#lets out the biggest sigh known to mankind

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lost tapirBOT
twilit topaz
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if you’re moving next year, what are the prospects like? go for it if you want to, mixed signals are still “signals”, but only if you think it’s leading anywhere

lapis laurel
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You should talk to him

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ask him how he feels about you

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that might give you some clarity or closure

fringe lantern
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Go for it

floral apex
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threat him

lapis laurel
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if he doesn't like you like that, you won't ever see him again

fringe lantern
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Yes

lapis laurel
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that's a yay

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and move on

fringe lantern
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I did the same thing

lapis laurel
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woah

fringe lantern
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It didn't turn out well

ivory wagon
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tell him

fringe lantern
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But at least I don't have to see her again

ivory wagon
fringe lantern
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I'm a boy 😭

lapis laurel
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lmaooo

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he did

ivory wagon
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damn bro I ain't know you were like that

fringe lantern
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I liked a girl

ivory wagon
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sure

fringe lantern
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We were friends too

lapis laurel
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ouch

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but that's life

fringe lantern
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Yep

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But my point is

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At least you won't have any regrets

floral apex
lapis laurel
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true

lapis laurel
floral apex
fringe lantern
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I got hacked

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That was the hacker

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Not me

pale sluice
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I go with what darky said

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Threat him

forest barn
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Mixed signals could mean 2 things;

  1. they know ure into them n r playing for u to take the first step (not very manly of them tbh, because if he actually liked you he wouldve straight up talked or tried to in one way or another. If he hasnt he's waiting for u to cave in and see the extents YOU can go to for HIM. Which is just attention seeking and not pure love)
  2. they dk and r just trynna see if u react a certain way to be assured that u actually like em before they approach u.
  3. They know of how u feel and reciprocate that feeling, but dont want to develope a rs because either they dont like it or cuz they dont think they can be in one yet. If this is the case, resting the case js better because you dont want them to make an unfavourable decision for themselves when theyve already decided what's best for you. And if he reallt cared ab ur opinion if he knew u were into him, he would've asked you. Yes, he prolly didnt have the courage blah blah, but he's a guy and relying on conventional genderistic roles and mentality, he should have had the courage.

If ur scl is ending soon, i highly doubt its the 2nd option, cuz if he was into you, he would've confessed alr. Also, if its j a crush on ur behalf, its not very wise to act on it unless you belong to a community that is accepting of this. Plus, if its the 1st option, im telling you, NOT WORTH IT. A guy giving mixed signals is a danger sign. Run.
All that being said, do what you like but do not sacrifice your principles.
I'm j being realistic. :/

forest barn
lapis laurel
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yes

rose nymph