#first love

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clever whaleBOT
ionic sleet
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real idk

kindred knoll
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"Asking for a friend btw" issok gng, no one can see its you who posted it anyw ur secret is safe w me gng đŸ„€đŸ’”

misty kiln
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I don’t believe in “a part of you always will be in love with your first love”

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I feel like when you love someone new your love for them is influenced by everyone you’ve loved before but it is love just for them. unless you haven’t properly processed that first love in which case you really need to sit down and talk to yourself.

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I also feel like (considering this server’s demographic im going to make an assumption here) love in your teens works fundamentally differently from love as an adult. I haven’t been an adult (obviously), but I feel the losses of high school relationships affect you less in the long-term than something you get into as a full-grown adult

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as for what love feels like:

  1. why are you asking znotians 💀 wrong group of nolifes to ask
  2. the experience is so wildly different for everyone that you can’t really generalize it.
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alright so my final take - if your “friend” is a teenager still figuring life out, it’s really not worth their time to spend time pondering what love is and how it works. in the end, nothing that people tell them will satisfy the questions they’re asking. if they’re worried they’ll never get over some dude(tte) that they dated in high school, they most DEFINITELY will. you’re still young, focus on the places, experiences, and most importantly, people, that will be a part of your life going forward. and maybe, ten years down the line, when your brain is fully developed and you’re a more mature individual, look back and ask yourself what love is, and maybe then, you’ll be able to give yourself an answer

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js eat some string cheese :>

dusty hatch
ionic sleet
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fire

misty kiln
dusty hatch
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and anon instead of thinking about all this rn

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you should play wordle

kindred knoll
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Wild, blud wrote a whole ass essay

dusty hatch
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real

crude ermine
sharp peak
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fuck love get icecream anon

dusty hatch
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ong bro

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gp knows whats up

kindred knoll
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I wonder if geagle remembers it

clever whaleBOT
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First love is a very wild experience, but the fact is that it cannot be generalized because everyone has a totally different story about their first love. Some love from afar, without the other person knowing that someone admires then so so much. Some are able to put that feeling into words and confess. If they get accepted, they treat that person with the absolute purest feelings, if they dont get accepted, heartbreak.

First love is the purest form of love, its truely from the heart, that

crude ermine
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:nerd

gilded walrus
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i accidently pressed emter im not done 😛

crude ermine
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ok

gilded walrus
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First love is a very wild experience, but the fact is that it cannot be generalized because everyone has a totally different story about their first love. Some love from afar, without the other person knowing that someone admires then so so much. Some are able to put that feeling into words and confess. If they get accepted, they treat that person with the absolute purest feelings, if they dont get accepted, heartbreak.

First love is the purest form of love, its truely from the heart, that's why it is said that it doesnt happen again. That's the reason that most people (that ive personally seen and talked too) are afraid to approach the person they love, beacause they're scare to death that they wont be able to treat that person with the love they deserve, to them that person holds the absolute highest point in their heart. Most first love stories are one-sided.

As far as saying that, "how do you love someone genuinely and deeply" or "how do you know you're sure its love", It's all within your heart, You're so attracted to that person that you're like "I only want them, that person & and that person ONLY". You feel incomplete without that person. I've seen people that are in love for years and years on end, they never confess cuz they're scared, but they dont go into any other relationships to prove their loyalty.

All in all, it's one of the most beautiful and purest feelings that a human being has.

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Now im done :p

crude ermine
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i am NOT reading allat