The below happened
#I was told I could dismantle all greys. Unfortunately
amber quail
And not only idk how to upgrade gear, I don't even know which I can actually disassemble, and what I gain from it
stone saddle
disassemblying converts them into coins, at least for common gear
long pier
To clarify, disassemble all unequipped grays.
Equipped ones you can leave alone. So if you press Disassemble and don't see any grays, you're good.
You upgrade by tapping the gear you want to upgrade, and tapping Enhance.
stone saddle
they might be referring to gear lab, not completely sure though
dusk wadi
gear lab unlocks at commander lvl 60
amber quail
gear lab unlocks at commander lvl 60
Then no.