#i like women more than men i think
real breachBOT
boreal saffron
i apologize on behalf of mankind gang
making a generalization because of one occurence is
not healthy though
and as for not being able to talk to anyone about it, just talk to someone online, relative anonymity is chill
jagged nimbus
fax spoken by geagle bhai
ivory swift
you shouldn't lable entirity of male kind dat 😔
plucky moss
Don't think you guys understand this. It's not active generalisation. When you've been so thoroughly disturbed, it's unintentional to feel this way about all men.
It ends up feeling like a safety precaution
Just saying "stop feeling this way" or "don't label everyone" is much easier because it's not something most women want to do but it's better than it happening again.
Just like most women wouldn't want to be alone in a room with a man they don't know. Even the chance of him being harmful is enough to scare them.
It's not anons fault we don't know what they've been through. It's justified to feel on edge or repulsed by men if you've been so hurt by them.
Obviously all men aren't bad
I support u tho anon
If u want to talk my dms are open or you can always post confessions
Ur not alone its happened to many women and its not ur fault
And if that's a reason for u leaning more to women its completely your choice
static mirage
:D
boreal saffron
Don't think you guys understand this. It's not active generalisation. When you'v...
agreed - this is why I said it’s unhealthy, not that it’s wrong
trauma-triggered defense mechanisms are hardly healthy; it’s not enough to just live with them, you need to work through them in your own ways
and a big part of that is opening up about your experiences and finding others that can help
plucky moss
trauma-triggered defense mechanisms are hardly healthy; it’s not enough to just ...
True but sometimes it's something so engraved into our society. It's safer to avoid all men in Pakistan than take the chance, its something that's not in the hands of most women.
boreal saffron
will not comment since I don’t know where OP is from
surreal crane
and a big part of that is opening up about your experiences and finding others t...
obviously, but well sometimes it's difficult to do exactly that
surreal crane
True but sometimes it's something so engraved into our society. It's safer to av...
this is true
boreal saffron
obviously, but well sometimes it's difficult to do exactly that
completely understandable
surreal crane
man even I wouldn't wanna be left alone with these people
boreal saffron
it all takes time
surreal crane
it all takes time
yes
plucky moss
will not comment since I don’t know where OP is from
Ok true
Majority of the server is somewhere in South Asia or Middle East tho
It takes time of course but at the end of the day it's up to anon if they want to lean to girls or boys
surreal crane
Majority of the server is somewhere in South Asia or Middle East tho
yeah
static mirage
i only open up to myself
and cats
static mirage
i might be a schizo
you JUST realized?
surreal crane
i only open up to myself
reasonable
surreal crane
i might be a schizo
LMAO
static mirage
anon thats fs
surreal crane
who doesnt like balls
real
surreal crane
anon thats fs
💀
abstract vapor
making a generalization because of one occurence is
Fr
ivory swift
anon thats fs
flight simulator
static mirage
for sure
foggy turtle
you JUST realized?
gulp
crimson atlas
bro's cheating at the game
no fucking wonder
how am bout to pull up on hertz rn icl
crimson atlas
yes
full notch
not healthy though
i know your intention was completely different with this reponse, but you gotta be more careful buddy. anon literally voiced how she felt disgusted by a comment made on her health
and all the guys on here talking about how generalisation is bad
atp its not even generalisation
it is every single occurence
and a final straw
theres a reason why we say ''not all men'' but always a man'
surreal kiln
@plucky moss and @full notch thanks for responding with nuance and making anon feel validated when they're clearly struggling
real breachBOT
Gave +1 rep to .sh1t, stressed0631!
surreal kiln
The other peeps just don't get it
surreal kiln
Yep
cyan pawn
will not comment since I don’t know where OP is from
Op is such a reddit thing
cyan pawn
theres a reason why we say ''not all men'' but always a man'
Nobody says the other part😭
No offense meant
surreal crane
Nobody says the other part😭
but it's implied
plucky moss
Nobody says the other part😭
It's a fairly common saying in these kinda discussions
surreal crane
It's a fairly common saying in these kinda discussions
yes
plucky moss
At least I've seen it alot
cyan pawn
It's a fairly common saying in these kinda discussions
Hmm, maybe the spaces you hang out
cyan pawn
If you say so
plucky moss
Search it up buddy 👍
full notch
Nobody says the other part😭
what do you even mean by this 😭
surreal crane
Not even an important point of discussion in this
ong
surreal crane
what do you even mean by this 😭
😭😭 like yeah nobody says it doesn't mean the implications arent there
cyan pawn
Lit a v common phrase in feminist groups
My point being "groups you hang out with"
Cuz God knows that feminist (including me) aren't tiptoeing around men egos saying "not all men" nevertheless the other part
Then again, it's a free world
So you do you
plucky moss
My point being "groups you hang out with"
Cuz God knows that feminist (includi...
What I'm saying is "always a man" is used by feminists because exactly what you said, we aren't tip toeing around their egos
Feminists never say not all men
cyan pawn
Feminists never say not all men
No we don't
But we sure as hell don't say "not all men"
plucky moss
No we don't
But we sure as hell don't say "not all men"
Yes that's what I said bruv
Men say not all men
plucky moss
Yeah I don't get it either there's a communication gap
cyan pawn
Yes that's what I said bruv
I think you might need to check your original message
plucky moss
shit pls dumb it down for me
Whether or not people say "always a man"
plucky moss
Nobody says the other part😭
Other part
full notch
Whether or not people say "always a man"
why does that matter so much to this confession 😭
plucky moss
R we talking ab the always a man part or the not all men part
plucky moss
why does that matter so much to this confession 😭
That's what I said