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gilded elm
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The hearing didn't focus on clinical trials, there's plenty of those on NIH and elsewhere

placid yarrow
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What would a control group look like, you can't raise children just for the sake of a study

sand wigeon
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exactly, what would a control group look like

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that's kinda the issue here

placid yarrow
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I do think it's wrong to point at one thing and say that's the issue, such as technology or cynicism though

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It's a pretty complex issue that involves everything in the people's lives

solemn harness
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they're mostly comparing against historical data, and kids self-reporting their own computer use

gilded elm
sand wigeon
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like we could talk about how in the usa there's purposeful disenfranchisement of the education system that's been happening for at least 14 years, or how mental illness is on a rise due to a prevalnce of societal and environmental factors, or how different social media exposure affects people in different ways, etc etc

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it's impossible to reasonably measure this

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of course gen z uses computers more. in the usa there's very well measured affects of how there's nothing to do but be on the computer.

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how does that factor into these studies?

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it's frankly fearmongering

placid yarrow
# gilded elm Indeed, but the correlation is hard to deny.

We do know there have been actual studies with control groups on very young children (baby to toddler age) that were centered around things like screen time and did show a correlation so I do think it's likely a factor but I don't think it's the whole reason

sand wigeon
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and y'all are eating it up because you're going "haha kids are so dumb now" and it's not even about people who are kids anymore, and haven't been for years lol

twilit mountain
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I propose we stop arguing/comparing generations on a "education/intelligence" factor and instead just go "hey wtf why are all the giga rich and powerful people older than dirt, we should do something about that" and figure things out from there

gilded elm
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Since they are specifically using a standardized method for measuring and comparing cognitive development across a wide number of different parameters and they all plateau proportional to how much technology is being used as part of educational curriculums.

sand wigeon
solemn harness
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if you have 20000 kids that say they use computers and social media a lot, and 20000 that say they rarely/never use those things, and there is a statistically significant observable difference in the academic performance between the two groups; sure -- you can't reasonably attribute ALL of the difference to just that, but surely at least some of it is

sand wigeon
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when that can't be proven

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when "kids" have no other option

gilded elm
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My takeaway is that modern parents suck.

sand wigeon
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my takeaway is that people like you with kids suck

solemn harness
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particularly if the data matches historical references

placid yarrow
sand wigeon
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not to even begin to mention the extreme amount of crisis' over the last 20 years that can easily discount the "more schooling" claim

twilit mountain
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Cyborg I'm trying to incite class war, my man

sand wigeon
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or how many folk in gen z never go to college because of financial burden, also equating to "less school"

gilded elm
sand wigeon
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or how the ones who DO go to college experience a limited social application from it thanks to the fact that higher and higher college degrees have become "necessary"

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how people my age, slightly older and younger have nothing to do.

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the problem isn't technology

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that's like saying the problem is body heat

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"fever kills, body heat blamed"

twilit mountain
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Airdropping OverWatch psychopathy to be an annoyance because this is ultimately fruitless

placid yarrow
gilded elm
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I'm pretty sure Dr. Horvath's collated studies account for income gaps.

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This is across all incomes

twilit mountain
sand wigeon
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it doesn't matter how much money you make

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you can't buy your way to social spaces, they're just gone

gilded elm
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It's hard to explain away some of these falling measurements with "lack of opportunity" and cynicism, there's actual executive dysfunction.

sand wigeon
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let's see what happens when you tell an entire generation everything is doomed from birth, remove their ability to be social, lock them in a room with bright screens, tell them they'll die if they leave their house from MANY causes and call them dumb when they have a hard time figuring shit out

twilit mountain
sand wigeon
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we're all depressed af, have no hope for the world and are riddled with neurological issues from the extreme trauma of multiple disasters, at least in the usa

sand wigeon
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everyday i walked into school people were scared i was going to shoot it up

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that's real

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kids my age at the time thought they'd die at school

solemn harness
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pretty much everything you're describing is highly dependent on both the parents and the country

sand wigeon
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kids my age thought they'd die from covid

solemn harness
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my sisters kids (in canada) absolutely did not go through what you're describing, at all

sand wigeon
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and parents do not factor into this here

gilded elm
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This is a meta-analysis of over 80 countries. They show the same trend.

sand wigeon
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these are things that were taught across the us school system

solemn harness
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yes they do, kids that have good parents are not going to think their entire generation is doomed

sand wigeon
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i have good parents

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deias can confirm

twilit mountain
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Make mine look like cartoon villains yeah

sand wigeon
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we don't think our generation is doomed. we think the world is doomed

placid yarrow
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I don't :d

sand wigeon
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then frankly you're willingly oblivious

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because the world is doomed

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and i'm a positive person

gilded elm
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Believe it or not but a significant portion children in the US and indeed the western world live fairly privileged lives with the kind of safe and normal educational opportunities you'd expect.

solemn harness
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I think america is doomed, I don't think the world is

sand wigeon
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i live a privileged life

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i had safe and normal education

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ffs

twilit mountain
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We need to course correct dramatically within the next couple decades or we are in fact barreling down a path to ecological destruction of the planet and society yea

sand wigeon
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this isn't because we put screens in front of kids

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in fact, for many years, screens were the only way we could get social interactions

placid yarrow
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I feel like we're equating two different things

sand wigeon
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i feel like this is fearmongering bs designed to further disenfranchise generational bigotry and enforce a viewpoint that the younger generations are becoming worse

placid yarrow
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You're talking about a generation being depressed because of reason x, and the study is saying the generation is dumber because of reason y

sand wigeon
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not to mention a worldwide aging population and proven biological factors that reduce opinion of younger people the older you become

sand wigeon
solemn harness
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like just as an example, take the subprime mortgage crisis circa 2008; that absolutely WRECKED the us, barely made a dent in canada, because we actually have regulations here
plenty of things that seem like "the end of the world" in the us, don't actually make a significant difference in other countries, because we anticipated those things happening and have plans in place to prevent catastrophe

placid yarrow
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Now they might be doing worse on tests because they're depressed, that could totally be true. But it would be another factor in the box of factors

solemn harness
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canadian banks have never failed, even through the great depression

placid yarrow
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I do think the study is wrong for implying tech is the sole reason

sand wigeon
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not a housing crisis

twilit mountain
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I have a big question for y'all

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Why do you care?

sand wigeon
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so what if we're dumber?

placid yarrow
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I'm in the generation

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And I know I'm smart

twilit mountain
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If you're older than the affected generation, you're dead sooner, shut up. If you're part of the affected generation, who gives a shit, shit sucks and life has a habit of creating misery, make the best you can.

sand wigeon
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frankly every generation has thought the new one is dumber, and every tech has been blamed for causing it

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there's written evidence people were upset about printing because they thought it made people dumber

solemn harness
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they literally go over exactly that comment you just made in the video

sand wigeon
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the video is bs

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i think tech has aided a generation that has been failed by their predecessors

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not injured by it

placid yarrow
sand wigeon
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we can't measure how much "worse" gen z would be without tech

placid yarrow
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But correlating the two isn't right

sand wigeon
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but because gen z was the first generation with full access to technology it's obviously linked, right?

solemn harness
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studies have been done in isolation to observe the effects of certain types of technology on the brain

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you're acting like it's literally just this one group throwing out an insane, baseless theory, and nothing else

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when it isn't

sand wigeon
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not to emntion that a lot of the studied presented from mentioned video are relating to a senator case in the usa. a place that is actively trying to destroy public education, NOT improve it

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there's obvious political motivations to be presenting a study like this in such a place

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i think i'm done here

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goodnight

placid yarrow
solemn harness
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the problem as always is a lack of regulation

placid yarrow
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It's basically just saying we know tech is bad for kids, kids now are using it more than ever and are dumber because of it. Which you shouldn't do

solemn harness
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corporate interests aggressively lobby about how great their thing is, and get the government or other groups to adopt it

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and they never show any interest in actually demonstrating what parts are beneficial, and what parts are harmful

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so it has to be done after the fact

gilded elm
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Technology is often misused to replace critical thinking, especially social media. Critical thinking is a developed skill, you aren't born with it. So when standardized methods of measuring cognitive development says Gen Z are performing worse at critical thinking and other learned cognitive skills, it does in fact mean they are dumber, yes.

solemn harness
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which leads to arguments exactly like this one

gilded elm
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They're not dumb, just dumber on the cognitive development scale.

placid yarrow
solemn harness
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no corporation wants anyone to hear that their billion dollar baby is actually harmful; they'd rather people remain ignorant, because changing things costs money

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and god forbid their product actually end up banned

placid yarrow
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I'm not advocating for more tech in schools here, smart boards suck ass man lol

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But I also don't think you can say if we get rid of tech our children will automatically go back to being smarter every generation

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It might help, it might even result in cognitive growth that we've previously seen

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But you can't say that for sure

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It might be that there's a different factor that's having an even bigger impact

solemn harness
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teachers should be paid more, governments shouldn't just be giving tech corporations mountains of money while forcing the people actually providing the education to suffer

placid yarrow
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To be fair though the whole thing was basically a presentation saying we should try using less tech in schools since it seems it might be having a negative effect. Which I'm all for

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Media is just blowing it up to be tech has made children dumb af

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When in reality it was way more reasonable

solemn harness
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tbh I don't even necessarily agree with the premise of "less tech in schools" but rather "tech in schools should be required to prove it's actually beneficial and not harmful first, before they get funding"

placid yarrow
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Yeah true

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Tech is obviously not inherently bad

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Certain applications are

gilded elm
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There's probably many things that could be done to properly integrate tech into education. Part of that is probably paying teachers more as well, so maybe they'll actually care about their students' futures.

solemn harness
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hearing about teachers being forced to pay for classroom supplies out-of-pocket is quite frankly completely insane IMO

placid yarrow
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Yeah that's crazy

solemn harness
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when the schools are spending tons of cash on random tech nonsense nobody actually asked for (except for the tech bros)

placid yarrow
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I think the "bad" use of tech is mainly things like letting kids have their phones during class, showing videos where there could be a demonstration, things like shitty smart boards where it's kinda just annoying to use / look at. Having everyone use a tablet instead of pen and paper etc

gilded elm
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Yeah, right off the bat I think students shouldn't be allowed to be in possession of their devices during class IMO

placid yarrow
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Outside of personal phones it's not that the rest are brainrot, they're just worse than the previous alternative

solemn harness
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so much of it revolves around throwing out ideas we know work for learning in favor of experimental stuff that might work, but makes some random guy in silicon valley richer

placid yarrow
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Yeah

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To be fair and credit to my elementary school they tried tablets on my year and nobody ever got a tablet in that school after that year lmao

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We hated it, the teachers hated it, everyone hated it

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We did eventually get laptops but we still used books alongside them, they were just for writing essays and stuff

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And that was in like seventh grade+

warped wren
# twilit mountain Why do you care?

other than the basic empathy and desire for wanting future generations to be better, smarter, healthier (yes I know it's unrealistic), my son will grow up in this world, with people from his generation. I want his friends and peers to be the best possible people they can be, not just for themselves, but for what their company might possibly bring out in him too.

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is that so horrible a thing?

gilded elm
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More than reasonable and I respect the ban on social media too

solemn harness
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tbh I'm not really convinced social media bans will ever actually work

placid yarrow
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They won't

solemn harness
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as long as there's something with internet connectivity people will find a way around blocks

placid yarrow
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I think the proposed discord thing is just silly tbh

solemn harness
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I remember reading about kids using google sheets or something as social media, operating like a bootleg forum

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because google sheets wasn't blocked at their school

warped wren
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also, yeah previous generations failed their children. Most likely we are too, in myriad ways. Even more likely future generations will too, in their own ways. All of this is more often through inaction than malice. Does that mean that you would actively WANT the next generation to be worse off in any way than you, including intellectually? Most sane people would say no. So this whole argument of "why do you care, you'll be dead sooner and the world is going to hell anyway" is not just caustic, it's disingenuous

gilded elm
placid yarrow
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Imo it should be the parents responsibility to guard their kids against stuff like that, and it's honestly not that hard to do all things considered. The only negative I can think of is your kid getting made fun of for having their phone be parentally locked or something

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Which would really suck tbh

warped wren
sand wigeon
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i don’t think it was proven is what i was stating

placid yarrow
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It has been in very young children

sand wigeon
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anyway going back to bed

placid yarrow
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I don't remember the exact study but they've done a few where they basically monitored the babies from birth up to I think a couple years old or so

solemn harness
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getting parents in general to be responsible for their kids is a whole can of worms, simply because too many people exist where they only care about themselves, and will oppose suggested changes to their behavior violently

placid yarrow
gilded elm
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The socioeconomic circumstances that some parents live under in some parts of the world, like the US, does make being a responsible parent harder as well. That should be addressed.

placid yarrow
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Idk in regards to access to social media and stuff I kind of disagree? Obviously I don't like in the US so I wouldn't know but if you get your kid a phone or device putting a parental lock on and checking every now and then can't be that much harder no?

gilded elm
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We have a fairly large poverty class

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Those are the parents I imagine would struggle the most

placid yarrow
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Obviously being in poverty is extremely hard but I don't see why it would make it harder to prevent your kid from accessing certain apps or sites, if anything I feel it'd be easier

warped wren
# sand wigeon i don’t think it was proven is what i was stating

primary studies:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10353947/ "Screens can improve education and learning; however, too much time spent in front of a screen and multitasking with other media has been related to worse executive functioning and academic performance. As screen time reduces the amount and quality of interactions between children and their caregivers, it can also have an impact on language development. Contextual elements like co-viewing and topic appropriateness are key in determining how language development is impacted. Additionally, excessive screen usage has detrimental effects on social and emotional growth, including a rise in the likelihood of obesity, sleep disorders, and mental health conditions including depression and anxiety."

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0747563220300662 "Children in the high (7.2 h/day; Ξ² = βˆ’1.76 [-2.12, βˆ’1.40]) and middle (2.9 h/day; Ξ² = βˆ’0.82 [-1.15, βˆ’0.48]) daily screen time tertiles had lower measures of cognition compared to children in the low tertile (1.2 h/day). Children in the high tertile for TV watching (2.5 h/day; Ξ² = βˆ’0.99 [-1.55, βˆ’0.64]), video watching (2.3 h/day; Ξ² = βˆ’1.05 [-1.43, βˆ’0.67]), and social media (1.4 h/day; Ξ² = βˆ’0.79 [-1.14, βˆ’0.44]) had lower measures of cognition compared to children in the low tertile for each variable (0.3 h/day, 0.1 h/day, and 0.0 h/day, respectively)."

meta studies:
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11469-019-00182-2 "We analyzed 44 articles across 16 countries in this review. Each article corresponded to one of four research questions investigating screen time and mental health (n = 13), mental health and substance use (n = 8), chronic stress and development (n = 14), and chronic stress and neurodegeneration (n = 9). Overall increased screen time is associated with negative outcomes such as lowered self-esteem, increased incidence and severity of mental health issues and addictions, slowed learning and acquisition, and an increased risk of premature cognitive decline."

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapediatrics/fullarticle/2821940 " Overall, 100 studies (176β€―742 participants) were included, and of these, 64 observational studies (pooled sample sizes ranging from 711 to 69β€―232) were included in meta-analyses. Program viewing (n = 14; k = 48; r, βˆ’0.16; 95% CI, βˆ’0.24 to βˆ’0.08) and background television (n = 8; k = 18; r, βˆ’0.10; 95% CI, βˆ’0.18 to βˆ’0.02) were negatively associated with cognitive outcomes, while program viewing (n = 6; k = 31; r, βˆ’0.04; 95% CI, βˆ’0.07 to βˆ’0.01), age-inappropriate content (n = 9; k = 36; r, βˆ’0.11; 95% CI, βˆ’0.17 to βˆ’0.04), and caregiver screen use during routines (n = 6; k = 14; r, βˆ’0.11; 95% CI, βˆ’0.20 to βˆ’0.03) were negatively associated with psychosocial outcomes."

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this is off of Google Scholar results btw, not rando articles

gilded elm
placid yarrow
warped wren
placid yarrow
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Like I said I think there's lots of factors that can lead to children not performing as well, and I think parenting is a pretty huge one

warped wren
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that's why the techbros don't let their kids use social media

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because they can afford it

placid yarrow
solemn harness
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sure you can, it just works really poorly

gilded elm
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It really is a bit difficult not to conflate the whole discussion of tech and its impact on cognitive development with the circumstances that create this dependence on tech in the first place.

warped wren
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people do it all the time

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unfortunately

placid yarrow
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Well what I'm saying is you're just not parenting at all when you do that

warped wren
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if only people had that kind of clarity

placid yarrow
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The child isn't getting parenting period, it's not outsourced or something. It's just not being performed

warped wren
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I have seen dozens of parents taking their kids for a stroll in a pram, with the kid using an ipad or mobile or something

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it's insane

placid yarrow
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Yeah agreed

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Honestly I wouldn't mind if you could get a ticket for stuff like that lol

gilded elm
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Is tech bad? In general, no. Becoming cognitively dependent on tech can be bad because it undermines your own learning processes. Why are kids becoming cognitively dependent on tech? Well, that's a whole other topic.

placid yarrow
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But you can't enforce that

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Thing is for situations where the parents work all day there should be daycares or something available to said parents. As in tax funded programs. Obviously not every country is run that way and not everyone might agree that that should be a thing. But my point is the tech isn't what's wrong here, it's the kids being left alone all day that's wrong

solemn harness
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kids being left alone all day is a symptom of a larger problem -- mostly stagnant wages

gilded elm
solemn harness
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lots of parents literally can't afford to do anything more -- they're working two jobs and barely making ends meet, etc

placid yarrow
warped wren
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It was an observation of a problem

placid yarrow
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My point was that tech isn't at fault

warped wren
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Of course it is

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By design

gilded elm
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Some tech is at fault.

placid yarrow
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I meant in that specific instance

gilded elm
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Social media, for example

warped wren
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If something is designed to be addictive and overload your brain with dopamine, that IS malicious

placid yarrow
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A child being left alone all day every day is bad for them regardless of if they have access to a phone or not

gilded elm
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Your device may not be at fault, but TikTok is.

placid yarrow
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Phone might make it worse (idk, prob) but it's bad regardless

warped wren
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I'll give you a personal example

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Sometimes my kid drives me insane because he's being ultra cranky and not eating and not playing and generally throwing a tantrum

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In this situation, I very occasionally let him watch Ms Rachel on the TV from a distance of like 9 feet, for around 15 mins

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So I can take a breather

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Now I'm a stay at home dad with a flex work schedule and my wife takes over in the late afternoon so between us we manage, and never let him watch too much TV

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But imagine single parents in that situation, especially ones working more than one job

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Suddenly that 15 mins ends up becoming a few hours

placid yarrow
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My point is there should be a daycare or someone that can be with the kid for those people during that time

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tech is a means to an end

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it's not the issue itself

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the issue is parents cant be with their kids enough

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not tech

warped wren
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Yes, that's a huge part of it

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No doubt

gilded elm
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Yeah, I'd probably file that under "socioeconomic issues"

placid yarrow
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yea

warped wren
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But a lot of tech is designed to be far worse than it could be, due to the nature of how tech operates

gilded elm
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Things like social media, TikTok etc

warped wren
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E.g. what is stopping the production of children's shows that are soothing to young brains and encourage learning and interactive play?

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The answer - the tech revenue model

placid yarrow
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Like in a world where a parent has to work 18 hours a day 7 days a week, even if tv's and phones didn't exist that kid would still be way worse off cognition wise because they're just not interacting with other humans or intellectually stimulating things enough

warped wren
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Like idk if you've seen what YT Kids is really like

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Shit's a nightmare

placid yarrow
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Yeah they're just made to get as many views as possible

gilded elm
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A lot of tech is designed to encourage self-destructive behaviors, for sure.

placid yarrow
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stuff like cocomelon is crazy lol

solemn harness
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in a world where everyone is on the same page when it comes to the importance of parenting, parents would only work 30 hours a week max; exactly the same amount of time their kid spends in school, and spend the rest of their time at home, available to actually raise their children

warped wren
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Yeah so all that is "the system working as intended"

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Which is awful

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And very much the fault of tech

gilded elm
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Now, tech can be used strictly for education and wellbeing as well

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So tech inherently isn't bad

placid yarrow
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You see my point though right @warped wren . Even if none of the tech we're talking about existed if a parent can't spend any time with their kids because of work and there are no tax funded daycares/programs to act as substitute the kid is kinda screwed either way

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tech or no tech

warped wren
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Of course

placid yarrow
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so tech might be making it worse

warped wren
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I mentioned this in the other server too right

placid yarrow
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but it's not really the core issue in that instance

warped wren
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tbf the video doesn't go over a lot of the other problems also contributing to cognitive decline like intentional/unintentional absent parenting, misinformation, choice paucity, crumbling social support, shrinking communities, etc.

placid yarrow
gilded elm
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We basically just live in a society that encourages parents to defer their parenting to tech.

fierce moth
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Just grow up with lots of confusion :)

placid yarrow
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Like I grew up watching stuff like cartoon network and nickelodeon and honestly all things considered I wouldn't mind my kids also growing up watching stuff like that, even for a few hours a day. But for stuff like social media and way more faced paced content it's kind of a hard no for me lol

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I'd restrict them from it for as long as possible

gilded elm
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Social media is an interactive tool that slowly erodes your ability to critically think.

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It embodies the "appeal to authority" fallacy where the authority is often whoever is the most charismatic person at the time.

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Basically the same thing that happens whenever you democratize opinions.

warped wren
warped wren
placid yarrow
# warped wren Idk about other languages but for English and Hindi there's relatively little co...

Meh I'm a believer that shielding your kids from absolutely everything with even a hint of bad is also not a great idea, it's kinda like being a clean freak. A little bacteria is fine. Not everything needs to make them smarter or something, they can watch things that are just there for entertainment as long as it's not like a lot of todays viral content where it's super fast, insanely stimulating etc

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There's a lot of super long running cartoons and stuff

gilded elm
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At some point, you can't stop your kid from getting access to things, I'd say maybe in their early teens.

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But until then, you very much can shield them reliably from certain influences.

placid yarrow
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yep which is why I said i'd try to restrict things like social media for as long as possible, I accept it's impossible to do so completely past a certain point without becoming toxic which is why I think a less all or nothing approach is better since by not making it a poison apple hopefully your kid won't try to go against you to taste it

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trying to restrict something too much often has the opposite effect

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I'd rather introduce them to stuff myself even if that thing is bad than have them go behind my back to it

gilded elm
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Social media and the internet in general isn't something any parent is going to be able to restrict once a kid is in their early teens and at that point it probably makes more sense to teach them about it and why they should be cautious with it.

placid yarrow
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exactly

gilded elm
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But until then, definitely agree on as little exposure as possible.

placid yarrow
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Yeah Imo until like highschool I'd be fine with my kid having a flip phone rofl

gilded elm
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High school is brutal, lmao I might even say the later years of middle school

warped wren
placid yarrow
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(highschol is 12-15 here)

warped wren
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Hyperstimulating

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So that it is "competitive" pukes

placid yarrow
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Oh yeah I agree, there isn't a lot of good stuff coming out nowadays

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but there's a pretty big backlog

gilded elm
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I think a good parent would make sure that the first time their child learns about social media, it's because the parent taught them about it.

placid yarrow
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yep

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I mean tbf I didn't have social media until around highschool and I only made accounts because my friends wanted me to lol. I've always been someone who doesn't really use it

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and in this instance what I mean by social media is stuff like instagram, snapchat etc

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not so much youtube and stuff

gilded elm
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I dunno, gotta be carefeul with YT as well, plenty of opinions on there too.

placid yarrow
#

Oh yeah for sure, I just meant that I didn't have any accounts on those other things until then but I was watching youtube before then

warped wren
#

I think the single worst innovation in human history has been the endless feed

placid yarrow
#

I didn't wanna say I didn't touch any social media at all until then since that'd be a lie

warped wren
#

Incalculable damage

gilded elm
placid yarrow
#

better times

gilded elm
#

When I'm being a degenerate browsing through some social media website, it's always that endless feed that prevents me from getting out of bed and doing something.

placid yarrow
#

back then either something new you were interested in since you were subbed to the channel popped up and you watched it, or there was nothing new and you just clicked off. Now you keep searching forever in the home page lmao

#

What I found works kinda decent is using the "newly uploaded" filter on youtube

#

and heavily utilizing the "not interested" and "don't recommend this channel" buttons lol

gilded elm
#

I hate that those are even a thing. YT has gotten so bad with recommendations.

placid yarrow
#

Yeah it's not about giving you what you want

#

it's about making you stay on the site

desert jasper
#

Can't find the message that mentioned cocomelon on ytkids
it's bad, yeah
but at least it's not as bad as the weird elsa + spiderman vids

fierce moth
#

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Never a bowl of cat food is huge like that

placid yarrow
placid yarrow
desert jasper
placid yarrow
#

Yeah honestly I think I'd be better off not knowing too

desert jasper
#

Just.. weirdly sexual

#

and bondage

#

Yup

#

And I don't have kids either
but a friend mentioned it at some point so I had to check it out

Also some people reupload some tv shows that are for kids
but edit in a screamer in the middle of an episode

placid yarrow
#

Yeah idk from what I've seen and heard the entirety of youtube kids is just a clickfarm basically

#

it's just no effort content being spammed

#

I think you can heavily filter it as a parent or something but is there even anything worth filtering for lol

placid yarrow
#

Damn I just bought a pig at auction while riding a pig as a kid by selling tin buckets, this game is lit

#

I'm now also broke and don't know what to do with the pig

desert jasper
#

What game is that?

placid yarrow
#

Kynseed

desert jasper
#

I see
never heard of it before

placid yarrow
#

It's a sandbox life sim esque game

#

pretty good so far

junior oyster
#

I was going to say it reminds me of stardew valley

desert jasper
#

Yeah a bit

placid yarrow
#

It's kinda in that region but it's not really about anything specific like farming

#

you can farm, but you can also be a blacksmith, apothecary etc

#

and your character gets old and dies

#

but if you marry and have kids you can keep playing as the kid

#

the villagers also age and die

#

seemed like a neat concept

#

apparently all that is like super slow though

#

not like a few hours of gameplay and your guy dies of old age

desert jasper
#

Another day, more finger poking for the sensor trial tom

#

I really ask myself why I agreed for another trial period

placid yarrow
#

for what?

desert jasper
#

Glucose sensor
for diabetics

placid yarrow
#

oh right you mentioned that before

#

is it not working out well?

desert jasper
#

Well
the app shows wrong values every time I actually measure it
the notifications on it don't work on my phone even when it has all the permissions (their customer support was confused by this and so far they haven't contacted me back in 2 weeks)
so if my blood levels dropped during the night it wouldn't wake me up with alarm about it

placid yarrow
#

Sounds like it's kinda useless no?

#

are you able to use a different one that works at the same time?

desert jasper
#

And I kinda have bad memories about poking holes in fingers for tests from time I was a kid
because some nurse did that test on every finger at the tip of it where it's the most sensitive

#

Oh yea, the first 2 weeks of the trial period you wear the one you were originally using and make comparisons between them + what actual blood shows
then the 2 other weeks it's supposed to be only the new one.. but I think I might just put in the old one too

oh and the first 12hours of using the new sensor it even says that it's not showing accurate numbers, you can't use these for actual medical purposes, you need to calibrate it. which becomes available after 12hours of wearing it. So in my case it was at midnight but obviously didn't do it at midnight

#

So when I mentioned that 12hours to some other diabetic folk they were like "that's useless, wtf"

placid yarrow
#

yeah that sounds crazy lol

#

Also a massive pro for this game is that you don't need to do any inventory managment, you have an infinite categorized inventory which is lit

desert jasper
#

Like the other sensor I was testing out last year?
It was actually nice, apart from the first day it was showing weird values but then it got kinda accurate
and you could calibrate it but didn't need to unless it was still showing weird stuff

The thing is, we get these for free from the healthcare but they decided to ask prices from other companies than just the original one (and made sure they knew it) and... the original one increased the prices.
I honestly wouldn't be surprised if they just went with "okay enough" sensor that's cheaper

placid yarrow
#

wtf they wrote dialogue for if you bought a pig in the prologue

#

I didn't expect that tbh

placid yarrow
#

would be nice if you were testing actually nice tech instead of crappy stuff lol

#

good products need testing too

desert jasper
placid yarrow
#

Idk if you only do what it says you wouldn't have nearly enough to win the auction tbh

#

and they don't even tell you to attend the auction really

desert jasper
#

But at least the testing isn't as bad as I originally thought
Because originally I thought you'd have to do it before & after every: breakfast, lunch, dinner and before going to bed, every day of the trial period
but it's only total of 6 days and no need to do it before lunch

placid yarrow
#

Oh it's not one of those that's constantly monitoring?

#

or do you mean checking that it's correct / comparing values

desert jasper
#

It is constantly monitoring
But need to compare the values & write it down
so when I then send the papers forward they can look at the numbers & feedback I wrote about it

placid yarrow
#

Gotcha, makes sense

desert jasper
#

Also I'm glad the pen that pokes the hole has multiple settings for how deep it pokes
the first one is enough for me and doesn't even really hurt

gilded elm
desert jasper
#

Which game is that?

gilded elm
#

Torchlight Infinite

desert jasper
#

Right
I thought it's that but I never ended up trying it

gilded elm
#

It's not bad, very PoE-inspired in systems design

solemn harness
#

I tried it and bailed after like 3 hours, too much pay2win nonsense + atrocious mobile UI design IMO

gilded elm
#

Might be a better handheld experience like a Steam Deck, but also it plays good on a phone too lol

#

I know there's pay2win but I'm not knowledgeable enough to really gauge the significance of what you can pay for in terms of how it translates to power. I know the game comes highly recommended from @twilit mountain who is free-to-play, I think.

solemn harness
#

also remember a lot of the text being borderline unreadable nonsense, I think it was translated from chinese to english and never reviewed by a human; might be better now though

#

IIRC torchlight infinite has two layers of pay2win: paid pets that significantly boost the quantity of loot you get (like 4x or more, idk exact numbers)
and new hero stuff each league is super OP and only available for $$$

#

you can farm niche/obscure mechanics as a free player and sell that stuff to p2w players to circumvent the loot problem partially, mechanics that aren't affected by loot pets basically

desert jasper
#

Yeah the paid pets is kinda pushing me away from it
I might still give it a shot to try it out

solemn harness
#

the big drama I remember was maxroll dropping support for TLI

placid yarrow
#

Baby pig

solemn harness
#

because the devs essentially refused to stop adding p2w stuff

gilded elm
#

Hah, crazy. Why'd they delete the post?

solemn harness
#

dunno, I think it just got purged at some point

gilded elm
#

Weird, you'd normally want to keep that for SEO

#

I wonder if they got pressured into taking it down.

quaint forge
#

A2 is the only one I recognise, but I’ve never had powdery milk before We just have normal milk

gilded elm
#

They did some napkin math too on the estimated impact, not bad

#

I wonder how applicable this all is in the current season of the game.

placid yarrow
#

Bacon and legs is hacking

fierce moth
#

Gregory I think I can save 50.38USD/348RMY if the gameplay of Resident Evil Requiem as similar as Resident Evil 4

gilded elm
fierce moth
#

9 more days to wait

fierce moth
#

oh damn damn damn Mr. Beast's leaser challenge is too fun to watch

#

Like... ||3s for you to touch the box only in a random moment|| within 10h tom

gilded elm
#

Isn't MrBeast wrapped up in several controversies/scandals? Seemed like bad stuff happen around him.

fierce moth
#

wow guaranteed 40000USD or 33% chances for 250000USD. It's a hard choice...

#

He don't come to Bilibili until 2025 so he still popular in China

desert jasper
gilded elm
desert jasper
#

Yup

gilded elm
#

MrBeast basically... sounds like a bad person.

desert jasper
#

Honestly
I think that to get that big there's something shady
Also he never has an actual smile on his face
If you cover his mouth and only look at the eyes he's not smiling at all

gilded elm
#

Maybe he practices smiling without wrinkling his eyes :P

desert jasper
#

Haha yeah sure.

gilded elm
#

I feel like it's not the craziest thing in the world lol

#

People do that

desert jasper
#

Also I generally don't trust people who do "charity" and go saying "look at all this good I'm doing, let me make videos out of it"

gilded elm
#

(As in, have skin care routines and practice)

solemn harness
#

the controversies section on his wikipedia article has 8 different sub-sections

#

not a good person indeed

#

he's just some random guy that got rich by appealing to children on youtube, and accepting deals from advertisers to put their products in front of said children

gilded elm
#

The list of controversies could be revealing a pattern of behavior

#

Removal of Ava Kris Tyson
This is the one I was referring to earlier, this one seemed real bad.

desert jasper
#

Can't forget first trying to protect that person

solemn harness
#

apparently his entire business model was just: slowly work his way up to the point where he gets sponsorship worth $10,000 => give away all that money => lots of people watch the videos related to said giveaway => next sponsorship is even bigger => repeat giveaway process until billionaire

gilded elm
fierce moth
#

ohhh my lord the ending is quite unexpecting... I'm sorry, Blake

jade jackal
#

are people who get disqualified in his show turn into human meat for his burger chain

fierce moth
#

why not his chocolate πŸ€”

desert jasper
jade jackal
#

nice

gilded elm
#

Oh he's still in an on-going class action lawsuit with 5 contestants from his show.

#

In September 2024, five former contestants on Beast Games filed a class action lawsuit in Los Angeles County Superior Court against Donaldson, Amazon, and the show's production partners. They alleged chronic mistreatment on set, including sexual harassment, unsafe conditions, and unpaid expenses. The plaintiffs also said they were pressured to sign illegal contracts and submit false paperwork in order to secure Nevada tax credits for the production.
This is still on-going.

#

Five contestants seem to think they have a case lol

desert jasper
#

Hopefully they do

gilded elm
#

Yeah, the conditions being described on that show sound really bad if true.

desert jasper
#

Also tax credits stuff is usually taken relatively seriously

fierce moth
#

Gregory 2h after-dinner walk time

#

The last night to act freely without controling of parents so it's the most happy one in this holiday ❀️

gilded elm
#

Whew, TLI is a difficult game to put down once you get going lol

fierce moth
#

Just climbed up from one side and climb down from the other side, it remind me of another childhood memory, it's about... Fear the height so I never can defeat the iron ladder πŸͺœ

My fear for the height only disappear when I want to die

#

These ladders in my childhood memory have double-sided handle at the peak so you can climb up and climb down from different sides if you're brave enough

#

Climb up is no problem, but climb down is quite scary lol

jovial bane
#

huh, that's quite strong fear of heights

#

mine kicks in at about 40m above the ground I think

#

happened to me twice, once when touring a lighthouse, the other time was industrial chimney

sudden anchor
#

Had fear too. Noticed it got less the more I faced it and combined it with fun, like climbing a tree.

fierce moth
#

Enjoying lamb skewers as my night snack now :) The special point is skewers are red willow branches :)

jade jackal
#

Ah, i too love to snack on lamb skewers as a night snack

real charm
junior oyster
real charm
#

Is it the case for this server too? Since the company is an AI first

jade jackal
#

Clanker

#

Works here πŸ™‚

junior oyster
#

I can climb a hill or mountain relatively ok but the descent is scary af

sand wigeon
# real charm

me when people invent a slur very clearly based off a real, very problematic slur during a time where the people said slur are directed towards are actively being prosecuted for their existence

#

like no duh this is banned

fierce moth
sand wigeon
#

it’s not offensive because of its use toward ai, its offensive because it’s obviously a stand in for a real thing

#

not to mention that it doesn’t matter if the ai has feelings. let’s not say slurs thx

solemn harness
#

clanker is a slur originally from a 1958 article describing robots in Metropolis, and more recently from star wars, used to refer to battle droids

#

I have no idea what you think it's meant to be other than that tbh

sand wigeon
#

oh my gods

#

it’s being used an allegorical way to say the n-word

#

that’s what it’s used for in social media

#

the memes about β€œclankers” often reference things that are stereotypically tied to black americans, except being done by robots

solemn harness
#

uh, okay, that's certainly one interpretation

sand wigeon
#

this isn’t hard to grasp and there are studied linguistic effects about artificial slurs

gilded elm
#

I got no problem with clanker, it's used in tech all the time now to refer specifically to AI.

solemn harness
#

for reference, this is social media, and I've used the term clanker, and never even considered it in that sort of context

sand wigeon
#

jfc

sand wigeon
#

i see it all the time

#

hell β€œwireback” is another one

#

do i need to explain that

gilded elm
#

Certainly nobody at work has ever objected to "clanker" on grounds of it being a slur or derogatory towards humans.

#

And we're a tech company.

sand wigeon
#

jfc

solemn harness
#

you're literally the first person I've heard even suggest there's a link to the N-word like this

gilded elm
sand wigeon
#

the usage and normalization of this language is obviously problematic especially when it is in fact being used as a loan word in other contexts

solemn harness
#

and I've known about the term since it was used in star wars, circa 2005

gilded elm
#

I subscribe to tons of tech feeds and clanker is a widely used but innocuous term.

sand wigeon
#

adam aleksic described it as an evolution of racial slur targeted at β€œai systems” instead, with clear roots in reality

#

even β€œrobot” has ties to problematic usage

twilit mountain
# gilded elm I know there's pay2win but I'm not knowledgeable enough to really gauge the sign...

I have never paid a single dollar for pet pulls, in total I've spent like $60 across about 900 hours of playtime over I think 4 years and it's been exclusively on season passes to give some support. I have done all content in the game on several heroes and have multiple "big" pets that I have acquired completely free.
You can farm pretty much any mechanic even without pets, they're all still perfectly viable for money, what is being seen as "niche/obscure" is actually just the dev team screwing up and making an off-beat non-mechanic way too good lol

Also the new hero is a literal coin toss every time on if it will be good or not. The current one is a speed demon but calling it made of glass would be a compliment of the highest order.

junior oyster
sand wigeon
#

literally never said it was an alternative way

#

nobody but the criminally insane is going to use it to try and harm a person of color

#

i said it has clear problematic roots in such language

gilded elm
#

Thinking of call my pet project "Clanker City" tbh

sand wigeon
#

i hate you

solemn harness
#

you are a very negative person

sand wigeon
#

i’m rly not

gilded elm
#

GitHub seems fine with it

gilded elm
#

Tons of repos with "clanker" in the name or description

sand wigeon
#

literally what does github have to do with anything

#

what does github have to do with a linguistics problem

gilded elm
#

I see, so it's not a matter of being offensive then.

#

Because GitHub actually changed the default git master branch from "master" to "main" to appease these sorts of arguments.

#

But seemingly clanker is not on their radar.

junior oyster
sand wigeon
#

again, i am truly not

twilit mountain
#

I think y'all are misinterpreting. It's not a stand-in, it's due to what people are doing with it along with the "alternatives" they have invented for it.
Like. You cannot seriously believe you don't see that people are eagerly "inventing" "slurs" based in actual real world prejudice because these ones are "clean" when there's people throwing "wireback" or "Rosa Sparks" for example.

sand wigeon
#

not to mention that by assigning a β€œslur” to a non-thinking, non-feeling demographic you ironically elevate their empathetic stand in to that of real people

#

despite the fact that these robots have no brains or feelings

solemn harness
#

you can use practically anything as a slur, that doesn't assign any value to the thing you're disrespecting beyond what you would assign to it by simply referring to it at all

sand wigeon
twilit mountain
#

It's... not about assigning value to anything. It's a situation of "why are people chomping at the bit to say even pretend slurs"

sand wigeon
#

why do you guys need to say a pretend slur for something that doesn’t think

solemn harness
#

because they don't like AI and want a short way to voice their dissatisfaction or displeasure with that thing

sand wigeon
#

not to mention the articles i linked go over the things you’re saying β€œnuh-uh” to

solemn harness
#

it's not complicated

twilit mountain
#

Just call it fkin stupid. Easy. Christ.

sand wigeon
#

yeah so that’s a slur.

gilded elm
#

Because it's amusing. Humans have done far dumber and crazier crap for amusement (much of which is also considered innocuous)

solemn harness
#

and I read the articles, I don't get what you were trying to communicate by linking them

sand wigeon
#

it’s amusing to you

gilded elm
#

Yes, it amuses me.

sand wigeon
#

probably because you wanna say slurs tbh

solemn harness
#

like yes, clanker is a slur, that was established more than 50 years ago

gilded elm
#

Yes, I want to pretend say slurs.

sand wigeon
#

why the hell do you want that

solemn harness
#

doesn't have anything to do with the N-word

twilit mountain
#

I'm just going to back out of this, y'all kinda suck. Dream, get out tbqh.

sand wigeon
desert jasper
#

<@&1161418687471956101> things are getting a bit heated here

gilded elm
#

Because it has no measurable harm to people and it makes big bad AI companies upset.

sand wigeon
#

it does have measurable harm when people are now comparing robots to people of color

junior oyster
#

🍿

solemn harness
#

I reject the assertion that the term clanker normalizes other non-robot slurs

gilded elm
#

I'm a chronically online person and I've never heard this connection until you mentioned it.

solemn harness
#

you're just saying it does with zero evidence

#

most people aren't even going to make that sort of connection; if they did it would have been an issue back when star wars first did it

sand wigeon
#

i suggest you read the articles i linked and actually think about them

solemn harness
#

I did read them ffs

#

neither of them support what you're saying

sand wigeon
#

then this is a good video

#

courtesy of adam aleksic

gilded elm
#

Toaster is another good one. Gotta love Battlestar Galactica

junior oyster
#

Guess the word clanker about to be banned in this server pressf

solemn harness
#

yeah, nope

#

I just completely disagree with the assertion that it's in any way dependent on or linked to the N-word

sand wigeon
#

cool

gilded elm
#

But I think Toaster works better for sentient bots

sand wigeon
#

i’ma go shower

#

i tried

obtuse rune
#

Alright. It seems this conversation has ran its course so we're going to put a stop to it here, if you don't mind so nicely.

gilded elm
obtuse rune
#

That comes from a genuine ask to stop this top and avoid anything that start it back up.

sand wigeon
#

thank you vandryll

#

i appreciate you mediating the topic

#

it was obviously argumentative on every end

gilded elm
#

Sounds like we're clearly not banning the word, thankfully.

sand wigeon
sand wigeon
#

i’d say for safety’s sake you don’t say it

#

mostly because i’m not sure how much clearer vandryll can be

gilded elm
#

I have no reason to argue.

#

And you are free to ignore those of us who choose to say the words we want to say.

sand wigeon
#

dude why is it so hard to just go β€œokay won’t do it again”

junior oyster
#

Megacrit left us with a cryptic message and I can't lie but I think it's in regards to the Defect coming back

gilded elm
#

I won't argue with you about this. I'm trying not to, maybe you should stop.

sudden anchor
solemn harness
#

As an attempt to change the topic: I've seen kirra talk a few times in here about some "free day" coming up, but I have no idea what that actually refers to. Anyone have insights on that?

junior oyster
desert jasper
junior oyster
#

It's gotta be defect man

solemn harness
#

Damn, that's kinda awesome.

sand wigeon
sand wigeon
solemn harness
#

Seriously, stop.

sand wigeon
#

that’s so little food

gilded elm
sudden anchor
#

I hate ignore. One of the reasons being I end up clicking 'show message' again haha.

gilded elm
junior oyster
#

I just block anyone I dislike or disagree with

sand wigeon
#

i think that trying to limit yourself to one perspective is a great way to end up single minded, hating young people and with little understanding of the world

#

and that by simply removing dissenting opinions you do exactly that

fierce moth
sand wigeon
sudden anchor
#

I would hate to miss out on context, especially on the more active people having convos with others. Also I think it's disrespectful, even tho I disagree or something. Everyone can have a bad day. Maybe I'm just not that sensible (I am) haha

gilded elm
#

I agree, exposure to opposing viewpoints is crucial to self-improvement.

sudden anchor
#

Yep, I am also a very curious person, that's probably reason nr. 1

gilded elm
#

It can only benefit you to learn someone else's perspective. Maybe it changes your view on something or maybe it teaches you more about your opponents.

sudden anchor
#

only ever blocked one person in another server. he is there for 3y, 4months and wrote:

#

not to hate on him or anything.

twilit mountain
#

Shrug.

elfin stream
#

I don't need to bother checking I think because there's a bunch of bots in there

fierce moth
twilit mountain
#

Plenty of bots. Plenty of people I just do not want to talk to. If you annoy me or irritate me often enough, odds are you go on the list. Because ultimately I'm looking for people I enjoy talking to, nothing more or less.

solemn harness
#

MEE6 bot is one of the only accounts I've blocked on discord, because that damn thing is everywhere and pings me all the time, it's infuriating lol

gilded elm
#

Fair, Discord doesn't have to be a place for intellectual growth. Arguably, it might even be a bad place for such a pursuit.

solemn harness
#

"you've levelled up" thanks MEE6, very helpful ping

silent steeple
#

Funnily enough my approach to "ignore" is a bit different

#

Instead of using the function, I actively ignore the person in the thread

#

Especially while they're talking to me

#

Watching them spiral because of that rage is a sight indeed

solemn harness
#

I guess there is one actual person I blocked

#

some guy kept spamming in the diablo subreddit server about being "rank 1" all the time

#

flooding multiple channels with complete nonsense

#

and he was technically rank 1.. on xbox or something, very briefly.. so it's not like he was lying, he was just super annoying about it

desert jasper
#

Reminds me of one guy on poe forums
always making posts how he's the top racer, better than Ben but just doesn't have the time, ggg should pay him to race
and then when ppl checked that during like
one of the infinite delve races he had placed in like top 10 as chieftain he put his profile private and started reporting evreryone calling him out

solemn harness
#

holy, I just looked him up and he's still doing it; he has videos on his YouTube channel from 7 days ago screaming about being rank 1

#

surgicalsnipes, the man, the myth, the legend

jade jackal
#

There's only one number one

gilded elm
sudden anchor
#

There was this game I played on the PS2 as a child, where you had a quadratical piece of land (purely sand) floating in space and you had to build walls in an efficient manner, before some water fell down, which you had to stop from falling down. I sadly don't remember what it's called, it had familiar artstyle to this one above.

#

It was really fun. It's about time I play it again, but don't have a copy.

#

Oh, I found it, it's Aqua Aqua.

fierce moth
sudden anchor
#

I loved to play with water as a kid. I guessed the game will mostly appeal through it's nostalgic value nowadays, but looking up gameplay, it's really similar to 3D Tetris. Could be fun still!

fierce moth
#

I'm confused where these black blocks should on πŸ€”

#

Especially black 3 here

#

Seems that this puzzle is a pixel tree

placid yarrow
jovial bane
#

I have exactly two

#

some kind of spam bots

warped wren
jovial bane
#

nah, we aren't

#

we will get the bad stuff, but no cool tech

warped wren
#

Hence the "dystopia"

fierce moth
fierce moth
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πŸ₯± Muscle are quite stiff and serious... Shower time

gilded elm
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My people are starving to death... the only thing holding this nation together is unrestricted immigration lmao

gilded elm
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Steep learning curve, but very fun indeed.

jovial bane
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I don't mind steep learning curves, it makes things easier for me rather than focusing on microimprovements πŸ˜…

gilded elm
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I am not a good leader heavybreathing

jovial bane
#

you can't make an omelette without breaking couple million eggs

gilded elm
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Oh nah, we're not having any of that here

jovial bane
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on the side note I do love the fact the game starts in around bronze age

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you are building an ancient city state, and it does include some messed up things as well πŸ˜„

junior oyster
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I'm going to give Horizon hunters gathering props for not making a pvp game

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Still won't play it though

jovial bane
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me neither most likely, survival games are already stacked

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I've returned to Valheim some time ago, and did not age for me that well .__.

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Enshrouded, Grounded and VRising are probably some of the top survival games for me.

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OH, and Abiotic Factor

desert jasper
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Unlocked the new character in LORT
Oh man he deals so much dmg. I was honestly kinda hoping it would be a poison based rogue instead of critting but i guess i'll take it

warped wren
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@fierce moth how accurate is this

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Or is this just some messed up and utterly cooked meme (which may be possible because i see Korean and Vietnamese terms alongside Chinese)

placid yarrow
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I might be biting off more than I can chew lol

twilit mountain
sand wigeon
fierce moth
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groleshades ...I'm woke up by the quilt is too thick (too hot)

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Alright turn off the ac is a serious mistake I made

fierce moth
gilded elm
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smh, Claude trying to tell me my code is wrong then I gotta correct his ass

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And businesses are building mission critical apps with this tech lmao

fierce moth
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Gregory Good morning, 14 days left before the free day

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Need to say goodbye with this hotel room before 12:00. The bed is so comfortable, much more comfortable than the bed at home... I must find a bed like that to sleep when I find apartment in Taiyuan soon :)

placid yarrow
#

You're gonna leave before finding an apartment?

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Sounds a bit risky

gilded elm
#

I'm skeptical that a source of reliable income has even been secured lol

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Not that I made better decisions when I was younger. Some lessons are just learned the hard way.

sand wigeon
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this is only tangentially related but i can’t imagine the road dog community in china is very vibrant

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not like it is in america

fierce moth
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My aunt family come to my home today for a dinner. I must come back home to help on preparing.

warped wren
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I can sympathize with wanting to avoid firecrackers. Delhi gets insane around Diwali.

junior stirrup
fierce moth
fierce moth
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groleshades Alright, the price of desktop rtx 5070 ti + i9-13900 + 2k screen is over than a rtx 5070ti laptop already... I don't need new ram and SSD though

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πŸ’€ laptop is the only choice

jovial bane
maiden widget
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Laptop 5070 also isn't the same as a desktop card anyways they just name it like that to attract people

fierce moth
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Gregory Back to home. see yarn and towel again

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pet pet pet pet pet

desert jasper
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Pet them for me too, thanks

fierce moth
#

.....First time to meet a game demo can't be played without signing up an account

fierce moth
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Bazaar is quite fun indeed. It's like advanced version of ftk 2 groleshades
Inherit all pros and remove all cons from ftk 2

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Damn fun, win 7 times in 7 days now. I should buy this game

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I think Bazaar can be the next game let me be addicted for hundreds of hours

fierce moth
fierce moth
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It avoid the battle time last too long so well, excellent. Because it's the annoying point I feel in turn-based strategy games

fierce moth
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The 2nd interesting point: I need to decide which size of item worth to keep. Small, medium or large. Will it worth the position? How much value it can bring? How to max offense by limited position etc

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Which debuff/buff combo can you go by random weapons you get is the core

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Debuff + buff let the game more fun xd

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πŸ€” I'm confused how to defeat bosses with strong shield/life regen now

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groleshades The only way is freeze?

stone anvil
#

the bazaar πŸ”₯

stone anvil
fierce moth
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lol the game give me a red envelope too (I don't know should I get this red envelope or reroll)

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Oh nevermind. The game allow me to do both

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.........Reduce 1 gold only πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜…

stone anvil
#

many items I don't know but this is actually cute lol

fierce moth
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lol crit-1392hp... Bosses are too insane

stone anvil
#

there was a list about them,

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and some bosses counter your builds but you need to experience it first πŸ˜…

fierce moth
#

?... Complete 10 days is a game? Alright I'm not play enough πŸ˜…

fierce moth
#

689 damage + crit chance is insane

stone anvil
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689 is small damage but pygmalien counters this boss very good

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so many healing items for pygmalien and shield

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other bosses are generally difficult for every characters

stone anvil
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good job kirra POG

fierce moth
fierce moth
stone anvil
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yes, this is why choosing easy bosses matters

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there is a boss with shield

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If you choose it for example, you can't beat it because it will gain shield even you crit

fierce moth
#

πŸ€” Interesting...

stone anvil
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it's learning the game, when you learn all monsters, you will get more wins πŸ₯³

fierce moth
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So I need to remember which bosses can regen hard

stone anvil
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yep Gregory

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but it's easy to remember, I am pretty sure, you can memorize it better than me lol

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just look at the arts of the bosses, they have same builds everytime

fierce moth
#

Which difference will different characters bring?

stone anvil
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characters have different items and general items

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pygmalien has regen and shield items,
mak has poisons

fierce moth
#

do you mean debuff and buff they can use are different?

stone anvil
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yes and characters have different skills

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so some builds will be better on different characters

stone anvil
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it is good choice

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because so many weapons

fierce moth
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lol what a coincidence then

stone anvil
#

this game is so good If you want to relax

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I think you will like it more once you have other characters

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and game soundtrack is so peaceful πŸ™‚

fierce moth
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lol ok the 2nd red envelope I get. Let me see which gift can I get

stone anvil
#

more gold POG

fierce moth
#

bar of gold and chocolate bar

stone anvil
#

yummy lol

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more health POG

fierce moth
#

Fine, red envelope in this game is quite... expected groleshades

stone anvil
stone anvil
fierce moth
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Alright I see what the exclusive feature of this characters is... Value

stone anvil
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he is carrying gold chest, he is good with gold interest

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and he is big, he has more health

fierce moth
#

I find lots of shield-relevant items too

stone anvil
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pygmalien loves shield

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you can also go for freeze

fierce moth
#

I tried wink encounter (upgrade all items randomly) and it's before VS after.

omegalul 284 damage from a small weapon?!

stone anvil
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it's not like every big items will deal big damage

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aquatic items for example

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you can make venessa build with small gun and dealing 1000+ dmg

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once you learn the combos, oh boy oh boy omegalul

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I won't spoil anything from now on, you need to figure them out groleshades

fierce moth
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Select the hardest trap, damn quite close :(

stone anvil
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the boulder, oh no

fierce moth
#

I have no idea which trap should I select

stone anvil
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it is OTK build which means when the boulder is activated, it kills the opponent with one shot

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unless shield

fierce moth
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lol this game allow me to make mistakes in combats with any bosses/encounters, it's great

It don't affect me to get consistent victory at least

stone anvil
#

yeah, you don't lose directly

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you still have chance to comeback

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and it's good for learning the game ❀️

fierce moth
#

lol the other one-shot boss come quickly

stone anvil
#

kirra is neverlucky

fierce moth
#

Don't think I can win if I'm not luck on wick encounter. No idea which combo can I build on the whole process

stone anvil
#

there are more items you need to see and some items are very rare. you need to visit diamond merchants and you need to have gold

stone anvil
fierce moth
#

emmmmm... DLC are quite expensive

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I want to try Stelle (ingenious engineer) the most

stone anvil
#

each day you have 1 free ranked ticket

fierce moth
#

tom Just purchased Stelle

stone anvil
#

nevermind me

fierce moth
#

Won 9 cosmetic chests, opened all of them, got a legendary album calls entrepreneur, but it can't be found in my collection. What the hell

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(I even figured out how to open chests for a while... No one tell me I should drag a chest to the platform πŸ˜… )

maiden widget
fierce moth
#

πŸ‘€ First time to be failed. Aquatic sets, make sense why I'm defeated

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πŸ€” Tech weapons can't play debuff is annoying

stone anvil
#

enemy has 20 hp 😭

fierce moth
#

πŸ€” The game start to be laggy hard after run it 4h

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Clicked an icon multiple times but no respond, or the battle didn't run

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The game feel tired earlier than me lol

indigo shadow
#

Fane, did you saw the second trailer of He-Man?

junior oyster
#

Nope

sudden anchor
#

Kirra, I am so happy for you, you can totally make it and live there, even when it's 1200km away from home. Your mental will get better from abscence of problematic relationships and perhaps this will cure the relationship on both sides too. Just a little potential sideeffect. But don't forget it's normal to have drawbacks, which can happen. So don't be too harsh with yourself in your new life!!

fierce moth
#

Tomorrow is red envelope day, which mean I must consume the whole day and 4h at night on "regular work" (no sense and mad for me) for keeping family relationships...

But it maybe a good time to start to figure out which start scene do I want after I reached. Zao gave a good direction πŸ€”

gilded elm
#

Well, that's not something you want to see in your YT feed lol

warped wren
#

πŸ’€

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I need to see this

ebon meadow
#

Rumors

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But bad ones that make u gasp heavybreathing

warped wren
#

title is slightly clickbait though but that's par for the course these days

twilit mountain
#

Discord can lick [redacted] for all I care

warped wren
#

the issue with this stuff, whether Discord does it or YT does it or the UK / Australian govts do it or whoever, is that it's a lot of pomp and show and making the right noises about an important issue, that doesn't actually do anything meaningful for the benefit of consumers because actually doing so would be antithetical to profit-making. Instead, all we get is another avenue of exploitation, except this one is legitimized and obfuscated.

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and obviously it's a global, systemic problem

twilit mountain
#

It doesn't even solve the issue they are trying to solve because all it's going to do is screw over people who are already setting up barriers of entry and other methods to prevent abuse or other possible dangerous situations for the ones these changes are supposedly protecting (because the people who are going to try and do horrific things are just going to do them anyway, it's incredibly easy to access and find these things and there's no protections or anything like that to them)

warped wren
#

like, think about it - logically, if you run a company like Discord and are serious about preventing abuse, what would you do? Have an actual, sizeable moderation team to analyze user reports, flag the p3d0/illegal ones, and either IP ban and/or notify local law enforcement.

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but that takes money and resources and implicitly assumes responsibility for on-platform behavior, all 3 being things that tech firms are LOATHE to do

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and govts don't have the balls to enforce this because ha ha funding money

#

the fact that Discord have no intention of actually protecting children is blatantly obvious from one thing: the focus is entirely on user verification. There is absolutely zero chatter on dealing with abusers who bypass this or even people who ARE identified as adults but indulge in abusive or threatening behavior.

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this whole thing is a smokescreen to 1. get access to stratified user data which is MUCH more valuable than anonymized, and 2. wash their hands off of any legal liability whatsoever

twilit mountain
#

Better than I could put it, yeah. Partially because I'm terrible at dodging the filter.

abstract karma
warped wren
#

prepare to upload your real ID

gilded elm
abstract karma
#

or migrate to another software like i migrated to discord πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

warped wren
#

my bigger worry is this trend is gonna become the norm

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for all firms

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especially if govt keeps siding with them / initiating it themselves as they have so far

abstract karma
#

Well Cyberpunk

desert jasper
#

I have a webcam but it has been pointing at the ceiling for last
5 years? apart from during interviews (where I had discord closed)

gilded elm
twilit mountain
#

My webcam is built into my laptop πŸ˜”

abstract karma
desert jasper
gilded elm
#

Is Discord irreplaceable? No, but it's definitely going to be tough trying to convince (particularly younger generations) to care in numbers that actually matter.

warped wren
#

good parallel

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another is subscription services for every single thing

twilit mountain
#

Not really. You have almost always just owned the license not the software.

warped wren
abstract karma
#

internet already became searched and visible place.. not as it was firstly publiced to be anonymous freedom..

And since younger generation overrun it they wanna check and then spy on common folks too

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legally

warped wren
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e.g. if you bought an old Nintendo console and its cartridges, that wasn't a license. You physically owned the products. It couldn't be taken off at the whim of Nintendo.

gilded elm
twilit mountain
#

Can you give me some examples, cuz even discs for software in the really early 2000s were stated as legally just the license not the software

twilit mountain
warped wren
#

same with ownership of the disc-based games, at the time

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hence that famous PS advert about how to share games

gilded elm
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How can you care about what has been normal your whole life?

twilit mountain
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Ok. I don't really want to argue about it but I read the legal stuff on this growing up.

warped wren
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iirc the legalese around licensing w.r.t. CDs was with softwares like Photoshop or OSes like Windows

#

where you also needed to go online once to register the product

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but like, the old old games that needed no internet at all, those were very much indistinguishable from physical products

gilded elm
#

Video game licensing started happening in the early 2000s? No?

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Anything prior to that, you owned it.

warped wren
#

yeah like one of my first CD-based video games was Icewind Dale 2

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no connection required, no nothing. I installed it on 3 different computers, gave it two friends to install and play. No issues, no nada.

gilded elm
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Yeah product activation was tied to the CD key, there were no online checks, you just had to have a valid CD key.

warped wren
#

that was local activation only, correct

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like just to make the CD read on your machine

solemn harness
#

nearly any game made prior to 1999 required you to reference the manual, as an anti-piracy measure

gilded elm
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Ah, the good old days of CD key generators lmao

solemn harness
#

"please enter the third word on page 24 to continue" vibes

warped wren
#

lmao I remember that with some rando game someone gifted me

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they should bring that shit back lol

solemn harness
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"In order to verify your legal ownership, please use your King's Quest IV manual to answer the following question: On page 4, what is the seventh word in the first paragraph?"

gilded elm
#

Granted, buying a game back then still never granted you rights to the intellectual property itself.

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Some people might assume it did.

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The only rights you had with regards to IP was the ability to use the software.

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You still didn't have distribution rights.

warped wren
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IP ownership is different from product ownership and has been so since the USPTO set up their shit

desert jasper
warped wren
#

I also remember having a giant flipcase of movie and music CDs

gilded elm
#

You could make copies, just not give them away or sell them

warped wren
#

man those were good times, when your worry was more about "god I hope someone doesn't scratch my disc" rather than "god I hope Netflix doesn't wake up one and decide to obliterate my favorite shows because some nerd told them to replace it with some garbage"

gilded elm
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Blowing on discs, washing discs over water, cleaning sprays... all kinds of stuff we did back then lol

warped wren
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who tf washed discs with water

solemn harness
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kids that got sticky candy on them

gilded elm
#

Should be fine as long as it's completely dry when in use

#

But also some places might have some seriously hard water with lots of mineralization which maybe could make it worse too

#

As an American, my personal data has been breached, sold and changed hands so many times from the last couple decades of exposures that I'm starting to become desensitized to moral appeals to privacy.

solemn harness
#

discs are actually more vulnerable to scratches on the top side (where the label is) than the bottom, somewhat counterintuitively

solemn harness
#

the physical structure is: label -> aluminum -> polycarbonate

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it is very easy to scratch through the label and damage the aluminum, it requires significantly more effort to cause the same level of damage from the other side

warped wren
#

huh

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I had no idea

solemn harness
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not sure what DVDs use but it's probably similar

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data isn't actually stored in the aluminum, but it's required for the laser to read data off the disc

gilded elm
warped wren
#

Unrealistic. If it actually happened, nobody would know till it was over.

twilit mountain
warped wren
#

Istg

gilded elm
warped wren
#

that would be hilarious

fierce moth
#

First time to sleep 7h once time! Cool.

13 days left before the free day. Less than 2 weeks! Cool.

Just get up.

#

I guess Bazaar act the key. Go on playing that after come back from the regular work

#

End of April, 0.5 of poe 2 will come. Nice

#

I need to think which build can I play at beginning of April

#

Hope someone cook a field spears ritualist guide after many teasers omegalul

fierce moth
#

I'm confused when Huawei release a laptop with rtx 5060

#

They're communicating how to play soul-like games and how to play this game

fierce moth
#

Oh I see. It's ASUS

#

Lol ROG laptop are as expensive as Alien

short bolt
#

anyone want to play idle game with me ?

fierce moth
#

lol the same destination, ticket of high-speed rail is Β₯872, it spend 9h50mins to arrive, go from 07:18;

ticket of plane is Β₯535, it spend 2h30mins to arrive, go from 15:05 (I can select flight at afternoon).

Gregory

fierce moth
#

Watched a 125mins movie about how a poor racer win a top-tier rally race by their hard work and I'm quite immersed and focused so I'm hungry, it's why I attracted by smell of skewers made by octopus legs :)

The story is ended by their self-made race car is trashed completely after they push over the finish line. The car was experienced a lot and it's the highlight period of this movie... No spoilers here fortunately :)

desert jasper
sand wigeon
#

yeah it is lol

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nioh is a souls-like

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that is its main genre

twilit mountain
#

Nioh is like, the most souls-like game I can think of that isn't FromSoft

sand wigeon
#

uh no

twilit mountain
#

I view that as more Sekiro like tbqh

sand wigeon
#

realistically it’s probably thymesia

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but nobody but deranged insane asylum patients like me know the depths of all the random souls-likes

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like who tf knows what thymesia is except the most souls fan souls fans

desert jasper
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The reason why I said nioh isn't exactly souls like is because of the skill tree, stances and gearing
But yeah, it does have souls like stuff

twilit mountain
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The only part of that not in a FromSoft souls game is a skill tree

sand wigeon
#

yeah

twilit mountain
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And that's not what makes a souls like. A souls like is defined by the gameplay style.

sand wigeon
#

β€œgearing” it has random stats and stuff but also you either grind 200 hours and become op because of it or you just use whatever you get and it’s fine anyway

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the gearing in nioh is widely agreed upon to be god awful

sand wigeon
#

monster hunter is also a souls-like

silent steeple
#

I was really excited for the next fromsoft game only to learn its another platform exclusive game, this time for nintendo

desert jasper
#

Never played sekiro

vagrant topaz
#

Me neither
All I know is that their shadow died twice
Quite the feat

sand wigeon
#

same with lies of p

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while nioh 1 is pretty quintessentially not a good game, they better figured out what they wanted to do in nioh 2 and went in on counter mechanics similar to sekiro

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cleanse pools, counter attacks in specific ways, damage resistances, weakspots etc

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rather than the straight forward combat of demon souls to dark souls 3

sand wigeon
#

far better than any of their other modern games

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i’d say the only competitor is ac6

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sekiro is also my favorite from soft game aside from maybe us release king’s field 4

silent steeple
sand wigeon
#

armored core 6

silent steeple
#

Thank god cuz I was thinking how are they comparing this to assassin's creed 🀣

sand wigeon
#

nono lol

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sekiro has the best story in any from soft game by a massive margin

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its art design is beautiful, competed only by bloodborne

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it uses large amounts of relevant folklore and spiritual belief to japan in lots of very interesting ways

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it has by far the best combat

twilit mountain
#

Assassin's Creed hasn't had a numbered entry since Black Flag, I think by technicality we're on like, game 9 or 10 for "main series" entries now?

sand wigeon
#

it’s compact and doesn’t draw itself out unnecessarily

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my only complaint is that we’ll never get a sekiro 2 despite how many plot threads were left open for one lol

sand wigeon
twilit mountain
twilit mountain
sand wigeon
#

the only other game i’ve done that with is the okami 2 announcement, i think? iirc i broke down into tears when we were watching the thing that got announced at

twilit mountain
sand wigeon
#

yeah

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rediscovering king’s field and king’s field likes as an adult after playing them as a child but somewhat forgetting about them was genuinely moving for me lol

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(i say king field’s likes because there’s not rly a good name for the genre)

twilit mountain
#

I propose the name "circle strafers" omegalul

sand wigeon
#

i propose β€œwalk backwards a bit so they miss” too

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truly revolutionary gameplay

#

or lunacid where the game starts as a β€œwalk backwards a bit” and ends as β€œultrakill”

twilit mountain
sand wigeon
#

lol

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that game is great

#

also the dev is clinically insane because they made a game in the original king’s field level creator???

#

in 2025?

#

like what. who does that

#

lunacid was also made by the same person who made spooky’s jumpscare mansion

fierce moth
#

πŸ™ƒ I wish I can get heart attack per time I heard someone to play fireworks.

twilit mountain
#

Might I suggest earplugs or something similar?

ebon meadow
#

Asking for a hart attack is new lmao ,u don't want those believe me

fierce moth
#

It's a big change that the time I wear my earphone from 0h to 4-5h per day indeed

twilit mountain
#

Nnno that's pretty bad too. I spent a whopping two months deaf in one ear and it was miserable.

fierce moth
#

I selected earphone instead of earplug because I find some relaxing music surround me is much better than just reduce the noise a bit

#

hah...Almost forget I have a earplug package which it saved in the station 4 days...

ebon meadow
#

The thing with earplugs they don't help that much I still hear from the vibration

#

I know because I use heavy duty ones at work when I can't cope with machinery anymore and I can mostly hear everything

fierce moth
#

headphones like your profile is the best but find one which don't pressure my ears with my glasses is... πŸ€”

ebon meadow
#

I just isolateed my room with foam for fireworks ,we get them very often here to

ebon meadow
#

Took me ages to find it

#

I was looking for something that is made for aviation like helicopters but Seinhaiser does big cup phones that covers most ear

#

I m very happy with them I just need to find foam replacement now

#

Bull running every summer for a week underneath my apartment so fireworks go of all day long ...

#

That's how they mark start and finish of every run

jovial bane
#

Sennheiser is quite a brand

#

Although they do have "cheap" headphones

ebon meadow
#

140 ISH euros I think it's been like 3 years

jovial bane
#

Not bad, I'm yet to try them

ebon meadow
#

Laying

#

I bought few thing I counted the microphone in as well

jovial bane
#

that's really affordable

#

especially considering how stupidly expensive headphones they do produce as well

maiden widget
#

if you think how long these last its kind of cheap even if you go higher, my philips fidelio x2 are now about 10y old and work just fine still

obtuse rune
#

New Headset whodis? What is everyone's favorite headset to use when gaming?

#

Not me looking for reccomendations

fierce moth
desert jasper
#

Well
I have been using this logitech g35 since I got it
... in like 2009

fierce moth
#

What

#

It's more insane than Faust's one

obtuse rune
#

That's absolutely wild. I have a keyboard that old but headset... whew

fierce moth
#

How old

obtuse rune
#

Its about 15 years old

#

I've seen older but this thing has been through so much

fierce moth
#

WHAT

ebon meadow
#

Logis keyboards are tank