#first love
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real idk
"Asking for a friend btw" issok gng, no one can see its you who posted it anyw ur secret is safe w me gng đ„đ
I donât believe in âa part of you always will be in love with your first loveâ
I feel like when you love someone new your love for them is influenced by everyone youâve loved before but it is love just for them. unless you havenât properly processed that first love in which case you really need to sit down and talk to yourself.
I also feel like (considering this serverâs demographic im going to make an assumption here) love in your teens works fundamentally differently from love as an adult. I havenât been an adult (obviously), but I feel the losses of high school relationships affect you less in the long-term than something you get into as a full-grown adult
as for what love feels like:
- why are you asking znotians đ wrong group of nolifes to ask
- the experience is so wildly different for everyone that you canât really generalize it.
alright so my final take - if your âfriendâ is a teenager still figuring life out, itâs really not worth their time to spend time pondering what love is and how it works. in the end, nothing that people tell them will satisfy the questions theyâre asking. if theyâre worried theyâll never get over some dude(tte) that they dated in high school, they most DEFINITELY will. youâre still young, focus on the places, experiences, and most importantly, people, that will be a part of your life going forward. and maybe, ten years down the line, when your brain is fully developed and youâre a more mature individual, look back and ask yourself what love is, and maybe then, youâll be able to give yourself an answer
js eat some string cheese :>
literally anon its as simple as that
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ong anon, ong
Wild, blud wrote a whole ass essay
real
real 98% of the active people here are bitchless
fuck love get icecream anon
this reminds me of the time I made an analogy of how love is like ice cream
I wonder if geagle remembers it
First love is a very wild experience, but the fact is that it cannot be generalized because everyone has a totally different story about their first love. Some love from afar, without the other person knowing that someone admires then so so much. Some are able to put that feeling into words and confess. If they get accepted, they treat that person with the absolute purest feelings, if they dont get accepted, heartbreak.
First love is the purest form of love, its truely from the heart, that
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First love is a very wild experience, but the fact is that it cannot be generalized because everyone has a totally different story about their first love. Some love from afar, without the other person knowing that someone admires then so so much. Some are able to put that feeling into words and confess. If they get accepted, they treat that person with the absolute purest feelings, if they dont get accepted, heartbreak.
First love is the purest form of love, its truely from the heart, that's why it is said that it doesnt happen again. That's the reason that most people (that ive personally seen and talked too) are afraid to approach the person they love, beacause they're scare to death that they wont be able to treat that person with the love they deserve, to them that person holds the absolute highest point in their heart. Most first love stories are one-sided.
As far as saying that, "how do you love someone genuinely and deeply" or "how do you know you're sure its love", It's all within your heart, You're so attracted to that person that you're like "I only want them, that person & and that person ONLY". You feel incomplete without that person. I've seen people that are in love for years and years on end, they never confess cuz they're scared, but they dont go into any other relationships to prove their loyalty.
All in all, it's one of the most beautiful and purest feelings that a human being has.
Now im done :p
i am NOT reading allat