#Giving my brother more independence
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somber hearth
why does bro have a therapist
anyways yes talk to your parents, being pampered like this will do nothing but make his future miserable and unnecessarily difficult
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why does bro have a therapist
that, i got no clue tho he prolly has some form of communicational disorder
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anyways yes talk to your parents, being pampered like this will do nothing but m...
every time my mom brings up the topic of John Robert Powers and talks about my brother's progress, i frequently play devil's advocate
and tell her that this is just a waste of her money
cause in the end, he can choose to listen or ignore what they taught him
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anyways yes talk to your parents, being pampered like this will do nothing but m...
he's been spoiled like this for years, not just by his mom, but his nanny, who is slowly getting fed up with his shenanigans too
somber hearth
that, i got no clue tho he prolly has some form of communicational disorder
that would explain it
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cause in the end, he can **choose** to listen or ignore what they taught him
this, this is what it all builds up to
its not about the parents' effort in the end, its what the child chooses to do
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yes
somber hearth
id say, try talking to your brother first
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that's what i'll do when mom is not around
somber hearth
yeah good likc
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and maybe question the therapist too
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exactly
somber hearth
get his opinion, and then talk to your parents about it
somber hearth
follow the societical norm
this is different in every place, there is no generalized norm, and people look down on following the crowd too
somber hearth
tho at least having my parents question their doings is enough on my end
yeah
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> follow the societical norm
this is different in every place, there is no gener...
oh well, chinese parenting stereotype
somber hearth
it should give them a sense of whether what they're doing is truly helpin or not
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i gues?
somber hearth
oh well, chinese parenting stereotype
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it should give them a sense of whether what they're doing is truly helpin or not
exactly
i remember what my current therapist told me:
"the eldest is usually the "experiment" for a parent"
maybe she saw thru her mistakes of abusing me but does a more subtle form of it on ny brother
somber hearth
that isnt really wrong ðŸ˜
somber hearth
maybe she saw thru her mistakes of abusing me but does a more subtle form of it ...
perhaps
yeah since eldest child is usually their first shot at parenting, unless they've ever been a babysitter or something
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yup
somber hearth
they tend to change their method on the younger children
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true
somber hearth
well yeah i've said all I can say with certainty, good luck trying to talk to your parents about it man
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thank you, and i'll see what i can do
somber hearth
aight