#Insecurities

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quaint isleBOT
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Society has some wierd ass standards

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I get the logic behind tan=masculine but doesn't mean it's some rule

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Lit don't matted if ur pale or tan

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From an outside perspective no1 judging ur masculinity of that

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Cus I never even thought of it like that until u pointed it out

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Not doing sports doesn't matter either

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In 10 yrs when u have a job no1 be asking u if u played football in highschool it don't matter

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It's a dumb standard

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Men having to play sports is like when ppl say women have to cook

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They dont 🤯🤯🤯

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Ts don't matter 🤯🤯🤯

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More to being a man than throwing a ball 🤯🤯🤯

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Get ur education 🤯🤯🤯

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Get a job

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Be independent

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Idk

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Community service or smth

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there's more to being a dude than this sense of masculinity and how some things make you more masculine than others

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its just teenage beliefs and they won't matter much in the end

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not every guy who played sports in college will get a d1 scholarship or get into the nfl or shit

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in the end how tan you are doesn't matter squat because some people are more outgoing than others and that doesn't make you more feminine or masculine

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society has weird norms and beliefs but that doesn't mean theyre correct or trye

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literallyyy

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and most of the time

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no1 rly thinks those things

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its j our perception cus were hard on ourselves

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i never look at a pale person and go "i bet they never go outside what a twink"

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and i dont think most ppl do

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become a femboy helpun will drool for you

jaunty nebula
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bro this just opened a whole new perspective to me

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now i understand how insecurities are internalised

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i have genuinely NEVER looked at a pale looking guy and thought hes feminine

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lowk all the dudes ive ever liked are pathan

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who are usually pretty fair skinned

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so ur good to go gang

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and not doing sports is so chill wym

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theres genuinely so much more importance and ''masculinity'' in being intellectual, confident in urself, learning about new stuff, etc

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fyi chess is a sport asw so if you really wanna start, u can litr start anywhere u dont have to be crazy good at it

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everything helpy and shit said is so well said, listen to them

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woeful ginkgo
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funny

woeful ginkgo
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see chat he isnt denying it

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gooner

jaunty nebula
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