#venting

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fleet steppe
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thats totally wrong

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not you da

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vaishu tamil a ?

neon iris
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Like they can talk it out they are old enough but no he chose violence

silk thicket
fleet steppe
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telangana ?

silk thicket
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kannada

fleet steppe
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ohh

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LOL

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kannadam

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bro

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blr

silk thicket
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yeah

fleet steppe
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i miss mysore bro

silk thicket
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uve been there b4?

fleet steppe
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yeah man

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mysore palace yk that one

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tipu sultan palace

silk thicket
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yeah

fleet steppe
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visited there

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i love mysore

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i hate dosas

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but mysore masala dosa

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is just wow

silk thicket
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hmm rlly

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ive never went to mysore yet

fleet steppe
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you should

silk thicket
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or maybe i have like when i was like a baby

silk thicket
fleet steppe
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alr take care kid

silk thicket
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thx

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<33

zealous sphinx
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I DIDN'T CRY. I JUST SAID I WAS ABOUT TO.

silk thicket
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i didnt mean you literally cried 😭

zealous sphinx
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😭

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Okay 😭

granite zodiac
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hmm

mild compass
granite zodiac
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hmm

zealous sphinx
green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to sushipio!

mild compass
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sigh

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I'm sick of mosquitoes

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they're so clingy

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I wish they would just go away

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find someone else

mild compass
mild compass
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hehe

mild compass
mild compass
silk thicket
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i thought they prefer A+

mild compass
# silk thicket i thought they prefer A+

Type O blood seems to be a mosquitoes' preferred blood type as compared to A, B and AB, but the only significant difference was when it was compared to Type A,” says Ulysses Wu, MD, Hartford HealthCare's chief epidemiologist and medical director of infectious disease. You have genes that advertise your blood type

silk thicket
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i swear mosquitos love me

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and i'm A

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🤣

mild compass
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they also love stinky people, that must be it

silk thicket
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OMGGG

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U DIDNT NOT

mild compass
bleak raptor
full schooner
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@stray wind hey so

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we got tgth in like nov

stray wind
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Hi

full schooner
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he left me in like dec end for his ex

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then came back in jan start

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me being me i took him back

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then he broke up w me again in feb but took me back in march after a lottaaaa begging

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then he broke up w me again, this time for no reason and rly harshly(he hadnt been harsh the previous times)on like may 31 and even blocked me this time

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and now hes w his ex

stray wind
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I see

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Were you like

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Friends prior or

full schooner
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nahh

stray wind
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Did you just meet with the sole premise of like “hey i think you re cute”

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So no friends to lovers thing

full schooner
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nope i was js flirting w him cz i like attention

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but then idk how or when

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but it got serious

stray wind
full schooner
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and we started calling it a rs

stray wind
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I respect it tbh

full schooner
stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
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If you wanna say rhat

full schooner
stray wind
full schooner
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it was like a matchstick burning

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u cant tell

stray wind
stray wind
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In a bit

full schooner
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yes please

full schooner
stray wind
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You guys just

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Went with the flow

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And ended up dating seriously

full schooner
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yeah exactly

stray wind
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Then he dumped you for his cheating ex

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Then came back to tou

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You

full schooner
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oh no

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the dumping was before it got serious

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for me

stray wind
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Ohhh

full schooner
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like he said ily to me before it happened

stray wind
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He s like

full schooner
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but i didnt

stray wind
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WHAT

full schooner
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i didnt love him yet

stray wind
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HOW DO YOU

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FALL IN LOVE

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IN A MONTH

full schooner
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no cz literally lmao

stray wind
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that s infatuation

full schooner
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(him leaving made me fall in love)

stray wind
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Bro…

full schooner
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im assholesexual

stray wind
full schooner
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oh no what happened

stray wind
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She led me on for a whole year

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I cut her off since it was severely affecting my mental

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She then went

full schooner
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how did she lead u on?

stray wind
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Noooo i miss him

stray wind
full schooner
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i fall in love w every guy after they leave

stray wind
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She said yes, but later said she couldn’t and just said yes to save me from some teasing

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Im like

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Yeah okay sure

full schooner
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wtf

stray wind
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It is what it is

full schooner
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thats fucked up

stray wind
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I wasnt super upset

stray wind
full schooner
full schooner
stray wind
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Wait

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Can you line

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Like

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Check if she s in the server 💀

full schooner
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whats her id?

stray wind
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i blocked her i cant check

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ok wait ill do it myself

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Brb

full schooner
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oh okk

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is she here?

stray wind
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Ok not here

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Blocked her again

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Anyway

full schooner
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wait wait

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how old r u

stray wind
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18

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You?

full schooner
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16

stray wind
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BRO

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YOU A CHILD YOU DO NOT NEED SUCH DRAMA

full schooner
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how r u in as if ur 18?

stray wind
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Ill remove this role after results come out

full schooner
stray wind
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So im sure i wont retake lol

full schooner
stray wind
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Ok where was i

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So

full schooner
full schooner
stray wind
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Wtf

full schooner
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nah

stray wind
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And i was still obviously in love wirh her since i was in love with her for almost a year prior

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I was the only guy to give her thay level of attention

full schooner
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why?

stray wind
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So she sorta shifted it to a situationship

full schooner
stray wind
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Cute to me tho

full schooner
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bro likes the attention

stray wind
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Ill never call her ugly

full schooner
stray wind
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So that happened for like 3 days

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She s like

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I love you this is love you that

full schooner
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girl what

stray wind
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Then i told her i might move away permanently, and that she should know

full schooner
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oh where do u live

stray wind
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She s like okay i understand but i still love you

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She then sends me

full schooner
stray wind
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A FUCKING EMAIL

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detailing how she cant do this

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Im like

full schooner
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bro what

stray wind
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Yeah this sucks for me

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But

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Fair enough

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Within like 3 weeks i find out

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Im not moving away permanently, but gonna go for like a week or 2 since plans changed

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I told her this

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She s like

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Lol i never loved gou in the first place

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?????

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Then she sorta strung me around for attention for a further 9 months

full schooner
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i hate ppl who say that

stray wind
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I got sick of it post o levels

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I cut her off

full schooner
stray wind
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She came crying back

stray wind
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In my head it was like

full schooner
stray wind
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“This the closest ill ever come to a relationship with her, so ill just do thisL

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To me communication and honesty are like

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The two main thjngs

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For a relationship

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Like

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Proper communication

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If you have an issue with me

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Please tell me

full schooner
stray wind
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I wont be mad about it, ill be open to listening

full schooner
stray wind
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We dated for a month before i broke up w her

full schooner
stray wind
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We had 3 and a half major arguments in that span

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First one was because i told her to wait 10 minutes before i can call since i was in a game w my friend (i replied to her instantly at all times throughout the day and only took that break while she was with her tutor)

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I called back within 8 minutes

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She was like

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I thought you were doing something important but you were just playing with your friend

full schooner
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bro wtf

stray wind
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I gave her all the time she needed to herself

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At all times

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She got mad i wanted an hour to myself and my friends

full schooner
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my ex didnt reply for hours when he was gaming 😭

stray wind
full schooner
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and if i said anything i was the crazy one

stray wind
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At least i won that game

full schooner
stray wind
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What does this even mean

full schooner
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just

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never met a guy

stray wind
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Okay anyway

full schooner
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whod choose his gf over his games

stray wind
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We made up after

stray wind
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If i spent all day talking to you

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And when you re offline and im doing something

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Ill text you that im busy adoing something

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Doing*

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And that ill text you back

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When im free

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It s not hard

stray wind
full schooner
full schooner
stray wind
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Basically i told her to please consult me before she told info to her best friend, about my friends that her best friend hates

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Info was relevant to the best friend as well

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Whay does she do

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She tells her without consulting me

full schooner
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omg other people drama?

stray wind
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And this caused her best friend to contact her own mom and almost get my friends (who are dating) in trouble (for dating)

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My ex also shit talked a lot about the two friends of mine even though she was supposed to be the girl s friend too

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And when i called her out on it and told her it wasnt nice

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She s like

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Yeah but ill pick my best friend over them

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Bro this is not about picking you brougjt them in without any reason to

full schooner
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bro wtf who does that

stray wind
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Argument 2 and a half was when i talked to her about communication

full schooner
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what did u say?

stray wind
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I told her upfront that she needs to speak to me directly about issues she s having instead of talking to our mutual friends, since it s not productive that way

full schooner
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awww thats sweet

stray wind
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She then said

full schooner
stray wind
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She said smth dumb i cant really think of what exactly

full schooner
stray wind
stray wind
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I TEXTED HER AFTER 8

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NOT EVEN 10

full schooner
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😭

stray wind
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I then spam texted her

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Got ghosted

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Apologized for some reason

full schooner
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bro why are people so ungrateful like if my ex was like that id die(in a good way)

stray wind
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Then she brought up that “i thought you were doing something important but you were just playing with your friend”

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Okay anyway

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Argument 3 was

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She ghosted me on our anniversary

full schooner
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wow what

stray wind
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On purpose

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Yeah

full schooner
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how does one do that

stray wind
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1 month isnt a huge deal but

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To us it was

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Because of all the bs that led to us finally dating

full schooner
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i never even had an anniversary w anyone 😭

full schooner
stray wind
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Okay so

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The day prior

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My friends were annoying me in vc

hoary turtle
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How tf is venting so active

stray wind
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We were talking in the way cheesy couples do

stray wind
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I am spreading wisdom to the young ones

hoary turtle
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Oh good

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🙏🏼

full schooner
hoary turtle
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Enjoy

full schooner
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thats so cute

stray wind
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So i told her

full schooner
stray wind
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“Hey i love you, but these fuckers are annoying me, so im a little bit not in the mood”

stray wind
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YOU RE 16 WDYM GUYS OLDER THAN ME

full schooner
full schooner
stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
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Ghosted and dry all day

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I knew she was mad

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I asked her if she was

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She said no

full schooner
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i cant even-

stray wind
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I asked if she was sure

full schooner
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idek what to say 😭

stray wind
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She said yeah she s sure

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She told me prior to not push her too much when she doesnt wanna talk about something, so i decided to lay off a but

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Bit

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Just send reels and shit

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SHE GOT MAD I DIDNT PUSH

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WDYM

full schooner
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thats why we shouldnt date mid people. like im personally only gonna date guys who are atleast a little hot from now on

full schooner
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no wonder shes an ex lmao

stray wind
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I cant do some half assed bs again bro

stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
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I wrote her a whole paragraph and stuff

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For the anniversary

full schooner
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awwwww thats so sweet wtff

stray wind
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I saw her texting in the gc

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And im like

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Oh.

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She forgot.

full schooner
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💀

stray wind
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Later im like

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Okay this hurts but

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If she forgot it s not malicious

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I confronted her directly

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I asked her

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Did you forget

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She s like no i didnt

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I ask “but then why not?”

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“Because that hurt quite a bit so im just wondering”

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She says

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“Do you need bandages and ointment for your wounds?”

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????????????

full schooner
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wow wtf

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what the actual fuck \

stray wind
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HAHAHAHAH

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I WAS SO STUNNED

full schooner
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i would cry if someone said smth like that to me

full schooner
stray wind
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I replied with a ?

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She then said

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Aww hospital e niye jabo? You re that hurt

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?

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Im Bangladeshi btw if this didnt give it away

full schooner
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ohhhh

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what does niye jabo mean?

stray wind
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I said alr

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Then dumped her

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Blocked her

full schooner
full schooner
stray wind
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She sent me fucking essays

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But the thing is

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Overall

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She wasnt

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A horrible girlfriend

full schooner
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maybe she has bpd

stray wind
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She was supportive and loving during times i was having severe anxiety and shit

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Once irl too

full schooner
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awwwww

stray wind
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But the thing is

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It just wouldnt work for us

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Im sure she ll find someone better suited for her

full schooner
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thats so sad

stray wind
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And im okay with that

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I moved on, she…didn’t

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Yet at least

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I dumped her last December

stray wind
full schooner
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😭 idk this is so sad

stray wind
stray wind
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Niye jabo means to take

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Jabo means go

full schooner
stray wind
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Yes

full schooner
stray wind
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She made rhat excuse

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I didn’t buy it

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Since

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She wrnt to bed after writing that knowing it hurt me

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Which was unforgivable to me

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Not even stayinf there to resolve anything

full schooner
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she went to bed?

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thats fucked up

stray wind
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Also the issue of her being severely insecure over my best friend who happens to have the opposite set of genitals

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Even though i told her even while i was being led on that i see my best friend as like a sister

full schooner
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OFC SHES INSECURE?

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LIKE

stray wind
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My ex when she was leading me on she tried to make me go for my best friend

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Im like

full schooner
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nah u cant blame her for that

stray wind
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Ew

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No

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Wtf

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Absolutely not

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She s like my sister

full schooner
stray wind
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So this was pre established

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That i didn’t (still don’t) have feelings for her and she doesnt have them for me

full schooner
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no but still

stray wind
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Guys and girls can be friends if you re mature bro

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Also

full schooner
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anyone would be insecure ab that

stray wind
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My ex is a year okder than me

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So she shoulda been the mature one not me

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She was 18 when all this happeend

full schooner
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my ex was 3yrs older than me yet we was both immature 😭

stray wind
full schooner
full schooner
stray wind
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If my gf has a boy bsf that would be okay if i know the guy and that there s no prior relationship nor interest either way

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If i cant trust my girlfriend why would i date her

full schooner
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i got mad about a girl commenting a red heart on my ex's post from 2yrs ago. before we even met

full schooner
stray wind
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Na i will say this

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I wasn’t perfect either

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Im a very straightforward type of person

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Like

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Ill have an opinion

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And ill say it

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Not like

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In a mean way

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I know social curs

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Cues

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But

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Sometimes i can be blunt

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Which caused some issues

full schooner
# stray wind Bro…

i have severe jealousy issues and abandonment issues 99% of our arguments were about me being jealous over some girl or thinking hes gonna leave ,e

stray wind
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Ive been working on that

full schooner
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i think being blunt is good

stray wind
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Oh ya i have abandonment issues too now

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Lol

full schooner
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but still some people cant trust anyone

stray wind
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Which is why i wont date till uni

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Im not gonna date a girl now just to have her move away

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And break up w me

stray wind
full schooner
full schooner
stray wind
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Not at age 18

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Unless you re both super serious and committed

full schooner
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i think it can

stray wind
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It can but rarely

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Time zones and all

full schooner
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i mean it depends on the person tbh

stray wind
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Yeah

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I can have a ldr no issue

full schooner
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where r u going for uni?

stray wind
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It s just that

stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
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Ill do my undergrad then do my masters abroad

stray wind
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And that s perfectly normal

stray wind
full schooner
full schooner
stray wind
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Pretty decent

full schooner
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ohh fair enough ig

stray wind
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Plus english mediums are just what run in my family

full schooner
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im tryna get at least 36/45 in ib so i can leave

stray wind
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Where do you wanna go

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Ib is hardddd

full schooner
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europe or us

stray wind
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I have cousins who did ib

full schooner
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i enjoy my HL subjects

stray wind
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Ok

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Venting over

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Going back to general

full schooner
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wait wait

stray wind
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Yo

full schooner
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so are u over ur ex?

stray wind
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Very much so

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Sometimes shit doesnt work out

full schooner
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tips??

stray wind
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You gotta live with it

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And move on or else you wont grow as a person

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Do you want to stagnate or do you want to move on with your life

full schooner
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is dating someone js bcz hes dating someone called not moving on?

stray wind
stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
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You re putting yourself in a dangerous place

full schooner
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why

stray wind
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Delete images

full schooner
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did

stray wind
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Convos

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Screenshots

full schooner
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done all of that

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i just kept

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the 2 poems he wrote for me

stray wind
# full schooner why

You re practically using someone who will possibly develop an attachment to you in order to get back at your rx

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Ex

full schooner
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bcz no one ever wrote about me before

stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
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Fuck that corny shit is what you should be telling yourself

stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
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Really do you?

full schooner
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yeah

stray wind
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Sit and think about it

full schooner
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im attracted to him

stray wind
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Do you want him because of your ex

full schooner
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had been since before i met my ex

stray wind
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Is he a pedo too…

full schooner
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hes only a year older

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and the others guys were not pedos

stray wind
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But listen

full schooner
stray wind
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If you re going to date him

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With one motive being to get back at your ex

full schooner
stray wind
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You ll complicate your feelings and thoughts more

full schooner
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actually can i send a ss?

stray wind
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You re bringing a third party into this mess

stray wind
full schooner
stray wind
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Idk if you want your shjt here

full schooner
stray wind
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Now you want to date this guy

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In order to get back at him in some way

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You re bringing a third party into it

full schooner
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not really?

stray wind
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Was he involved in any part of your relationship prior

full schooner
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my ex is the third party now

full schooner
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like when we broke up the 2nd time

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and he was the one i told

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also he wanted to be friends w my ex and sent him a req on insta but i made my ex block him 💀

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and i used to talk to them about each other

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like i used to tell him ab my ex

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and i used to tell my ex about him like this one time i was talking to him(friend) on call at 12am so my brother snatched my phone and told him(friend) to not talk to me ever again so i got angry and told my ex about it

stray wind
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This is very much high school drama

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But what i will say is

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Don’t date this guy unless you are 100 percent wholeheartedly sure you want to date him because of who he is and what he means to you

full schooner
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i trust him and i feel comfortable around him

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i don't trust any other guys and a lot of them feel weird and creepy

stray wind
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That s a good start

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Take it slow

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Tread lightly

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Be wary and aware of yourself

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Dont rush

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That s all obvious but

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Not at the same time

full schooner
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yeah

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ill try my best

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i also dmd u

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the screenshot

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today i asked him

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if i can kiss him. he said maybe but while smilling

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then i was like "im taking that as a yes"

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and he was like "no youre not"

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then i was like "so youre saying no then?"

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and he said "im not saying no "

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so i said "okay then im taking that as a yes byeee"

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and i left

mild compass
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@full schooner there is something wrong with you

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many things actually

full dagger
languid musk
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focus on school or sum bro tf is this drama 😭😭😭

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y'all do NOT need to be dilly dallying in high school

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🙏Sob_AE

languid musk
tiny oracle
granite zodiac
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i can adopt u in like 2 months

languid musk
languid musk
granite zodiac
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not at all

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ok done, karachi ki sarko p rulwaon ga

languid musk
languid musk
tiny oracle
granite zodiac
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its degeneracy

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would b attachment if you fell in love w the person during ur phase together and then they left lol

tiny oracle
languid musk
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the fuck is this

mild compass
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wtf did i just read

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“i asked for kithy but he was neutral 😠”

languid musk
granite zodiac
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shes gone crazy

granite zodiac
granite zodiac
languid musk
tiny oracle
# granite zodiac what even is this

Avoidant attachment is an attachment style a child develops when their parent or main caretaker doesn't show care or responsiveness past providing essentials like food and shelter. The child disregards their own struggles and needs in order to maintain peace and keep their caregiver close by

  • according to google
granite zodiac
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this seems more related to family, even if it was ur partner, how does this fit in what the above conv was ab

tiny oracle
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a traumatized child will likely carry on their trauma wit them towards other bonds they have

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like, falling inloce with someone after they leave is not normal

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it's plain attachment you have w them, rather ypu miss attention from them

granite zodiac
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she lit said she liked the attention and the lack of attention made her fall in love

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thats a degradation kink if u ask me

mild compass
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....

silk thicket
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I WANNA READ THIS TEXT SOO BADD

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BUT IDK WHERE TO START CUZ IT'S 300+ MSGS 😭

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😭

bleak raptor
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tsk tsk tsk

silk thicket
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...

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😭

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this topic is interesting

coral plover
granite zodiac
coral plover
granite zodiac
mild compass
granite zodiac
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bro fr we need a summary @full schooner

silk thicket
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exactlyy

boreal leaf
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Erm ima vent that im cooked for sat

fleet steppe
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Bro sat is the easiest

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W out studying you can score like 1200

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Whatchu on Bruv

mild compass
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keep going

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RAHHHH 🗣️🔥🔥

granite zodiac
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sat is hard, but ur harder, keep going

boreal leaf
silk thicket
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😂

full schooner
full schooner
full schooner
full schooner
silk thicket
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but it seemed interesting tho

full schooner
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um let me

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find the message

full schooner
mild compass
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ah

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hmm

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just a guy that's not over his ex and comes to you just because he's lonely

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using you basically

fleet steppe
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no offense but i know girls that live just to date

silk thicket
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U TOOK THE TIME TO GO FIND IT?

full schooner
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awwww ❤️

full schooner
fleet steppe
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ok

full schooner
mild compass
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how do you know?

deep furnace
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What is griffith on about

full schooner
# mild compass how do you know?

because no one can pretend to love someone so realistically. you yourself would have to believe you loved them to act like that

mild compass
deep furnace
steady grove
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i maybe in a somewhat similar situation rn

full schooner
steady grove
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but im more like the guy you dated

mild compass
steady grove
full schooner
deep furnace
full schooner
mild compass
steady grove
full schooner
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dont play w her

mild compass
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I'm confused

steady grove
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but then may still have feelings on someone who does not feel back

full schooner
steady grove
mild compass
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so

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a girl

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who's not an ex

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is not over you?

mild compass
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but

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you can't assume what he was feeling inside

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so

full schooner
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faking it is not easy and ik him he wouldnt bother w all that effort

full schooner
steady grove
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it's very complicated, cuz a lot has happened, i had feelings and confessed way later, did not feel the same way. 3 months later, still the same conclusion but then got opportunity with either one of the other 2 girls, dont know what to choose. i think i may not be ready if i still have feelings with the first girl and may need more time for myself

mild compass
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atp all you need to do is just move on since he's blocked you (if I'm right)

full schooner
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before that

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i didnt wanna move on

mild compass
full schooner
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i was like "hell come back" "maybe hes going through smth" "its my fault"

mild compass
steady grove
mild compass
full schooner
mild compass
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giving romance movies vibe

mild compass
full schooner
mild compass
mild compass
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how long is a while?

full schooner
steady grove
deep furnace
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Frfr

full schooner
mild compass
full schooner
mild compass
mild compass
full schooner
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youre gonna end up in a mess

deep furnace
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Don't listen to rose

steady grove
mild compass
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to be fair, love triangles are reallyyy messy

full schooner
# mild compass ah

funny thing he called me crazy all the time for being insecure about him not loving me/cheating on me/leaving me

full schooner
full schooner
mild compass
full schooner
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i know i know

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he said that

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i was making him the villain

mild compass
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did you do it excessively?

full schooner
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he manipulated me into seeing him as the victim lmao

full schooner
mild compass
full schooner
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like every single day maybe

mild compass
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I fear that both of you are...

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idk

steady grove
# full schooner block

ah we will, she kept bragging for my snapchat wanted to send snaps, and I did not want to rejoin the platform, but I said ok

full schooner
deep furnace
mild compass
mild compass
full schooner
steady grove
full schooner
mild compass
steady grove
mild compass
mild compass
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sorry

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can i say that

deep furnace
steady grove
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idk lol

full schooner
mild compass
full schooner
steady grove
# full schooner why

expressing interest, maybe romantic interest. like she was very eager for me to join

full schooner
green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to sushipio!

full schooner
steady grove
mild compass
steady grove
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but she has my word

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so will have to start to make a move

mild compass
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why snapchat specifically 😭

steady grove
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yeah no idea

deep furnace
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Blud didn't even have a snap before

mild compass
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but whyyy is she like so desperate smh

deep furnace
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He made it for her😭

steady grove
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for a personal reason

full schooner
mild compass
steady grove
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a while ago

mild compass
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that's why

full schooner
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i begged a guy to date me today but i had a reason

mild compass
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I'm curious

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it's a bit sus ngl

full schooner
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why

mild compass
deep furnace
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Or smth

steady grove
full schooner
full schooner
mild compass
# full schooner why

I don't know y'all are still looking where this is going but she's making him do things that he didn't wanna do alr?

mild compass
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ask

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seriously

steady grove
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ofc, i will

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after i finish with the shit day i have

mild compass
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ah

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goodluck

full schooner
# deep furnace Or smth
  1. i feel like shit being single when my ex has someone else
  2. if im with someone else I might not take him back if he comes back bcz I don't wanna hurt the person I'm with. if there's nothing stopping me I think I would take him back and I don't want to do that. i don't want to let myself be disrespected like that, I don't wanna be someone he can just leave and come back to whenever he wants so that's why I need to be with someone else
full schooner
steady grove
green ventureBOT
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Gave +1 rep to sushipio!

mild compass
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so you're using that person to move on from your ex?

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I see a cycle

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..

full schooner
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no but

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i told the guy this

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we talked about it

mild compass
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mhm

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I see

full schooner
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he made me realise that its unfair to him

mild compass
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yup

full schooner
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bcz were friends

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but

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neither of us actually love each other

mild compass
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you and your friend?

full schooner
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and he deserves someone who loves him, who he loves and who he can have a future with

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bcz he only wants to date for marriage and i never saw myself marrying anyone except my ex

full schooner
steady grove
full schooner
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he was never with me?

mild compass
steady grove
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got confused too

mild compass
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who she asked to be her boyfriend to get over his ex

full schooner
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😭

mild compass
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it's normal

full schooner
mild compass
full schooner
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idk i like being single but i feel like i have to

steady grove
full schooner
steady grove
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but ofc decision is hard

mild compass
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I support single

steady grove
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but idk it's complicated over here

full schooner
deep furnace
mild compass
steady grove
steady grove
mild compass
deep furnace
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What's ur age axer

steady grove
deep furnace
steady grove
mild compass
full schooner
# mild compass I support single

guys are kinda my coping mechanism tho. i was single for almost a year but then smth traumatic happened so i found this guy who only wanted casual but still acted possesive then pretended to do shit w another girl so i blocked him and shit but he was so cute and even tho i didnt love him i wanted a rebound so i started texting my ex with the intention of just flirting but ended up falling in love 😭

steady grove
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@full schoonerim curious how old you are cuz isn't that idk too early for you?

mild compass
full schooner
mild compass
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of course

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everyone is different

full schooner
full schooner
steady grove
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oh wow

steady grove
mild compass
full schooner
deep furnace
mild compass
deep furnace
full schooner
# mild compass that's just foul ngl

no see smth bad happened i dont wanna say what but i felt like shit so i found a guy to make me feel better but this guy fucked up so i found another guy but fell in love w him so now i need another guy to get over him(my ex aka who i fell in love w)

full schooner
mild compass
deep furnace
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Male patterned baldness taking souls nowadays 🙏🏼

mild compass
full schooner
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how is that about the world revolving around me tf?

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like ofc the world doesnt revolve around me i dont think it does?

mild compass
full schooner
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but my world revolves around me just like everyone's world revolves around them

mild compass
full schooner
mild compass
full schooner
full schooner
mild compass
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you're literally justifying using someone else

full schooner
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im protecting myself

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and im not gonna lie to anyone?

mild compass
full schooner
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ill tell the person what im doing

deep furnace
mild compass
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seriously

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they might agree

full schooner
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some person might agree

mild compass
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but it doesn't change anything

full schooner
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wdym

full schooner
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someone might have their own ulterior motives

mild compass
full schooner
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i dont see how im being a bad person if im being clear with my intentions

full schooner
mild compass
# full schooner wdym

asking someone else to help you move on from your last relationship by using them is disrespectful, no matter if they agree or not.

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how about you just learn to be happy by yourself and move on from someone that way like any normal person would after a breakup?

full schooner
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what if i find someone who wants to use me?

silk thicket
silk thicket
full schooner
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idk u guys are right

deep furnace
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Prolly should be completely malicious than pseudo malicious like this

full schooner
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i just dont know how else to move on

steady grove
silk thicket
full schooner
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i feel like if i dont do this im gonna take him back

silk thicket
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it's been 5 months since i broke with my bf

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but it was forced

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our parents found out so we had to break up

full schooner
mild compass
silk thicket
full schooner
silk thicket
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yep

mild compass
full schooner
mild compass
full schooner
full schooner
mild compass
silk thicket
mild compass
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but you just have to do it

deep furnace
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Bpd

languid musk
full schooner
deep furnace
full schooner
silk thicket
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keep urself busy

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ik how ur feeling

full schooner
# deep furnace

lmao when i told my therapist that i dont have bpd she went over all the symptoms and elaborated how i relate 😭

silk thicket
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my breakup hit me so hard

full schooner
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i dont rly feel anything

silk thicket
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but somewhere at the end

full schooner
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i just wanna be prepared in case he comes back

silk thicket
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things got toxic

full schooner
full schooner
silk thicket
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but i still loved him

silk thicket
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and bro im like 14

full schooner
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wtf

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how old is he

silk thicket
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12

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THATS THE FUNNIEST PART

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istg

full schooner
deep furnace
full schooner
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WHAT

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LMAO?

mild compass
mild compass
silk thicket
mild compass
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RUN

silk thicket
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and like we never broke up and we had this strong emotional bond

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but yeah turns out it went all bad

full schooner
deep furnace
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Nah why is bro dating a 12 year old 😭

full schooner
silk thicket
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ya

full schooner
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i mean my ex was 19

silk thicket
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bro one of my friend literally dated her badminton coach

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😭

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who was 27

full schooner
deep furnace
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Nahhh

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Dawg

full schooner
deep furnace
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Epstein island ah place

silk thicket
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was he hot?

full schooner
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to me yes

silk thicket
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ooohhhh

deep furnace
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Rose how would you describe how you feel on an average day

full schooner
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um i have no idea

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so usually