venting

[frail flame]

What's ur opinion

[languid musk]

Here

[frail flame]

Yh this

[quaint hound]

Huh lemme read then

[languid musk]

ok

[frail flame]

Alrighty

[languid musk]

do share your opinion

[quaint hound]

well for the message u replied to, thats good they want to migrate to a muslim country

[frail flame]

There was more

[quaint hound]

haha next

its sick

[quaint hound]

ik lol

[frail flame]

The marriage part

Ridiculous

I'm not saying that this is not possible in his case

It's not possible for a girl either even if a girl had asked that same question

My reply would have been the same

[quaint hound]

well js reading his texts, he says "if she cheats on me"... now there can be 2 cases here. either they both have agreed to get married and thats why he says she cheats. or, she dosent have the intentions he has and hes build expectations this way.

well in the first case, it makes more sense but this usually dosent work... im not saying it wont, it may work. but keep in mind, as this guy is a muslim. anything that starts with haram can never end up with halal...

for the 2nd case, either this will work out, or, bros climbing a ladder with no way down...

[frail flame]

Bros cooking

Fr

Why keep high expectations from someone who is already doing Haram stuff

And then also expect her to marry u

[quaint hound]

i genuinely dont understand how people meet others online thinking theyll somehow end up in a relationship

like grow up please

[frail flame]

Fr

I agree

U can't expect to continue ur life with someone whom u didn't even meet irl

[languid musk]

fr tho

unrealistic

[unreal shadow]

what the fuck is a TW country

[kindred stone]

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtMYbNXpint/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

[kindred stone]

Third world

Likely desi wanting to come to Canada

[placid folio]

bro making a lot of sense

wish u told me stuff 3 months ago

her fam alright with it?

[kindred stone]

Bro if serious

Stop overthinking

And approach her parents

[placid folio]

yeah exactly

if u like really into her and wanna get married speak to her parents @stray sable

[placid folio]

?

[kindred stone]

No

Not a gd

Plus if you fear rejection

Your loss

[placid folio]

dude are u replying to me

[kindred stone]

He wants to do his uni in canada and settle there

And no

[kindred stone]

@stray sable

[placid folio]

oh ok i thought u got confused or smthng

sorry mb

[placid folio]

i meant the girl wth

[kindred stone]

What if this, what if that

If you're overthinking with these weird scenarios

Then you aren't fit

[placid folio]

truly dont date someone to dump them at the end
itll just make them feel played

[kindred stone]

Likely it would be rejected due to age

[placid folio]

plus its haram at the end of the day

[kindred stone]

He doesnt want to date since its haram

[placid folio]

i see

well hes 19 so tooo young to ask her parents about marriage

all he can do for now is fantasize and be hopeful ig

[kindred stone]

Fantasizing will get him no where

[placid folio]

honestly

[kindred stone]

And its a desi thing for age which sucks ngl

[placid folio]

aint tht wht he doin now

well whatever stay out of trouble

bye guys goodnight felow discordians

[quaint hound]

I didn't say anything new or from myself... its all told 1400 years ago, let alone 3 months

[stray sable]

We never even spoke online. All physical interactions.

[stray sable]

Yeah should talk to her and ask her parents about this few days before flight.

Once I cross the borders, there will be tons of marriage proposals.

And it's not like she is physically that attractive or anything.

[kindred stone]

bro is infatuated

yk what

pray 2 rakats istiqara

my advice

[quaint hound]

Prophets sunnah*

[languid musk]

word 💯

[cosmic ginkgo]

...for you?

[stray sable]

Ye coz most ppl are after money nowadays.

[cosmic ginkgo]

A) just because there are doesn't mean you have to take them
And B) you're 19 and going to uni, no one assumes you're making money, you're only spending it at uni

[stray sable]

In Canada even the janitor makes the buck an intern doctor makes here

[cosmic ginkgo]

First of all, intern doctors all over the world are paid like shit so that's not even a good comparison

Doctors only get paid well after years of experience

[stray sable]

And God forbids, unless anything really bad happens I can assure you that I won't be stepping foot on that type of job once I am done with my ugrad

[cosmic ginkgo]

Secondly have you forgotten that your expenses go up

[stray sable]

There are at least a million of vacancies unlike here

Even an autistic kid would make twice the buck as an average labor here

[cosmic ginkgo]

I have no idea where to begin but leave home first, that'll help

There are some things that can only be understood when you experience them

[stray sable]

You studying abroad?

[cosmic ginkgo]

Have been for the last 3 years

[stray sable]

NA or EU?

[cosmic ginkgo]

EU

[stray sable]

Oh then things are a bit rough there unlike Canada.

[cosmic ginkgo]

You still have no idea how expensive things get

Even when compared to being paid

[stray sable]

I have a cousin who barely completed his intermediates, went to Canada by spouse visa and earning higher than most relatives here.

[cosmic ginkgo]

Earning does not equate to saving

Nor does it equate to being able to afford things

Purchasing power of a currency is wildly different

I'm sure it's more but it doesn't mean it's guaranteed

Taxes go up, house prices are through the fucking roof

Getting a job that gives you visa sponsorship can be trickier than you imagine

[lament cloud]

Exactly, like for example here in Sydney, everyone earns a minimum of 20 dollars an hour, but also rent is like 600 dollars a week and everything else is so expensive

[stray sable]

Lmao at least you guys can dream of purchasing house here by 30. We got our own home when dad was 45 and he worked for a reputed company as an assistant vice president.

[lament cloud]

Bro

Since when

[cosmic ginkgo]

I literally cannot

[lament cloud]

Nobody in Canada can dream of buying their first house at 30

[cosmic ginkgo]

Neither can they in the UK

Not anymore at least

[lament cloud]

I'm not even talking about internationals

[cosmic ginkgo]

Maybe a few decades ago

[lament cloud]

Citizens of the country that are our age can't even afford children anymore

Forget a nice house

[stray sable]

Then you make a good point then. My dad's sis hubby bought a house just staying there after r 5 years back in 2014

[cosmic ginkgo]

That's post the 2008 crash when if you did things right, you could make it work for you

[lament cloud]

Yeah we've had a few international crises since 2014 lmao

[cosmic ginkgo]

Now however, we are going into the job industry during a recession

[lament cloud]

Exactly

[stray sable]

Ok still, how many ppl can afford Iphones here? How many ppl can workout at expensive gyms here? How many ppl outside political matrix are actually leading a good life here?

I mean in SA countries

Literally anyone can buy cars there

[cosmic ginkgo]

I see your points but I'm just saying that it's not quite the same

It's not as easy as you imagine

It really is not

[stray sable]

Still easier than living in SA countries.

Are you Indian by any chance?

[cosmic ginkgo]

That may be true, but all I'm saying is don't expect it to be a free pass for your life to turn upside down overnight

You will not instantly be able to do all the things you imagine and you will have a lot of things to pay for

[stray sable]

If I expect to live here, my life would not take a turn even in 40 years. At least my hardwork would be more appreciated there.

[cosmic ginkgo]

Like how visa fees are stupidly expensive for no fucking reason

[cosmic ginkgo]

That's fair, and good luck with that

[stray sable]

No wonder only children of the wealthy study there.

[cosmic ginkgo]

Is that for a specific place or just a blanket statement

[stray sable]

Mostly in Western countries. Coz education is expensive af there for an average individual here.

[cosmic ginkgo]

The people there also assume the same btw, that all international students are rich, which means they're not as ready to help

[stray sable]

Well most are

[cosmic ginkgo]

In their home countries maybe

[stray sable]

I am talking from host perspective.

[cosmic ginkgo]

I'm not gonna say it's easy to move without financial capacity but again it also doesn't translate to being rich in the other country

Host? Of what

[stray sable]

Yeah I personally know several int students who are far from affluent even here.

[stray sable]

I meant home country

Country of origin

But still majority are loaded in local terms.

[cosmic ginkgo]

What is the point you're trying to make with that exactly

[safe kernel]

Are you Indian

[stray sable]

Bangladeshi to be exact

[safe kernel]

Hm

[stray sable]

No offense, but I think it happened because some ppl who are not broke or don't need financial aid played victim card and took advantage of the system made for the needy.

As a man, I am truly ashamed to say that even boys nowadays are playing victim card a lot to attract sympathy or possibly privileges.

[lament cloud]

Bro how many people do you know like that, and how can you assume that that represents the entire fucking international student population

[cosmic ginkgo]

Still confused as to where you're going with this in a venting channel

[safe kernel]

What

Is happening

[stray sable]

Never said everyone is like that

[lament cloud]

.

[safe kernel]

I’m wondering why you asked this

[lament cloud]

A majority of international students are not loaded

[stray sable]

Are you from SA countries by any chance?

I mean country of origin

[lament cloud]

I've lived in India for a significant portion of my life

[safe kernel]

They are that’s why they’re applying there

LMAO

Colleges make money mostly off internationals

[stray sable]

Interesting

[stray sable]

Kinda most are but not everyone.

[lament cloud]

I'm an Australian citizen tho that's why I have a good idea of both situations

[safe kernel]

If I was an international applying to U.S. I would confused about applying there

But since I’m domestic

Only reason I’m going there

[lament cloud]

Bro based on what are you saying that

You don't know that many international students

[stray sable]

Friends, acquaintances and mutuals.

[lament cloud]

Yes, your "friends, acquaintances and mutuals" do not represent all international students

[safe kernel]

Like it’s mostly rich international kids applying to state schools

But if you look at private schools which have super good financial aid programs

everyone applying there no matter whether you’re broke or rich

[stray sable]

Isn't that the opposite?

My cousin studied in public schools in Canada

And education is practically free in state schools

[safe kernel]

I’m not sure about canada

But in the US its like

State schools give scholarships to mostly residents of the state

Barely any to internationals

It’s mostly the private schools which give scholarships to everyone, they don’t consider your citizenship

[safe kernel]

They barely give any to out of state residents even if they’re a citizen of the country

[stray sable]

Dk about US system too much. Not many of my accquiantances study or live there.

[safe kernel]

Hm

[stray sable]

But got to learn sth new.

[safe kernel]

Even in the uk

Like

Scholarships barely given to internationals

So it’s just the rich kids applying to Uk

[stray sable]

In bd, after Grade 8, the academic system of even the reputed schools are so bad that most ppl resort to private coachings and out of around 70-80 students ik from there, out of those who are going abroad, most are very well-off there.

[safe kernel]

Every Indian student has tuition

They don’t rely too much on school

[stray sable]

Not as widespread as bd coz y'all smart.

Those who are studying at British schools in bd, most are either spoilt or dumb af.

I have taught 2 Indian students so ik.

[safe kernel]

Lol

[stray sable]

As a teacher, if I got students as smart as y'all, I am even prepared to teach at 75% of my actual rate.

These spoilt brats just give me headache in return of money.

[placid folio]

very true

[languid musk]

😔

[solar marsh]

I am learning to control myself and better tolerate my anger

And I'm honestly feeling great

I've always been a loud person (i mean like talkative and generally loud yes) but these days im trying to be quite.. saying as less as possible and seeing if that really makes a difference

[quaint hound]

talk less and quit caring about w others think of you, you'll experience something called sukoon

[stray sable]

As an introvert most of my life, I would suggest you to listen and observe more rather than rushing to state your opinion.

[spice geyser]

Sign of a smart individual

[stray sable]

This is true tho only ppl with zero ambition focus on what others do.

[stray sable]

Not really. Just trying not to look stupid.

[kindred stone]

sir

im in canada

where did you hear

i will work

the quality of life is horrible here, buying groceries sucks

[mild compass]

fr

[stray sable]

First of all, if you are Muslim, pray 2 rakat nafl for this. Unless you are born there.

[kindred stone]

?

[stray sable]

In Pakistan, you will have the exact same life 10 years from now no matter what you do.

[kindred stone]

I have no clue who keeps feeding everyone that Canada is the dream country

[stray sable]

BTW where are you living?

If Toronto

Then get out asap

Switch to BC

Or even better Montreal

[mild compass]

tbh CA has scope

[kindred stone]

i would ping a good amount of people in canada

but aight

[stray sable]

10 years from now if you lived in Pakistan you would have slapped yourself 10 times everyday for not immigrating to Canada.

There is a reason why everyone wants to shift to Canada despite them very rarely providing any scholarships and the fee is identical to the US unis.

Apart from religious and a few moral issues, my 2 relatives are living the best possible life there.

Even though they immigrated in 2009 so that's different

[kindred stone]

it literally is

that was the prime time

to

but if you've done your research and you're sure

go for it

[stray sable]

The reason you are in distress now might be because you prolly belong to a well-off family who hardly did chores and expected that the Western world would be an euphoria.

I have several acquaintances who are not that well-off and since they expected what was to come they never really complained about the hardwork.

But yeah they too complained about the employment crisis

[stray sable]

Don't tell me most ppl live in Toronto

[kindred stone]

nope

[stark ridge]

delusional

life is not all butterflies and fantasy type of sh and money growing on trees if thats what u think😃

@stray sable

[tropic hound]

@stray sable I immigrated from Pakistan to Canada a year ago.

It's not all butterflies and rainbows

Yes it's significantly better than Pakistan is rn

But pretending all is swell here is deluded

[stark ridge]

this is why canada is going bankrupt

😞

[tropic hound]

there's an inflation crisis here, housing prices are awful, jobs are difficult to come by for 99% of fields, housing crisis in terms of availability not just rent too

[tropic hound]

nah bro don't you know kids who've never left their parent's basement know more about your life on the other side of the world than you do

[radiant reef]

Canada's expectations: wannabe USA
Canada's reality: Kenyada

[unreal shadow]

cause getting a greencard is easy lol

[unreal shadow]

what

[unreal shadow]

what

[unreal shadow]

what

that's all straight up false lol

being an international seeking financial aid in the US is an L lol and your chances of getting admitted are virtually non-existent

it's rare for universities to provide financial aid to internationals

and many private schools don't even have scholarship programs lol

and realistically only a well off person would be able to afford university in the US without scholarships or financial aid whether at a state school or a private one

[safe kernel]

Best scholarship programs are provided by privates

[unreal shadow]

none of the ivy league schools provide scholarships lol

financial aid and scholarships are two very different things

[wintry rampart]

can't believe that my fucking pathetic mother lost her shit again

into thinking that i'm a homosexual for simply cosplaying

all thanks to stealing her makeup without her permission

all the shit she said hurted me

wanting me to idk, play golf with greedy millionaires or join the fucking army cause people would know that my cosplaying would be "weird and a source of bullying" when in reality, i made a lot of friends along the way

and thinking that i'm insane

i'm just doing something that i deeply enjoy only for my mother to suddenly disapprove, with a nuclear mouth

that makes me number of brain cells drop like the stock market

and get this, she perfectly fits the trafitional chinese mother

wants to fully take control of her child's life, down from dictating him what hobbies he must like and do

and idk rushing graduation

[wintry rampart]

i don't understand why she would undermine me into becoming someone that she wants me to be

a filthy conservative who hates gen z and millrnials

or shall i say, mother 2.0

[wintry rampart]

i know that she's trying her best to get me the best future that i can get

but she doesn't have to control my thoughts and interests in order to do that

[unreal shadow]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[tropic hound]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[stray sable]

You are mixing PR with greencard. My cousins have been living for 14 years and is yet to receive GC.

[stray sable]

The reason you are in distress now might be because you prolly belong to a well-off family who hardly did chores and expected that the Western world would be an euphoria.

[stray sable]

As if inflation does not exist elsewhere

[tropic hound]

what about this says "it's hard because I have to clean my room 😭😭😭"

[stray sable]

Although nothing is served in a golden plate

[stray sable]

I believe that immigrating is very very close to a shortcut for the rich.

Especially in countries like Canada

[tropic hound]

respectfully nobody cares what you believe

[stray sable]

It is what it is

[tropic hound]

do me a favour, instead of shilling it and telling people who have already done it why their experiences are wrong

Go do it yourself

and live a happy meaningful life

[stray sable]

Ok last question.

[stray sable]

How many international students studying in CA from PK are outside the top 2% income' group?

[tropic hound]

???

yes I come from a well off family

what's your point

[stray sable]

Exactly

[tropic hound]

what's your point

[stray sable]

.

[tropic hound]

okay

nobody cares

[stray sable]

Well you do

[tropic hound]

I'm not complaining about anything

I'm very happy with my decision

I 100% have a better life here than I would in Pakistan

[stray sable]

.

[tropic hound]

but pretending it's all butterflies and rainbows looking in fron the outside is stupid

[tropic hound]

.

[stray sable]

Never said that

[tropic hound]

man shut up genuinely youve been saying it's not hard at all for this entire conversation

go eat your fish fry and study for your exams or something idk

[stray sable]

Well you did admit it's significantly easier than in PK

[tropic hound]

because it is

I'd be lying if I said anything else

[stray sable]

Exactly you proved ur point

[tropic hound]

it's short term struggle for long term benefit

in pk it's short term benefit for long term struggle

[stray sable]

Nah it's short term struggle for long term struggle

[tropic hound]

brother trust me it's not a struggle living at home with my parents

and not having to worry about shit

other than cleaning my room or whatever

[stray sable]

Well obv coz u loaded. Talking mid class.

[unreal shadow]

you know what i meant lol it’s the same thing

[stray sable]

Well what can we expect from a country who are accepting visas from TW countries like it's nothing.

Don't get me wrong

I too am a resident of TW country and most of us here know the state and mindset of our people.

[wintry rampart]

yeah, although what my mom really got angry of is te value of it in the long term

despite applying getting in 5 event committees this year, becoming an officer for a student org and now applying for project head for 2 events in that org, she doesn't fully credit it

and i feel disfulfilled

cosplay to me is a short term relief of pain and suffering by being someone else

and org work is a long-term advantage that will help me land a job

[stray sable]

Cosplay Future Gohan sometime.

[wintry rampart]

what she prolly wants me to do is to plan my future ahead seriously, although I cannot plan too far ahead

cause it distresses me

i've already planned my entire year at uni, and yet i fear of disclosing it to my mother cause i'll be ignored for "giving her too much pain for years"

@unreal shadow @tropic hound wdyt?

should i open up about my plans at school and life to her? or do i keep it to myself?

she advised me to plan the actions that i'll do for the next 5 years

how can i do this without accidentally catastrophizin?

[tropic hound]

bro ill be fr you're so overdramatic

[wintry rampart]

i know. the words that my mother said to me about 11-12 hours ago are still in my head up till now

which is why i was panicked as i written my rant here

[kindred stone]

Parents get old, they get like that

Chill a little

You're being too over the top

[wintry rampart]

i guess i'll have to get distracted and reflect even harder then

[kindred stone]

I get what tou mean, but i wouldn't know how you feel

Just don't put yourself down

Even if she says xyz, if you believe you're on the right path

Just be calm with her and go on

[wintry rampart]

although i'll have to take her words into consideration too, just the positive ones

[tropic hound]

yeah you gotta be patient

[wintry rampart]

i guess the power of the internal locus is the solution

[tropic hound]

even when you think she's being overly negative

[wintry rampart]

in the end, there will be positive words hidden inside of it

[tropic hound]

they don't have the same thought process or mindset as you

remember they've likely lived a much different childhood

[wintry rampart]

yup. my grandmother's very strict on her as a child

she didn't experience what i experienced, from taking the a levels, to studying at international schools in my country

and sacrificed everything following a separation with my father

and how will this impact her treatment of me and my 13 year old brother?

[wintry rampart]

@tropic hound @unreal shadow how the hell can i let my internal locus take me?

and i guess, not take criticism too personally?

[sullen stream]

Hey, parents don’t exactly completely understand what plans or what “calculations” that we have made for the future. Even though we have a plan set in mind and sometimes parents don’t agree to it . It’s normal. Maybe even though ur mother may seem annoying to u, that doesn’t mean that u should always stick to ur original plan. Honestly, we are not completely experienced with where the path which we decide to take will take us. It could land somewhere good or somewhere bad. It depends on the decision. U can make a compromise with ur mom so that way both of u can be satisfied with the decisions u will make. It’s like if there is a loophole in ur future plan, and u don’t know about it but ur mom might, she could actually help u rectify the loophole and ur plan can be full proof . Who knows? It could help. 🤷‍♀️

[placid folio]

bro i agree 100%
and i somehow feel like i needed this
thanks

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to crystal_clear6#0

[sullen stream]

Your welcome 😁

[solar marsh]

Bro this is actually very helpful advice

I just need to learn to talk to my parents ig

[solar marsh]

Probably something i should do more

[sullen stream]

i think there usually is a communication gap between us and parents. In the past, decisions were taken by society like for example: women can study only commerce or shouldn't work while men should choose either engineering or medicine. Those days, parents and society gave a pressure to students of that time and once the students became parents, maybe that attitude might have still been in them and they are using it on us. ig communication is key. (Honestly idk how am i able to write like this😅 )

[sullen stream]

i don't think it's about learning how to talk. It could be about how u r able to convince them...

[wintry rampart]

seems to be a comprehensive plan that i can utilize, although i don't understand why she calls me out for my hobbies than my future

to which she thinks makes no sense

she tells me, "yes, you can continue cosplaying, but why don't you pursue other hobbies like golf or swimming?"

to which i'll consider jogging, cycling and gym as possible PHYSICAL hobbies

[sullen stream]

U can say that u have another physical hobby which u r interested in.

Hobbies are something which u like to do when u r free. If u do something u don’t like, it wouldn’t be called a hobby now would it?

[signal lion]

kys or get over it

small simple advice

[hazy dagger]

bro

?????? 💀

[solar marsh]

YO I SHOULD TRY SWIMMING AS A HOBBY! thanks for the idea

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to kelpoxd#0

[wintry rampart]

guess you gotta learn how to swim first. otherwise, go for it

[wintry rampart]

if it meant something that people expect me to do just cause of a stereotype or peer pressure, definitely not. although i feel that my hobbies are more on the creative side of things

rather than physical engagement

[hazy dagger]

try not to die

[solar marsh]

Yeah there really is a communication gap, at least between me and my parents.. I've never been able to share my problems with them because they wouldn't understand it.. they'd either tell me to just ignore the problem or stop thinking about it

[solar marsh]

Oh dw, I've known how to swim since i was 7

[wintry rampart]

nice

[solar marsh]

Im surrounded by the ocean

[hazy dagger]

Ws Ws

[wintry rampart]

then i guess you gotta stay safe then

[solar marsh]

Yupp

[safe kernel]

Omg the great Kelpo has arrived once again

[wintry rampart]

can relate very easily tho my mother pretty much idk, takes control of shit or trying to get me to follow her outdated advice

or grill me for something that is small as heck

[placid folio]

i literally had the most awkward convo with my bestie today

[safe kernel]

no one cares

[placid folio]

wth she even apologized for it

[safe kernel]

jk go on

[placid folio]

did i ask u

[placid folio]

ok

[safe kernel]

What’s outdated advice

[placid folio]

and now idk frickin physics hard

and now she and i are losing connection

two of my nightmares

[placid folio]

things ppl in the past wud say

[wintry rampart]

"your hobbies in art will lead you to be bullied in the workplace"

"girls like men who play sports and have hunky abs and not men who dress up like characters for a living"

"what does your hobbies have to waste in your future?"

[placid folio]

mostly south asian mum

[placid folio]

i hate all of the above statements

[wintry rampart]

technically "words of wisdom" that would work in the 1980s but would be either ridiculous or worthless in the 2020s

[safe kernel]

I mean

[placid folio]

but yeah dude ive gotten the last line

[placid folio]

bruh wdum

[safe kernel]

Indian parents are sort of like that

As well

[placid folio]

yeah

all south asian

tbh

[safe kernel]

I’m used to it lol

[placid folio]

samee

[wintry rampart]

i'm kinda used to it but there's a degree where it gets personal

[placid folio]

yeah like when ur mom talks shit bout ur bestie

tht just gets me mad

[wintry rampart]

i used to like cosplaying until my mother used homophobia to get me to crack for stealing makeup which made me doubt my hobbies

[placid folio]

or when ur mum tells u ud never make it in life

[safe kernel]

Wdym by

[wintry rampart]

and i feel that's already beyond the line

[placid folio]

or crushes ur passions and dreams

[safe kernel]

Dressing up like characters

You mean Halloween?

[wintry rampart]

exactly

[placid folio]

im used to all tht

[wintry rampart]

in my country, the philippines, cosplaying's quite a trend to a point where conventions for it exist

[safe kernel]

Oh okay got what you mean

[wintry rampart]

even if it is basic foundation and face paint

[safe kernel]

What do you cosplay as

[wintry rampart]

i know it'll sound ridiculous but genshin characters

although i plan to expand into tf2

[safe kernel]

That’s only when

[wintry rampart]

and counter strike

[safe kernel]

Your moms angry

Super angry

[wintry rampart]

cause i stole makeup

when in reality, i had my own stash

that i saved up for

so my mistake for stealing

[safe kernel]

I don’t play genshin impact

[wintry rampart]

although i had supportive friends in the community that reassured me that my mother meant no harm and i could freely decide to continue despite her wishes to make me stop

[safe kernel]

If I were to every cosplay

I’d cosplay as

Star Wars characters

[wintry rampart]

nice

i'd like to own a clone trooper cosplay eventually

[safe kernel]

Darth vader for me

[wintry rampart]

cool

[safe kernel]

I only cosplay in Halloween

[wintry rampart]

makes sense

[safe kernel]

We don’t got conventions

In India

[wintry rampart]

sad

back to my problems, in the end, she accepted my apology

and told me to "lessen the cosplay and prolly do more physical stuff@

so that was a relaxing conclusion as i feared that she wanted me to stop doing it for good

despite being an opportunity to make new friends

[sullen stream]

Does she understand that cosplaying shows the artistic side of u?

[wintry rampart]

gradually

at least she knew that i learned my lesson of not stealing

[placid folio]

whenever shes being irational

[placid folio]

same here

[mild compass]

honestly bro

i cant take it anymore

its over for me

my fingers tingle when i do tricep extensions

im gonna die

i feel it

[mild compass]

depressing vent my heart hurts for u

[mild compass]

are you eating well?

[mild compass]

i inhale 7 boiled eggs a day im pretty sure im good

[proud latch]

🤢

scrambled better

[mild compass]

scrambled takes longer to eat

thus less will be eaten

i need to eat so fast my stomach doesn't realize

[proud latch]

egg breath u have

[proud latch]

lol aigh gotchu

[kindred stone]

Just mash

Put in one lump

And done

[mild compass]

or

eat 1 at a time

[kindred stone]

Grind into juice

And chug

[mild compass]

and finisg in 3 mins

[kindred stone]

Gotta save time

[mild compass]

nah i do that at nigh

[kindred stone]

30 sec drink or 3 mins eating?

We saving 2 min 30 sec

[mild compass]

why not both🗣️🙏🙏

[kindred stone]

A good 2 rep exercise

2 set*

[mild compass]

what set are u doing that takes 1:15 mins😭

[kindred stone]

https://tenor.com/view/fail-gym-fail-elastic-workout-fail-ouch-gif-16171535

[mild compass]

eat 2 bananas or honey & salt before working out

BLUD WHY IS CHEMISTRY SO ASS

I TRIED JUMPING OFF THE FLIPPIN BUILDING BUT LIKE I COULDNT

OEUYHPAODUFHPOADUFHAPOFUHADOPFUAH

I have gone CRAZY

LITERALLY

MOLES ARE JUST-

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[mild compass]

i eat more fruits than a vegan and honey and salt + dates

PLUS

IM TAUGHT BY A MAN WHO HAD HIS HAIR EVAPORATE TEACHING SHIT HE DOESNT EVEN KNOW

youre so real

AND WHAT HAD ME LOOSE ALL 9 OF MY 1 LIFE IS THAT THIS MAN IS INDIAN

INDIANS ARE LIKE CRAZY SMART

BUT THIS FELLOW ######

IDEK BRUV

THIS MAN CREATES A PROBLEM THAT HE CANT EVEN SOLVE, WHEN THE WHOLE CLASS SOLVES IT AND IS STARING AT HIS FACE

its a venting channel

and its a slur

Plus

blud

by todays standards

idrc tbh

What the actual heck?

yea crazy

if u can go against the rules and somehow unban it i really wouldnt mind

okay back at it

[mild compass]

yea keep going

THIS MAN

IDEK WHY HES ALIVE

LIKE

I SPENT 20 MINUTES LITERALLY ARGUING WITH HIM THAT HES WRONG

[mild compass]

then it’s probably bc you’re overworking

get rest from time to time

dawg

i rest

plus its been like this since i started

but i feel like the ulnar nerve is boutta just snap

[mild compass]

be careful fetus, ur still petite

[mild compass]

im not small in any way whatsoever bro (my brain not included)

[proud latch]

yo dick small jit

[mild compass]

who told you that

[quaint hound]

https://tenor.com/view/laughing-christian-bale-patrick-bateman-american-psycho-laugh-gif-18161317

[hazy dagger]

lmao

[placid folio]

is tht bad or smthng

[placid folio]

wow so all chem teachers part crazy huh

mine too and i honestly kinda find it funny

[quaint hound]

wdy think

[solar marsh]

Why does my cousin have to describe everything about her in so much detail, like, she said she cried for 2 mins cuz she didn't do her hw and then proceeded to describe how she cried and that she didn't ugly cry and she cried like a "sigma"... Its literally so cringe and to me it just shows how insecure she is about herself... She has a habit of trying to make herself look strong by denying any emotions she feel and saying that she hasn't cried for months. She has this urge to always say something which makes her look strong but in reality she isn't

I told her that no one cares about how she cries and that crying is normal and she proceeded to call me a jerk

I could care less about her life but she always makes an effort to brag about how strong she is and that she exercises 1 hr daily. She even types out her exercising routine while doing the exercises and brag about how shes able to do intermediate exercises as a beginner ... I just dont like her cuz she brags too much about daily life things

[stray sable]

"She" is the keyword.

If "she" works out at an expensive gym, goes to an expensive school, have parents who are not arguing, separated or God forbids dead, has no permanent disease that might be detrimental, then she has no real problems and is acting like a spoilt brat.

[stray sable]

Can she do one arm push ups? Since you said she has been consistently working out for an hour daily.

[solar marsh]

No she can't 💀

She been working out for a month so far

She says she does work out everyday

[stray sable]

Is she rich?

Like gym mein workout karti hain or sth?

[solar marsh]

Yup her dad's a pilot

[solar marsh]

She doesn't go to the gym

Her brother does. She works out at home

[stray sable]

Ok good to know gym ain't optimized for beginners

[stray sable]

Was he under 16 when he started?

[solar marsh]

Yeah he was

[stray sable]

Lmaooooo very considerate parents

[solar marsh]

Fr they literally buy them whatever they want

[stray sable]

Proves my point then

[solar marsh]

My cousin claims shes not spoiled but idk it feels like she is

[stray sable]

Can he do one arms tho?

[solar marsh]

Thats true...

[solar marsh]

Idk man, i have no contact with him but according to my cousin, he aint losing any weight whatsoever yet

Hes been going to the gym for 2-3 years and maybe hes just bulking yk

Different people have different gym goals

[stray sable]

Lmao I never even had any equipment besides a pair of dumbbell and a cheap resistance band and even I can do that

Guess the weight of being spoilt is true

[solar marsh]

Im working out from home too cux a gym is nonexistent in the island i live in and all i have is a yoga mat and a treadmill

2 weeks into consistently working out

She lives in the capital and it has gyms

[stray sable]

Wait u from Sri Lanka?

[solar marsh]

Nah Maldives

[mild compass]

if i dont get a cat soon i will legitimately lose my mind

[placid folio]

i mean we have the rights to share whatever
right and aslong as it aint shit
so i think tht wasnt bad

[placid folio]

r u ?

[stray sable]

No

[solar marsh]

🤫🤫🫢

Hhhhhhhhh

It feels nice to type this out.. these are just all the things i wish i could say to my annoying ass cousin

But i won't cuz im a nice person 😇

And this is a venting channel

[quaint hound]

brother

ill pass reading all that

but may Allah ease out your life and give you a lot of hapiness in life

[inner rune]

just looking at it i have a feeling of epilepsy tbf

[mild compass]

Is this an essay or a passage 👀

[solar marsh]

I believe its an essay but idk

[solar marsh]

Oops sorry i should have put a warning

[solar marsh]

THANK YOU 😭

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to arub#0

[inner rune]

nah yk what fuck it i have english exam tommorow i finna analyse that shit

@solar marsh can you title that

[solar marsh]

Oh nah its just a rant and probably has many grammatical errors

No intro no conclusion 😭

[inner rune]

that does not matter

im making an analysis of it

title it

[solar marsh]

"Things i wish i could say to my annoying ass cousin, but i wont bc im a nice person 😇"

[inner rune]

make it shorter

4 words

[stray sable]

Firstly I thought this was directed towards me

Coz I said stuff like her family is spoilt and all

[solar marsh]

🤔 uhh.. "Insults towards my cousin"?

[inner rune]

ok

[solar marsh]

Nah whatever you said is true

[solar marsh]

Oh nah, i should have made that clear sorry.. i wouldn't insult people that i dont know

[stray sable]

No worries I get that a lot from ppl just bcoz I don't agree with some of their opinions

[solar marsh]

But you're cool tho, i really like how u debunked that she's a spoiled brat within just a few mins

[inner rune]

i give up too less info

[solar marsh]

Wdym by that 🤨

[chilly solar]

I think you should just say it to her

assert your older cousin dominance 💪 🔥

[mild compass]

Okay you might be annoyed or angry with your cousin and she might be a spoilt person but it's not good to say bad about a person that too in front of many people. How would you feel if someone says about you. It's better to try to correct her in private and if it fails just leave her you will have done your work

[solar marsh]

Yeah i realise that now. I really shouldn't have done that

[solar marsh]

I told her that she should stop pretending to be someone she isn't

And now she's having an existential crisis

[chilly solar]

how old is she?

[solar marsh]

13

[chilly solar]

hmm

you didn't say anything wrong

[solar marsh]

Anyways i deleted the essay cux i realised i should be better than she is

[mild compass]

Good

[mild compass]

Just a kid so better teach her

[quaint hound]

i want someone new in my life to talk to. but at the same time, i dont want to text anyone, because it feels like a liability... id be "rude" if reply less often or show less interest. my thoughts about my future are actually killing me mentally.

[quaint hound]

please pause

its venting channel

im just texting trash

i know the answers very well

[mild compass]

Oh really, I saw pple replying to one another

Mm

My bad then

[stray sable]

You can text me

After 20th

Of the month.

I'll make some time for you, InshaAllah. Tbf due to maintaining too much professionalism, I also forgot what's it like to make a friend whom I can share all my intrusive thoughts with.

Lionel was my mental support, but nowadays he is too full of himself and thinks that it's always all about him.

[solar marsh]

Fr, i feel the same like, i want someone new to call a friend.. some one like me who isn't already part of another friend group and won't just ghost me one day

Idk why i cant maintain a friendship

I have friends now too but they usually dont really remember me until they see me... I try not to get too close to them so that i wont be hurt again.. I've been hurt so many times by these people cuz i got too close

[mild compass]

I thought I'm the only one who doesn't have friends 😂

But sometimes not having friends is good

[solar marsh]

Nah u aint

I have friends but they're more like acquaintances.. no close friends

[solar marsh]

True but sometimes u just feel lonely yk 😮‍💨

[stray sable]

Us

[quaint hound]

Just get used to it

[mild compass]

I know that it means like no friends because they have other groups

[quaint hound]

Rn I just have one friend I'd say

From the school I go to

Rest of the kids at school are just indecent or don't share any interests w me

[solar marsh]

I have, been through hell with fighting loneliness

[quaint hound]

Why fight

[solar marsh]

Yeah

[quaint hound]

Just don't have anyone in dms

[solar marsh]

Idk depression?

[quaint hound]

Lol

I never get that anymore... I've suffered it a lot already

[mild compass]

That when you get used to like me😂

[quaint hound]

Yeah like does it really matter

No right

No one cares ab you anyways

What's the point of sitting sad

All drama

[mild compass]

Yeah you enjoy your own company

[quaint hound]

Just move on

[stray sable]

Bro ignored me like Goku ignores Yamcha in Super.

[quaint hound]

Idk what yamcha khamcha is

But I dint have anything to say so I dint text

I also never reply to dms sometimes if they are pointless

So don't mind I dint ignore you

[kindred stone]

Lol

Just chill y'all

[quaint hound]

https://tenor.com/view/patrick-bateman-american-psycho-chilling-relaxing-looking-sharp-gif-24785171

[solar marsh]

Thats what i mean

[kindred stone]

Nah your friends will come one day

I was in similar shoes once upon a time (i think it was a diff account and i vented here)

But alhamdullilah I'm chilling now

At uni i have like 2 proper friends, whilst i do hangout with ithers

But I've been chilling with my friends from 6th grade

And others from hs

[solar marsh]

I hope so

[solar marsh]

Ppl from 6th grade dont even know who i am anymore 😂

Ig i should just enjoy my own company

[kindred stone]

They were on same wavelength and i have a friend group I love, albeit they have their own uni/college groups

[solar marsh]

Learn to enjoy it

[kindred stone]

We still have time for each other

But once it comes to uni

[quaint hound]

lol i never was in grade 6

[kindred stone]

I have like 2 people i can say i had true friends

[kindred stone]

Same i apparently skipped 6th and did 5th twice due to the confusing year and grade system

[solar marsh]

That's what people where i live dont do. They stick with only one friend group and barely care about other friends outside that friend grp

[quaint hound]

i dint skip coz confusing year idek w that is

[kindred stone]

Well not really but something along that

Lol

[kindred stone]

Thing is

[quaint hound]

huh just be nice to everyone

[kindred stone]

I can't make a friend group in uni lol

[quaint hound]

dont get close to anyone

[solar marsh]

How's that possible doe?

[quaint hound]

khalaas

[quaint hound]

left school after 5th

[kindred stone]

The 2 people i try connecting

Dont connect XD

[quaint hound]

was supposed to join in 9th but joined in 8th

[kindred stone]

Madrasa?

[quaint hound]

yep

[kindred stone]

Figured

Eh y'all will get there eventually

[solar marsh]

I'd be so happy if i can have even one friend that i can call a true friend who isn't gonna break my trust after a few months of being friends

[kindred stone]

I'm still lonely at uni but

I just sit outside

Chill

And have a nice nap

[kindred stone]

We've had our dispute and differences at once

Now were close and all of us are growing closer to religion together too

[solar marsh]

Its easier cux as u get older into adulthood, u care less and less about other ppl in life

[kindred stone]

Im still 18

[solar marsh]

Masha Allah

[kindred stone]

I'm just young for them XD

Besides like rixzz

[solar marsh]

"As u get older" 😭

[kindred stone]

People i talk to are 22 23 such

But as you grow it gets easier to socialize or so idk

[solar marsh]

I had an adult friend last year but she stopped talking to me for some reason idk

[quaint hound]

W country?

[kindred stone]

Canada

[kindred stone]

Its fine lol

I'm getting less time to play with the bois day by day

I have projects to make, internships to apply to

Work

Studies

And quran

Just occupy yourself and chillax

[solar marsh]

Its honestly the most peaceful way to live ngl

I need to get closer to religion

[kindred stone]

Sometimes

Do it

With friends it fun

[solar marsh]

Im falling off the right path... I dont want it to happen

[kindred stone]

I have my ups and downs

[solar marsh]

Too bad friends dont really like it when i bring religion

[kindred stone]

I will agree

Alhamdullilah for the friends i have

But here in Canada

It's like a mixed bag

I found many that helped me

Other's ehhh yk

But i can't be the one to judge, I have flaws myself

[solar marsh]

Ig thats what happens when u dont live in a country full of ppl who don't actually care about religion until they get too old or be hit by a life threatening disease to do anything abt it

[kindred stone]

Its same everywhere

I'm ngl I've seen more people closer to deen here than in uae

Most likely because the bayans made sense to the youth (in english) and the bonding here is better

And everyone is more close-knit

[solar marsh]

Wow maybe cuz converts have a lot more faith and trust than ppl born into the religion

Its real tho.. istg converts do have a lot more faith

[kindred stone]

Fax

I have lots to fix

It's that im lazy frr

[silver wasp]

Honestly I feel like its that way there also because people have more space and freedom to take their time accepting things theres no rush theres no force theres no pressure you have so much peace and time to sit there and explore so many diff things around you and understand whats good and bad for you

But it depends on each personnn

[solar marsh]

Can relate lmao I've become so lazy

[silver wasp]

Some people only draw further away when they're in an environment like that

[silver wasp]

Same wallah

[silver wasp]

Thats true too lol

[solar marsh]

🤔 you could be onto something

[kindred stone]

Its also that the cultural ideology is less

[silver wasp]

Ive been on both sides 😭

[kindred stone]

The parents also are getting closer

[silver wasp]

Yesss definitely

[kindred stone]

Just that

[silver wasp]

Omg thats true

[kindred stone]

The old incles

Are still inclined to culture

Uncles*

[silver wasp]

Especially ideology when they're in like the west they start to let go of their old traditional thinkings (the ones that are wrong ofc) and start exploring new ones and actually have the realisation on whats wrong and right 😭

Even if they had the strongest opinion ever on something before they moved or whatever

[kindred stone]

But also it affects negatively

[solar marsh]

Not my parents tho, they aren't even teaching my sis quran like how they taught me

[kindred stone]

When they take the western ideology

[silver wasp]

Mhmmm but for the older people I feel like they just go through so much and they realise so much and just get so convinced by their opinions that it becomes hard to change it when they are old

Thats why its like that

[silver wasp]

It depends on the situation but ofc every good thing has something negative attached to it

[solar marsh]

Honestly makes me wanna move out of my country but i cant leave my parents like that... Take them with me? They already said no

[silver wasp]

Hmmm thats a bit random but also does your sister have interest in learning it in the first place

[kindred stone]

Ima say i don't like how religion is in desi countries frrr

Once i started exploring more

And saw all the bidah and shirk that happened

Fr

[solar marsh]

No she doesn't.. istg people in my country are getting far and far away from religion as generations go on

[silver wasp]

You could stayyyy and try to make changeeee thats always a solution though sometimes it takes a long long while and alot of effort and requirses alot of patience

See exactly

[kindred stone]

You have a responsibility after your parents

[silver wasp]

Im not saying your parents should give up like that only bc she doesnt they should try ofc but they cant force either and its sad but its true

[silver wasp]

Its literally just culture and everything evolving in every way possible the modernism ykyk

All we could do is try to lead people

But again cant force them

And we have to focus on ourselves too

It sucks it doesssss but we have to accept it at the same time

[silver wasp]

Your so not wrong lol

Its a bit annoying how even in all the highly islamic countries where your supposedly growing up with islam everywhere and think your doing way better than westerners and non muslims

Sometimes your actually doing alot worse

And some things your just fooled into believing ar religiously right

when they so so arent

[solar marsh]

Ik u can't force anyone but they forced me to learn it ngl.. and plus, no other religion but Islam is allowed to be practiced publicly

[silver wasp]

And its all literally bc of culture and influence from surroundings and family and everything

[solar marsh]

But im glad im Muslim tho.. i believe its the right path

[silver wasp]

They shouldnt have forced you they did go wrong on that and if forcing you has the purpose of making you a better muslim in their minds then really it wouldnt have made a difference you cant be truly truly attached and close to Allah without your own willl

Like the whole point of getting closer basically closest to him or even trying is through your will and putting in the effort and actually realising 😭

[silver wasp]

Thats amazing though yk

Whatever your happy with

[solar marsh]

I'm starting to realize that i didn't to choose to be Muslim on my own will but my culture revolves around it...

I need to fix myself imo

[silver wasp]

Mhmm Ive been hearing alot of people say that recently

You just need to exploreee

do your own research

Give yourself space

Let yourself learn

[mild compass]

u can be born muslim but u gotta find islam

[silver wasp]

Give yourself all the time you need just as long as you know your doing the right thing and headed the right way whole heartedly

[solar marsh]

I was born into this religion and i do know a lot abt it cux they teach religion at school

[solar marsh]

Seems like I've found out why i keep getting far away from religion

[mild compass]

honestly ukhti what helped me is fixing my salah

salah is everything

[solar marsh]

I should do that

[solar marsh]

Salah? Oh u mean prayer

[mild compass]

ye

[solar marsh]

GOD I'M SO FAR

😭😭 this is honestly sad

[kindred stone]

Tbh

Not even hard for all 5 prayers

My fajr ends at 7 14

Am

I wake up at 6am and ez

I was called pious for praying all 5 and got sad

[mild compass]

we all start somewhere, even in deen. No one wakes up and gets immediate perfect khushoo in their prayer. all that matters is that you realized that your lord is allah and he sees your mistakes and you genuinely regret them and try to fix it

[solar marsh]

My fajr is around 4-6 am

[kindred stone]

Just make a habit and you're gucci

[mild compass]

i struggled a lot with my prayers but alhamdullilah i got better but it took time

[kindred stone]

I naturally wakr up at 6am now alhamdullilah

[solar marsh]

Wait whats a khushoo??

[solar marsh]

I really should

[mild compass]

its the focus you have during salah/prayer, feeling the presence of allah

[solar marsh]

Idk arabic 😭

[kindred stone]

Dw

[solar marsh]

I can read it but idk what it means

[kindred stone]

I regret forgetting arabic

Relearning but time

[mild compass]

its fine if i say anything u dont understand ill translate

[solar marsh]

Oh.. idk but i do feel like Allah is standing right next to me when i pray and it always makes me emotional

[mild compass]

thats great

many people dont

[silver wasp]

Wait damn

[mild compass]

and just stand there repeating the words they need to

[silver wasp]

We've been talking in venting this whole time

I thought this was chat-lounge

[solar marsh]

Oh no

[silver wasp]

I was wondering why people arent being annoying lmao

Like huhhhh theyre letting us seriously conversate without intruding??

[solar marsh]

Wdym by that

[silver wasp]

You should and we're all here to help you and support you through it all

And answer any questions you may have

[solar marsh]

Thank u sm

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to annggeell#0

[kindred stone]

Just praying the prayer

[silver wasp]

Wallah same 😭

I was fluent

Like ahhh

[solar marsh]

I honestly feel a lot better

[silver wasp]

Canadaaaaa

[solar marsh]

Oohh that

[silver wasp]

They gave me french insta

Instead

[kindred stone]

Without praying with the meaning or khushoo

[silver wasp]

Dont even mention itt

Anytime

[kindred stone]

Ur in keneda?

[solar marsh]

Y'all should probably go to #chat-lounge

[mild compass]

like many people just say the surah, dhikr etc without knowing or thinking abt what theyre saying

[kindred stone]

Its clown fest

[mild compass]

nah ppl will be annoying

[solar marsh]

I really wish to know what everything i say in salah means.. but even tho idk arabic i still feel this khushoo

I should learn Arabic

[solar marsh]

Oh yea

[kindred stone]

@solar marsh https://youtube.com/@Arabic101?si=krfSZATb1EjDrN6Y

He's good

[mild compass]

i gtg now but i wanna say something

[solar marsh]

Omg .. thank u for this

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to abyslite#0

[mild compass]

wtv you do dont abandon the prayer, the prophet pbuh said the only thing that distinguishes us from the disbelievers is prayer. if someone dies while knowing the importance of the prayer but they still dont pray at all that person died as a kaafir/disbeliever

[kindred stone]

U can do 1 vid a day it's like 10-20 mins

[quaint hound]

⬆️

[solar marsh]

I should get back on track fr, thanks for ur advice

[green venture]

Gave +1 rep to ahmed.omar#0

[solar marsh]

Wew thats good to know

[mild compass]

np may allah make it easy for you 🙏

[solar marsh]

Ameen 😭

[kindred stone]

Ameen

I have lots to work on still fr

[silver wasp]

I grew up thereeee

For over half of my life 😭

And then recentlyyy

[kindred stone]

Same

[silver wasp]

We moved backkk

To where I was bornn

[kindred stone]

One sec

[silver wasp]

Tyt

[tidal holly]

Heyyyyy

The sky's been real blue since 2007

Wow

So many people I can't breathe

[kindred stone]

wat

[sly shuttle]

Bro's high

[languid musk]

wild

[mild compass]

I agree, It's suffocating fr

[kindred stone]

Both

Tajweed

The language

Certain words

Special rules

[quaint hound]

smooth

https://tenor.com/view/trash-christian-bale-patrick-bateman-american-psycho-go-away-gif-18161325

[stray sable]

Guys

Asking on behalf of a friend

How can I redeem my friend from his pessimistic ways, who was once one of the most chill guys I have known for that time.

Bro's arrogance started to grow ever since he started tutoring. He always thought of a myth that if you are from EM bg , you must be rich. Hence, when he visited the place, he was heavily disappointed and she studied in one of the expensive schools near our residence. And to make it worse she wasn't even a good student.

So he began to have trust issues with his parents into why he wasn't admitted into a better school which was within their proximity.

So how can I help him overcome this? Since he has helped me in the past it's only fair to return that favor now.

[mild compass]

"Not trying to brag" is literally bragging almost all the time, unless the statement they said was constructive and somewhat necessary to the conversation or is them offering help, especially when someone is upset about not being able to do a certain thing.

[mild compass]

.. balls

[quaint hound]

Even u started

[mild compass]

surprised you didn’t get taken out by heart failure 🥺 so proud of you sweetie
anyway i hope you get well soon, not because of obesity or mental health

okay ho3 🥺 wtv you say, #spreadkindnessnotyourlegs 💖💖

it’s a pleasure

[solar marsh]

Low-key wanna disappear off the face of this earth 😔😄

Bro wth koko is tryna msg me

[stray sable]

Tell me about it

[mild compass]

never liked someone b4 so can’t tell u

but atb

[mild compass]

you are wanted, don’t say that 🥺

[lament cloud]

ong

[restive bridge]

fuckin real

[olive wadi]

try sitting with them in class or working on a project together , i used to die of shyness

[mild compass]

aight

NO

nice nice

[inner rune]

that was relatively slow

tbh

[mild compass]

nah i did it but it said no msgs deleted

i did it too fast

again fr

[hazy dagger]

depressed ass ppl

just be happy fr

[placid folio]

wow mega thts a very thoughtful piece of advice you shared

orelse let pain get worse and once its numb it wont bother u
has worked for me....

[languid musk]

bro you so smart

ily

[solar marsh]

Why is the fact that i have no one to call a friend bothering me so much

[silver wasp]

Awwww why do you feel that wayyy?

Theres alot of people you can call friends atleast to just convince yourself that you have people there for you to care for you even

[solar marsh]

No there's really no one that cares abt me as much

I just exist

[silver wasp]

Even if you dont genuinely feel they're worthy of being friends

You allow yourself to think you dont have anyone to calll a frienddd instead of finding a solution for it and realising people you can fr protentially call a friendddd

Idk you but we could get to know each other and you could call me a friend if you want just like I could call you onee

[solar marsh]

And they ignore

[silver wasp]

What if thats what you think and it really isnt that way

I care girl

Idek you

😭

Telll me how you feel what you want Im listening