiant hemlock @solar venture

near onyx
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Tis an honor, Captain!

half tiger
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thanks

radiant hemlock
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My online safety name is Erin if you'd prefer to use that. Either way is OK with me!

half tiger
half tiger
half tiger
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Alright all green now I just need to get back in the office and keep working.

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(Reaches pathetically)