AOTD (November 14th, 2024)

[dreamy lance]

[eager blaze]

Sometimes, things can happen, and they will be innevitable, and they can be sad, annoying, or frustrating, but you have to push trough, because what awaits you is much better than what you had

[young folio]

idk

I'm the one who needs asvice

😭

[neat widget]

your enough no matter wat happens👍 🥰

[frozen canyon]

Lock tf in because it'll get harder but once it's over you can chill just don't give up

[silent falcon]

if u give up now u might aswell have given up the previous times

[drifting pagoda]

It's okay to talk don't bottle up your emotions talk about them

[lethal copper]

just tell them what u wanna tell them u only live once and it could lead to smth amazing

[warm latch]

The first time you don’t succeed try again

[tight mantle]

Study before not after the test 😭

[wooden wasp]

Be social, fit in until you know they'll accept you, but don't lose yourself along the way <3

[maiden oar]

the only way to grow and succeed is to struggle, you won't know unless you keep trying

[lethal copper]

what happened to my display name 😭

[twilit orchid]

there is always a light at the end of the tunnel

[quick orchid]

dont wait for the last day to do your homework😭

[warm latch]

Facts

[twilit orchid]

wherether its good or bad there is light

[modest hearth]

IF YOUR FATHER BETRAYS YOU CUT HIM OFF

[radiant depot]

Be careful who you trust

[eager blaze]

fax

[lethal copper]

real

[modest hearth]

NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS SHIT WILL BE OKAY

[random swallow]

never give up(all ik)

[twilit orchid]

darth vader

Life’s hard but there’s always gonna be someone or something to get you through it. Don’t let toxic people in your life

[devout linden]

pain is temporary

[thin inlet]

are u watching me

[quick orchid]

maybe !!

[lethal copper]

ur watching me too arent u

[modest hearth]

ITS GOING TO SUCK ASS BUT WHEN YOU FINALLY GET THROUGH IT THE SUN WILL RISE UPON THY FACE AND YOU WILL SEE THE DAWN!

[wooden wasp]

https://tenor.com/view/slimecicle-generation-loss-genloss-goo-goobie-gif-17575683699785657098

[quick orchid]

yes 😈

[opal crag]

none cuz i don't take advice

[warm latch]

Umm that’s creepy

[lethal copper]

😰

[dreamy lance]

https://tenor.com/view/gojo-satoru-satoru-gojo-gojo-jujutsu-kaisen-manga-gif-17386688786442927012

always say “Nah, I’d Win.” whenever you doubt yourself

[quick orchid]

LOL

[lethal copper]

real ‼️

[opal crag]

First advice i'm taking

[tight mantle]

No use debating with a DBZ fan, they are hard headed asf

[warm latch]

Not all days are good but some days they can be good if you change it around

The choice is yours

[opal crag]

literaly so true

[thin inlet]

we re better

[pseudo nebula]

If youre living in the middle of a conflict/war/any negative political situation…don’t be like my family and LEAVE immediately. It’s not safe.

[north badge]

when you plant a seed, you dont dig it up ever few seconds to see if its growing. dont expect hard word to come with immediate rewards, let the seed grow, water it and watch it bloom

[tight mantle]

how do you believe that goku beats saitama?

[fossil flume]

Just keep swinging

[dull leaf]

dont give up, i tell myself that 'everything happens at a time even if it as fast as you want it'll happen. Just have patience'

[jolly magnet]

if your in a bad situation find a way out, wether its by a friend or family member or a compleat stranger, find a way out

[round summit]

Revision rly pays off

[sharp talon]

just be urself, don't change urself for others

[warm pecan]

Look up Peter Griffin quotes and idk, crash into a house

[jolly canyon]

Never be afraid to stand on your own ten toes. Nobody's perfect, if you see something wrong, don't hesitate to say something

[hasty blaze]

Whatever it is you're going through, I promise it won't last forever. Time does make all the difference. You just have to have believe in yourself and your strength, and get to the other side. You can do this :)

[wraith hawk]

No one has the right to define who you are but you, be who you want to be for yourself and no one else

[north badge]

do not "commit die". it is a permanent solution to a temporary problem

[torpid moon]

If you need to speak up or tell something, tell it. No matter the situation if your able to speak up, then speak up. If someone is pressing your boundaries, if they make you feel bad, if you know something’s wrong, speak up, because who will notice if you don’t tell them?

[dawn zealot]

Put yourself first, and don’t change your mind just because others have a different opinion

[north phoenix]

You don’t need to pity them… i know you feel bad and want to make it up to them but DO NOT GO BACK. i can’t express this enough, you left for a reason. if it’s a situation or a person, you felt something you couldn’t ignore and left, so you should stand by that and stand up for yourself because it HURT or made you feel BAD or made you UNCOMFORTABLE, THATS WHY YOU LEFT. you needed out of that… and i am so proud of you for leaving for your own mental health or physical health. 💙

(extra something i remembered)
if you feel good about something you are doing/wearing/act, don’t listen to the people who tell you to change. if you feel good, rock it till you cant stand it anymore. wear the dress! wear the suit! wear that one thing you always look at but put back because it “isn’t the right occasion”!

[brittle galleon]

Always be yourself even if people judge you for it, in the end you'll be glad you continued to express yourself instead of hiding.

[glad plank]

It’s ok to be yourself, even if society doesn’t accept you because of social norms. You just need to find people who will accept you.

[ionic vector]

"Those that pull you down are already below you" and "crying and asking for help is not a weakness, it's a strength"

[fiery bough]

I rly like this advice

[eager blaze]

thank you sir

[fiery bough]

[flint oasis]

If you are in the middle of a storm no matter if its mental, physical or anything else, keep going you will navagate the storm, you will get out of it

[twilit topaz]

don't stay up too late and make it a habit I've lost so much sleep over my life I have visual and auditory hallucinations almost every night

[blazing cobalt]

if you think things will get worse then you're right. Just think about the positive things. Even if you can't it's ok to cry, just make sure to talk to someone about it too.

[solemn onyx]

This is amazing advice

[solemn onyx]

I've been trying really hard recently to actually keep a good sleep schedule and I (mostly) succeeded!!

[stone rock]

Lock in when you have schoolwork that’s due 👍🏽

[wet sage]

i forgot it to reply to the last QOTD but it would be
"SOUR CREAM!!" - Taco from II
Idk how i answer this QOTD's question

Oh

i guess i can say just never stop trying

and kill them kindness

[urban prism]

Always think carefully about decisions, even driven by emotions because you will regret lots

Its better to prevent stuff for better outcomes

[twilit orchid]

just keep swimming

or something

idk i’m not good at general advice

[urban prism]

❤️

[minor wing]

If you're a Canadian living in Ontario, do NOT bother with therapy. They do not care about your problems, only your wallet.

[grizzled frost]

Go hit the gym asap and drink valerian tea for sleep

Or melatonin

[delicate willow]

If you are going though a really rough time, and it feels like it just keeps coming:
It's ok to be stressed. Take a deep breath, and take a step back. If you need a break from being stressed or you are trying not to be overwhelmed, allow yourself to focus though the pros and cons of your situation.
For example, we are moving very soon. It sucks, but at least wherever we go, I'm gonna get a bedroom door!
Also, your imagination can be your best friend- if you can't rely on anything around you for a distraction, insert yourself into your favorite stories and see how the outcome would change. The best part is that you don't have to tell anyone about those stories

Also, it's ok to seek help from those around you!

[delicate willow]

this is amazing advice

[cosmic hamlet]

Focus on someone’s actions. Actions always speak louder than words

[paper sun]

Cut out the toxic people in your life it isn't worth keeping them around

[south orbit]

Get. Help. I know it’s hard to talk to people, but if you can’t talk to people learn, please. Go see a therapist.

[brittle ermine]

You're body heals. You're heart heals. You're mind heals. Wounds heal. It may take a while, it may be messy and difficult but you're happiness will always come back to you. Recovery varies for each individual, some better some worse. But you are NOT weak if you struggle with bettering yourself. Bad times can be long and tiring, but never forever

[twilit orchid]

I dunno

[pure quartz]

Worrying doesn't take away tomorrow's troubles, it takes away today's peace.

[glossy yacht]

It might seem like everyone hates you but one day you will find people who like you for you. As someone who had gotten not a lot of love as a kid I know what it's like, but I found my girlfriend who has cared and loved me for me. ❤️

[glass sand]

Hold your head high. No matter how bad your situation gets, be resilient against all odds.

[unique hearth]

No matter what happens, it gets better. It may take a good long while for it to do so, but it will. So, live another day for that hope.

[sharp locust]

Hi everyone, I´m not even close of being good at giving an advice, but, I can share one that my hobbie and passion, said to me once. I´m studying to be a video-game designer and developer, so I will give a quote that somewhat changed my way of thinking:

"Hello, my name is Dr. Glenn Pierce, and by now you may have realized that all of this has happened exactly the way it was supposed to. You see, everyone who comes to the institute does so because they feel they are no longer in control of something important to them. But, more often than not, the problem is not that the problems we face can't be solved, The problem is that we become so afraid of failure that we refuse to see our problems from a new perspective and so we do the same things again and again and again. And therein of course, we find exactly the failure we were looking for.

Your life will always be a struggle and you will always have problems. But today, you had the chance to see things differently. Even though it meant facing obstacles that seemed impossible at first, you thought outside the box - and you overcame them. Because you saw things from every angle, you understood them for what they really were. Because you kept moving forward, no matter how far off the path you were told you were headed, or how unexpected it became...you found your way.

In a few minutes, you'll be back in the real world, and some part of you will say that none of this was real: So how could it have meant anything? But - just like the power of perspective itself - it will have been as real as you believed it to be. All you've got to do is...wake...up."

-SUPERLIMINAL video-game

[pseudo salmon]

"Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard"

[keen lion]

Dumahhdud cant wait to get his vr😭🙏

[young axle]

when you’re going through hell, keep going

[north phoenix]

[sonic sparrow]

during depersonalization or derealization, ignoring it is usually what'll help it pass the most sadly, it does get easier after some time tho

[zenith garnet]

do NOT eat five corndogs in a minute. Worst mistake of my life😭.

[sweet rampart]

do not listen to those who disrespect them, disrespect them by your success in future

[proud veldt]

Be the hero
Not cause you SHOULD be
But if you can help someone, even when no one helped you
Then be the hero

[glass sand]

Facts. ☝️

[vast gorge]

Yikes, some of these are rough

[twilit topaz]

that's really good to hear :)

[solemn onyx]

Yessss

[proven abyss]

Can it be hypocritical

if so, dont wait until the last night to study and do all your homework

if it can't be hypocritical, then i take that back

[solemn onyx]

Lmao I'm so lucky my school doesn't like homework and we don't have it

[proven abyss]

lucky 😭

i always have hmw

i just almost never do it

[solemn onyx]

Real

[woven otter]

The feeling of success is not when you reach an end goal. It’s when you look back and see how much progress you’ve made. If you can’t do something, don’t cheat your way through. Keep on practicing and you’ll eventually see yourself making progress!! Believe me, it’s a MUCH better feeling when you realize how much YOU have done rather than something that you didn’t do

[solemn onyx]

This is so real because of how proud of myself I've been

Like the later half of this year

[opal jay]

the only person you can trust is yourself, and hold onto your spark because that’s all you have

[wispy aurora]

gaslight yourself

"this shit is so easy" when tackling any task

eventually u believe it

[fair magnet]

Don't worry about popularity or relationship status when you're in high school or younger. It really doesn't matter. Don't worry about fitting in and being like the "cool people" and especially DONT DO DRUGS. Don't fall for any peer pressure and just be a decent person. Be sure to find good friends and choose wisely, because bad company leads to bad morals. Also, if your friends are constantly doing dumb stuff, they will try to get you involved in it. No doubt about it

I have a lot of advice to give tbh 💀

[proven abyss]

Not personal experience (yet), just my opinion: life is short and we can't waste it w/o meaning. We think of life as 100 years, but here's my math:
-20 (USA average lifespan is 77 yrs) = 80
-20 for old age = 60 years left
-10 for young childhood = 50 years
-15 for schooling (gap year to work, uni co-op, etc) = 45 years
-20 for career/work = 25 years of living remaining
-20 for family/a partner (not that this is a bad thing, just less personal time to explore who u r) = 5 years
-at least 3 years distributed above (more school, career) = 2 years
WE HAVE ONLY 2 YEARS SPREAD OUT ACROSS ~80 TO LIVE OUR LIVES. DON'T WASTE IT.

[golden perch]

It is okay to let things that are bad for you go, whether it be friends, family, or other things. It's also okay to be sad about it for a little while, and leave claw marks on the things you let go, because some of those things you might still enjoy despite them being harmful to you. It's okay to feel upset, it's okay to feel a little lost, but it's also important to remember to be excited for who you are going to become once you've healed. We as humans are constantly evolving, frequently changing, and always meeting new versions of ourselves that make up who we are as a person. You don't know who you're going to be, or where you're going to be, in a month, 3 months, 6 months, or a year, but I know you're going to like that person. And you should be excited to meet them.

[proven abyss]

damn, that's so bittersweet, i'm half crying half smiling

[golden perch]

It's something that I learned from someone I really look up to I heard it on a podcast episode and lord I was sobbing I've carried it with me since then. I hope some people can feel the same comfort I got from it

[solemn onyx]

Is it Distractible

Markiplier

I'm betting it is

[golden perch]

No but I also listen to them, I go to Mark, Bob, and Wade for giggles 😂 the podcast was "The Broski Report"

[solemn onyx]

Oh alright it just definitely seemed like something my glorious king Markiplier would teach

[golden perch]

It definitely does that's so on brand for him, one of his videos that resonated with me in a similar way is the "Thank You" video he made where he's just crying

The "All I ever wanted was to be proud of myself, and I never expected that millions of others would be proud of me too"

[solemn onyx]

There was something he said in a playthrough that made me so relieved and at the same time almost made me cry, he basically said that when he was young he had no idea what he wanted to do for his life and that he was extremely worried but he just kept going on with his life and tried his best and eventually figured it out. This was so extremely relieving for me because I am at the age that he was talking about and I have no idea what I want to do for the future but I used to be so damn worried about it but after hearing him say that it just lifted so much off my shoulders

Damn I wrote a lot

[solemn onyx]

I love him so much omg

[golden perch]

YES THIS I feel you I'm also at that point where I gotta future out plans for the future and actually get my life together and that's scary as hell, but seeing him push through despite the odds helps a lot

[solemn onyx]

I think I'm a little bit more sure about what I want to do for the future now

[blissful moat]

What type of struggles ig hat doesn't matter here's my advice never dwell on the past only look forwards and keep ur head held high and don't stop when you reach a bump in the road

[magic coral]

if you find it hard to find the purpose of living, set a goal to focus on, tell yourself to keep going for that purpose.

[astral timber]

There are things that are out of our control. And no matter what, even if you put up a fight, there's a chance it goes wrong. But that doesn't make it your fault.

[final oxide]

sports stuff idk…

[thorn junco]

" It's okay to be afraid, but don't let fear stop you from achieving your goals. "

[sudden dome]

Don't compare urself to others, Ur out dragging yourself down

[solemn epoch]

go plus ultra

🔥

[north mulch]

don't ever get more than five friends

[split tangle]

Real

Never be afraid to drop toxic people

[lapis crown]

Doesn't matter what you go through because all the struggle will eventually help you in your future.

[thin raptor]

bullies are easy to befriend

[burnt raptor]

dont forget your lunch money

[worn sphinx]

Put trust in others but not too much

[wanton seal]

Don’t pay attention to what the bully’s say and listen to the people closest to you

[fresh pier]

stop caring about what others think of you

[vital egret]

You don’t have to buy every new fortnite skin

[grim steppe]

brooo

[dull hamlet]

No matter what happens, I'll always be here, and you are more than enough

[unique mango]

I know thing's may be hard right now, but I know that you will get through this.

[mental hazel]

im the ones who needs help but from what others have told me "You are enough and the most important person" but love yourslef

[novel peak]

Just don’t cut to deep🤷

[steep oyster]

Love isn’t enough of a reason to stay when you love someone who hurts you.

And to remember that while the good times may not last forever, neither do the bad times. This, too, shall pass

[twilit orchid]

idk man im the one that needs help

[haughty dock]

If you lose someone and you think it’s your fault and it hurts, don’t hurt yourself for it, try cutting some hair off instead. Not a lot, just a little. Cut a couple of strands if it’s hurts a lot

[vivid tinsel]

If someone tries to shoot you with a gun, stab them 16 times and let them die
[Considering you live from the bullet or miss the shot]

[elfin slate]

If you see your friend getting distant with you try to understand their reasoning because maybe they're just changing into someone who won't be compatible with you anymore.

[humble ingot]

you are alive.
feel the air fill your lungs
and the sun kiss your cheek.
these things are enough
and enough is everything.
-JH Hard

[royal geyser]

heavily agree on this one

[tight mantle]

They are blind as they cannot see the truth

[royal geyser]

i dated one, he wouldn’t shut up with “but can they beat goku”

[little fiber]

Don't give an f what others say. You can do whatever you want (Don't break the law or be an emtitled b-word) and you can wear whatever you want and have your opinions.

[obsidian kelp]

"Unless we face that which pains us, we can never truly sparkle."

-Aoyama

✨

[burnt raptor]

but can he beat goku

[fallow pier]

Never lose hope. Never give up. Better days will come. Trust the process. Don't be someone you're not. Be the best version of yourself. Treat others the way you want to be treated because you can't expect good from people if you don't do good yourself

[blissful wasp]

Do not and I mean do not procrastinate

It’s not gonna help you at all

[errant lotus]

real🥲

my advice would be to fake it till you make it, confidence is key

always rely on yourself. you dont need other people.

and do not conceal the parts of your personality you dont like, those are what make you unique and if you continue that process ull have 2 types of ppl around you, people who hate you and people that are in love with u

either way ur always on their mind

[sage field]

My advice: just give up already☹️

[magic coral]

terrible advice

[sage field]

I know

But it's true in most cases

[wet otter]

Always advocate for what you want. Self advocate, because nobody else will.

Fight until you get it.

And I mean this in the context of something really important in the future

And also, diff advice

Things do get better

I’ve been through so many bad things in life and came out of the darkest moments

Trust me, don’t give up

Years later you’ll be grateful you waited