#Yippie !

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frail cometBOT
tidal ember
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acc took my time to read allat

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but like damn

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i mean it is common for parents to blackmail but like not everytime

shrewd jacinth
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Parents can be shitty sometimes, but this won't be the rest of your life. You're 18, so soon you'll go to uni or get a full time job in a few yrs. Cutting off your parents might be hard, but you can distance alot from them.

It is not your obligation to serve your parents. It's their obligation to take care of you. They decided to have a kid, therefore, it's their responsibility. You didn't make this choice. U might have to see them on holidays or something but it will he better in a few years.

I can't give you advice for how to live alone cus I don't either, but you can research, although I think running away won't be great since it'll severe the bond more.

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If they affect u so negatively, cutting them off isn't necessarily bad. Prioritise urself.

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There's not much advice to give here but parents can be toxic. Our society continues to tell us they want the best for us, but from first hand experience, sometimes there's just resentment

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There is alot of bad parenting and none of it is your fault nor is it your responsibility

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In situations like this, if you have a sibling, try to be kind and close with them so you can support each other

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You can send another confession if you want or dms r open asw

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Stay strong and Inshallah you will be able to distance yourself from those who hurt you

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And may Allah guide them, although it might feel like its too late

worldly prairie
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i said it once and i’ll say it again some people honestly don’t deserve to be parents

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sorry for your situation anon

quick turtle
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damn that's sad

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this is what makes me want to be a better parent

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but for that I need to find a wife

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for that I need to find a girl

worldly prairie