Reluctantly opening the can of worms that is moderation - especially after checking the post history - but I wanted to comment that to me as a relatively new outsider, that a lot of these moderation messages strike me as patronizing.
I understand it is volunteers on an informal basis, but I believe it could reduce discontent with the moderation at hand, especially with some of the concerns raised regarding “special treatment”.
I know there is a lot of room for interpretation and ultimately sometimes a tough call to make to decide what is trolling and what is being clueless / having a bad day.
I’d prefer if the messages kept formal or perhaps use more templates.
Also, apologies if this thread was there before, I looked for “tone” and “moderation” and mainly found other discussions.

wave of new accounts, that's something to think about
I am fine with relatively informal moderation so long as it isn't demeaning.