#i miss my friend but i still hate them

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gray notchBOT
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anon if you're so stubborn that you can't reach out to this person who was once your close friend then perhaps it was not meant to be after all. I get what you're going through, I do. but this is like going back to an ex who abused you just because they truly understood you. it's not embarrassing to feel the way that you do, it's something everyone feels about someone at some point in time. and I get that you miss having someone to talk to who really understood you; I do too. but at the same time, is it worth going back to someone who you feel like you cant even reach out to? cause I'm gonna be honest and say that if this person were your true friend, you would have no problem picking up the phone and talking to them, regardless of who was right and who was wrong. A real friend wouldn't have had the ego and stubbornness to not call their friend after 2 years even though they were in the wrong. friendships dont come with ego and superiority complexes. they come with love. i could have a fight with my best friend and i could be in the wrong. but if she/he needed me, you bet your ass I'm gonna call them and be there for them. and if your friend hasn't bothered to even reach out for 2 years, then maybe its time to learn to make new friends and find someone you can talk to. friendships are meaningful, but not when it comes at this cost. being independent is a completely different thing in this scenario. everyone needs someone to talk to. it's normal to feel this way.
i hope you make the decision that is right for you anon. itll all work out at the end.

simple dune
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word anon wordt

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this was felt

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in da feels

rapid nimbus
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riyal

rapid nimbus
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us bro us

restive totem
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anon ion care if you’re stubborn pick up the phone and call them not to get back with them but to move on cus you clearly have not talk it out and then when you have talked it out with them and when you’ve made up and you know feel like you’ve lifted some stuff of your shoulders you can either give them a second chance (I would not do this) or move on and find other friends

rapid nimbus
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basically what i said but simpler

simple dune
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or yk

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you could egg their house

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move on

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forget them

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let the reason stay a mystery

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and forget about them

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gp style 💪

rapid nimbus
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i do not recommend the above but sure whatever works for u anon

simple dune
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no

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fuck confrontation

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scary

rapid nimbus
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i told anon to just move on vro i didnt tell them to confront

simple dune
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i never said you did :p

restive totem
simple dune
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one day fr

restive totem
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i want to egg someones house too