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BAHAHh
CHUP KARO ππ
the 22 year old one?
yea
bro my moms bored asf so thats all she does π
NAWWW
like lady raise ur 14 y/o son ππ im just 20
SHEEESHH
HAA ji
yeah
my eldest sister is a like a second mom
LEARNING EXPERIENCE
yes she is married alhumdulliah
maashallah
she's 27
π imagine increasing a womens age. never say that around her
oh i call her aunty
no more snow??
no more snow. no more rain
πͺ
alhamdulilah πͺπΌπͺπΌ
now its windy time
wow u gained an extra feet
i remember i walked out roundabout that wind speed
and put up my hands
nearly tripped
πππ
BUT I WAS FAST DOE
it feels like my hair is gonna all fall off from the windspeed π
ππ fr
cant relate to that but i can imagine
nah i'm on pasta now
i make whatever i can mostly. but exam season i mostly ate out
yeahh same, its exam season here as well
sheesh
DONT ASK
what did u do 
i thought boiled potatoes are meant to be crunchy so i ate underboiled potatoes
not one but 3
vomitted it later that night
HE"S FADED
world class
every time someone comes over, i feed em chips
why do you have people coming over π
whats the price of chips
1 euro
WTF
I THOUGHT 2 EUROS FOR LAYS WAS EXPENSIVE
IMAGINE 6 CAD
I CANNOT
DAS IST NICHT GUT
πππ
..how much is your monthly rent??
im guessing thats it good night
no
ohπ§πΌββοΈ
8 months ka 8.5k ππΌ
u should see the size bro its shoebox
WTF
eh mine is also a shoebox
AND bathroom ek ladki ke saath share karna padta hai
does it include kitchen?
not inside
WHAT
1 common in the floor
its shared by 25 people π
YOU"RE PAYING 1K A MONTH FOR THAT
BRO HERE YOU CAN GET YOUR OWN ROOM + KITCHEN + BATHROOM FOR 450 euros a month
π
i'm paying 200 shared with two people
germans hai kya
vietnam
wow
they chill
they keep everything super clean
if it was desi then the smell
would
be
say alhamdulilah ππ
alhumdulliah
lagta hai shift ho jana chahye
with this 1.2k a month do they atleast provide cleaning services
WHAT CLEANING SERVICE
with 1.2k a month here you can get a whole ass luxury service
THE HALLWAYS ARE CLEANED ONCE A MONTH
and our rooms are supposed to be by ourselves
bathroom shared cleaning
naah its mixed building π
bathroom sharing is done with same gender. but on floor theres guys too
THE GUYS DONT COOK LOL π
i think they all have meal plan
is the meals worth it
fr indomie to pasta upgrade πͺπΌπͺπΌ
HAAN JI
BRO AXERS
it looks lipsmaking good
UNI MEALS ARE SO GOOD
frrrr
his is worth it
mine is rubbish
its just 2 item choice like wtf
HALAL OR HARAM??
$4k cad semester wise and only 3 meals 5 days π§πΌββοΈ toh baki 2 din kya karu
unidentified πππΌ
BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHH
man they're scamming you hard for the passport
also wondering since the kitchen is shared with other occupants, whose equipment do you use
and if you use your own
where do you place it
π
we only have one freezer. 2 stoves 2 microwaves 2 ovens. 2 washing machine. 2 dryers. 1 coffee maker. 1 sink. 1 toaster. and its shared between 25 people π
mini fridge pots pans plates etc is all our own. and we keep it in our room π
YIKES
ππΌππΌππΌ
what about condiments
obv ours bro
i mean also in your room?
i mean yeah grocery makes sense
jo freezer mein rakhna hota hai baas woh hi freezer mein rakhte hai
so each time u gotta use the kitchen, you have to load up a bag with pots and shiz with condiments
and then take it to the kitchen?
how tf do y'all divide it then
yep π
a pain in the fkn ass
i thought it was difficult to walk to the kitchen but this is next level
bro we dont. just shove it in
wt
yikes
i'd be very cautious
my desi friends would just take other people stuff in their place
like 'oh yeah he's rich, ill take his tomatoes without him noticing '
hs anything been stolen yet in the fridge?
nope. or i didnt realise ig
eitherway i gtg bye ππΌ
Imagine
Wtf people does that πππ
Lots
womp womp
get your bands up
peak venting
My parents always ask me to have a happy face
but I just cant because of the intrusive thoughts
and other crazy stuffs
what sort of intrusive thoughts?
Like im gonna punch somebody
or do smth embarassing
Like man freaking stupid thoughts
i swear
try breaking wooden pencils
All of us struggle in keeping a happy face, but the thing is if u act positive, positivity comes towards u, a welcoming face is what makes others wanna be with u
if u get angry try to meditate and take deep breaths
if venting helps, do that, venting can be writing it out or just simply telling someone
all the time
recently i was sitting with a senior and we had some shit going on in skl and she was tensed up she pulled up their phone and recorded their own vent
she said that it helped her sort their thoughts
hmmm, try meditation
what makes u be in a bad mood
and due to those thoughts i talk to myself extremely
Dont overthink dude life is way more simpler
Do violent sports it helps to get out that energy π
I was skeptical about guided meditation before I tried it but it really helps clear your brain
Yep! Or fidget
Write things down in a journal and get them out of your head
Ikr, kickboxing you can punch as much as you want and get out all fo your intrusive thoughts for example
And through experience eating healthy food and getting right portion of nutrition helps a lot even in focusing it helps studying too
yess it doess
Like seriously?
agreed
yess
True im journalling now
Yeah how long should i do it for
keep yourself distracted
15 minutes is short!!!??
Dude like fr i do this half my habits/thoughts will be gone
Yeah I thought if I was able to clear my head surely I'd be able to just do it - clearly I could not just do it because I was still anxious
Thanks man, how long do you do it?
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But having a voice tell you to just breathe and let go really helped
Oh yeah guided meditation
You can do small 10-15 minute ones, that's what Im trying
I've also just started
My friend asked me to do it, i did one day but sucks
i couldnt stay at one position
You can do it while lying down if that helps
Oh that's great. How is it going, could you see any reflections?
Start with taking deep slow breaths
Maybe I should do it when going to school, like in my car it takes 10 minutes to go there
Okay and then
It very instantly calms me down, idk about long term because I haven't done it regularly
Oh thats niceee. When did you start?
You could try if you're able to relax
I mean its quiet inside the car
so should work hopefully
Start relaxing your muscles and make them loose
I need to go for cold shower
I need to do meditation
I need to do journalling
I need to lastly stop wasting time
I need to do all this fr and my life would drastically change
Try not to use the word need
It's not an instant change
I will go for cold shower
I mean overtime
im talking about long term like a year
I doubt your problems started overnight and they're definitely not going to go away overnight
I mean if i start meditation now maybe aftr 6 or 7 months they should go off at least a bit
and man i swear i i need to focus on my igs
My marks are good rn but its def gonna drop if i stay like this not studying and doing other possible stupid shit
It's definitely worth a try, it doesn't work for everyone but maybe you'll find something else that works on the way too
There's an app called smiling mind which my counsellor recommended to me
It has even really short 2-3 minute meditations
Ngl i did do meditation like when my friend said and my mind was quiet when i did the meditation
That's good!
Alright i would give it a try
You can try different voices or different types
Dude most importantly this man
Yep will try it out how many times should i do these meditation
All these thoughts+habits its just affecting my studies honestly
if i dont study properly, im basically gonna go broke
So for me I have difficulty starting to study so I'd do it before I start for example
and i need to make my parents proud like seriously
You could do a 2 minute one every morning if you want
Yeahhh
Or set aside 15 mins to do one in the evening after school if thats a time when you're full of thoughts
I mean im fine with doing the meditations, how about studying? though my marks are good i just find it boring. And i wanna love these subjects
Absolutely understandable
Yeah sure! Definetly!
So yk how should i love studying
i mean my teacher said studying 30 min a day until ur boards which is in 2025 will make you get A* if fully focused
You could look at stuff slightly outside your syllabus to get the interest up and have a goal to keep you motivated
and more time on the weekends
Alright
Did you do igs?
You may not need to study this particular topic but if you know that you want to do something, it gets a lot easier to achieve
Dude why tf are you stressing about igcse which is next year, just chill rn
Alright
Dude its just getting closer man trust me im taking literally 9 subjects and aiming for the damn 9a* for scholarship
I opened the phy book 1 week before exam and got an A
I aint as smart as you man trust me
im just a dumb idiot
who wants a change
in life
Im not smart tho
ok
Like idk you may be interested in medicine or astro or chaos theory, watch a vsauce video and you'll think wow that's really cool I wanna study that, and to do that I need to do all these things first
Yeah I did
I find interest in space ah
Just stay consistent with your studies tbh, thats it
How did it go? What were your scores?
30 min a day for each subject?
No
But I sat my IG in uh 2018 I think
Dont measure it by time
then ah
Set targets by topics
Oh damn what were your scores though?
Complete a topic each day
And shuffle between subjects
You should be an adult by right π
or in uni
Find interest in whatever you want, it's just an example
alright!
I'm doing my mastersπ
You can aim like 2-3 topics each of different subject each day
Thanks a lot man
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DAMNN on?
Also what were your ig scores? π
Find a hobby which gets you going
I'm doing physics, my project is studying electron dynamics in LED crystals
yo and lastly i find wahtsapp so distracting though i barely get any messages im still looking at it
7A* and A
Damn thats coool
Turn off your notifications, that's what I do
I hope thats me honestly π
Set time limits
I check my phone often enough that I don't need notifications 
How did you study during those days btw?
Hahaha
laptop? i got rid of my phone, so i use my moms phone
I lived in the middle east and there was nothing to do outside of studying so that's what I did lol
And I had really good teachers
Ohh
same here honestly
im in abroad
But how was your daily routine?
Try finding a hobby, that will keep you busy instead of scrolling through phone
Cycling or smth like that, but i cant be doing that all day π
Uh come back from school, eat , talk to my mum and then study ig? I was never a person who could stick to a schedule
Music
Learn an instrument
You can cycle for 30 mins a day tho
Oh ah haha
If that makes you more productive then it's worth it
It really shapes your personality, trust me
Yeah im doing that. Also another thng which distracts me is listening to music while studying
like especially bio
Then don't
Really? But i dont think so there are really any classes near my house
^^^ from a person who didn't develop hobbies please don't be me
Alright, but i listen to music like 24/7 @cosmic ginkgo@untold brook
Learn from yt, thats what i did
Alright
what instrument though?
What kinda music
Try not doing that for a while
Drums
Try blocking out some time
Tamil+English music
If your brain constantly has a stimulus it's gonna wanna fill the gap
Alright maybe while studying i shouldn't but during my cycling
True
No i mean genre, if its classical then you can go for sitar/tabla etc
Alright sure thing will learn
But youll need to convince your parents for drums and theyre too loudπ
Like even your neighbors will complain
Idk man, in english i prefer lana del rey songs and in tamil i prefer Anirudh song
Idk if you guys know
Or find something else you wanna learn
You got a drum??
Art even
I really really wanna learn coding
Or programming
Not really my interest
Whole drum kit
Absolutely do it!
DUDE its been my love but its just way too hard
i swear im doing html its just hard
Start slow
though my full passion is on coding+enjoying physics
Alright do you know coding?
I started on codecademy
Now are you a professional programmer π ?
Or if you really wanna stick with html then khan academy
Nah nah its fine i wanna learn python but idk whats its used for
@unkempt ingot if you know hindi then you can search up apnacollege on yt for programming
Nah I can use code but I wouldn't say I'm a professional
I honestly love all the codings i dont mind learning python
Oh where can I learn python from, i'd love to learn genuinely
Python is very versatile it's the first thing most people pick up
Nope i only know tamil
True so where can i possibly learn it
i'd love to learn it
Codecademy or free code camp or one of those 12h long YouTube video
I'll stick with the first one, im already getting enough scolding for sitting in front of my laptop
for 24/7
You'll still need a laptop
Well yeah i do know that
i can explain to them im coding
so they wont mind
Honestly it seems like a good start for me coding is fr fun
@cosmic ginkgo Also ahm how prior did you start studying for igs?
I promise not to annoy you lmao other than this
Oh no that's fine, I just had to get ready to catch a train
Uh I think my teachers made sure we were studying all the way through
yo that seems so fun
im just getting memories of India rn, where i had to travel in trains to go from state to state
Oh thats cool! W teacher
Ahah yeah I'm going to visit a friend for the day
Such memories
we used to go with my grandma and get chai on the train
Thats so niceeee man! Now im in malaysia no such thing like that exist π and looking at the window omg the wind
ahhhh!!
Oh thats awesome! Are you still in middle-east?
Enjoy!
Malaysia mentioned π£οΈπ₯
heloo another from malaysian here
Hi:)))
yo
west
penang?
nah KL
u mean wut l study for IG?
yea
No I'm in the UK now
Water
Gimme
Man I am so scared about studying engineering design π Idk if I will ever be able to solve problems like these (btw thatβs just Q1 of the engineering design exam ππ)
wtf is this bro
why do you need to do engineering design ?
you mechanical ?
I need to do every type of engineering in the first year
I didnβt realise till now that I will have to do stuff like this π
idk what you showed falls under
Idk aswell
i think maybe mechanical since they have to do a design class if im not wrong
I thought we learned to make stuff like this on a software package or smthn (maybe using CAD)
good luck for chemE π
But we have to handraw π
yeah
I didnβt even do AL chemistry but I looked at the paper and it seems more AS physics focused I think
you guys also until recently had to draw it on those large canvases like traditional engineers
I think civil engineering might have that too
yeah its basically physics
no chemistry
oh right yeah
Yeah itβs based on stress , strain and continues from deformation of solids topic in AS physics
Awesome!
Which uni? Sorry if I am being a busy body haha
Uni of Manchester and no worries
Damnn thats nice!
Ez
Thats 2nd bit
wait so Iβm gonna be fr they taught us orthographic views and creating isometric views in around fifth grade as an extra project in school
not THIS complicated but actually relatively similar
damn, was it hard
Istg
This teacher hates igcse
Indian board in our school (icse) teacher is so fking partial
Now in between physics atp she is saying our calculator fx-991 ex is not allowed
looks fun
it like a brain excersize
water
well tell her that igcse boards allows it
i did, but she is not trying to listenn
she says this calculator can do integrals
like bro we dont even have integrals in portion
put a complain in school suggestion box and if the whole class is against this behavior of hers then do one thing make the class head (if you have one) write a letter to principal complaining about your teacher and make everyone sign it and submit it to principal it should be sorted
i mean i wil definetly do that but till that time my exam is on 15th feb
its phy theory
like all the parents are gonna go mad once the results are given
like my dad told he is gonna go to her and just let it all out
thanks alan for listening
helped a lot
happy to help!
also yea it'd be a good thing if parents complain about it cause then school authority will know that it actually is serious and is true
yes thats what my dad said it adds seriousness
my ass
your indian teacher doesn't know shit
those calculators are allowed
its easy
dont fret
i did a handful its not much
Also, Idk if I making the mistake of choosing engineering instead of CS rn. CS degree is actually so much shorter and easier to pass than an engineering degree at UoA (but have low entry requirements). Idk why my mind chose engineering (prob cause it has entry requirements and coming to think of it, it doesnβt seem like a valid reason to choose engineering over CS)
@kindred stone did you ever regret choosing engineering over comsci?
I still have time to change it to CS rn
sometimes
but meh
cuz CS was like 3 years
and more coding based
while comp eng has maths and phys too
Yeah was engineering 4 years for u right?
Engineering costs 1 - 2 k (per year) more than CS too for me
So it actually costs $14 k more than comsci for me actually π
And another $60 k more (if u get a job right after the CS degree)
i just hate when math
Hello, I'm extremely down bad but
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Oh ok , thatβs good then. The worst case scenario is that I end up getting a CS degree 4 years later.
If I fail first year engineering, I can move to an ordinary Bsc in CS
mate you arent gonna fail first year engineering
shit gets real past the 1st year , not in the 1st year itself
Yh
1st year was baby stuff
2nd year it cha ged
I was too lazy since 1st year was too easy
2nd year kinda woke me up
(Still lazy)
still have idiot lecturers that think teaching is just reading the derivation of the formulae in electromag π©
are you really an engineering student if you arent
True true
I dont attend much lectures
And the good ones are like evening
After 5pm ish
I study at home
Usually cram since rn my eng suvjects are just maths and phys
My lecturers good researchers, horrible profs
Can't teach properly
No its allowed
yeah mine asw
altho i have computer architecture this sem , the next year onwards it'll just be maths and physics probably
i skip when my shit lecturer is teaching , i dont skip when the good one takes her turn to teach
but since I'm the course representative , they only know my face , so I cant skip even if I wanna π
I expected femboys to talk to me today but
Idk
imso burnt out idont even know how to study anymore
this mid term i had A*CE for my 3 subjects
i failed and onlygot 11 points
im so stressed and im always sleep
*sleepy
i always wanna sleep
i cant study for long and im always exhausted
we have the half term holiday tomorow what advice can you proivde
i dont wanna fail but im just lethrgic and tired
Inhale water and stay hard mate
What
I thought good researchers meant good teachers π
Cause they are likely passionate about their subject
So would teach it at a high quality too
nah
they are passionate towards their research , most of em cba to actually teach
but they have to do it anyway because its required of them by the uni
Mhm
Also undergrads are pretty easy to dislike
Most of them are great if you're a postgrad but if you're an undergrad then you get brushed off a lot
get plenty of rest and work on your diet
from my experience iβd always feel very exhausted for no particular reason, i sleep like a baby and get plenty of rest so i couldnβt exactly pin point why this was taking place
turns out i had severe vitamin d deficiencyπ
nurture your body, give it everything it needs/hv a balanced diet
oh yeah, exercise a lot
if youβre not using up the energy you consume theyβll continuously be stored in your body as fat
which will make you feel very sluggish n lazy all the time
itβs your body signalling you to spend your energy/eat less for the time being
i recommend walking for minimum of 30 mins a day until you feel confident enough to walk for longer
wym π
@cosmic ginkgo @fallen apex should an engineer just accept the steps of the fourier series and transforms and laplace series and transforms , or try to understand everything
i am doing the latter but damn its taking a long time
and my lecturer is just reading the working and every1 except me can accept it but idk if i want/can
Just use youtube baba
Easy to understand
It'll take time
But if you're in ee then it's a must to know
Just learn how to use it first so that you can solve the problems. And subconsciously youβll figure out why it works. In parallel you can also check out some relevant YouTube videos like 3Blue1Brown for a better intuition.
By the way @chilly solar your favourite sports shop at 1U has closed down
ah fk π
hmm
okay thanks much appreciated @fallen apex @kindred stone π
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nooooooooooooo
royal sporting house or sports direct ?
RSH. Near Muji.
If it helps, you can just think of it as carrying out spectrography on electrical signals, similar to mass spectrometry in chemistry
oh my god
bro whyyyyyyyyyy
its okay tho i'll go to the other one
better selection

Lack of patronage from you perhaps :)
Go visit Muji and write Fourier transform formulas π
Expectations vs Reality π
CSE students ........π
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dont make me feel bad AlexVector 
not a bad idea xD
Bhallagena
amaro bhallagena
I did not vent
amaro
sometimes itβs like
i wanna escape
but sometimes itβs also like
life is so perfect
(4)
I wanna die atm
Korao dekhi bhallagena
Buy a Muji pen while youβre there
water
fire
oh ur the bisma guy rt
i mean girl
hows ur adopted sister
i dont rlly remember w exactly happened but i wrote her off months ago
Hi, just wanted to vent here for a while. I have my board exams going on and have my Biology paper 4 on 20th. All I can say is I massively massively fucked up. I need an 80+ in the theory paper but I am barely even touching 60 in practice. All my friends and teachers think I'll get high but I just know I won't. I absolutely fucked up pretty bad, I don't know what the concepts are, I can't recall anything for the life of me and I feel absolutely shit. Whenever I try to study or motivate myself and get in the zone, I fucking doze off. I can't do this subject anymore and it's only me and myself to blame for it. I had this whole year to do this but I didn't, I procrastinated like a fucking idiot. I feel like a failure and will be a failure after the 20th. I just really really don't know what to do now and just wanted to rant about my own faults and get this off my chest
take a breather mate.
youβre showing symptoms of a burn out from excessive studying itβs also important to keep your health and study time balanced in order to achieve high grades
itβs not the end of the world i promise, you may have low expectations but things can take a turn, stay positive
and even if you donβt lifes all about gaining more experience and striving for the best
youβre not a robot, weβre all human after all
think well of yourself and be confident despite your doubts
very similar situation here a2 bio did not study for a single day and now if i try to revise its too hard, have to relearn everything
yup
not sure, think she got banned or smt (i didnt adopt her, u did bro)
Us bro us..i didn't do anything but now as boards are approaching dead..I'm useless and worthless π
thanks a lot mate, I think yes it probably is a mixture of both burnout and procrastination. I have learnt my lesson and decided there's no point in stressing about it now and am just gonna try my best now
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Goodluck man π
You're not useless or worthless at all Athenaaa! You still have time, you can get back and try to do your best
Don't give up before the battle has begun
You got this
Save me mayday mayday ππ..I'm not good as u think
ide remember now but werent u her elder sister
nah bro
ok so what happened was that we were siblings and u adopted her so she automatically became mine too
then she got banned or some schist idk
mm okay
mhm
yd she get banned tho she was a nice lil girl wasnt she
ppl that stay here too long (in chat lounge) either become mods or get banned
lol
there is no in-between
well there is
i was there for too long
and for like hours a day
exceptions, just like chemistry
frs
(i use insta)
(good for u)
β οΈ
I am neither
aint that nice.
π
bro is quoting geagle
yes π«‘
Iβm neither mod nor am I banned (mush for mod)
i was being hypothetical bro, ppl gotta stop replying to this schist
what is this behaviour? π @weary mango
Heβs tryna be pooja
fr
OH my, pls not that again π
i understand this..and i can totally relate
water
i deserve a nobel prize for holding myself back from saying womp womp here
Shoutout to my bros fighting their silent battles
Real
Ur granted one
ππ
oh well
indeed
me too
why is it always that chinese mothers would want to make their male children teach their own kids respect thru fear?
i'll admit, whenever i'm with my friends or alone, i am a chill, happy go lucky man
but with my mother, i suddenly become the opposite, a sinister, racist, selfish and cold person who looks like he wants to kill someone
is this what she wants in a man? hollywood stereotypes and generational trauma?
i've written down "i will break my family's generational trauma thru giving my children the happy life that i couldn't get" in my bucket list
i am almost ready to teach her a lesson, that fear can't teach kids respect
i knew from my therapist that the eldest children are pretty much the first tests of parents. they abuse only to find out that they were wrong and proceeds to treat their second borns with love and care
i wished that i was the second born
or lower
so that i won't have to go through the abuse
racist?
what
also its not just chinese mothers bro
this goes on in other countries too
real bro, prty much all asian mothers, but omly when theyre angry they discipline you by hitting
but yeah
water
the stereotypical, prideful military boy
or smth
no emotions but anger
and hatred
what
I NEED MOTIVATION TO STUDY MY MOCKS START FROM NEXT MONTH AND IM LEFT WITH ALL OF PHY AND CHEM HELP
haha mines in 2 weeks
im soo scared and feel super unprepared and prepared at the same time
idk frickin anxiety killing me
mines tomorrow and im not even sure which subject akhi
please i have mine in a week and i have a whole lot syllabus to complete
mine's in 3 weeks, not done with maths, physics or chem lmao, send help 
MAJOR US MOMENT BROTHERS AND SISTERS
I WAS HERE FOR MOTIVATION LMAOO BUT LOOK AT Y'ALL
WE GOT THIS WE'LL ACE OUR MOCKS AND GET STRAIGHT A'S IN CAIES
SAME ONG
i am just holding onto that fact that mocks don't matter and the finals do T_T
you have a whole month girl. Use it to your best you can do this. one month is a whole lot if you use the days effectively. wishing you luck
water
Sameπππ
I SHOULD BE STUDYING VDYSHEHS BYE
@cosmic ginkgo dude do you have any resources that you know of to make studying electromagnetism and knowing when to apply the equations as intuitive as possible ?
because my lecturer is just reading workings lmao atp i ain't gonna go to her class
Try doing problems from electrodynamics in Griffith's? There's lots of posted solutions for them
Make sure you're not doing stuff beyond your course tho
hmm idk if i am rn or not
I'm using Sadiku's electromag book which is what my lecture slides are based off on , but I'll check this out , thanks
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water
Amar gola betha
ganne ka juice
real but the thing is ive my tennis tournaments going on so i can't study
how to keep yourself sane with work life study balance
Caffeine
fr
Okay so
I have this one cousin who Iβm like mostly close with from my momβs side
There has been small rifts and misunderstanding between us before because of our moms
But recently we overcame it and tbh, weβre trying to build a healthy relationship out of it
And now that weβre a bit older, weβve been planning to go out all by ourselves and just hang out whenever
Today, she called me over to her house for a few hours just to chill
She lives very close btw and she can be the only reason I can step out of the house anytime I want and my parents wonβt worry
Asked my mom if I could go, she said no I canβt
She doesnβt like the fact that weβre hanging out a bit too often
I was like bruh, sheβs my βcousinβ and sheβs the only one Iβm literally close with
So basically momβs reason is that I spill a lot when I meet up with her
Spill in momβs term is basically tell all my relationship secrets with her
My cousin was the only one in the fam who knew I was involved with a guy for 6 years
My momβs still mad that she was kept in the dark for so long
Now she thinks that my relationship with my cousin isnβt good
She finds that harmful, she doesnβt trust me
Hence, wonβt let me meet up with her often
I had to make up a story to my cousin saying I canβt, it was a stupid excuse and she kinda got a little upset because she knows I could if I wanted to
This will basically create a distance between us cousins AGAIN and I donβt want that
Lowkey want to tell my cousin that my parents are the reason behind it
I mean sheβs a bit aware that my parents arenβt fond of both of us hanging out but I want to open up with her about this so bad
I just donβt know if itβs the right thing to do
okay my friend, I can't imagine how bad you're feeling.BUT, if I were in your place i would pull up that "I am gonna take revenge on you and makes sure my children never meet you and they will never call you grandma" personally for many asians thats a very big scary move
it takes out all her 100 out of 100 Hp
if that doesn't work,then tell her, If i had a daughter i would never raise her the way you raised me
i mean parents know what's best,but they lived their childhood its time to live yours, Just because of some family drama aint no way are you gonna risk a relation w your cousin who is the next gen of her family which is the same case as you
oh i absolutely can't say shit to my mom because its 'her' family and she makes the rules. i honestly can't go against her
it's so much more complicated than this
i've told my mom that i've decided to take 10 steps backward from her entire fam because of the toxicity
but my cousin is the only person who i want to be on good terms with
i just have 2 options
either i let my cousin know it's complicated in my fam or just have to maintain a distance
but the teeny tiny problem is "if" my cousin tells her mom about the shit i'm going through even if i tell her not to just so that things get better for me, her mom will try to 'fix' things by talking to my mom and then my mom will kill me because i spilled
How old are uu
gonna turn 21 soon
Omgg then htf does ur mom decide what u doo
south asian family thing
I am south Asian too Butt damn bro ur situation is complicated
actually it's waaaaaaay more than this lol
this is just 1% of it
thank youu
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I don't know if it's normal or not but I've faced bullying since kindergarten. I've been through physical, verbal and cyber bullying. But despite that, I'm still a very sensitive guy, even though I've been through bullying for years. I mostly get bullied for my anger issues. I tried being kind to people but they'll be rude to me and call me softly. People also called me autistic even though I'm not. I even beaten up my bully before and I really regret that I really wanted to apologise to him for what I did
bully deserved why regret
bro bullied you
also not normal to face bullying since kindergarten
and just report lmao
who gives a shit if you're " a snitch"
clearly if you've beaten up your bully before you can defend yourself should they plan something
also what type of bullying we talking
I regret my past actions
bro who gives a shit they deserved it
And I almost got suspended for beating up my bully
ok and? its your BULLY that you beat up not some random guy
they had it coming
was he the presidents son?
No
water
wow. can't imagine what my mom really wants me to be
so, it's my uni's job fair, and i applied interest in a local car distributor, as in, distributing and selling lamborghinis, porsches and audis
and that's a big company in my country btw
my mom grills me
expects me to be a corporate slave
at p&g
or uniliever
whoch is fucking stupid
so what)
it's just an internship for a year or two
THATSS LIKE MY DREAM INTERNSHIP
I COULD GIVE AN ARM TO BE AROUND PORSCHES AND LAMBORGHINIS
you sell me those, I will buy them from you
MAN I REALLY WANTT THAT GLS
s class better
Ik
eitherways bmw is better than both of them
WTF
so bmw eitherways is better than your benz or ben 10 whatever that is
Sorry uncle
I donβt like the front that much
Too ostentatious in my opinion
And the back looks like a normal Honda SUV
That sounds like what a non-car person what would say no offense
I get it
omg same
esp the 911
for a reason ;))
Im joking
911 gt3 rs>>
Those arenβt bad
ye
Honestly I canβt find a single bad Porsche
Boxster pretty
my uncle is gonna get one
I will buy all 5 InβShaaβAllah
Send us pictures
no
π
i will send only when i get 1
Fair
in that way i feel happy that my friends are praying for my success
Youβll get one InβShaaβAllah
Income tax too much
which you want to drop you from point A to point B
I will prolly only get one
lambos better
lambo were a part of ferrari
until ferrari kicked out lambo
and they decided to build race cars
Race cars are cool
One man army
Camaro
YESSIRR
wow alan you're a really good car person
My cousin is obsessed with that character
Also have you seen the BEL001
Wow why did my text send after 20 years
L WiFi
Im afraid not
just saw it, kinda looks like a porsche
your cousin has good taste
Heβs 12
It is a Porsche
gud
ohh
Do you like those old classic Volkswagen Beetles
I find em so adorable
yeah you're right
Damn
Chipku
no wonder why my mother finds the car industry in my country to be garbage
she wants me to be moneyc entered and not idk, someone who follows his dreams
although i'll plan to ignore her advice and jump to that company should i be offered an internship there
bruh
she tells me that there's nothing to learn should i end up in that internship
and instead brags taht p&g will give me life lessons or some shit
idk
if i get rejected in these companies except for that car distributor, not my fault
it'll be her fault for distrusting my dreams
although when i become an alumni of my uni, i'll sneak back and apply a job for that car dealer
under the marketing team
i honestly feel stuck
should i pursue my dreams and become a happy man
at the expense of a poor salary
or end up enslaving myself to being a corporate slave
I think happiness is important for survival
exactly
I pray you get it
so i apply for thatcar internship
i will prove her wrong tho
but i can't make an alibi
to pretend that i'm a p&g slave
while working at that car distributor company
in peace
You can make an amazing alibi
i can't
my mother prolly sees thru everything i say
so i submit to avoid angering her
by "choosing" a path that i do not want to be in
Working in a corporate does not have to be horrible, I did over summer and will be going back and I thoroughly enjoyed my team and all the stuff I picked up
That said, any experience is good experience so focus on what you'll learn and try not to go into things saying you'll hate them because you're deciding before you even get to experience it
And it doesn't mean that because you do the one car internship you will never be paid well
It could be a path into other things later
That's completely fair
exactly
yet my mom thinks that simply taking one path will condemn me to life
she tells me, "if i go to p&g or unilever for an internship, i'll prolly be guaranteed a job"
or smth
i honestly don't care about money
i care about happiness but my mom prolly wants me to think of money only
i'd rather be happy and poor, while pursuing a passion in cars rather than wealthy and greedy
and "if you apply for an internship at PGA Cars Inc. (the Philippines' distributor of Bentley, Audi, Lamborghini and Porsche), you'll get nothing"
like being asked to take an internship at a multinational that prolly pays about 25% minimum wage for interns in the office would be some boomer things
and instead treats multinational internships as something that will "change my life"
I have been recently wasting a lot of time, because I feel bored.Everytime I want to study I do not feel like studying. I was inspired by manyyyy people in reddit. Most of them went from D's to A's in one attempt without retakes and I REALLY want to be one of those. I have 64 days left till my main exams in may june.Idk how i should stop wasting time and actually get the shit done.Please someone help me out
I am all ears for someone who will have a positive impact in my life for my success
Use the 5 sec rule
Balance out ur timing
Like how long you going to study in a day and how long you will be relaxing