Any LGBTQ+ servers looking for people? (US West)

[topaz raptor]

Looking for other queer people to play with, and preferably around my age, I'm 34 and need some more casual friends.

[iron pawn]

My server is LGBTQ+ friendly. US West is where I'm based but currently hosting our Valheim server in Washington DC because I have some friends from all over the world and wanted them to have a good ping. I have also played on EU servers with little trouble but my own server is US. I'll send you an invite.

[topaz raptor]

Sweet!

[raven notch]

Sorry for that persons really offensive comment. Our moderators took care of it

[dark bane]

I'm interested if you guys are still looking for people, I'm 22 and used to run a server myself, been looking for a friendly LGBTQ+ dedicated server group to relax and make new friends

[iron pawn]

Thank you Smiffe and the moderation crew 🏳️‍🌈 ❤️

[stray osprey]

@VAE What boss is your server on?

[iron pawn]

We are preparing for The Elder (boss 2) currently 🙂

Using two mods: WardIsLove and Rune Magic. Always welcoming new friends!

[ripe mulch]

I’m not queer myself personally however I am definitely an ally, if you ever need friends to play with

[iron pawn]

Thank you for joining! Allies are surely welcome too. Anyone with love in their heart can help contribute to a safe space for all.

[tame gust]

hello!!! may i join

[pastel oracle]

thats not offensive , its to get things clear. But yea , delete are peoples meanings

[midnight aurora]

why would sexual orientation be a topic of concern in a video game? weird flex but ok

[nocturne fractal]

Agreed.

[old coral]

LGBTQ+ is not only about sexual orientation. It is a culture and mind-set.

[midnight aurora]

The person specifically said they are looking for "queer" people to play with. Also, L, G, B, T and Q all refer explicitly to sexual orientation.

[old coral]

We won't convince each other. I tried to explain, but you reject the premise. Good day.

[midnight aurora]

I understand what you're saying. You're suggesting that all people who fall in to those categories think the same way and that it ridiculous. Good day to you too.

[topaz raptor]

It's really not hard to understand, queer people are marginalized and "othered" in non-queer spaces, we're alienated, made to feel uncomfortable when we see people using "gay" or other slurs to insult people. It's normal for us to want to seek out other people in the community to be comfortable and safe

Also, LGBTQ+ can be sexual orientation, but it doesn't have to. Transgender for instance has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

[midnight aurora]

Fair enough. Despite the slight hint of defensiveness your answer actually makes sense. It was just a question. Thank you for your thoughtful answer.

[trail plover]

Hello, this sounds like a server I'd fit well with. Is it still open to new players? TIA

[iron pawn]

@midnight aurora It was the tone of your question and your additional "weird flex but ok" comment that made it seem offensive. If you were looking for a genuine answer there are better ways to approach a question.

[midnight aurora]

The person I was actually writing to already answered the question to my satisfaction. Thank you though.

[slate moss]

We also host a LGBTQ+ friendly in EU, just putting that out there 🙂

[trail plover]

Hello! Is this server still active?