venting

[crimson fable]

laugh

away

the pain

tysm

for

yalls

emotional support

nd advice

[delicate bramble]

U still want him?

[crimson fable]

ofcc

[delicate bramble]

Your just so confused

[crimson fable]

i want him

[delicate bramble]

But few hrs back you were like I’ll break up

[crimson fable]

i was thinking abt my mental wellbeing

i aint got no regards for that shit no more

[delicate bramble]

Seriously you have to decide!! If he wanna go let him, don’t force anyone to stay with u. Sometime you have to let go people to be happy for your own self.

I’ve mentioned many times now, talk to him f2f and then decide…

Anyhow, I hope u find your best way and better people to stay with, work on your AS-level rather than relationship rn and make your parents proud fr. Good luck @crimson fable nice talking to u

[crimson fable]

thank u :))

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to ahmaisism#0

[placid folio]

bro
u should really consider becoming a therapist kinda thing
u seem to be real good at it

[delicate bramble]

pls, dont mention this again or else I'll start my career as a relationship adviser or therapist without studying psychology

[placid folio]

bruh they pretty similar
anyways good luck

[delicate bramble]

nope way different, therapist just dont deal with ppl sadness or problems. they deal with mental illness and health. Brain is part of organ, it also needs a treatment like rest of organ

[placid folio]

ok true

nvm me
i dont take psychology

[delicate bramble]

same i dont take either

[mild compass]

omg im sorry 😬

[fair ingot]

In grade 1 my friend took 1 riyal from me he still didn't return that 1 riyal it's been years I can't sleep and stop thinking about it 😢

[median timber]

darky thats--

[real forge]

ill give u 2 riyals instead

[fair ingot]

Habibi thank you

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to dark_sheikh#0

[real forge]

Habibi anytime

[median timber]

guyss

srsly

[real forge]

shhh

[median timber]

okiee sir feelingilla irukiru

[real forge]

xD

[vivid gyro]

This boy also hasn't returned my 1rm 💔

[fair ingot]

US BRO US 💔

[vivid gyro]

He said he sent the money threw Gmail

Bro what Gmail

[fair ingot]

😢

[cobalt moon]

Send me your account imma transfer that riyal

[delicate bramble]

too deep happened with me too, dw I'll give u 1 riyal

[delicate bramble]

us moment

[placid folio]

why
bruh i only complimented in a very sarcastic way
but no worries

[mild compass]

no because you had to apologize for no reason i was disturbing in the first place

ur right yes, i know he's 100% correct, its just me who's messing around 😭

[thorn sorrel]

Yes i can see there are 2 grammatical errors

Istg if someone questions it

[plush depot]

you've*
6 months*
didn't*

[slate sky]

Why does life suck so much

We just work painfully hard for just 1 moment of success

And after that moment of success, life again becomes painfully hard

[cosmic ginkgo]

Learn to enjoy the journey as much or even more than the goal

It's when you emphasise the goal so much that it feels worthless to fall back into the stressful spiral

[unreal shadow]

just change your definition of success then

[tropic hound]

if you spend all your life thinking about a specific moment, then anything before and after that feels worthless

enjoy the journey and set long term goals for yourself

and reward yourself for the little things, you can't expect yourself to work work work 24/7 and remain sane

[placid folio]

i feel so guilty
i listened to a few songs today

[safe kernel]

you feel guilty because you listened to a few songs

what?

[placid folio]

my mum banned me

[safe kernel]

why

did your mom ban you

from listening to songs

im listening to one right now

[untold brook]

?

[placid folio]

Bruh it was soon random for me aswell

I was listening to girl on fire last week

She just came to me and said "I should never find you listening to songs again stop this now"

And I'm pretty sure she wasn't joking

[untold brook]

That song in particular or just songs?

[placid folio]

All songs

Bruh this not good for me cuz I used to run on songs and coffee

[untold brook]

Sad

[untold brook]

Fr music is my life

[safe kernel]

good luck tryna be alive

[upbeat jolt]

Music Haram yo

She's right

[safe kernel]

how

[upbeat jolt]

The lyrics are sex, drugs, violence etc.

[safe kernel]

not all

[upbeat jolt]

And musical instruments are the tools of satan

[safe kernel]

huh

[upbeat jolt]

So all music with musical instruments is haram

[safe kernel]

wait so

[upbeat jolt]

Like guitars, piano or whatever

[safe kernel]

youre not allowed to play an instrument

[upbeat jolt]

Nope

[safe kernel]

are there pakistani musicians

[upbeat jolt]

The sounds influence you and bewitch you

Yes

Many

But Pakistan isn't a Muslim country

Just a Muslim majority country

[safe kernel]

then whats a muslim country

[upbeat jolt]

No

Pakistan doesn't follow true Islam, at least most the population is following their indian Hindu Buddhist traditions

Look at indian weddings and paki weddings, you'll never know which is which

With the exception of walking Around fire

[safe kernel]

whats a muslim country

give an example

[upbeat jolt]

One that follows The Quran and Sunnah 100%

With 0 innovations

[safe kernel]

and that is

[upbeat jolt]

There is currently no true Muslim country

[safe kernel]

what country

[upbeat jolt]

None

[safe kernel]

oh

ok but there are musicians who are muslims

[upbeat jolt]

Yes

Its wrong

There are also Muslims who drink and smoke

And have illegal intercourse outside of marriage

They're usually Muslims by name and not truly Muslim

By heart

[safe kernel]

hm

are you a true muslim

[upbeat jolt]

It's probably hard to find a real Muslim these days

[upbeat jolt]

No but I'm trying to be I guess

[safe kernel]

bro so do muslim schools have music classes

[mild compass]

yessir

[upbeat jolt]

No

Not the real Muslim schools

Music is forbidden

[safe kernel]

but music is fun

[upbeat jolt]

Yes

So is drinking

And sex

And a lot of other stuff

But it isn't good for your spiritually

At least music

The rest have different implications

[safe kernel]

but

arent prayers

music

[upbeat jolt]

No

How

😭

[safe kernel]

the hindu aartis

[upbeat jolt]

You just recite stuff

[safe kernel]

are like music

even listened to a hindu aarti

[upbeat jolt]

Im talking about Islam

Not sure about Hinduism

[safe kernel]

why is that other religions respect music

but islam doesnt

[upbeat jolt]

Cus diff religions have diff stuff going on

It's forbidden

Not necessarily disrespected

You're free to listen to it

But it's just not allowed for Muslims

You can however sing

[safe kernel]

pretty sure every other religions allows it except for muslims

[upbeat jolt]

that's fine

[safe kernel]

fam singing is music

[upbeat jolt]

not sure, haven't looked into other religions that deeply

[upbeat jolt]

No

Kinda

[safe kernel]

is it just that the instruments are made by someone

[upbeat jolt]

But I'm talking in terms of musical instruments

[safe kernel]

and the mouth isnt

[upbeat jolt]

Stuff with strings

Not your mouth

[safe kernel]

drums dont have strings

[upbeat jolt]

They're allowed

[safe kernel]

oh

[upbeat jolt]

They're called duffs I think

[safe kernel]

piano doenst have stringd

[upbeat jolt]

Guitars, flute, anything like that is not allowed

[upbeat jolt]

It does

[safe kernel]

wait so if the mouth is allowed

[upbeat jolt]

💀

[safe kernel]

most songs

that we listen to

use the mouth

[upbeat jolt]

It's the use of instruments

That's forbidden

Not the singing

[safe kernel]

flute doesnt have strings though

[upbeat jolt]

Unless the lyrics have profanity

[upbeat jolt]

Yeah

[safe kernel]

what about lofi

no lyrics

[upbeat jolt]

Ambient sounds?

Like dreamscape

[safe kernel]

i guess

[upbeat jolt]

Not sure ab those but I think they're Haram cus they're just musical instruments

So yeah they are

💯

[safe kernel]

bro lofi is just computational music

music from computers

[upbeat jolt]

Recorded from

Instruments

Keyboards,

Etc.

[safe kernel]

what if the lofi

isnt recorded

from instruments with steings

strings

[upbeat jolt]

Drums and stuff like that is okay I guess

Or just nature sounds

Like birds

Water flowing

The reason from what I gather, is that music affects your mood and emotions

And thoughts

Like intoxicants

So it's haram

[safe kernel]

would a muslim still respect someone who listens to music

[upbeat jolt]

Which is why smoking is haram as well as substance abuse because they influence you

[upbeat jolt]

Yeah

We don't care if you listen to music or eat pork or whatever

You do you bro

Which is basically every religion ever

[safe kernel]

hm

[upbeat jolt]

Even tho these are not mentioned

In Hadiths or the Quran

Things that influence your emotions or sobriety is forbidden

Drugs, alcohol, smoking, music

[safe kernel]

what about discord

[upbeat jolt]

what about it

It's social media, you use it to communicate

Instant messaging

It's fine

[safe kernel]

discord is full of trash people

[upbeat jolt]

As long as what you're using it for is ok. (No porn servers or indulging in profanity)

[upbeat jolt]

So is the world

doesn't mean we fly away to the moon

[safe kernel]

but you can leave discord

[upbeat jolt]

Just avoid those spaces

[safe kernel]

not this world

[upbeat jolt]

Or you could choose to not associate

With such servers

Or people

Like real life

Where's my Napoleon emoji

:nothingwecando:

Bruh

You can ask me more questions if you're curious

🙏💯

[unreal shadow]

nah we beat them with a stick and explode \s

[unreal shadow]

it does actually

the rule is that musical instruments except tambourine/duff as jamal said

[placid folio]

its not mine actually
its haram

[placid folio]

yeah aslong as the person is respectable any human muslim or not would show repect

[placid folio]

not exactly
the sound created by musical instruments is music

[placid folio]

ik shes right
i better stop

[languid musk]

yeah, not to mention our belief is that music was started by Shaytan

[upbeat jolt]

Not sure about the origins of music but it is distracting and useless

You can live your life without dedicated everyday listening to some track

Putting aside music, my focus and clarity has gone up by 200%

It really does influence most of your thoughts

So yeah be careful what you feed your mind

[upbeat jolt]

Trust me bro, it's like a breakup. In the beginning you want to go back and listen. But overtime the urges get weaker and weaker until you don't really care about it anymore. (Yes there will be relapses but you gotta commit to not listening)

Commitment takes you very far

Just delete Spotify and all your tracks in your music folders

And let the journey begin

💯💯

[cosmic ginkgo]

what about religious music

[cosmic ginkgo]

so does everything

every interaction has an influence on you

and that's good

you need to experience things to grow and learn

not everything that "influences" you is bad

you learn more by stepping out of your comfort zone

[cosmic ginkgo]

this is true

same as the people you surround yourself with

which is why they say "show me your friends and i'll show you your future"

[upbeat jolt]

No such thing as religious music in Islam. I guess we have nasheeds but I wouldn't really call it music

And they're still useless and not necessary to complete faith

[upbeat jolt]

By influence I meant change your mood and switch up your thoughts

[fair ingot]

Nice

[cosmic ginkgo]

so does talking to my parents lol doesnt mean i avoid it

[upbeat jolt]

E.g. you start feeling romantical listening to romance songs and feel sad and depressed when listening to NF

[upbeat jolt]

I don't think you understand what I'm trying to say here

[cosmic ginkgo]

same with books

do you not read books?

[upbeat jolt]

Agreed

[upbeat jolt]

Reading books isn't the same as listening to a tune or melody

[cosmic ginkgo]

useless just depends how much value you associate to things

[upbeat jolt]

You learn something from books

[cosmic ginkgo]

a lot of music can be tied to cultural aspects

and that's important

[cosmic ginkgo]

not all books lmao

[upbeat jolt]

Sure but I'm speaking on Islamic culture

We don't have music

[cosmic ginkgo]

there's also geographical culture

islam isnt just in the middle east anymore

[upbeat jolt]

well from them you learn to differentiate shit books from good books

So you do learn something

[upbeat jolt]

Bro I'm not talking ab the middle east

[cosmic ginkgo]

yeah but there's other culture that can be a part of your identity besides your religion??

[upbeat jolt]

Islam is a culture

Once you become Muslim, you distance yourself from your culture

[cosmic ginkgo]

also why can that not be a good thing? use music to hype yourself up or to get yourself out of a sad mood

that's productive

that's helping you not be in a slump

[upbeat jolt]

Or at least rid yourself of aspects of your culture that contradict Islam

[upbeat jolt]

Or grow out of it normally

Rather use something external

To solve an internal problem

[upbeat jolt]

That's the same as anti depressants

Sure they help for now

Productive in your opinion

But does it really solve depression

No

Dealing with complex human emotions is and should be an internal process

[cosmic ginkgo]

why is it bad to ask for help

[cosmic ginkgo]

no its not

its not solving depression

[upbeat jolt]

Now you're relating it to asking for help

[cosmic ginkgo]

music is never going to solve depression

[upbeat jolt]

When did I say it's bad to ask for help

[cosmic ginkgo]

its using aides to help your life

[upbeat jolt]

How does it help your life exactly when it doesn't solve anything

It's just a gimmick

[cosmic ginkgo]

fair enough

[upbeat jolt]

Exactly

[cosmic ginkgo]

its not for depression tho is my point

low mood isnt always depression

sometimes you just need a pick me up or something nice to brighten up your day

[upbeat jolt]

What's healthier, solving depression by getting to the root of the problem or by listening to Beethoven and feeling good for like 10 minutes/taking an anti depressant and chilling for 1 day

[fair ingot]

Nice

[cosmic ginkgo]

also nobody takes antidepressants for a day 💀 it would be insanely hard to even get those drugs

[upbeat jolt]

Sure, that's fine. No one's stopping anyone. My main point was that from an Islamic point of view. Music is forbidden, it influences you like drugs Do. Not to the same degree but it does influence you.

[fair ingot]

True zoloft prozac lexapro and celexa are good af

[upbeat jolt]

Non Muslims are free to do as they please we do not shove our rules down their throats

[upbeat jolt]

It was just an example xd

[cosmic ginkgo]

lmao fair

its just annoying that some people say all this and half the muslim people i know smoke their lungs out

[upbeat jolt]

and back to what I was saying before, Islam is not just a religion. It's a way of life and has its own culture. As for ones own ethnic culture and traditions, we put aside what contradicts our religion. Because to us at least, God comes first.

[upbeat jolt]

Yuh

That's a problem with this generation of Muslims

[cosmic ginkgo]

its not this generation 😂

[upbeat jolt]

Half are Muslims by name but don't know jack shit about Islam

[cosmic ginkgo]

theyre old people

[upbeat jolt]

well it's been a trend the last few centuries

More secularism, less Islam

[fair ingot]

True

[vivid gyro]

True

[upbeat jolt]

I mean even I dont know all that much, I'm just speaking cus I kinda researched this topic before quiting music for good

[fair ingot]

Give me interesting religions to read I'm bored as fuck

[upbeat jolt]

confucianism is interesting

Idk if it counts as a religion or philosophy

[fair ingot]

What about lesbianism

[cosmic ginkgo]

i'd say philosophy

[fair ingot]

Oh

[upbeat jolt]

yeah probably that

more than religion

[cosmic ginkgo]

there are no gods

[upbeat jolt]

to each their own ideas 💯

Anyways time for a real vent

[fair ingot]

Oof

[upbeat jolt]

I'm tired of chapri level cringe 30yo indian/paki uncles with a failing marriage dming my momma on Facebook

😠😡😡😡

Bros literally send shirtless pictures of themselves

😭😭😭

[placid folio]

same today i did and instead of enjoying i felt guilty tbh

[placid folio]

never had any lol

[upbeat jolt]

Beginning stages of the recovery

[upbeat jolt]

W

[cosmic ginkgo]

i mean in confucianism

[upbeat jolt]

Oh 😭😭😭

[fair ingot]

[placid folio]

ur atheist

[upbeat jolt]

Like

How the fuck is this gonna get you any women

[placid folio]

send smthng rude reprt them and then block them

[placid folio]

ewww

[upbeat jolt]

Nah I troll them

[placid folio]

w

[fair ingot]

LMAO

[upbeat jolt]

[placid folio]

alright then

see yall later

[fair ingot]

Tc

[upbeat jolt]

Thing is my mom isn't too active on her messenger and I use her account to sell stuff on market place

So weirdos that dm her

Actually dm me

[fair ingot]

That's good

[upbeat jolt]

Real

[placid folio]

oh

[upbeat jolt]

It's surprisingly easy to sell stuff with a female account

Than it is to sell with a male account

[placid folio]

yeah better thn dming her

[placid folio]

wow i should try

[upbeat jolt]

Yeuh

[placid folio]

tbh im already female and really i havent gotten anything easy

ur mommy profile might be special or smthng

[upbeat jolt]

it's special alright

😭

[placid folio]

im sorry

if i said smthng bad

[upbeat jolt]

How

[upbeat jolt]

Nah it's ight

[placid folio]

wdum how

me and my bro practically equal

[upbeat jolt]

Like

How have you not gotten anything easy and by anything easy wdym

Like in what sense

Selling stuff or like getting discounts or

[placid folio]

nvm i do get discounts

mb mb

[upbeat jolt]

I've never

Ever

Ever

Gotten a discount

except one time which was because my friend's dad owned the place

So I don't think that counts

[placid folio]

wth uve only gotten one discount in ur whole life

[upbeat jolt]

Yuh

female privilege is kinda wild

[placid folio]

the only times ive felt tht being a girl is better than being a guy
although theyre equal ngl
is when i go shopping or get less terrible punishments

[upbeat jolt]

Define equal

[placid folio]

things changing here

[upbeat jolt]

Where

[placid folio]

by equal i mean within the family

[upbeat jolt]

Ye

[placid folio]

at school

[upbeat jolt]

That's true

[placid folio]

in saudi

[upbeat jolt]

Yeh

SAOEDI

[cosmic ginkgo]

what does getting a discount have to do with your gender tho

[upbeat jolt]

Simp male cashiers

[cosmic ginkgo]

they give you discounts????

i need to up my game

[upbeat jolt]

Not me

My mom

[cosmic ginkgo]

then again i dont go shopping

so who knows

[upbeat jolt]

Bros been going to the wrong stores

[placid folio]

dude i feel ya
some peeps act weird with my mum

[upbeat jolt]

NVM

bros not been going to stores

😭😭😭

[placid folio]

like shes reallly good at bargaining ig

[upbeat jolt]

FO REAL

it's so gay

[cosmic ginkgo]

yeah lol like im buying shoes now and im ordering it online

so

[upbeat jolt]

Bro is missing out on the discounts

🙏😔💯

[cosmic ginkgo]

50% off cyber monday :>

[upbeat jolt]

FR

[upbeat jolt]

Could be 75% off if you know where to go irl

🙏 💯💯

Except in the west where it's kinda impossible to get discounts like that

Unless the owner is Asian

[cosmic ginkgo]

see my problem

[upbeat jolt]

Ohhh

[cosmic ginkgo]

i went to a post office once and this desi uncle made me feel so shit

[upbeat jolt]

what'd he do

[cosmic ginkgo]

bro he told me off for not using the right postage when it wasnt even written on the stamp

and it was some random amount like 65p

who makes stupid numbers like these??

make it be 50p

[upbeat jolt]

desi uncles try not to be a complete dick to your countrymen challenge: impossible

[cosmic ginkgo]

why 65

[placid folio]

ikr

[cosmic ginkgo]

wtf is this

[cosmic ginkgo]

literally

this other time we had a physics stall at a market to get kids interested in science

[upbeat jolt]

Just 3 days ago this UK paki dude got into an argument with my mom when HE was cutting in line

[cosmic ginkgo]

and desi uncle goes "if you wanted to study physics, you shouldve done engineering"

[upbeat jolt]

Bro was going full on "bloody bhenchod"

[cosmic ginkgo]

if i wanted your opinion, i wouldve stayed in india uncle

[cosmic ginkgo]

wtf

[upbeat jolt]

Desi uncles qualifications: "10th fail"

[upbeat jolt]

REAL

Although if you did take his advice you'd be married at 19

[placid folio]

bruh
nah my desi peeps stop in al if theyre dumb
unless theyre poor

alhamdulillah my country not the worst

[cosmic ginkgo]

oh i had a retired astrophysicist tell me that i wont get married if i did physics

[upbeat jolt]

They've upgraded to the 12th grade

[placid folio]

lol

[upbeat jolt]

Are you native saoedi or like

Expat

[placid folio]

nah im an expat
wbu

[upbeat jolt]

I am genuinely curious about their thought process

[upbeat jolt]

I'm a 3rd gen immigrant

As they call us here

[placid folio]

nice in saudi

[upbeat jolt]

No

Scandinavia

[placid folio]

nice ive never heard of it

[upbeat jolt]

My grandfather moved in the 70s to Denmark, my mother was born here and then I was born elsewhere but moved back around last year

[placid folio]

oh ok nvm

nice mashallah

[upbeat jolt]

Norway, Denmark, Sweden = Scandinavia

[placid folio]

yeah yeah

my brain unpaused

[upbeat jolt]

I thought

I was tweakin

[cosmic ginkgo]

i think his son did physics as well and had trouble getting married?? could be because he was an asshole? dunno just my thoughts

[upbeat jolt]

They're just sexist as fuck

Tbh

[cosmic ginkgo]

the normal thought process tho is that woman too educated, has too many opinions

[upbeat jolt]

REAL

[cosmic ginkgo]

how could they be good housewife

[upbeat jolt]

that's why my mum's divorced

[placid folio]

i hate how desi peeps positin women

[upbeat jolt]

Cus she didn't listen to her in laws

And they were like

Fk you

😡😡

[cosmic ginkgo]

im just worried about my sister

[upbeat jolt]

They position them as maids

[cosmic ginkgo]

because theyve begun the arranged marriage spiel at home

[upbeat jolt]

Or some stupid wack role

[placid folio]

yup really close to tht

[upbeat jolt]

NOOOOOOO

[cosmic ginkgo]

literally some mother in laws just want a maid

[cosmic ginkgo]

i mean its not forced.. just pressured?

[upbeat jolt]

Maid with some jahez fr

"give us a fridge and a car and a washing machine"

[cosmic ginkgo]

LIKE

[upbeat jolt]

"and 10kilos gold"

[placid folio]

bruh here u need to give em a whole ass house

[upbeat jolt]

Peer pressure but it's from family

[cosmic ginkgo]

is it not enough that youre inflicting your problems on me

[cosmic ginkgo]

yep especially my grandma

[placid folio]

like honestly u cud just live alone instead

[upbeat jolt]

DAMN they really uped their game

[placid folio]

and there shud be a car in the garage

[cosmic ginkgo]

shes like beta im getting old i need to see you getting married

[upbeat jolt]

It's ALWAYS THEM

[upbeat jolt]

idk why they associated them getting old with us getting married

[cosmic ginkgo]

need to see you getting married before she dies

which is depressing as fuck

[placid folio]

phew only one of my grandmas was bothered bout my marriage
like evr since i hit puberty lol
but innalillah shes not here now

[cosmic ginkgo]

and like what do you even say to that

[upbeat jolt]

Exactly

Where's the logic

[cosmic ginkgo]

💀 man what

[placid folio]

say inshallah

thts it

[upbeat jolt]

SHES dead?

[cosmic ginkgo]

we're not muslim lol

[placid folio]

yeah

[upbeat jolt]

Classic

[cosmic ginkgo]

the conclusion was just.. something

[placid folio]

oh ok nvm

[placid folio]

a habit now ngl

[upbeat jolt]

"I'll think about it" is a good alternative

"sochongi"

[upbeat jolt]

Fr

[placid folio]

alright then bye guys

[upbeat jolt]

Ciao

Good talk people

💪

[cosmic ginkgo]

she'll be like been thinking for two years now enough

[upbeat jolt]

Nahi Dadi/nani, mujhe aur time chaiye

[delicate bramble]

But the qs is does your sis have any other options?? Or does she love someone else??

[cosmic ginkgo]

she isnt in a relationship as far as i know

[delicate bramble]

But does she like anyone? If yes then y don’t u talk about it🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

I can understand some families really pressurize… but then now people r open minded compared to what i used to see in 19s

[fair ingot]

Damn

[cosmic ginkgo]

i dont think so lmao

[cosmic ginkgo]

it really varies from family to family now

[delicate bramble]

What about the “background check” on the guy??💀💀 I mean it’s really depends on your sis.. but I really wish her best for her

[delicate bramble]

Interesting.. can’t really say anything but I can pray best for her 😭😭

[cosmic ginkgo]

the family does the background check and then they send it to her to talk to him

but afaik all of them have been pretty mid

[delicate bramble]

Ohh engagement! That’s perfect honestly..

Spending time with him will make up mind fs

But ofc ppl r more experienced then me 😭😭😂😂 ofc ofc yk better than me fr

Yk this scenario remind of me DDLG, Simran and Raj 😂😂😂

[languid musk]

its the story of Prophet Sheeth AS, I believe

[lament cloud]

How funny of a response would "jokes on you, I don't wanna get married" be

[placid folio]

imagine getting blamed that your sisters hair is uncombed
after you forcefully sent her to school
isnt her being present on time more important than her hair

[safe kernel]

I go to school everyday without combing my hair

💀

[placid folio]

well shes just pretty
and somehow got selected as princess lmao
she just has to look her best all the time now
and its now my duty

plus ur a guy

[safe kernel]

ok so I’m not pretty, is that what you mean😡

[placid folio]

bruh no

dont take it tht way

u must be really pretty i dont know tbh
but ur still smart and very talented

[safe kernel]

@untold brook can confirm I’m pretty

[placid folio]

alright then

[upbeat jolt]

Can confirm he is pretty

[cosmic ginkgo]

Well I was 15 so I was just shooketh at the time

[untold brook]

@safe kernel is pretty

Thicc

[slate sky]

Yeah lime is

[slate sky]

Nah that’s a lie

[placid folio]

sorry
my sincerest apologies

[lament cloud]

Ok that went from veiled sexism to creepy 💀

Relatives are weird bro

[cosmic ginkgo]

it was just a "well meaning" uncle

[median timber]

Twinnie idc whether I comb my hair or not

[harsh widget]

1

[placid folio]

well my mom does
and all the other teachers incharge

[median timber]

Damn

[placid folio]

omg ur pfp sooo cuteee

[median timber]

Thx twinieeeee

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to studentig#0

[placid folio]

this sooo frickin stupid
my mum didnt take me
and now she told me to come with my dad at 5
but whats the point all the girl events would be over
im not gonna cheer for them boys at 5 wth
noo way

[obtuse vector]

fr

[mild compass]

There is nothing we can do 😔

[placid folio]

ik

im just venting

[placid folio]

but true

[solar marsh]

Procrastination

[torn yarrow]

overrated

productivity>procrastination

[quaint hound]

thinking > productivity

[torn yarrow]

hmmm how is that even a correlation?

[quaint hound]

For Productivity, u have to work

And probably do something so pathetic and boring

That you procrastinate instead

So you simply just sit for a while

Relax, and think

Whether it's studies, some problem your solving or anything else maybe a plan ur making

Thinking takes less time

0% distraction

100% brain consumption aka productivity fyi

[quaint hound]

So that's how it correlates if I make sense by any chance

[fallow sluice]

can i actually vent here or

[mild compass]

i guess?

[torn yarrow]

sooo studying is pathetic and boring? huh...thas a new one

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to arub#0

[mild compass]

I think u don't really know what productivity means

[quaint hound]

It's an example here... could be anything that makes you procrastinate. My point is, think n understand wtv ur doing... u won't have room to get bored or procrastinate

[crimson fable]

i miss him 😭

i broke up w him on wednesday

[fair ingot]

Ooh

Glad to hear that

[crimson fable]

yuh had to get drunk in lunch to have the guts to do it

[fair ingot]

You'll forget about him soon

[crimson fable]

i knoww

its good for me

that i broke up

[fair ingot]

Ofc

[crimson fable]

he wasnt good for me

yk

[fair ingot]

Ofc

[crimson fable]

some girls in his yr heard me crying to my friends in the changing roooms abt all the shit he did

and they

confronted him ig

nd he was like

y u telling everyone stop being a bitch

i acc asked him to take me back

bad idea

but now

hes blocked

[fair ingot]

..

[crimson fable]

the day of the breakup and the nextday when we argued bc ppl found out nd he called me a bitch

[crimson fable]

i knowww dumb idea

[mild compass]

https://tenor.com/view/candle-fire-flame-putting-out-a-canadle-snuffing-gif-21212204

[mild compass]

ayoo did you guys breakup

i remember this chapter

you were short

[crimson fable]

yep i broke up w him on wednesday

[mild compass]

W

[crimson fable]

"nd wore too much makeup'

[crimson fable]

he was so unafected

like

all he said

was

[mild compass]

did you?

[crimson fable]

"felt it... is that all?"

[crimson fable]

no

[mild compass]

maybe he had a backup plan or smth

[fair ingot]

What did you reply

[crimson fable]

l8r he said, hes j burying his emotions, bc "he doesnt have time"

[mild compass]

bro couldnt even make a proper excuse

[fair ingot]

Lmao

[mild compass]

bro why did u remove pfp from your profile

[crimson fable]

the argument, i was like oh ill b bttrrr, bc he was like ur a bitch to everyone, ur friends, bc he befriended 2 hoes i was friends w nd they bitched abt me to him nd those 2 hoes said im "dragging my real friends arnd" nd i literally am not wtf. they j come w everyone bc theyre acc rdy to b my support system like REAL FRIENDS

[crimson fable]

ppl said i should for privacy nah

[mild compass]

💀 lit everyone has a pfp

[crimson fable]

nd he was like u bttr fix it w his girl bsf (yk the bitch i h8) otherwise theres no chance of me n u happening again, hes like idc if ur friends u give her the respect she deserves

being so stupid

i said fine

[fair ingot]

Put a pfp of a flower for example not your picture that's what they meant

[mild compass]

yea

[crimson fable]

the hoes r his girl bsf nd her bsf

[crimson fable]

ikik

[mild compass]

💀

[fair ingot]

Ooh

[crimson fable]

theyre not hoes btw they couldnt get sum even if they tried, i j wanna h8 on em

[mild compass]

were they your friends before?

[crimson fable]

yea

[fair ingot]

Anyway fuck all of them 👍

[crimson fable]

YUHHHH

[mild compass]

oh they betrayed you

[mild compass]

fr

[crimson fable]

defo

[crimson fable]

fr they stupid hoes

now they shit talking me

bc

i moved to the friend group they h8

[mild compass]

lmao

[mild compass]

thats the best move imo

[crimson fable]

LMAO FRFR

[mild compass]

cuz even if you didnt move

they would still not talk to you

[crimson fable]

right they were giving me dirty glares

ever since the

"prioritise her" incident

nd the audacity to play the victim to my ex

fuck them mannn

[mild compass]

bro made a bunch of toxic friends💀

[crimson fable]

2*

[crimson fable]

the girl bsf and her bsf

j those 2

[mild compass]

fr dont care abt them move on and work on urself

[crimson fable]

dont say work on urself

that fucker

told me to

work on myself

like nah bitch u do bttr

[fair ingot]

They have boyfriends?

[crimson fable]

obvi not-

[fair ingot]

Aah

[mild compass]

oh i meant it in an positive way yk

[crimson fable]

ty

like

[mild compass]

[crimson fable]

find bttr ppl to surround myself w

[fair ingot]

😂

[crimson fable]

have u seen em 🤪

[mild compass]

no lol

[fair ingot]

Like here in venting 🔥🔥

[crimson fable]

YUHHHH

nd that othe friend group

nd my

other real

friends

the ones who acc care abt me

nd saw

[fair ingot]

Nice

[crimson fable]

how much he messed me up

[mild compass]

yea surround yourself with positive ppl and ppl who care abt u

[crimson fable]

ud understand if u did lmao

[mild compass]

[fair ingot]

I have 50 questions in math A2 to solve and 1 paper 5 chemistry and 3 p4 for physics

But I'm here 🔥🔥

[mild compass]

yea if ur comfortable lol

[crimson fable]

exaclty unlike that bitch who couldnt make 5 mins o time to text me, thank uuuu

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to darky2814#0

[fair ingot]

OOF me too

[crimson fable]

sureee

[crimson fable]

aighttt

[mild compass]

me with arounf 150 pages still left to memorise

[fair ingot]

We're dead 🔥🔥

[mild compass]

[unkempt ingot]

i cant get rid of this habit

[mild compass]

just

stop it

[unkempt ingot]

i cantt

my brain is trigerring me

[mild compass]

what habit exactly

[unkempt ingot]

prefer not to tell

[mild compass]

fairs

too much of anything can become an overlying problem

[unkempt ingot]

yes i got rid of the habit for 1 week

but today i didnt

[mild compass]

proud of you

[unkempt ingot]

but no today the streak is gone

i really wanna freaking get rid of it

[mild compass]

we all fall back once in a while, it’s important to not see that as a sign to give up

[unkempt ingot]

cuz it is affecting my studies

[mild compass]

that’s concerning

[unkempt ingot]

Yeah i will not. But howww to get rid of it

[unkempt ingot]

VERY

[mild compass]

i have to know what you’re talking about to give you a somewhat proper solution

if you’re not comfortable here you can say it in dms

[unkempt ingot]

what do you think of as bad habits

tell me a list

if it is in the list i would come to ur dms and telll

[languid musk]

filter out what triggers this habit, is it lack of sleep, lack of attention, etc
basically find the root cause, and try to solve that yourself

that will have the best chance of success

if you can't eliminate the cause, replace the habit with something else

[hollow oyster]

14 days left until semester over

I can finally rest

[fallow sluice]

Guys i will only have 17 days to revise 5 subjects + past papers can i do it 😀

[limpid sorrel]

U wanna hear the truth

Or should I lie to u

[fallow sluice]

Truth

Tbh 1 and a half of these subjects would just be skimming through them and the rest i gotta study them from point zero

[limpid sorrel]

Okay so unless you hardcore study I mean like 6 to 7 hours daily, you will pass for sure

So Like chill you’ll do it Trust 💪🏼💪🏼

[mild compass]

U definitely can, just make like a plan ahead for what to do everyday and stick to it like ur life depends on it and u'll do great

[quaint hound]

5 subjects in A levels?

i have like 15 days but only 3 subjects...

[fallow sluice]

Yeah

[fallow sluice]

U think so?

[fallow sluice]

I hope so bruh

thanks guys fr

[mossy zenith]

Cmon you got this ez

[unkempt ingot]

You need this:
Goodluck

[quaint hound]

not really

[unkempt ingot]

Just in casee

[mild compass]

whatz this channel for ?

lmao

[untold brook]

E-dating

For furries only

[mild compass]

i need one

ah

[untold brook]

[placid folio]

bruh

[placid folio]

whats tht

[mild compass]

it’s better to not know

[languid musk]

fr

[mild compass]

y'all I got sad news....

My pet fish drowned

proof fr

His name was billy mamabango

I hope he'll be remembered by everyone, pls bless him

aight now I'ma go fry up my billy mamabango

thankyou for your time

🥰

[mild compass]

Touching story

[mild compass]

🥹

[mild compass]

heart tooting story

[placid folio]

lol wow

[mild compass]

Okie, I can clean you >~<

[mild compass]

ok

[mild compass]

hahaha lol whatt

she literally told me to create discord and join the server but got banned herself 😭 😭

ikr it's not her first time getting banned from servers 😭

why did she get banned anyways? she wouldn't tell me 😭 -

Idkk

I mean her personality is all about being weird and offensive

[limpid sorrel]

Who got banned

FIFTEEN DOLLARS?

[mild compass]

my irl friend lol

[mild compass]

yes

[limpid sorrel]

SROP WAT

WHO BANNED HER

[mild compass]

Idk-

[limpid sorrel]

I CALL FOR AN UNBAN BICHARI SHES SO CUTE

[mild compass]

😭

I don't think it works like that-

she insulted some one I think-
as a joke apparantly, but her jokes are offensive I've been friends with her for 5 years pls 😭

probably because of her high ego, she doesn't accept the fact that she is wrong, can be annoying sometimes but she tells me to deal with it or leave 😭

I wanna know too

she is not telling mee the reason ee

[mild compass]

who is bichari 😭

[mild compass]

who got banned?

[limpid sorrel]

Her

[untold brook]

@mild compass bhai help

[mild compass]

I never got-

huh?

[mild compass]

kya hua

[limpid sorrel]

Wait

Where are u from 😔😔

[mild compass]

me??

[untold brook]

I cant seem to score well, i keep losing marks in bio p4

[limpid sorrel]

Yea

[mild compass]

vietnam!

[limpid sorrel]

If u don’t mind me asking ofc

[mild compass]

you?

[mild compass]

you started solving papers already bro im still completing my syllabus lol

[limpid sorrel]

Ohhh so u dk what bichari means

[mild compass]

no lol

[limpid sorrel]

Bichari means uhhhh

Idek let me search this up 😨😨😨

[untold brook]

Topical questions bro, btw hop on chat lounge

[mild compass]

ok

[limpid sorrel]

Okay so it means “poor thing 😔😔🥺🥺🥺☹️☹️☹️”

STOP THATS SO COOL

[mild compass]

lolll, if she heard you call her that, she would be throwing hands 😭

[mild compass]

deleting it incase she comes back lol

probably not

but

you never know when it's her

[limpid sorrel]

Bet bro I’d fight her

🤺🤺🤺🤺

[mild compass]

loll

[limpid sorrel]

Yeah she could be in ur walls for all you know

Okay but why isn’t anyone saying why she got banned

Like

Babez

[mild compass]

yk we met when I was being bullied for the first time, and she actually helped me
but ended up swearing at me, calling me a loser and telling me to defend myself ( Ig that's her way of being nice 😭 )

[mild compass]

no actually thoughhh

[limpid sorrel]

AHAHAHAAHAAH

Something I would do

[mild compass]

one time I was showering and I see her sitting inside my house likee 😭 ( happened a long time ago )

[mild compass]

yeah you guys would get along very well

[limpid sorrel]

Yeah did I tell u I was hee long lost cousin

Yeah

🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

[mild compass]

me and her are like total opposites! I am more of an emotional person but then she is completely just weird

and

has anger issues

😭

[mild compass]

loll whattt

[mild compass]

idkkk

she isn't telling me eitherr

I am gonna bother her until she tells me

hehehehe

[limpid sorrel]

Yeah 😔😔

[untold brook]

She got banned cuz ligma balls

[limpid sorrel]

That’s a little weird

[mild compass]

whattt

[limpid sorrel]

But same

[mild compass]

helpp lolll

😭

[untold brook]

Nice hair you got in the pfp @limpid sorrel

[limpid sorrel]

Thank u I grew it with faiza beauty cream 😍😍

[untold brook]

Bro got the “Fresh chemo cut”

[mild compass]

😭

[limpid sorrel]

THIS IS BULLYING

BAS ISAY KOI BAN NHI KRTA

RASICM + BULLYING

[mild compass]

lol you guys are just as weird as @only $15

but then she is lil extra sometimes

she acts like she is on drugs

😭

[limpid sorrel]

Yeah cuz she special like that

Special in the head

[mild compass]

for real thoughhh

lolzzz

[limpid sorrel]

Bros my role model bro

[untold brook]

How is this racist

[mild compass]

whatttt-

woahhhh

[limpid sorrel]

It’s cuz I’m paki isn’t it 😔😔😔☹️☹️

[untold brook]

Someone after chemotherapy would have the same hairstyle as you

[mild compass]

what's going onn-

😭

[untold brook]

How am I supposed to know that

[mild compass]

oh noo-

[limpid sorrel]

He’s showcasing his true racist self

[limpid sorrel]

U are

U should smell the biryani emitting from me through the screen

[untold brook]

Tf are you on about?

[untold brook]

Bro im indian 🙈💅🏼

[mild compass]

gosh would've been worse with aria in this server, can't imaginee-

[limpid sorrel]

U wouldn’t know… 😔😔

[mild compass]

she told me why she got banned help 😭

[limpid sorrel]

That’s why u hate me huh ☹️☹️☹️☹️

[limpid sorrel]

NAH IT WAS SM FUN BROW

whoever banned her sucks

[untold brook]

What racist term have i used towards you? Lmao i just said you got a chemotherapy haircut

[limpid sorrel]

And that’s racist towards bald people

[untold brook]

Nawr i love Pakistani ppl

[limpid sorrel]

Just cuz I’m balding doesn’t mean u had to insult me like that 😔😔😔

[untold brook]

Do you even know what racist means 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[limpid sorrel]

YARO

IM JOKING

[mild compass]

she says she was annoying the server and some one said they didn't wanna exist and she said same and to k!ll y s3lf as a joke, that's the reason why she got banned 😭

[limpid sorrel]

MAAF KRDO BHAI

[limpid sorrel]

😨😨😨😨😨😨

[untold brook]

Maf kardia

[limpid sorrel]

ok then the ban was deserved

[mild compass]

lolzzz

[limpid sorrel]

[mild compass]

😭

[limpid sorrel]

Are they gonna unban her

[mild compass]

Idk-

[untold brook]

Itne bekar joke mat mara kar

[mild compass]

Idek who banned her I just joined this server cause she told me ppl in here can help me study 😭

[limpid sorrel]

Bekar kahan say itna acha to tha

[untold brook]

Ekdam bekar
Just like your haircut

[limpid sorrel]

It does help u study fr

[limpid sorrel]

Hadd hai

Ye hoti hai bullying

And I know very well what bullying is

[untold brook]

😳

[limpid sorrel]

wait

[mild compass]

I hopee

[limpid sorrel]

Sh I don’t mean I got bullied HELLO

[untold brook]

https://tenor.com/view/twerk-dribbling-basketball-gif-15929795

[mild compass]

huh??

[languid musk]

ask nugget or alan

[limpid sorrel]

We don’t talk abt it

[mild compass]

okie Ig-

who is nugget

[fallow sluice]

WHY IS STAT2 HARD

[somber olive]

oh people

ya shabab

who wants to commit a double suicide?

[quaint hound]

mm, id do it for you instead

[somber olive]

you'd off yourself for me?

or off me for me?

[fallow sluice]

Me

[quaint hound]

we'll find out

[somber olive]

as levels are hitting my crack in a really bad way

[quaint hound]

so whyd u unalive urself

i mean such a dumb person would do that

selling their entire jannah

for absoloutly no reason

[somber olive]

of course i wouldn't do it fr

it's just that

i wanted to take sociology and eng lit

[fallow sluice]

i agree im resetting all of it in jan🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[quaint hound]

i mean makes sense if youre in sever pain or some sort of immense physical torture or ur ab to lose your honor or something idk