#Help me please I'm in serious trouble
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with coachings nd stuff
like suggestions
@sudden seal u must try
becuz he is right
igcse/olvls is easy
even the worst students dont fail
let alone get 8/180
then what do u want ppl to do abt it
i know
lol
he is saying he is lazy and blah blah
like he should try atleast
or force himself
bro chnage urself then i mean you can change ur self right
you the same as us
if we are lazy
we force ourselves to study
i dont think its any different for you
but you have way mor emotivation than us
for i dont even know if i am gonna go to a university
ybut you
you literallly know ur parents are gonna send you to one in uk
like wht other motivation do you need
nah I'm burned
deep fried
start it by doing it slowly
build the habits slowly you wont able to study for 2hours straight in one day
instead start with 1hour
if not even 1 hour
start with 30minutes
my attention span sucked btw!! Like I actually couldn't focus for more than a few minutes.. I would have to get up and walk around or start scrolling. Start by increasing ur time by 5 minutes. Study 10 minutes then take a 5 minute break. Then do it with 15/20/25/30/35 and then try 45-50 minute with a 10-15 minute break
Trying using those study with me videos on yt (find one with the same timings) don't keep looking at the time just have an alarm/listen to the one in the vid for ur break
But one thing I think can definitely have a big impact is ur health. Alot of people (especially those with good health) just don't realize how much bad health really impacts you.
Sleep on time, eat healthy, drink lots of water. If u have deficiencies please take supplements ESPECIALLY iron/magnesium/Vitamin D/Zinc/and B complex
U will genuinely start to see ur studies improve when he health is better. Of course this won't happen immediately it'll take a while for these effects to take place but please take care of yourself. It's so worth it and you'll feel happier and more productive I promise
and I'm really glad to see you taking a step towards change 🙂 you can do this I believe in you
I have a trick
If you're procrastinating.. at least take your book out
open up the right thing
the less friction the more you want to do it
then just say ur gonna do it for 5 minutes
okay I'm gonna try
whats ur attention span
whats ur attention span
my is mid
like 40 min i am in the right place at right time with no distractions
tell me bro what did u study for the past days
come here and summarise after a study session
write it here
try teaching us what u studied
that will definately help
BAD ngl
as in
i can't control it well
in exams its all well and good
but at home if its smtn i don't want to do, 💀 cooked.
i have adhd for context so
lol
makes sense same like me
yeah in exams the preasure of my moms sandles waiting for me at home is enough motivation
😭
ur done with igcse?
yes
i 7 A*s and 1 A
Alhamdullilah
Inshallah I will get good grades in a levels too
inshallah
u prolly will
inshallah u will get good grades as well
inshallah
U will get excellent grades
how
idk i joined the server and this is how it was
they forced me to take these as subjects
ye u just selected roles
oh
a levels roles
ic
I am partially afraid to ask if this was a troll or not at this point
at this point if this is real you might have MCI or some other form of short term memory loss, or it might be a severe case of having never learned how to study properly?
I am quite perplexed but this whole server is ready to help you if you are ready to try ngl
I can help with Biology if you need me to
You have a point
I will be happy if you could help me with biology
but I feel shamefull I will be 19 in 20 days
nice
just dont 🤣
no nice I'm not that old and balding
bro i am like way younger and i am telling u i am balding too
😭
i just turned 16 3 days ago
You got time but that time means nothing if you don't start grinding right now
oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooof the quote THE QUOTEEEEEEEE
i want to say i have a reference
but i dont
mr redemtion pls no essays 😭
oh the worst thing I started using minoxdil on my hair for 2-3 months and now want to stop
Just gonna use myself as an example:
I did IB for all of it but the last month since I kept thinking I had time but when unexpected stuff happened I couldn't keep doing the DP since I procrastinated for so long
no I'm using chromebook so I need time to text thats all
what is that tho?
what dat? x3
Chromebook?
its a hair product
It's like a cheaper alternative to a laptop
yeah
It has chromeOS
woahhhhh bro i could've guessed it alone
most schools in the US give chromebooks to students
thats just not the best 😭
yeah no it's not
i looked it up it looks like a tablet to me bruv
never knew that I not from USA though
It basically is
Again it's about price & efficiency
it basically has access to only the google suite & chrome
ye i could tell tbh reminded me of the notebook's
of ummm ummm
forgot
i think samsung
Bangladesh right?
yup
ARE U TALKING FR?
Why do you want to do IGCSE or GCSE btw?
DF?
to forget the pain
that sounds like a quote in a movie when someone is about to die / his wife was raped
I will be back with food but please explain why you are doing GCSE instead of IALs or something
sorry
And what your prior education is before this
that way I can be better equipped to help you
prior education doesnt matter
At least with Biology
Well if he knows like
half of bio already
it's useless to review that half yk?
it really doesnt play any thing tbh
its not if its for revision
I think my wording is the main issue here lets see uh
the things I faced with failing I want to get rid of that
ik friends from way different prior education than me but there are of them who entered college
So you want to challenge yourself with attempting GCSE again?
Good on you ngl
@sudden seal
what als bro 😭
brooo i am like literally still in ols
A-Levels..?
oh 😭
finished 6 ols now doing 2 ols
Bro you started talking about college so I figured you were in college like me mb
mindset differs 😉
@sudden seal So are fr set on passing GCSE Biology? Cause if so I am more than down to help
this is such a cutesy drawing
GCSE exams built different fs
Same
@sudden seal Where you at bro? It's Sunday morning and the grind starts today 🔥
yes
yeah
good that u pulled urself together
sorry I still wasn't able to call
I am just tired during evenings
I will try tmr
@sudden seal
oh alright
@sudden seal Heyyyy, I saw your post and wanted to give a comment. I'm 18 turning 19 next year, but I haven’t taken any exams yet due to financial issues. However, I’ve seen my classmates retake their exams 2-3 times and still not get the grades they wanted. But guess what? They keep trying. I kind of understand your pain, it feels like a never-ending cycle. Even though it upsets me to see my friends taking their exams and getting their results while I haven’t even started, I still try to keep moving forward. Maybe it’s not the right time for me 🤷♀️, but Allah (SWT) knows best. So, I want to encourage you to try convincing your parents one last time and actually put yourself to work—prove them wrong and show that you can achieve outstanding grades. I could send you some videos about how to study and manage your time, if you’d like, of course.
Best of luck! Take care!💕
yessss
fr
Yesss
aight i just finished reading
Thank you
Gave +1 Rep to @sullen umbra (47)
Started bio and that's it
I don't know what to do
My dog is crying all night
My dog is with me for more than 2 years and a few days he got into a fight with other stray dogs and got his ear and head injured
Sorry for saying it hear
I just cannot helped it
definitely a stressful situation man.
As a pet owner who saw the loss of his pet, i really hope such a thing doesnt happen to you and your dog
may the dog have a fast recovery
Thank you please pray for him
Gave +1 Rep to @ashen briar (44)
damn man
we will dw
Sorry to hear about your dog. I hope he recovers soon.
thank you
Gave +1 Rep to @proud iris (64)
hope ur dogs well
Don’t listen to haters go to the AMERICA AND FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS
dang it...I hope he gets better
I am sorry about your dog man
Wrong reply
Thank you All of you
wdym
i dont have a dog
gng lowkey u need to plan ur life out
no one was born dumb
try considering GED as it is easier
and contributes alot especially if u want to study in the US
and do SAT's maybe
and IELTS but from what it looks like u need to improve ur english a bit
u should dip IGCSE no offence
19 is already pretty old
There's no such thing as "old" when it comes to studies. I've literally seen ppl doing/ preparing for igcse at 19/20/21/22 of age or older. Everyone has their own journey towards education regardless of age
Lowkey, this was really me before my mocks, i was failing physics, i had a U projected, i really despised my physics teacher, but i really wanted to show him that i could get a passing grade, so from march to june i really focused up on physics, i managed to get a C, not what i was hoping for but i tried my best and at least got a passing grade
This is also how it is for math but im also putting in my best effort for that too, ive never been good at math and i decided to take core but my parents made me do extended, its going alright, im grasping some topics and paper 2 didnt go too well but im going to try my hardest to have my paper 4 go a different way
Ive also just never been that good at academics
yeh from what i am seeing ur just a hard worker
try understanding instead of memorizing it creates intrest
@sudden seal right here summarise whatever u studied
like teach me everyhting u studied in bio
maybe he should try giving like 2 papers per session instead of taking them all at once
go to dms I would like to help u
Studying In America will cost you an arm and leg maybe even a kidney
lol
bro what did u study
if i were u
at this pace bro ur gonna get the same marks
if u dont change ur ways ur marks also not oging to change
Bro wtf U?
Is this real
There is no way this is real
You probably didnt even open the book
It takes skill to get a U man
Am not joking U is way harder than A*
Wait I dont understand
He passed A levels but not Igs?
Or he only needs 4 igs?
not only skill it takes luck also
no he didnt pass A level
he is doing ig again
i swear if he opens his book done
ez oass
pass*
Bro physics i only studied it for 6 days and got a B
I had so many igs
damn how many
it is impressive getting B
for 6 days of studying
4 but I started studying igs before 1 month
I mean because of school you know
why u dudnnt have 2 years?/
I didnt know what is IG
And i dont have older brother
ic
makes sense
I dont even know what were past papers
why did u try to skip an year
But I think he passed A levels
oh
i have 2 years
and i am not aimign for a star
ia m aiming to beat my big bros score
Same A levels isnt an easy
i think he got 95 percentage
ic
oh
A is good also
for A level
my big bro doing it
he said he might get a star
but willl definately get A
but u said b4 you lost ur pet
Yes. But that was my cat...
I said "wrong reply" thunking you were replying to redemtion
Considering that he was the one that mentioned he has a dog
I had but I failed my parents wont allow it
I get it I didn't study I never do I lost that skill I really did
im an addict I relapsed every week cannot stop lost interest on everything and do lots of talking and complaining here but I never do I always say I will do it but I never does t
Then how do you want to score good bro?
Even C needs studying
Am not joking I studied for 1 month just to get C
yeah I don't try
Then why you are complaining bro?
How can someone help you
If you cant help yourself bro its easy studying is easy
Study 1 hour to 2 hours a day
i know I'm sorry everyone
study 2 hours which subject ?
Idk any subject
I have 3 subjects
What are they
biology chemistry and human biology
Normal igs or A levels?
igcse normal one
Just study 3hours a day
Each hour one subject the most important thing
Is to use this one hour efficiently
yeah
You know you can just finish the whole syllabus in a week if you just want a B or a C
my question even if I finish I cannot solve my past papers except the first two questions
even in a day before exam
HUHHH
What subject 😭
cs
Oh
watch other people doing pastpapers of the topic or you can just search up the code or the question you are doing on youtube so they can explain it to you
and also try to take some help from ur notes
Bro the thing is that he is not trying
He said himself
He is not trying
And trust me he doesnt even have to do past papers
To get a C or a B
Getting C at least is so easy
Just study man
1 hour a day
yes
oh well yeah I am sorry for him and u too
❤️
lemme give u the best advice I know
genuinely
use the syllabus
if you can answer the syllabus points withoiut looking atur notes and solely from memory
then u hit a good point
set that as ur goal
I am telling u
this is golden advice fr as in like really helpful
if u actually try to work towards it
ur progress will motivate u
@sudden seal There are so many great IGCSE youtube resources. Try to start from somewhere and don’t give up.
If you have some sort of illness, then let us know. Because truthfully, Igcses aren’t as hard as a levels are.
I also didn’t study to my igcses and got trash results but now I’m trying in my a-levels and it’s getting so much better for me. I went from a D in igcse maths to a B in as level. Don’t quit and learn how to study properly.
Yeah you can do this
damn nice
he isnt trying
like he is saying he didnt study a thing
HWO
JUSt WAtch a video
tahts simple
bro studying idnt even hard like
i study 3 hours
and play like 4 hours
and watch anime for 4 hour
and i still get A+
in school
like you can enjoy
while getting good marks
if u actually try
TBh
if u wanna pass
u might as well study 5 mins evryday and u will get a C
Thank you all
I see some of you says i have a future and some of you say I'm finished so pretty confusing
But the truth I'm wasted I'm gone i see it causs i never trird
I lose the believe and everything
A human dies at the age 100
You are still young 19 years old
But if you dont fix yourself this year or next
You will never do it
not gonna lie we have been helping him for a long time
if he doesnt wants to change himself he is never gonna change then
we can only motivate and share resources at the end of the day
you only hold the power to change yourself
its better to start working now and turn it back around instead of just living with that regret in your entire life
one thing I don’t understand is
Why doesn’t he study tho
yk cies r so expensive its a huge waste of money to take them 4 times
is it because you’re lazy or
I mean bfr it’s prolly that
but im telling u igcse is actually rlly easy
you just have to study for like 2-3 hours a day and you get As and A*s
Good luck bruv
oh one more thing
man even when it gets hard
stay away from self pity
I see u doing it and I used to do that too
But man everyone’s life is hard not just yours
and I have a feeling, as someone who used to live in America (for 10 full years) that you’re romanticising the US
it
heppens a lot in asian countries
even in my country,
oh trust me dawg I know
I moved to a country in Asia 5 years ago
and every1 acts like im special just cz i was born in america
It’s really weird
America is super cool but nah it’s not perfect
is the school in there actually very easy?
I dont think thats true
i dont think so tbh
Unless you went to a corrupted asia country
But i know most asians dont care about americans
Ggs
I didnt read much on depth studies
I only wrote 3/4 of a page for the 10 mark qs
I did
very corrupted Asian country
yes
yes it is
it gets very tough in high school
but elementary and middle school are incredibly easy
schools are usually more focused on activities at that same
*time
oh of course not
it’s j the whitewashed people where I live
they really care about it
if you go to an advanced Asian country they rlly dgaf
@bold oxide bro we need u
im here
i think there college is easy too😭
probably
my sister goes to uni there
she’s always having fun
so I’d assume it is
cool
I wouldn't say college is easy in the States. I know some people that went to college there and it definitely wasn't easy. Ig, it depends on the degree you study. But, up until high school Id say it isn't that hard.
fair
that’s what I said ‘probably’
college is hard everywhere tho lmfao
True, even in Timbuktu lol
At this point doing past questions won't help
start from the basics with drill & kill excercises and what not
to help build confidence
I mean tbf the USA's educational system ain't half bad compared to half of asia with asia's focus on memorization over critical thinking
Doing college in Asia and did all my schooling in the US and yeah comparatively the US is better, it has issues for sure, but it is way better 💀
To be fair, I think I received a better education in the US because of the IB program's emphasizes critical thinking. It’s not like the AP courses or even worse NGSS standards really have an emphasis on higher thinking. But still quality of life, etc. is better in the US fs
The number of kids in my university that struggle with the geometrical interpretation of calculus is concerning 😭
Access to equipment is much more widespread in the U.S. In high school, I was able to use micropipettes and had hands-on experience with tools like PCR machines. However, many colleges and schools in Asia struggle to reach that same level of access. For instance, I don’t believe that mouth-pipetting is hygienic or safe, but it’s still a common practice in many places in Asia.
That was my mini-rant on this I guess lol
but yeah many people over-romantize the US but part of it definetly stems from higher quality of life present there
clearly if this guy is tryna self study then hes cooked
I just think bro needs a support system in place and needs to find what's the root of his problems
I feel like half the server is more than ready to help this dude
heck I am ready to tutor him daily if that's what it takes
i mean failing once or twice is understandable but 4 times with the same marks is kinda too much
I think he should give it again, with a tutor, daily practice
igcse usually happen at mj or ON so he should give on october november cuz its usually by the end of the year
look like
even if u study like a week before them
u can get a B
or even an A
if u study properly
and do the stuff which is important
oh yeah fs
he shouldn't be just testing again & again and hope for different results
that's just insanity
4 times is crazy
and these exams arent free
its rlly expensive
when i gave my humanities fees it was 2x more than school fees
I agree
Kids should be having fun at elementary school
Not memorising
it was a pretty big culture shock for me when I moved to asia
I was way behind my classmates
Could barely do algebra
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA
I’d be motivated to get a U if I studied to this song
i didn't read all of this but i feel like he might be neurodivergent or he might have some other disorders
maybe that's why regular study methods aren't helping him??
but this is really sad 😭 In Sha Allah he gets the help he needs
listen
I understand that
I do feel sorry for him
But even if he did
dy know how difficult it is to score a U?
you rlly do have to put in 0 effort whatsoever
its really tough for me
what subject do you struggle with the most?
bro its harder to get a U then an E
that is exactly what im tryna say
even if u don’t study I feel like common sense could carry a person to at least an E
you see after class 6 I didn't really study that always failed my exams i only passed by copying my friends then mostly all my friends late
why tho
im weak on that
it’s okay that j means u have to put in extra work
but u can bounce back
im not \
u r my g
no one finds studying easy or fun btw
yea
we all hate it
i hate
and suffering from the worst addiction
what?
but even in america ur gonna have to do a lot of shit u hate
If it’s drugs I can help
corn mastur
😬
yes
okay
okay
promise me
I promise
I feel bad for u my guy sounds like you’ve had a hard life. Are you willing to retake igcse one more time?
and u watch the whole video ok
can u understand english
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bro pls watch this man
pls
yes I have to and the hard thing I cannot take tutors
It’s okay bruv we’ll help you
4 hours 30 minutes
Hey you can always get notes from this server or watch YouTube videos of the subjects online
I do feel4
you still have a lot of time
Well stop
Where do u plan on going to uni?
.
I have a question
Ask
I failed on maths B but I passed on maths A I got 3 on maths A
so should I worry about maths too ?
can u please answer this lmfao im tryna help u dawg
also try to find something that motivates you
even if it’s silly
biology human biology and chemistry
okay hmmmm
if u ever need bio help
text me
Ikr sometimes the silly things do work 😭
RIGHT nicki minaj is sometimes the only reason i pick up past papers 😬😬
do I need human bio ?
Not needed no
no physics its the hardest
wait I don’t get it how dy only have 3 subjects what where r the rest
U don't need physics
I can help u if u want
Just bio and chem ngl
I had Bangla maths and english
How were ur grades in those
How many subjects do u need?
I thought u needed 8 for america
I send it
I got A in Bangla
Isn't america 5 and 3 A levels??
I don’t understand the gce grading system lmfao can u js tell me how many u passed
idk I could be wrong but
since my family is moving back to the US soon
They made me take 8
cuz they said
u need 8 o levels and 3 a levels
Rlly? If so I had no clue ngl
he could be wrong tho
no 5 subjects is enough4
how did u get an A in bangla dude
Maybe it's smthn a specific college wants
i got a B in urdu😭😭😭
I passed 3 subjects
yea
he just struggles with
He's worthy
yeah a 4 in languaage
OO GLL
thx
Study bro
@sudden seal see i got no prep at all but ik if i put in effort rn i can get a B at least
real
work smarter not harder
@sudden seal can I ask u smth
don’t take it the wrong way but
well on my first igcse exam I was serious a bit I had friends that time
Yup yup (I studied all year for math and ended up barely getting a B 😢)
be free to tell
can you afford to go to uni in america or would you need a scholarship
america is VERY expensive
if you need a scolarship
u really need to lock in cuh
I guess if my parents send me then scholarship is impossible though
I might have to give a levels there
why (if u don’t mind my asking)
my parents are poor my aunt could send me
would she tho
Is what im asking
cause after o levels they want me to send
and I don't wanna stay here I don't like it here
stick to js chem and bio
Ok understandable I don’t wanna judge u
you sure ?
yes
I literally don’t know anyone in my circle who’s tryna become a doctor that’s taking human bio
bio is good enough
ok you’re gonna
take bio and chem in may June 2025
okay
how though ?
make that 7 since the last month should be js for past papers
wdym how
make it 6 I guess
nope 7
6 months is ample time btw
so here’s the thing
How 7?
half oct + November + December + January + feb + march
OH
MY BAD
sorry guys ☹️
divide the syllabus for both subjects
into 6 parts
one part should be completed each month
like for example
Np🤣
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how do you read bio like do you memorise everything
there are 21 chapters for igcse bio so I’d do 4-6 each month
okay
what I do is
I take a highlighter and I take the book
I highlight all the important stuff
and then
yes I did that
I turn the highlighted stuff into notes BECAUSE
writing things down
helps u
Remember
then I memorise them
if I can’t memorise them
I read them 3 times and then after 20 minutes try to recall what I read
Try to understand for the most part
if I can’t recall it I read it 3 times again
can I be honest
okay then ?
bio is mostly memorisation
ok once you’ve memorised everything
start past papers
in the beginning
you’ll struggle with them a lot
That is normal
like the whole book ?'
True but some things like the breathing patterns are easily understandable since u can literally feel ur chest do these actions
you’ll notice that over time you’ll improve
no the important information from the book
that you’ve highlighted and turned into notes
as for chem ask someone else im struggling enough w chem these days
maybe I need help from edexcel guys from bio
Dawg im giving you very generalised advice
like a study buddy
works for some people
I understand that
.
Very important
If you can’t
then you’ll have to be disciplined
like what I meant a guy who knows each chapter important parts
If you aren’t motivated or disciplined you won’t be able to manage
fair
I’d help u but
im doing igcse
and im quite busy this year w all my subjects
yeah
hmmmmm
maybe
but like I said
if ur motivated
everything is manageable
I don’t think im any smarter than you for example I’ve just found a reason to keep going
you should too 🤗
now I hope you don’t mind but s3 of my favourite show j came out and I need to watch it while I knit
My reasson to keep going is that jumping off a bridge hurts
good luck my g
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA
at least u have one 🎀🎀
that’s progress
Yup ( I need to live long enough to find a shorter one)
at least you have a sense of humour
rarer than good grades
right
some people w
Amazing grades re
Are*
Dumb as fuck
It’s not a defining trait
FRRRRRR ik people with All A*s and still don't know how to use a credit card 😭
(lowk me lmfao)
REALL (how tf dy use a credit card)
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sudden seal good luck bruv
we’re doing diff exams but
if u ever need help
Don’t hesitate to ask
i havent taken igcses yet but my method is trying to understand and visualize by watching videos, i also try to think of real world examples (works for ecology and genetics)
then i go through my teachers notes... if you dont have one, you can just go through the notes available online or in this server
and then after that it's nonstop pastpapers ... i try atleast 5 years. make sure to note the language used in questions and check the mark scheme so you know the best points to mention
BUT the most important part is splitting up the workload. try studying related chapters together
for example variation, genetics and genetic modification can all be done together.. you can do all of ecology at once, and try plant and animal reproduction together too
but obv don't do it in a random order
start with classification, cells and cell transport as theyre the first chapters in the syllabus and therefore the easiest
basically just go along with the syllabus 😭
Yea bro just take it easy and try to enjoy it a bit (ik you'll hate every minute but give it a shot)
this is amazing advice @sudden seal
right
I think his problem is
he’s miserable
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and my advice is to start studying with the multiple choice paper first as the questions are easier, and can help you confirm any confusions you had
if you don’t enjoy life you can’t possibly enjoy studying
girl im using ts advice too 😭😭
yeah :/
ily
Honestly who isn't nowadays but you've gotta power through ig
so helpful
no trust me
a lot of people aren’t
I think the problem rlly is the damn phone
aw im glad to hear that 😭
I don't enjoy life
im gonna give u some genuine advice
yeah
if you feel sorry for yourself and constantly think ur miserable and ur life sucks
Yea half true ngl
even if u live in america w the nicest things
ur life will still suck
90% of happiness is just the way u look at things
it will
you need a fresh perspective
I used to be miserable all the time
and then I just started forcing myself to see the positive part of things
rather than the negative
2 packets of weed = fix everything ( I'm joking ofcourse 😂)
real
weed does hit sometimes

I wished I didn't care caring and trust affected me
I wished I could turn off my humanity and don't care about people
BRUV
I KEEP SAYING
u need to
Act like u don’t care first
changes don’t happen overnight
in order to change you have to initiate the change
caring and trust ruined me and hope destroyed me
Ok dawg ur starting to feel a little too sorry for urself
u aren’t destroyed
Ur still breathing
As long as ur alive
you have a chance to change the trajectory of your life
no I get after a long time it kills you alive
we’re trying to help u but it doesn’t seem like you’re very interested
no one has the magical solution to all your problems
all I know
I know people who’ve had parents die the day before their cies
yet they still pull through
Because life fucking sucks but it fucks for everyone
*sucks
if I pass igcse I will get my confidence back I know it
OKAY YES
so
we’ll help u
pass
🤗
and you can pass bro
everyone is capable of passing
I have faith in him
u can do this bro
we’re rooting for u
we might sound harsh but
we tryna help u cuh
but you want the best thing for me I understand now
Yes bro
The harsher the reply the more true it is that's sadly how it works
I was an ass before I know
no it’s okay
j don’t think that we’re against u
People can and do change 🤷♂️
that isn’t the case at all
but I'm worried about one thing
what are you concerned about
what If I watch corn again
well
I might fall into it again
im a girl so idk how that addiction is rlly like but
I used to
be addicted to
nic
and it’s ok to
relapse
that’s j gonna happen
but the thing is
i never touched cigge or drinks stuff
Brother look even if u do fall into it again try to pretend that it never happend at all and continue to live ur life as if u never did it
healing isn't linear
you have to hold yourself accountable when u relapse but
if you relapse one time
forgive yourself
it doesn't mean all your progress on other parts of life is gone
like if u feel sad that u relapsed it’s gonna make u wanna relapse again
you should also find someone to talk to
the thing is if I relapse I cannot stop I watch it I watch it
Id reccomend a group with similar addicts
listen
yeah
Make a punishment for urself for everytime u relapse
I know better than anyone that it’s very easy to slip back into addictive habits
No
don’t do that
it’s not sustainable
thatd make the guilt worse
Why not i had a friend who did 20 push ups for each time he fell back into it
Doesn’t work for everyone
He never wanted to do them so he'd stop and now he's corn free
True but it never hurts to try tho?
i started nofap on 1st October and lasted to 8th october
tw but i used to struggle w anorexia and my mom used to yell at me when i didn’t eat trust me it doesn’t work
Try to take novemeber seriously ig
7 days is actually good
that’s not bad at alll !
Oh alright
the more you try
for like forever
the longer the gaps will be
hey I didn't release anything yet
I'm not trying to judge you but aren't you like 16-17? Correct me if I'm wrong
thats badass
nope
15
I started very young
? Not the november session no nut november
awwww tyyy
Ahh I see, im glad you stop💗
i know that
thank u sm 🎀
Gave +1 Rep to @sullen umbra (48)
yess
lemme tell u what I used to do
I’d go and surround myself with people that
I couldn’t smoke around
Like my family
and honestly set a checkpoint for yourself.. if you went that long without relapsing reward yourself with something you enjoy
for me itd be cake
or I would stay away from the place that had my cigarettes
YESSSSS
I mostly live alone joint family split up
oh okay then you should
keep all devices
away from u
when u feel
The urge
did it but I fail always
try again
Keep trying
never be afraid of hard work
this month its my birthday
awwww that’s nice !!
you can fail 100000 times in the present.... but think of a future version of you that's happy you kept trying
also my younger brother
you should bake something
just try to imagine your future self
red velvet is lovely
thriving
that helps me sm
like 2 years ago I never would’ve guessed that I’d be able to eat cake and stuff
w out stressing
but like
trust me
bro u beat me in that😭😭😭
we do get better 🎀
I planned that I will stay clean on October for me and my brothher but I failed
proud of youuuu
thank u smm ☹️☹️
Gave +1 Rep to @bitter solar (46)
yeah but you still lasted 8 days
maybe next time itll be 8 and a half
and then the next itll be 9
ur better than me bro
I was in 22 days on August I relapsed after getting my result
u said u were addicted to it a lot right
okay @sudden seal I need to go and relax lmfao but don’t hesitate to ask in dms if u need anything okay
rooting for u ❤️
I could have gone the thing is I was watching a series and g*y stuff came on that series and it was on my head so I gone back to corn to get that stuff out
thank you for all the things
thats normal bro u got distracted
Gave +1 Rep to @terse estuary (1)
awwww ur welcome dawg !!
even that happens to me sometimes brub
gnnnnn